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"At both sides of us.
I know they are not separated parents (no exchange of children) and we know them.
Why the fuck should I bother my arse to stay in and socially distance?"
Because you won't be spreading disease and will be doing your bit. |
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"At both sides of us.
I know they are not separated parents (no exchange of children) and we know them.
Why the fuck should I bother my arse to stay in and socially distance?"
Just report them, I wouldn't hesitate in reporting any of my neighbours, friends or relatives |
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"At both sides of us.
I know they are not separated parents (no exchange of children) and we know them.
Why the fuck should I bother my arse to stay in and socially distance?
Just report them, I wouldn't hesitate in reporting any of my neighbours, friends or relatives "
I was reading today that the legal instrument used to do this has basically put us all under house arrest with limited exceptions. |
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"At both sides of us.
I know they are not separated parents (no exchange of children) and we know them.
Why the fuck should I bother my arse to stay in and socially distance?
Just report them, I wouldn't hesitate in reporting any of my neighbours, friends or relatives "
Hmmm.... that would make you popular !!
To whom would you report them??
Do also bear in mind if the OP took that course of action that he does still have to live next to them after all this is over. I would be very hesitant about taking such action.
Might be expected in some police states, this is Britain. |
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All these curtain twitchers... what is wrong with people.
There are still some that are allowed visitors or to leave. You don't know their circumstances.
Like the busy body neighbour who reported me for being in and out... I'm volunteering and looking after 2 family members who cant get out but she decided to report it instead wasting police time |
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By *eeBee67 OP Man
over a year ago
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"All these curtain twitchers... what is wrong with people.
There are still some that are allowed visitors or to leave. You don't know their circumstances.
Like the busy body neighbour who reported me for being in and out... I'm volunteering and looking after 2 family members who cant get out but she decided to report it instead wasting police time "
I know the neighbours are not vulnerable, living alone or isolating, and one of them works for the NHS!!!
It's just a mockery round here.
Karaoke parties at the weekend, shisha parties on the moors.
I've not reported, but one of my vanilla friends in the boys in blue has recommended I do. |
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Really would urge you to consider very carefully do you take any action. Things like that can get out of hand and lead to lots of bad feelings and worse. Really is best to mind our business. You as an individual stick to the rules and let others make their own decisions.,,, |
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"All these curtain twitchers... what is wrong with people.
There are still some that are allowed visitors or to leave. You don't know their circumstances.
Like the busy body neighbour who reported me for being in and out... I'm volunteering and looking after 2 family members who cant get out but she decided to report it instead wasting police time
I know the neighbours are not vulnerable, living alone or isolating, and one of them works for the NHS!!!
It's just a mockery round here.
Karaoke parties at the weekend, shisha parties on the moors.
I've not reported, but one of my vanilla friends in the boys in blue has recommended I do."
How do you know the visitors are not co-workers from the NHS?
How do you know they are having shisha parties on the moors?
Why do you feel you need the approval of strangers on a swingers site to report them?
The ball is in your court as they say. |
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By *eeBee67 OP Man
over a year ago
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For the sake of sanity, and future peace. I am very much biting my lip.
Just boils my plums the ignorance, disregard and disrespect of some.
Needed to vent somewhere, apologies.
And breathe |
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"Really would urge you to consider very carefully do you take any action. Things like that can get out of hand and lead to lots of bad feelings and worse. Really is best to mind our business. You as an individual stick to the rules and let others make their own decisions.,,,"
First a stranger died but i said nothing
Next some work colleagues died but i said nothing
Then my family died and i was to to seriously ill to say anything by then |
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By *eeBee67 OP Man
over a year ago
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"How do you know the visitors are not co-workers from the NHS?
How do you know they are having shisha parties on the moors?
Why do you feel you need the approval of strangers on a swingers site to report them?
The ball is in your court as they say."
Thank you for your questions,
1. I know the neighbours and I know the visitors are definately not NHS workers, and surely the same rules apply to NHS workers too?
2. From the local press, confirmed as accurate by local police.
3. Never asked for approval was just venting my spleen. I thought that was still allowed?
4. And it will be staying in my court too |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"To save lives ? Is that a good enough reason ?
Yes....it will mean you are doing your bit. Would not worry too much what others are doing, that really is their concern..."
But we should, as this thing won't end unless we all do as asked |
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By *eeBee67 OP Man
over a year ago
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"To save lives ? Is that a good enough reason ?
Yes....it will mean you are doing your bit. Would not worry too much what others are doing, that really is their concern...
But we should, as this thing won't end unless we all do as asked"
Infection rate "R" needs to get down to less than 1. That means each infected person infects less than 1 other, to stop the spread.
And I and all my family are doing our bit, and will continue to do so. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"All these curtain twitchers... what is wrong with people.
There are still some that are allowed visitors or to leave. You don't know their circumstances.
Like the busy body neighbour who reported me for being in and out... I'm volunteering and looking after 2 family members who cant get out but she decided to report it instead wasting police time
I know the neighbours are not vulnerable, living alone or isolating, and one of them works for the NHS!!!
It's just a mockery round here.
Karaoke parties at the weekend, shisha parties on the moors.
I've not reported, but one of my vanilla friends in the boys in blue has recommended I do.
How do you know the visitors are not co-workers from the NHS?
How do you know they are having shisha parties on the moors?
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People are not meant to be visiting other houses. The shisa parties were talked about by the police |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Yes.....of course you are entitled to your opinion, in the way that we all are..."
Sadly yours is always people should be able to do what they want, that is a very selfish view considering what we are all asked to do |
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By *eeBee67 OP Man
over a year ago
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"At both sides of us.
I know they are not separated parents (no exchange of children) and we know them.
Why the fuck should I bother my arse to stay in and socially distance?
Because you won't be spreading disease and will be doing your bit."
And will continue to do so. |
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"All these curtain twitchers... what is wrong with people.
There are still some that are allowed visitors or to leave. You don't know their circumstances.
Like the busy body neighbour who reported me for being in and out... I'm volunteering and looking after 2 family members who cant get out but she decided to report it instead wasting police time
I know the neighbours are not vulnerable, living alone or isolating, and one of them works for the NHS!!!
It's just a mockery round here.
Karaoke parties at the weekend, shisha parties on the moors.
I've not reported, but one of my vanilla friends in the boys in blue has recommended I do.
How do you know the visitors are not co-workers from the NHS?
How do you know they are having shisha parties on the moors?
People are not meant to be visiting other houses. The shisa parties were talked about by the police"
You are correct however there may be certain circumstances to which the OP may be unaware of.
As for the shisha parties I can only assume it was his neighbour's that were hosting these as it was stated in his opening post. |
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"Yes.....of course you are entitled to your opinion, in the way that we all are...
Sadly yours is always people should be able to do what they want, that is a very selfish view considering what we are all asked to do"
Not what I said....Mod. |
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By *eeBee67 OP Man
over a year ago
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You are correct however there may be certain circumstances to which the OP may be unaware of.
As for the shisha parties I can only assume it was his neighbour's that were hosting these as it was stated in his opening post."
I was taught never to assume. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"Really would urge you to consider very carefully do you take any action. Things like that can get out of hand and lead to lots of bad feelings and worse. Really is best to mind our business. You as an individual stick to the rules and let others make their own decisions.,,,"
You said this amongst other things on other threads.
The decision is made for us all, we shouldn't be ignoring it. It is selfish to do so. |
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I'm actually increasingly on the side of reporting those flouting the rules. We're sacrificing our freedom for them, they're taking risks that will contribute to harm to us, those we know, and our society.
The longer people disregard the public health need, the longer we're trapped and the greater the economic and psychological toll will be.
I've not reported anyone yet. |
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You are correct however there may be certain circumstances to which the OP may be unaware of.
As for the shisha parties I can only assume it was his neighbour's that were hosting these as it was stated in his opening post.
I was taught never to assume. "
Then if think you are correct then your neighbour's should be reported for thier actions asap.
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
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Same with my neighbours. One has visitors that are friends and family members plus the kids keep climbing into my back garden over the fence and also she puts their rubbish in my bins!! Pisses me right off but the mother does not watch the kids..they are only littluns (3-4yrs old) xx |
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I reported a neighbour the other day!
I’m pretty sure riding a mini moto round the estate with a three year old sat on your knee is not an essential journey!
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"4 out of 9 of my neighbours are not doing what is asked of them.
It's a simple enough ask. Why can people just not stay at home
IQ level may be something to do with it? "
It's so frustrating! 6 of my family members have had it . The only place one of them had been in the last 3 wks was a supermarket |
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By *eeBee67 OP Man
over a year ago
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"4 out of 9 of my neighbours are not doing what is asked of them.
It's a simple enough ask. Why can people just not stay at home
IQ level may be something to do with it?
It's so frustrating! 6 of my family members have had it . The only place one of them had been in the last 3 wks was a supermarket "
OMG hope they are all OK now.
I've only been into the office twice in 2 weeks (to get more work). Supermarket once.
And I know just my luck it will be me that gets it. |
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"4 out of 9 of my neighbours are not doing what is asked of them.
It's a simple enough ask. Why can people just not stay at home
IQ level may be something to do with it?
It's so frustrating! 6 of my family members have had it . The only place one of them had been in the last 3 wks was a supermarket
OMG hope they are all OK now.
I've only been into the office twice in 2 weeks (to get more work). Supermarket once.
And I know just my luck it will be me that gets it."
5 are starting to recover. 1 isn't doing so well atm
I don't even want to go to the supermarket but needs must. My face mask delivery will hopefully be here before I need to go again ! |
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"Really would urge you to consider very carefully do you take any action. Things like that can get out of hand and lead to lots of bad feelings and worse. Really is best to mind our business. You as an individual stick to the rules and let others make their own decisions.,,,"
It’s attitude is like this that makes It hard to stop abuse in all types. It’s all our business when it comes to our health and safety just like any safe guarding everyone has the responsibility. If that person has the virus and gave it to a member of your family and that family member died wouldn’t you be mad no one did anything.
Molly
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By *eeBee67 OP Man
over a year ago
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"OP. Certainly hope you do not get it. Be positive, you won't get it. All the very best to you and yours... Stay safe, healthy and sane... M"
Cheers Mike....not as much as I hope I dont get it.
Tend to err on the positive side always.
Safe and healthy is far....sane that's a matter of opinion
Same to you. |
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By *eeBee67 OP Man
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"4 out of 9 of my neighbours are not doing what is asked of them.
It's a simple enough ask. Why can people just not stay at home
IQ level may be something to do with it?
It's so frustrating! 6 of my family members have had it . The only place one of them had been in the last 3 wks was a supermarket
OMG hope they are all OK now.
I've only been into the office twice in 2 weeks (to get more work). Supermarket once.
And I know just my luck it will be me that gets it.
5 are starting to recover. 1 isn't doing so well atm
I don't even want to go to the supermarket but needs must. My face mask delivery will hopefully be here before I need to go again ! "
Fingers and everything crossed for you and yours. Hopefully the figures will give you hope, 85% mild 15% medical help and only a small % of the 15% are serious. |
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By *eeBee67 OP Man
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"Really would urge you to consider very carefully do you take any action. Things like that can get out of hand and lead to lots of bad feelings and worse. Really is best to mind our business. You as an individual stick to the rules and let others make their own decisions.,,,
It’s attitude is like this that makes It hard to stop abuse in all types. It’s all our business when it comes to our health and safety just like any safe guarding everyone has the responsibility. If that person has the virus and gave it to a member of your family and that family member died wouldn’t you be mad no one did anything.
Molly
XX"
Might take the tactfull approach next time I see them (from 2m away)....
"Hope everything's ok. Just that I saw your brother round the other day and was worried it was something serious that he had to come round during lockdown...."
Think they will get the hint? |
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