Possibly looking to invite another fem for my partners first time, obviously she’s nervous & worried about the whole situations.
Any suggestions on how to ease it in & any females who may be interested?  |
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Is it what she genuinely wants? Or is she doing it because you want to?
If it’s what she wants, she needs to be fully involved in looking and would preferably be the one contacting people. You’re unlikely to find a woman on here who will even consider it for a second if you’re the one messaging them. When single male profiles message me like that, I don’t believe them. I assume there isn’t really a woman at all, and I delete instantly. I don’t think I’m the only one.
If she’s only doing it for you, don’t. Just stop there, leave it alone, and don’t pressure her. |
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over a year ago
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"Is it what she genuinely wants? Or is she doing it because you want to?
If it’s what she wants, she needs to be fully involved in looking and would preferably be the one contacting people. You’re unlikely to find a woman on here who will even consider it for a second if you’re the one messaging them. When single male profiles message me like that, I don’t believe them. I assume there isn’t really a woman at all, and I delete instantly. I don’t think I’m the only one.
If she’s only doing it for you, don’t. Just stop there, leave it alone, and don’t pressure her."
I couldnt agree more with you on this, I have fallen for this twice, and when a meet is arranged the female is always unavailable or something has come up, or they want me to send a dick pic or video of me fucking another female (which o will never do) May quit while your ahead because you are not gonna get much positive feedback on this. Unless you have a couples profiles and when asked for face pics of you both, send them |
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I completely understand, & I don’t blame you but as it stands this is a single profile we’re dipping our toes in to the couples profile.. she’s very interested & in reality of course I am but I would happily sit back & enjoy the view. I know there are many fakes & many selfish people out there, myself not being one of them |
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Nobody will be remotely interested unless its a couples profile and the fem is the one doing all the messaging.
Nothing against you but there are so many fakes on here its not worth the effort. |
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"Is it what she genuinely wants? Or is she doing it because you want to?
If it’s what she wants, she needs to be fully involved in looking and would preferably be the one contacting people. You’re unlikely to find a woman on here who will even consider it for a second if you’re the one messaging them. When single male profiles message me like that, I don’t believe them. I assume there isn’t really a woman at all, and I delete instantly. I don’t think I’m the only one.
If she’s only doing it for you, don’t. Just stop there, leave it alone, and don’t pressure her."
100% agree with this  |
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"Nobody will be remotely interested unless its a couples profile and the fem is the one doing all the messaging.
Nothing against you but there are so many fakes on here its not worth the effort."
We agree there. |
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"Nobody will be remotely interested unless its a couples profile and the fem is the one doing all the messaging.
Nothing against you but there are so many fakes on here its not worth the effort."
Yep, just get yourselves a proper couples profile
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"Is it what she genuinely wants? Or is she doing it because you want to?
If it’s what she wants, she needs to be fully involved in looking and would preferably be the one contacting people. You’re unlikely to find a woman on here who will even consider it for a second if you’re the one messaging them. When single male profiles message me like that, I don’t believe them. I assume there isn’t really a woman at all, and I delete instantly. I don’t think I’m the only one.
If she’s only doing it for you, don’t. Just stop there, leave it alone, and don’t pressure her.
I couldnt agree more with you on this, I have fallen for this twice, and when a meet is arranged the female is always unavailable or something has come up, or they want me to send a dick pic or video of me fucking another female (which o will never do) May quit while your ahead because you are not gonna get much positive feedback on this. Unless you have a couples profiles and when asked for face pics of you both, send them "
We had a similar thing happened with a "couple profile" few years ago, male arrived fem was arriving separately apparently. Then was stuck in traffic, then running late from work, after that one we told him was not interested in playing.
He left within 2min a message from the fem having a go about us telling him to leave.
Now we speak to both before any meet is planned (not thats theres bern any for months) |
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"Is it what she genuinely wants? Or is she doing it because you want to?
If it’s what she wants, she needs to be fully involved in looking and would preferably be the one contacting people. You’re unlikely to find a woman on here who will even consider it for a second if you’re the one messaging them. When single male profiles message me like that, I don’t believe them. I assume there isn’t really a woman at all, and I delete instantly. I don’t think I’m the only one.
If she’s only doing it for you, don’t. Just stop there, leave it alone, and don’t pressure her.
I couldnt agree more with you on this, I have fallen for this twice, and when a meet is arranged the female is always unavailable or something has come up, or they want me to send a dick pic or video of me fucking another female (which o will never do) May quit while your ahead because you are not gonna get much positive feedback on this. Unless you have a couples profiles and when asked for face pics of you both, send them
We had a similar thing happened with a "couple profile" few years ago, male arrived fem was arriving separately apparently. Then was stuck in traffic, then running late from work, after that one we told him was not interested in playing.
He left within 2min a message from the fem having a go about us telling him to leave.
Now we speak to both before any meet is planned (not thats theres bern any for months) "
Had a similar experience, drove over an hour to meet for him to say mrs stuck at work, asked why he didn’t let us know before and said he didn’t want to let us down. Needless to say we left. |
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"Is it what she genuinely wants? Or is she doing it because you want to?
If it’s what she wants, she needs to be fully involved in looking and would preferably be the one contacting people. You’re unlikely to find a woman on here who will even consider it for a second if you’re the one messaging them. When single male profiles message me like that, I don’t believe them. I assume there isn’t really a woman at all, and I delete instantly. I don’t think I’m the only one.
If she’s only doing it for you, don’t. Just stop there, leave it alone, and don’t pressure her.
I couldnt agree more with you on this, I have fallen for this twice, and when a meet is arranged the female is always unavailable or something has come up, or they want me to send a dick pic or video of me fucking another female (which o will never do) May quit while your ahead because you are not gonna get much positive feedback on this. Unless you have a couples profiles and when asked for face pics of you both, send them
We had a similar thing happened with a "couple profile" few years ago, male arrived fem was arriving separately apparently. Then was stuck in traffic, then running late from work, after that one we told him was not interested in playing.
He left within 2min a message from the fem having a go about us telling him to leave.
Now we speak to both before any meet is planned (not thats theres bern any for months)
Had a similar experience, drove over an hour to meet for him to say mrs stuck at work, asked why he didn’t let us know before and said he didn’t want to let us down. Needless to say we left. "
Takes the piss really, dont know what they expect arrange a couples meet for a reason!!! ok we will just play with a single male!! Yea right!!!
Things happen in vinnilla life that cant be helped understand that, but then single males who do this give the genuine singles a bad name. |
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"Is it what she genuinely wants? Or is she doing it because you want to?
If it’s what she wants, she needs to be fully involved in looking and would preferably be the one contacting people. You’re unlikely to find a woman on here who will even consider it for a second if you’re the one messaging them. When single male profiles message me like that, I don’t believe them. I assume there isn’t really a woman at all, and I delete instantly. I don’t think I’m the only one.
If she’s only doing it for you, don’t. Just stop there, leave it alone, and don’t pressure her.
I couldnt agree more with you on this, I have fallen for this twice, and when a meet is arranged the female is always unavailable or something has come up, or they want me to send a dick pic or video of me fucking another female (which o will never do) May quit while your ahead because you are not gonna get much positive feedback on this. Unless you have a couples profiles and when asked for face pics of you both, send them
We had a similar thing happened with a "couple profile" few years ago, male arrived fem was arriving separately apparently. Then was stuck in traffic, then running late from work, after that one we told him was not interested in playing.
He left within 2min a message from the fem having a go about us telling him to leave.
Now we speak to both before any meet is planned (not thats theres bern any for months)
Had a similar experience, drove over an hour to meet for him to say mrs stuck at work, asked why he didn’t let us know before and said he didn’t want to let us down. Needless to say we left.
Takes the piss really, dont know what they expect arrange a couples meet for a reason!!! ok we will just play with a single male!! Yea right!!!
Things happen in vinnilla life that cant be helped understand that, but then single males who do this give the genuine singles a bad name. "
This If I was unable to go to a meet then we would just cancel sometimes life gets in the way like you said but a lot of the times it’s just single men trying there luck.. |
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"Is it what she genuinely wants? Or is she doing it because you want to?
If it’s what she wants, she needs to be fully involved in looking and would preferably be the one contacting people. You’re unlikely to find a woman on here who will even consider it for a second if you’re the one messaging them. When single male profiles message me like that, I don’t believe them. I assume there isn’t really a woman at all, and I delete instantly. I don’t think I’m the only one.
If she’s only doing it for you, don’t. Just stop there, leave it alone, and don’t pressure her.
I couldnt agree more with you on this, I have fallen for this twice, and when a meet is arranged the female is always unavailable or something has come up, or they want me to send a dick pic or video of me fucking another female (which o will never do) May quit while your ahead because you are not gonna get much positive feedback on this. Unless you have a couples profiles and when asked for face pics of you both, send them
We had a similar thing happened with a "couple profile" few years ago, male arrived fem was arriving separately apparently. Then was stuck in traffic, then running late from work, after that one we told him was not interested in playing.
He left within 2min a message from the fem having a go about us telling him to leave.
Now we speak to both before any meet is planned (not thats theres bern any for months)
Had a similar experience, drove over an hour to meet for him to say mrs stuck at work, asked why he didn’t let us know before and said he didn’t want to let us down. Needless to say we left.
Takes the piss really, dont know what they expect arrange a couples meet for a reason!!! ok we will just play with a single male!! Yea right!!!
Things happen in vinnilla life that cant be helped understand that, but then single males who do this give the genuine singles a bad name. This If I was unable to go to a meet then we would just cancel sometimes life gets in the way like you said but a lot of the times it’s just single men trying there luck.."
Yep, my gf and I have been let down a lot. Fantasists a lot of the time. Also met some great couples, single males and females and TV/TS that we have had a lot of fun with though.  |
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