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over a year ago
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"We have been here around 8 years now and we'd say not a great deal has changed, mainly nice people with a very small % of not so nice people."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's why socials are great, you get to meet the people on fab and everyone can make their decisions about individuals."
been around long enough met some good people on here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here a long time 2nd time on is it me or is it getting worse some right stuck up people lately think they are really a level above folk "
Yah I've been the same & totally agree, more meets from tinder, than from here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been here around 8 years now and we'd say not a great deal has changed, mainly nice people with a very small % of not so nice people."
Have to agree with this, but also the comment about Tinder. In the dim n distant path I've had far more exciting meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been here around 8 years now and we'd say not a great deal has changed, mainly nice people with a very small % of not so nice people.
Have to agree with this, but also the comment about Tinder. In the dim n distant path I've had far more exciting meets "
Don't worry Peachy, you'll be allowed out to see me again at some point!  |
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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago
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Tinder is a not Fab,
Fab is a swinging site and most men treat it as a sex, hook up or dating group.
There are stuck up people in all walks of life, most we have met here have been nice and welcoming, we know when someone certainly would not be interested in us as where just Mr & Mrs average. |
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"Tinder is a not Fab,
Fab is a swinging site and most men treat it as a sex, hook up or dating group.
There are stuck up people in all walks of life, most we have met here have been nice and welcoming, we know when someone certainly would not be interested in us as where just Mr & Mrs average."
This times x 100.
I’m not looking for vanilla type sex on Fab and can’t get guys on Tinder the way I can on Fab as such.
It’s a whole different ball park. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been here around 8 years now and we'd say not a great deal has changed, mainly nice people with a very small % of not so nice people.
Have to agree with this, but also the comment about Tinder. In the dim n distant path I've had far more exciting meets
Don't worry Peachy, you'll be allowed out to see me again at some point! "
Do I know you?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tinder is a not Fab,
Fab is a swinging site and most men treat it as a sex, hook up or dating group.
There are stuck up people in all walks of life, most we have met here have been nice and welcoming, we know when someone certainly would not be interested in us as where just Mr & Mrs average.
This times x 100.
I’m not looking for vanilla type sex on Fab and can’t get guys on Tinder the way I can on Fab as such.
It’s a whole different ball park. "
Totally agree but non vanilla is still rare here |
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We have very rarely had a problem. There will always be a few over zealous fellas or some that that are rather ungentlemanly on their first message. However, we find a simple ‘block’ always defuses the situation. Nonetheless, none of that has deterred us from having fun and we have found some very nice couples and some gorgeous ladies during our relatively short time on Fab.  |
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I used to think along the same lines as you OP. But I have attended a few socials now, I get they're not for everyone but I certainly met a few great people which has helped me sort the riff raff so to speak! I can't wait for all this to be over so I can attend a few more and meet some genuinely nice people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here a long time 2nd time on is it me or is it getting worse some right stuck up people lately think they are really a level above folk "
Its not really a problem.
If your not what they want, just move along.
Don't get wound up or frustrated, just think the same way as they do and its their loss |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Been on here a long time 2nd time on is it me or is it getting worse some right stuck up people lately think they are really a level above folk
Its not really a problem.
If your not what they want, just move along.
Don't get wound up or frustrated, just think the same way as they do and its their loss "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met some lovely people here on the social side. It is a struggle for a single guy on here as I think couples and females get bombarded, it's hard to get the message seen.
I'm on tinder also as I am single, the reason I am still single is the sex has to be good and not vanilla all the time lol I've actually matched with some from fab on tinder lol I can't wait for the socials to start back up at some point and I want another visit to chams. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been here around 8 years now and we'd say not a great deal has changed, mainly nice people with a very small % of not so nice people."
This is true, I have however noticed an increase of users who I reject politely calling me stuck up though Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab for me is nothing like it was when I first joined . It has changed in so many ways and not for the better.
Saying that I have some amazing friends on Fab and every now and again you do get lucky and find a diamond on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab for me is nothing like it was when I first joined . It has changed in so many ways and not for the better.
Saying that I have some amazing friends on Fab and every now and again you do get lucky and find a diamond on here "
Aww thanks bubbs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab for me is nothing like it was when I first joined . It has changed in so many ways and not for the better.
Saying that I have some amazing friends on Fab and every now and again you do get lucky and find a diamond on here
Aww thanks bubbs "
Your very welcome as Ive known you the longest on Fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been here around 8 years now and we'd say not a great deal has changed, mainly nice people with a very small % of not so nice people.
Have to agree with this, but also the comment about Tinder. In the dim n distant path I've had far more exciting meets
Don't worry Peachy, you'll be allowed out to see me again at some point!
Do I know you? "
Only just noticed this you cheeky mare!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am far from stuck up.....been on and off here now 12/13 years and yes it has gone drastically down hill. Not had a meet in over 2 years..."
definitely going down hill
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It's not that people are stuck up, it's just a lot of males are lazy. I get messages all the time come to mine, I want to cum inside you, me and my friend are having drinks do you want to pop over. They expect you to travel miles to do that. Also, it feels as if some males are treating it as a dating site and a woman is expected to say Yes to them.
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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago
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"I am far from stuck up.....been on and off here now 12/13 years and yes it has gone drastically down hill. Not had a meet in over 2 years...
Snob  "
You don't know me tobbs, far fron stuck up mun.... |
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"I am far from stuck up.....been on and off here now 12/13 years and yes it has gone drastically down hill. Not had a meet in over 2 years..."
I have been on here over 8 years and i agree. It has gone downhill. Years ago lots of lovely accomodating singles and couples. Now it feels like 99% of people on here are rude and well above themselves. I havent had meet off here on over 2 years also. Where as prior to that it was great |
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I totally agree that the site has gone down hill lately . Noticed that a lot off men seem to use it as a quick hook up site ,in area now let me fill you etc and if you dare reply no thank you ,you get lots off abuse . nobody really wants to chat no more . I so miss the socials and mixing with like minded people with out the pressure and to make friends and buddies |
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"I think quite often people accuse others of being stuck up, or above themselves, when what they actually mean is “they won’t meet me”."
And forgetting that technically we aren't supposed to be meeting every Tom dick or Harry in the current situation! When this is pointed out it can also lead to twatishness |
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"I think quite often people accuse others of being stuck up, or above themselves, when what they actually mean is “they won’t meet me”.
And forgetting that technically we aren't supposed to be meeting every Tom dick or Harry in the current situation! When this is pointed out it can also lead to twatishness"
Also very true! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think quite often people accuse others of being stuck up, or above themselves, when what they actually mean is “they won’t meet me”."
Yep
God forbid women should be allowed to decide who they have sex with
The stuck up cows |
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"I think quite often people accuse others of being stuck up, or above themselves, when what they actually mean is “they won’t meet me”.
Yep
God forbid women should be allowed to decide who they have sex with
The stuck up cows "
God nooooo we're supposed to take every gracious offer  |
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"I think quite often people accuse others of being stuck up, or above themselves, when what they actually mean is “they won’t meet me”.
Yep
God forbid women should be allowed to decide who they have sex with
The stuck up cows
God nooooo we're supposed to take every gracious offer "
Should come to where I live, some of the peoples idea of chatting up and foreplay up here is to say Ugg, then knock them over head and take them back to the cave. And not all of them are men |
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over a year ago
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"I think quite often people accuse others of being stuck up, or above themselves, when what they actually mean is “they won’t meet me”.
Yep
God forbid women should be allowed to decide who they have sex with
The stuck up cows
God nooooo we're supposed to take every gracious offer
Should come to where I live, some of the peoples idea of chatting up and foreplay up here is to say Ugg, then knock them over head and take them back to the cave. And not all of them are men "
That explains why the left hand side of my head has a permanent slant and I can’t get rid of the gravel marks on my arse lol...
I thought that was perfectly acceptable courtship behaviour  |
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"I think quite often people accuse others of being stuck up, or above themselves, when what they actually mean is “they won’t meet me”.
Yep
God forbid women should be allowed to decide who they have sex with
The stuck up cows
God nooooo we're supposed to take every gracious offer
Should come to where I live, some of the peoples idea of chatting up and foreplay up here is to say Ugg, then knock them over head and take them back to the cave. And not all of them are men
That explains why the left hand side of my head has a permanent slant and I can’t get rid of the gravel marks on my arse lol...
I thought that was perfectly acceptable courtship behaviour "
This suddenly sounds like a David Attenborough program  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think quite often people accuse others of being stuck up, or above themselves, when what they actually mean is “they won’t meet me”."
I think you need to put yourself in the mindset of most of the men online.....
When a man logs on to a swinging/sex site he is horny... So he also believes if a female/couple is online , they are horny also.....
Men don’t worry about safety when meeting, so it may come off as inconsiderate on their part to ask for a meeting fairly quickly.....
Now , since no one is meeting currently and I know women/couples have 1,000’s of messages....
How about you use this time to answer all the “ Fancy a fuck “ messages....
Just copy and paste something like this “ This is a swinging site , and the social aspects are just as important as the sexual aspects.. if you want to continue chatting please send over a face picture “
You never know , you might make a new friend or at the very least... Educate someone about swinging and spread good karma.....
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"I think quite often people accuse others of being stuck up, or above themselves, when what they actually mean is “they won’t meet me”.
I think you need to put yourself in the mindset of most of the men online.....
When a man logs on to a swinging/sex site he is horny... So he also believes if a female/couple is online , they are horny also.....
Men don’t worry about safety when meeting, so it may come off as inconsiderate on their part to ask for a meeting fairly quickly.....
Now , since no one is meeting currently and I know women/couples have 1,000’s of messages....
How about you use this time to answer all the “ Fancy a fuck “ messages....
Just copy and paste something like this “ This is a swinging site , and the social aspects are just as important as the sexual aspects.. if you want to continue chatting please send over a face picture “
You never know , you might make a new friend or at the very least... Educate someone about swinging and spread good karma.....
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I certainly don’t want to put myself in the mindset of the kind of man who thinks “you look like a nice piece of gash” (an actual example) is a good opening message, nor do I wish to have a conversation with him. Even if I was horny when online, which isn’t often the case, I still wouldn’t be horny for every rando on here.
And I won’t be replying as you suggest, because I don’t reply unless I’m interested, and I’m very rarely interested. Besides, you must have seen the many threads started by men complaining about women who only chat and never meet. I’d only end up getting more abuse in the long run. Even if I didn’t get abuse, I do have a job, so I don’t have the time for dozens and dozens of pointless conversations with men and couples that I don’t fancy and don’t want to meet.
I imagine you probably think I’m stuck up now, but I’ve seen enough of your replies on forums to know that you consider waiting more than a couple of weeks for a meet to be unacceptable, and that you aren’t interested in lengthy exchanges of messages, so I’d be interested to know whether you’re going to take your own advice and start making friends with everyone who mesages? |
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over a year ago
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"I think quite often people accuse others of being stuck up, or above themselves, when what they actually mean is “they won’t meet me”.
I think you need to put yourself in the mindset of most of the men online.....
When a man logs on to a swinging/sex site he is horny... So he also believes if a female/couple is online , they are horny also.....
Men don’t worry about safety when meeting, so it may come off as inconsiderate on their part to ask for a meeting fairly quickly.....
Now , since no one is meeting currently and I know women/couples have 1,000’s of messages....
How about you use this time to answer all the “ Fancy a fuck “ messages....
Just copy and paste something like this “ This is a swinging site , and the social aspects are just as important as the sexual aspects.. if you want to continue chatting please send over a face picture “
You never know , you might make a new friend or at the very least... Educate someone about swinging and spread good karma.....
I certainly don’t want to put myself in the mindset of the kind of man who thinks “you look like a nice piece of gash” (an actual example) is a good opening message, nor do I wish to have a conversation with him. Even if I was horny when online, which isn’t often the case, I still wouldn’t be horny for every rando on here.
And I won’t be replying as you suggest, because I don’t reply unless I’m interested, and I’m very rarely interested. Besides, you must have seen the many threads started by men complaining about women who only chat and never meet. I’d only end up getting more abuse in the long run. Even if I didn’t get abuse, I do have a job, so I don’t have the time for dozens and dozens of pointless conversations with men and couples that I don’t fancy and don’t want to meet.
I imagine you probably think I’m stuck up now, but I’ve seen enough of your replies on forums to know that you consider waiting more than a couple of weeks for a meet to be unacceptable, and that you aren’t interested in lengthy exchanges of messages, so I’d be interested to know whether you’re going to take your own advice and start making friends with everyone who mesages?"
Well said that woman |
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"I think quite often people accuse others of being stuck up, or above themselves, when what they actually mean is “they won’t meet me”.
I think you need to put yourself in the mindset of most of the men online.....
When a man logs on to a swinging/sex site he is horny... So he also believes if a female/couple is online , they are horny also.....
Men don’t worry about safety when meeting, so it may come off as inconsiderate on their part to ask for a meeting fairly quickly.....
Now , since no one is meeting currently and I know women/couples have 1,000’s of messages....
How about you use this time to answer all the “ Fancy a fuck “ messages....
Just copy and paste something like this “ This is a swinging site , and the social aspects are just as important as the sexual aspects.. if you want to continue chatting please send over a face picture “
You never know , you might make a new friend or at the very least... Educate someone about swinging and spread good karma.....
I certainly don’t want to put myself in the mindset of the kind of man who thinks “you look like a nice piece of gash” (an actual example) is a good opening message, nor do I wish to have a conversation with him. Even if I was horny when online, which isn’t often the case, I still wouldn’t be horny for every rando on here.
And I won’t be replying as you suggest, because I don’t reply unless I’m interested, and I’m very rarely interested. Besides, you must have seen the many threads started by men complaining about women who only chat and never meet. I’d only end up getting more abuse in the long run. Even if I didn’t get abuse, I do have a job, so I don’t have the time for dozens and dozens of pointless conversations with men and couples that I don’t fancy and don’t want to meet.
I imagine you probably think I’m stuck up now, but I’ve seen enough of your replies on forums to know that you consider waiting more than a couple of weeks for a meet to be unacceptable, and that you aren’t interested in lengthy exchanges of messages, so I’d be interested to know whether you’re going to take your own advice and start making friends with everyone who mesages?"
No you’re not stuck up in anyway... I respect you for being honest.....
I rarely get messages from couples, so I always reply “ I’m in NYC, not London “
But I do believe education is the cure to ignorance... that’s why I made that suggestion..... |
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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago
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Not all of us guys are not interested in a chat. I could give examples of monosyllabic responses to general chat and little effort to engage. No point being rude just say “have a good one” s as no move on light of heart and full of hope |
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