If we had to reply to every message we wouldn’t have any time left in the day, I mean that respectfully. When we have males message us saying “meet now” or anything along those lines that’s a definite ignore and also anyone who messages us above or below our age range as it states quite obviously on our profile - also we get ignored too, if you don’t get a reply it just means they aren’t interested, it’s not a personal attack just move on  |
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Also the sheer volume of messages means most will not even get looked at. People are not generally rude. But could you imagine keeping up with hundreds of messages a day?
Just don't take offense. Doubtful that any is meant. |
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Some of the ladies on here get hundreds of messages a day (I’ve seen their inboxes). It’s just simply not possible to read each message let alone reply to them. Especially when you factor in the filtering time required to separate the wheat from the chaff 
An empty mail box is just one of the benefits of being a single man on here  lol |
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"If we had to reply to every message we wouldn’t have any time left in the day, I mean that respectfully. When we have males message us saying “meet now” or anything along those lines that’s a definite ignore and also anyone who messages us above or below our age range as it states quite obviously on our profile - also we get ignored too, if you don’t get a reply it just means they aren’t interested, it’s not a personal attack just move on "
I mean lt
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You need to chill out mate... just enjoy the scenery, chat in the forums and now and then you get a invite to play... if your after instant gratification at a time and place if your choosing there are some excellent professionals that provide that service |
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""Oh how could i possibly reply to the hundreds of messages i get"
Hide your profile once in a while would help
A reply is nice if someones taken the effort then BLOCK"
Why would people hide their profile just to reply to people and say “no”? I don’t think people deserve the time of day if they don’t read the profile.  |
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""Oh how could i possibly reply to the hundreds of messages i get"
Hide your profile once in a while would help
A reply is nice if someones taken the effort then BLOCK"
We still get plenty of messages along the lines of do you want to meet now even though our profile is pretty clear that we don't so we simply don't reply, we have no intention of hiding our profile. |
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"I know we have bewn in lockdown but why do people just not reply"
Ladies and couples have got a lot of choice on here, us single guys have to work hard to get a reply, be polite, respectful and read thier profiles thier interacts, fantasies ect you will eventually find a lady that your both interests are similar and they'll respond |
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Possibly look at the content of your message - tailor it to the profile to make a connection. I tend to read profiles and only message people who firstly interest me and that there could be a mutual interest in return  |
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As had been said already some women get literally hundreds of messages in their inbox so whilst it can be frustrating is best to take things with a pinch of salt and try not to be offended.
All you can do is try to stand out with your message, be original but genuine, and try to get a profile picture that is interesting but also accurate.
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