We do get a hard time actually. Mostly from women and couples but sometimes from men as well. But the fact is, most men really don’t care if a woman is cheating, as long as she’s willing to cheat with them. Women mostly do care if a man is cheating. |
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By *implyjames OP Man
over a year ago
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"We do get a hard time actually. Mostly from women and couples but sometimes from men as well. But the fact is, most men really don’t care if a woman is cheating, as long as she’s willing to cheat with them. Women mostly do care if a man is cheating."
I just dont understand why people have to judge everyone has their own reasons and circumstances |
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"Just wondered why is it attached or married men get such a hard time on here and attached or married women don't lol..... im a fine believer in do not judge "
That's feminism for you  .
Before I get flamed for that... I am a firm believer in equal rights. But it seems in certain situations it isn't always equal, as the OP points out . |
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"We do get a hard time actually. Mostly from women and couples but sometimes from men as well. But the fact is, most men really don’t care if a woman is cheating, as long as she’s willing to cheat with them. Women mostly do care if a man is cheating.
I just dont understand why people have to judge everyone has their own reasons and circumstances "
By judge do you mean they don't want to meet you? |
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"Just wondered why is it attached or married men get such a hard time on here and attached or married women don't lol..... im a fine believer in do not judge
That's feminism for you .
Before I get flamed for that... I am a firm believer in equal rights. But it seems in certain situations it isn't always equal, as the OP points out . "
I don’t know why you think it’s feminism. It’s not even a double standard - something is only a double standard if it’s the same person/people holding men and women to different standards. In this case, it isn’t the same people. It’s (most) men having a different view on it than (most) women, and because most of the men on here want women, women cheating seems more accepted. Women who won’t meet cheats won’t meet cheating women any more than they’ll meet cheating men, they’re not sitting there going “you cheating men are scum, but all the cheating women can fuck me”. |
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By *implyjames OP Man
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"We do get a hard time actually. Mostly from women and couples but sometimes from men as well. But the fact is, most men really don’t care if a woman is cheating, as long as she’s willing to cheat with them. Women mostly do care if a man is cheating.
I just dont understand why people have to judge everyone has their own reasons and circumstances
By judge do you mean they don't want to meet you? "
No im good with people not meeting me everyone has the preferences
There just seems to be a lot of statuses or forum posts slating married or attached guys rather than girls |
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I’d wager there are more status about married men because there are probably more married/attached men on fab than married/attached women.
Everyone has their reasons for being on fab. It doesn’t bother me personally as I don’t have the right to judge another persons moral compass . It’s just one of those things that some people are ok with and others aren’t. If you are ok with meeting attached people that’s cool and if you aren’t then that is fine as well |
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