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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

This morning we went for a walk only came across 2 other people we crossed the road to avoid getting near them so were miles away

Does this mean we have had our allocation of exercise and can’t go for another walk or if we do what we done on our mornings walk go out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You can go out once for exercise. It’s pretty clear. You’ve been out for a walk. That’s you done

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By *uscularLoveMan  over a year ago

london

Welcome to HMP England.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You can go out but not congregate in groups larger than two is my understanding.

You have to observe social distancing.

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By *erry bull1Man  over a year ago

doncaster

Walk slowly it lasts longer

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It’s simple people.

One trip to exercise. Whatever you do walk, run etc.

End of outings unless going to buy food, infrequently.

Or visit my hospital and watch people die If you want to go out more.

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By *uscularLoveMan  over a year ago

london


"It’s simple people.

One trip to exercise. Whatever you do walk, run etc.

End of outings unless going to buy food, infrequently.

Or visit my hospital and watch people die If you want to go out more.

"

Well I've never done anything like that but seems like a fun day out lol.

Drop me a message if you wanna do it for a social?

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By *rGenuineMan  over a year ago

Purley

How can anything be unclear?

Unless you’re self employed, but hopefully an announcement on that soon.

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By *rightonfranceMan  over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

It's not just HMP uk, its hmp global. I'm stuck in france on lock down and I think their draconian measures are worse than the uk currently

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just walk for 8 hours! As long as you inky go outside once!

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By *izandpaulCouple  over a year ago

merseyside


"You can go out but not congregate in groups larger than two is my understanding.

You have to observe social distancing.

"

That's not my understanding.

Boris said...one form of exercise a day, such as a run, walk or cycle. This should be done alone or only with people you live with.

Seems straightforward to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its hard to understand an almost invisable vurus.

One period of exercise in ooen space a day.

The virus doesnt move people move. People are the transport for the virus.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Really

What a ....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

whats so hard to understand??

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"It’s simple people.

One trip to exercise. Whatever you do walk, run etc.

End of outings unless going to buy food, infrequently.

Or visit my hospital and watch people die If you want to go out more.

Well I've never done anything like that but seems like a fun day out lol.

Drop me a message if you wanna do it for a social?

"

That is the unfunniest joke ever

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"It's not just HMP uk, its hmp global. I'm stuck in france on lock down and I think their draconian measures are worse than the uk currently "

How is trying to save lives draconian??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s simple people.

One trip to exercise. Whatever you do walk, run etc.

End of outings unless going to buy food, infrequently.

Or visit my hospital and watch people die If you want to go out more.

Well I've never done anything like that but seems like a fun day out lol.

Drop me a message if you wanna do it for a social?

That is the unfunniest joke ever "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just went out to hang the washing on the line

I'll have to wait until tomorrow to bring it back in

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By *ltra72Man  over a year ago

edinburgh

Is it the same restrictions nationwide,or does it go by the country/area ??

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan  over a year ago

here


"Welcome to HMP England."

or Scotland, Wales, Northen Ireland

we’re all in it together

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By *ltra72Man  over a year ago

edinburgh

I thought so. Wasn’t sure though

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

At the end of the day, how much risk do you want to take in getting this deadly virus?

You pays your money and you takes your chance - YOUR CHOICE!

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling

It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sums it up perfectly

Women = be sensible, do as instructed, be safe

Men = this is bullshit, it's overreacting, they can't tell me what to do

FFS fellas get an education

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It is not Rocket Science.

The question everyone needs to ask themselves is; "Do I want to contract this virus?"

Sensible people will say "No" and stay inside.

Dickheads will take their chances and potentially put everyone else at risk!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just went out to hang the washing on the line

I'll have to wait until tomorrow to bring it back in "

Luxury!

I came out to the garage earlier this morning, I might organise my screws to pass the time until tomorrow

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By *arkhorse66Man  over a year ago

bristol

We still need stronger rules..... came to work this morning looking for guidance and expecting to be sent home again, only to be told business as usual!

We have tenuous links to critical services at “some” of our locations but not all. And from my office window I can see euro car parts open with a queue of people (admittedly social distancing) and a spray repair shop still operating as normal.

Businesses are trying to stay in business but this makes the lockdown less effective. Only more draconian rules will force the issue, guess we will see those next. And I think we need them.

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By *essie.Woman  over a year ago

Serendipity


"Sums it up perfectly

Women = be sensible, do as instructed, be safe

Men = this is bullshit, it's overreacting, they can't tell me what to do

FFS fellas get an education

"

I think there is an element of that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just went out to hang the washing on the line

I'll have to wait until tomorrow to bring it back in "

think you’re safe in your back garden.

I was outside for ages yesterday with my daughter letting the rabbits go outside in their run (they’re normally house bunnies)

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By *hedevilKTWoman  over a year ago

milton keynes

Did ing in back garden yesterday and will be doing washing today think going out means in public I think not ur private garden

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By *iavoloCouple  over a year ago

Bexley/Buxton

I thought the advice was totally clear no confusion at all.

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By *ickDastardlyMan  over a year ago

North East

I am really struggling to understand how people still don't understand whats going on here.

You should only be going out for essentials and you should be practicing social distancing.

You are only realistically going to get fined if you are stood around socially not practising social distancing in public.

People on my social media, fretting that they won't be able go to their allotment or got to get their dogs hair cut.

The elderly and vulnerable, mainly but not exclusively, are literally dying because of this disease.

Common sense is all it takes.

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By *ndy64hMan  over a year ago

Plymouth

I suppose technically that's your exercise for the day, however you could now walk to your shop or a shop miles away to get your essential food supplies, then later walk to your chemists to get your essential medical supplies. Then come home and walk the dog.

Surely it's a matter of common sense, it's about avoidance of contact with others in order to preserve life.

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By *uliaChrisCouple  over a year ago

westerham


"We still need stronger rules..... came to work this morning looking for guidance and expecting to be sent home again, only to be told business as usual!

We have tenuous links to critical services at “some” of our locations but not all. And from my office window I can see euro car parts open with a queue of people (admittedly social distancing) and a spray repair shop still operating as normal.

Businesses are trying to stay in business but this makes the lockdown less effective. Only more draconian rules will force the issue, guess we will see those next. And I think we need them. "

This really ^^^ there’s going to be quite few businesses pretending they are “critical”. We can all sympathise from the money point of view, but if even 10% stay open, be it customer facing or just office work, the spread is going to continue.

And like most people, we never see the police to enforce anything anyway.

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By *orwegian BlueMan  over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

It's a broad brush stroke approach that's been applied for the fucktards and cockwombles who went out over the weekend, congregated on the seafronts or parks as groups, buying fish and chips and cans of beer, sitting in the beer gardens of the closed pubs and having a great time.. well, it's not as if theres a highly contagious virus that humans have no immunity to and is killing people indiscriminately throughout the world..

One person every ten minutes dies from Covid 19 in Iran... 244 a day, almost 1500 people dead each week in one country.

Use your common sense,

Social distancing means keeping away from others that you have no legitimate reason to be near...

Families that live in the same household are allowed to be together while outdoors (a lone parent with two small children wouldn't make one walk on the other side of the street or leave them alone at home). Unlike your friends, family or neighbours, no going near them when outdoors and no letting anyone into your home unless it's an emergency (a plumber if you have a gas or waterleak, etc.)

This approach is aimed more towards built up areas where it's hard not to be close to others and common sense must apply..

Obviously if you live somewhere rural and your nearest neighbours are miles away and your herd of great Danes need to walk twice a day, weak them twice a day. You probably haven't ever seen your neighbours in all the years you have lived there so on the unlikely chance you do, make sure you stay more then 2m / 6 feet / 2 and a bit yards apart.

It's really simple.

And don't forget, personal hygiene is paramount to protecting your and your family. Wash your hands regularly, disinfect door handles, light seitches, etc. regularly.

Keep cuts and broken skin covered with a dressing if you have to go out and be in contact with areas others have touched.

If you cannot get hand sanitiser, put some soap and water in small bottle to use to wash your hands while out and use a clean tissue to dry them. Throw the tissue away after.

Now be safe out there and is you see me on the street, stay well away!

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By *dam_TinaCouple  over a year ago

Hampshire


"I thought the advice was totally clear no confusion at all. "

And that's the problem. Some people don't seem to be able to grasp the simplest and clearest of instructions

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If it's not really a NEED, stay at home.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it the same restrictions nationwide,or does it go by the country/area ??"

Think he was taking the piss m8

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By *orwegian BlueMan  over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..


"We still need stronger rules..... came to work this morning looking for guidance and expecting to be sent home again, only to be told business as usual!

We have tenuous links to critical services at “some” of our locations but not all. And from my office window I can see euro car parts open with a queue of people (admittedly social distancing) and a spray repair shop still operating as normal.

Businesses are trying to stay in business but this makes the lockdown less effective. Only more draconian rules will force the issue, guess we will see those next. And I think we need them.

This really ^^^ there’s going to be quite few businesses pretending they are “critical”. We can all sympathise from the money point of view, but if even 10% stay open, be it customer facing or just office work, the spread is going to continue.

And like most people, we never see the police to enforce anything anyway. "

If this approach keeps 80% of the population well out of harms way, the NHS can cope with the issues the remaining 20% may pose.

That's not to say that 20% will become ill, by removing the 80% the percentage have reduced by the same (I used a simple linear approach, I'm sure social statisticians would have used an exponential scale). It also allows for more effective social distancing to be maintained.

As long as a minority don't fuck it up for the rest of us, this approach will be a sustainable way to control the spread.

The sad fact is that we all at some point will have to contract Covid 19 or hide ourselves in a bubble until a vaccine is found.

It's the reality that we will have to face and a few of us will become really unwell because of it..

If it can be phased and testing for antibodies in those that may have had it, can be done, then there is no reason why very soon we can start to return to normal.

At the moment, it's all about controlling the rate of spread so the NHS can cope with it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Check the government website for clear guidelines & understanding

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc. "

Same rules apply...once

Let them do their business in the garden the rest of the time

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Just because they won't know or can't enforce how often you're out doesn't mean you get to take liberties here. If you've been out, you're done for the day.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This morning we went for a walk only came across 2 other people we crossed the road to avoid getting near them so were miles away

Does this mean we have had our allocation of exercise and can’t go for another walk or if we do what we done on our mornings walk go out"

You seem unclear in your question OP. I think government has been very clear. It's all over the news and the same clear guidelines have been repeated.

Maybe follow the news instead of asking just random people here what the government guidelines are. It's clear there.

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By *heLaserGuyMan  over a year ago

Coventry


"How can anything be unclear?

Unless you’re self employed, but hopefully an announcement on that soon."

That's what I'm unclear about, I've read the guidelines, I'm self employed but sub contracted at the moment, and I work alone.

I'm off today, meant to be back in tomorrow. I literally don't have to meet or converse with anyone during my work time.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

Same rules apply...once

Let them do their business in the garden the rest of the time"

One of them wont. He won't even go in to the back yard. He is a rescue and has anxiety issues over being in enclosed yards and gardens due to trauma from previous owners. He won't even do it in the house, he will hold it in and potentially cause himself harm by doing so. So I can't even let him do that and just have to clean it up.

There are zero alternative options

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

Same rules apply...once

Let them do their business in the garden the rest of the time"

It's been shown repeatedly over the past weeks how people can't make good responsible choices based upon advice given to them by the authorities. It seems people can only follow rules that give them no option of choice. We live in a democratic society, we cry we want a democratic society, yet we as the people don't know how to play our role responsibily in a democratic society. It's as if most just want to be told what to do as we can't really cope with a choice incase we make a mistake. It's a very sad environment to be in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

Same rules apply...once

Let them do their business in the garden the rest of the time

One of them wont. He won't even go in to the back yard. He is a rescue and has anxiety issues over being in enclosed yards and gardens due to trauma from previous owners. He won't even do it in the house, he will hold it in and potentially cause himself harm by doing so. So I can't even let him do that and just have to clean it up.

There are zero alternative options "

So what you're ultimately saying is he cannot be trained? Is this right? You can't retrain a dog? I think they can. I do realise this is not easy but I'm sure nature kicks in after a while and retraining slowly progresses. Genuinely curious though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm told by my company I have to go in or take holidays or unpaid leave. .. I am not a key worker.??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

Same rules apply...once

Let them do their business in the garden the rest of the time

One of them wont. He won't even go in to the back yard. He is a rescue and has anxiety issues over being in enclosed yards and gardens due to trauma from previous owners. He won't even do it in the house, he will hold it in and potentially cause himself harm by doing so. So I can't even let him do that and just have to clean it up.

There are zero alternative options "

His bowels and bladder will work when he has no other option

Your dog isn't more important than the rules in place

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

Same rules apply...once

Let them do their business in the garden the rest of the time

One of them wont. He won't even go in to the back yard. He is a rescue and has anxiety issues over being in enclosed yards and gardens due to trauma from previous owners. He won't even do it in the house, he will hold it in and potentially cause himself harm by doing so. So I can't even let him do that and just have to clean it up.

There are zero alternative options

So what you're ultimately saying is he cannot be trained? Is this right? You can't retrain a dog? I think they can. I do realise this is not easy but I'm sure nature kicks in after a while and retraining slowly progresses. Genuinely curious though.

"

Trauma based training is the most difficult to rectify. It is deep rooted and can often conflict what would come as natural instinct or bodily finctions. It is a slow and drawn out process that even the slightest misstep can potentially reset the training progress that has been made, at times even make retraining more difficult as a result. One that can take months or even years, so no I can't just suddenly train him to not be traumatised by it in the space of a few hours, after him already having had multiple professional training sessions over 3 months already.

Believe me, if I could just let him piss and shit in the house to actually have zero reason for going outside, I would. Nothing a deep clean can't fix,It is a small thing to deal with if it was an option.

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By *quirt1810Woman  over a year ago

Boston


"I just went out to hang the washing on the line

I'll have to wait until tomorrow to bring it back in "

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

Same rules apply...once

Let them do their business in the garden the rest of the time

One of them wont. He won't even go in to the back yard. He is a rescue and has anxiety issues over being in enclosed yards and gardens due to trauma from previous owners. He won't even do it in the house, he will hold it in and potentially cause himself harm by doing so. So I can't even let him do that and just have to clean it up.

There are zero alternative options

So what you're ultimately saying is he cannot be trained? Is this right? You can't retrain a dog? I think they can. I do realise this is not easy but I'm sure nature kicks in after a while and retraining slowly progresses. Genuinely curious though.

Trauma based training is the most difficult to rectify. It is deep rooted and can often conflict what would come as natural instinct or bodily finctions. It is a slow and drawn out process that even the slightest misstep can potentially reset the training progress that has been made, at times even make retraining more difficult as a result. One that can take months or even years, so no I can't just suddenly train him to not be traumatised by it in the space of a few hours, after him already having had multiple professional training sessions over 3 months already.

Believe me, if I could just let him piss and shit in the house to actually have zero reason for going outside, I would. Nothing a deep clean can't fix,It is a small thing to deal with if it was an option. "

So are you saying then you're situation is above the restrictions set out by government?

Think you need to understand that the government isn't saying it's law to only go out once per day. People need to understand this. What they are saying is this is what we want and expect people to do, just being responsible in their actions.

I don't think the police are going to monitor if you've taken your dog out on 2 or three walks in each day. All the best with it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just went out to hang the washing on the line

I'll have to wait until tomorrow to bring it back in

Lmao"

Cracker

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

Same rules apply...once

Let them do their business in the garden the rest of the time

One of them wont. He won't even go in to the back yard. He is a rescue and has anxiety issues over being in enclosed yards and gardens due to trauma from previous owners. He won't even do it in the house, he will hold it in and potentially cause himself harm by doing so. So I can't even let him do that and just have to clean it up.

There are zero alternative options

So what you're ultimately saying is he cannot be trained? Is this right? You can't retrain a dog? I think they can. I do realise this is not easy but I'm sure nature kicks in after a while and retraining slowly progresses. Genuinely curious though.

"

Most dogs can be retrained, but it often takes a lot of time. I have a rescue dog who had toilet related issues when she came to me... we got over it, but it took two years of patience, persistence and help from a professional dog behaviourist.

Sadly it's not a case of just do x or y and suddenly everything falls into place.

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By *ildatheart6969Couple  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"This morning we went for a walk only came across 2 other people we crossed the road to avoid getting near them so were miles away

Does this mean we have had our allocation of exercise and can’t go for another walk or if we do what we done on our mornings walk go out"

At the moment your cheating with death and may get away with it.

If you're good later on you may be allowed twice.

Depends how good your social score is

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I went out once for exercise came back then went out again for essential food, on foot, walking much more slowly to as not to risk exercising a second time. The rules are pretty clear to me

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc. "

All I can say is hypocrite, flouting the lockdown.

Yet the abuse I received from meeting 2 trusted fwb on FRIDAY to a private accommodation which didn't just entail sex but much needed social interaction for my wellbeing from being already isolated when the strict isolation date was given for SUNDAY. Here you are flouting the lockdown measures.

As I said people will only think it's ok when it concerns them.

The abuse and judgement I got was unnecessary and unkind, the abuse and judgement other people are getting is unnecessary and unkind.

Hypocrite. Practice what you preach!

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"Trauma based training is the most difficult to rectify. It is deep rooted and can often conflict what would come as natural instinct or bodily finctions. It is a slow and drawn out process that even the slightest misstep can potentially reset the training progress that has been made, at times even make retraining more difficult as a result. One that can take months or even years, so no I can't just suddenly train him to not be traumatised by it in the space of a few hours, after him already having had multiple professional training sessions over 3 months already.

Believe me, if I could just let him piss and shit in the house to actually have zero reason for going outside, I would. Nothing a deep clean can't fix,It is a small thing to deal with if it was an option.

So are you saying then you're situation is above the restrictions set out by government?

Think you need to understand that the government isn't saying it's law to only go out once per day. People need to understand this. What they are saying is this is what we want and expect people to do, just being responsible in their actions.

I don't think the police are going to monitor if you've taken your dog out on 2 or three walks in each day. All the best with it."

Not above the restrictions, but it's certainly not as simple as being able to limit outings to once per day.

I agree with you, their focus and concern will almost always certainly be on gatherings, multiple people etc not a single person walking their dog locally 2-3 times a day while avoiding other people.

1 big walk in the morning, followed by a piss/shit walk in the afternoon and one before bed both being within viewable distance of my house - straight back home indoors once the deed has been done.

I've contacted a friend whom works for Merseyside police asking if she knows yet about any exceptions to some things. She said not yet but highly likely some situations will have small exceptions. Especially if I'm able to provide proof from a vet about his condition if I am confronted/challenge/stopped.

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By *etLikeMan  over a year ago

most fundamental aspects


"whats so hard to understand??"

This

But it seems there’s still confusion. Or an inability to listen to what’s being explained.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

All I can say is hypocrite, flouting the lockdown.

Yet the abuse I received from meeting 2 trusted fwb on FRIDAY to a private accommodation which didn't just entail sex but much needed social interaction for my wellbeing from being already isolated when the strict isolation date was given for SUNDAY. Here you are flouting the lockdown measures.

As I said people will only think it's ok when it concerns them.

The abuse and judgement I got was unnecessary and unkind, the abuse and judgement other people are getting is unnecessary and unkind.

Hypocrite. Practice what you preach!"

Don’t agree that people should get abuse.

But meeting two people, within a short period of time could end up as 409,000 infected. .

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman  over a year ago

Victoria, London

Not sure how you can misunderstand what we've been asked to do. Been asked to sit at home, watch telly and put your feet up.

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

All I can say is hypocrite, flouting the lockdown.

Yet the abuse I received from meeting 2 trusted fwb on FRIDAY to a private accommodation which didn't just entail sex but much needed social interaction for my wellbeing from being already isolated when the strict isolation date was given for SUNDAY. Here you are flouting the lockdown measures.

As I said people will only think it's ok when it concerns them.

The abuse and judgement I got was unnecessary and unkind, the abuse and judgement other people are getting is unnecessary and unkind.

Hypocrite. Practice what you preach!"

Completely different situations to be fair. Nobody should be receiving abuse though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This morning we went for a walk only came across 2 other people we crossed the road to avoid getting near them so were miles away

Does this mean we have had our allocation of exercise and can’t go for another walk or if we do what we done on our mornings walk go out"

The government guidelines are pretty clear , you’ve been out once today so that’s it . It’s not rocket science

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By *iger4uWoman  over a year ago

In my happy place

One of my friends is determined to go in car with her partner to do some decorating at her sons house... Son isnt there.

Ive said no.. Unless u can walk there...

I have no words...

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling

Confirmed that so long as you have valid proof on you for your reason that requires you do be outside other than what has been stated, and you are keeping within social distancing guidelines then you are okay.

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"One of my friends is determined to go in car with her partner to do some decorating at her sons house... Son isnt there.

Ive said no.. Unless u can walk there...

I have no words... "

Surely it’s safer in the car ? You are not coming into contact with anyone.

You have no words, do you have no common sense either ?

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

All I can say is hypocrite, flouting the lockdown.

Yet the abuse I received from meeting 2 trusted fwb on FRIDAY to a private accommodation which didn't just entail sex but much needed social interaction for my wellbeing from being already isolated when the strict isolation date was given for SUNDAY. Here you are flouting the lockdown measures.

As I said people will only think it's ok when it concerns them.

The abuse and judgement I got was unnecessary and unkind, the abuse and judgement other people are getting is unnecessary and unkind.

Hypocrite. Practice what you preach!

Completely different situations to be fair. Nobody should be receiving abuse though. "

I'm not sure how different, mental well being trumps taking a dog to do its business when the use of puppy pads to facilitate the dogs needs and indoor exercise.

I wasnt breaking lockdown measures and I was at minimal risk and causing minimal risk for the health of myself which has been in decline especially since the start of this.

Pointing out the fact he's a hypocrite. There's no justifying his hypocrisy

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

All I can say is hypocrite, flouting the lockdown.

Yet the abuse I received from meeting 2 trusted fwb on FRIDAY to a private accommodation which didn't just entail sex but much needed social interaction for my wellbeing from being already isolated when the strict isolation date was given for SUNDAY. Here you are flouting the lockdown measures.

As I said people will only think it's ok when it concerns them.

The abuse and judgement I got was unnecessary and unkind, the abuse and judgement other people are getting is unnecessary and unkind.

Hypocrite. Practice what you preach!

Completely different situations to be fair. Nobody should be receiving abuse though.

I'm not sure how different, mental well being trumps taking a dog to do its business when the use of puppy pads to facilitate the dogs needs and indoor exercise.

I wasnt breaking lockdown measures and I was at minimal risk and causing minimal risk for the health of myself which has been in decline especially since the start of this.

Pointing out the fact he's a hypocrite. There's no justifying his hypocrisy

"

His dogs health is also important. On Friday they had already said we need to try and socially distance ourselves.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

All I can say is hypocrite, flouting the lockdown.

Yet the abuse I received from meeting 2 trusted fwb on FRIDAY to a private accommodation which didn't just entail sex but much needed social interaction for my wellbeing from being already isolated when the strict isolation date was given for SUNDAY. Here you are flouting the lockdown measures.

As I said people will only think it's ok when it concerns them.

The abuse and judgement I got was unnecessary and unkind, the abuse and judgement other people are getting is unnecessary and unkind.

Hypocrite. Practice what you preach!

Completely different situations to be fair. Nobody should be receiving abuse though.

I'm not sure how different, mental well being trumps taking a dog to do its business when the use of puppy pads to facilitate the dogs needs and indoor exercise.

I wasnt breaking lockdown measures and I was at minimal risk and causing minimal risk for the health of myself which has been in decline especially since the start of this.

Pointing out the fact he's a hypocrite. There's no justifying his hypocrisy

"

Its okay, I've had it confirmed that I won't be breaking the lockdown measure rules as I have valid medical proof from an official vet (and dog trainer) for being outdoors with my dog more than once a day for medical reasons.

Have a wonderful day, and continue to practice what you preach too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

All I can say is hypocrite, flouting the lockdown.

Yet the abuse I received from meeting 2 trusted fwb on FRIDAY to a private accommodation which didn't just entail sex but much needed social interaction for my wellbeing from being already isolated when the strict isolation date was given for SUNDAY. Here you are flouting the lockdown measures.

As I said people will only think it's ok when it concerns them.

The abuse and judgement I got was unnecessary and unkind, the abuse and judgement other people are getting is unnecessary and unkind.

Hypocrite. Practice what you preach!

Completely different situations to be fair. Nobody should be receiving abuse though.

I'm not sure how different, mental well being trumps taking a dog to do its business when the use of puppy pads to facilitate the dogs needs and indoor exercise.

I wasnt breaking lockdown measures and I was at minimal risk and causing minimal risk for the health of myself which has been in decline especially since the start of this.

Pointing out the fact he's a hypocrite. There's no justifying his hypocrisy

"

Jesus wept give it a rest! You made it quite clear on the other thread that you were gonna continue seeing your fuck buddies. Probably 2 people agreed with you (also irresponsible) but pretty much everyone on here is condemning your actions. Btw, adding "we did other stuff apart from have sex" doesn't justify it one bit. Neither does mental health issues (which I'm not belittling in any way). If you really insist on seeing either of the 2 people you mentioned you could meet in a park, a safe distance away and still have contact where you can talk, get support etc.

I'm happy to be in the 99.9% hypocrite camp on this one.

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

..

It was very clear. One exercise session per day - whatever type you enjoy.

No they don’t know if you do it more than that. It’s about taking responsibility for your own actions, especially when it can impact on others. Just because you can do something without anyone knowing it doesn’t mean you should.

It is life or death we’re talking about.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

All I can say is hypocrite, flouting the lockdown.

Yet the abuse I received from meeting 2 trusted fwb on FRIDAY to a private accommodation which didn't just entail sex but much needed social interaction for my wellbeing from being already isolated when the strict isolation date was given for SUNDAY. Here you are flouting the lockdown measures.

As I said people will only think it's ok when it concerns them.

The abuse and judgement I got was unnecessary and unkind, the abuse and judgement other people are getting is unnecessary and unkind.

Hypocrite. Practice what you preach!"

Don't get back on the soap box.

There are other safer ways to have social interaction than exposing yourself, your FB and more importantly the ones he or you may also come in contact with. You and he may be nice people, but your defence of your actions and the way you tried to justify them kinda fell a long way short of being responsible.

Being responsible now or not is an good indication how someone behaves when times are less concerning too.

The reason we and everyone is in this situation is because of irresponsible people, globally. Those only concerned for their own selfishness. This situation certainly separates out people quickly.

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"

I'm not sure how different, mental well being trumps taking a dog to do its business when the use of puppy pads to facilitate the dogs needs and indoor exercise.

I wasnt breaking lockdown measures and I was at minimal risk and causing minimal risk for the health of myself which has been in decline especially since the start of this.

Pointing out the fact he's a hypocrite. There's no justifying his hypocrisy

"

Oh and btw, there are many people who have mental health issues, I have a diagnosed condition but I'm not meeting for sex, even though my mental health will likely suffer during the lockdown.

I don't understand why you needed to meet 2 men, surely if it was mainly for your mental health you could have just facetimed?

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

All I can say is hypocrite, flouting the lockdown.

Yet the abuse I received from meeting 2 trusted fwb on FRIDAY to a private accommodation which didn't just entail sex but much needed social interaction for my wellbeing from being already isolated when the strict isolation date was given for SUNDAY. Here you are flouting the lockdown measures.

As I said people will only think it's ok when it concerns them.

The abuse and judgement I got was unnecessary and unkind, the abuse and judgement other people are getting is unnecessary and unkind.

Hypocrite. Practice what you preach!

Completely different situations to be fair. Nobody should be receiving abuse though.

I'm not sure how different, mental well being trumps taking a dog to do its business when the use of puppy pads to facilitate the dogs needs and indoor exercise.

I wasnt breaking lockdown measures and I was at minimal risk and causing minimal risk for the health of myself which has been in decline especially since the start of this.

Pointing out the fact he's a hypocrite. There's no justifying his hypocrisy

Jesus wept give it a rest! You made it quite clear on the other thread that you were gonna continue seeing your fuck buddies. Probably 2 people agreed with you (also irresponsible) but pretty much everyone on here is condemning your actions. Btw, adding "we did other stuff apart from have sex" doesn't justify it one bit. Neither does mental health issues (which I'm not belittling in any way). If you really insist on seeing either of the 2 people you mentioned you could meet in a park, a safe distance away and still have contact where you can talk, get support etc.

I'm happy to be in the 99.9% hypocrite camp on this one."

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

"

No offence but if your health is that bad, why on earth are you putting yourself at risk by meeting people? It makes no sense.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

All I can say is hypocrite, flouting the lockdown.

Yet the abuse I received from meeting 2 trusted fwb on FRIDAY to a private accommodation which didn't just entail sex but much needed social interaction for my wellbeing from being already isolated when the strict isolation date was given for SUNDAY. Here you are flouting the lockdown measures.

As I said people will only think it's ok when it concerns them.

The abuse and judgement I got was unnecessary and unkind, the abuse and judgement other people are getting is unnecessary and unkind.

Hypocrite. Practice what you preach!

Completely different situations to be fair. Nobody should be receiving abuse though.

I'm not sure how different, mental well being trumps taking a dog to do its business when the use of puppy pads to facilitate the dogs needs and indoor exercise.

I wasnt breaking lockdown measures and I was at minimal risk and causing minimal risk for the health of myself which has been in decline especially since the start of this.

Pointing out the fact he's a hypocrite. There's no justifying his hypocrisy

Jesus wept give it a rest! You made it quite clear on the other thread that you were gonna continue seeing your fuck buddies. Probably 2 people agreed with you (also irresponsible) but pretty much everyone on here is condemning your actions. Btw, adding "we did other stuff apart from have sex" doesn't justify it one bit. Neither does mental health issues (which I'm not belittling in any way). If you really insist on seeing either of the 2 people you mentioned you could meet in a park, a safe distance away and still have contact where you can talk, get support etc.

I'm happy to be in the 99.9% hypocrite camp on this one.

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

"

I'll keep it short.

I have plenty of compassion. However, some of your arguments contradict themselves from the multiple posts you've made.

Orgasms can be reached through toys (believe many women find them better than a guys dick for that)

I don't have a dog. Getting me mixed up with another poster I'm afraid.

I'm leaving it there and will agree to disagree with you.

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

No offence but if your health is that bad, why on earth are you putting yourself at risk by meeting people? It makes no sense. "

You think living in my isolation helps?

You haven't read a single word and understood that the stress of isolation is increasing the strain on my body. Where else am I going to find someone that accepts the fact 1 I like sex 2 I need lots of sex 3 I'm a fussy bitch and I'm not spreading my legs for everyone. So it's not like I'm meeting completely random people. Is meeting someone here any different to meeting them in the pub?

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

No offence but if your health is that bad, why on earth are you putting yourself at risk by meeting people? It makes no sense.

You think living in my isolation helps?

You haven't read a single word and understood that the stress of isolation is increasing the strain on my body. Where else am I going to find someone that accepts the fact 1 I like sex 2 I need lots of sex 3 I'm a fussy bitch and I'm not spreading my legs for everyone. So it's not like I'm meeting completely random people. Is meeting someone here any different to meeting them in the pub?"

I've read it all. It doesn't matter who you're meeting, you shouldn't be doing it.

Your craving of sex is irrelevant, I'm craving sex but I'm not willing to put other people at risk because I'm thinking with my fanny and not my head.

I genuinely feel for you with your health issues but meeting up for sex is not a responsible thing to do in the current situation.

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc.

All I can say is hypocrite, flouting the lockdown.

Yet the abuse I received from meeting 2 trusted fwb on FRIDAY to a private accommodation which didn't just entail sex but much needed social interaction for my wellbeing from being already isolated when the strict isolation date was given for SUNDAY. Here you are flouting the lockdown measures.

As I said people will only think it's ok when it concerns them.

The abuse and judgement I got was unnecessary and unkind, the abuse and judgement other people are getting is unnecessary and unkind.

Hypocrite. Practice what you preach!

Completely different situations to be fair. Nobody should be receiving abuse though.

I'm not sure how different, mental well being trumps taking a dog to do its business when the use of puppy pads to facilitate the dogs needs and indoor exercise.

I wasnt breaking lockdown measures and I was at minimal risk and causing minimal risk for the health of myself which has been in decline especially since the start of this.

Pointing out the fact he's a hypocrite. There's no justifying his hypocrisy

Jesus wept give it a rest! You made it quite clear on the other thread that you were gonna continue seeing your fuck buddies. Probably 2 people agreed with you (also irresponsible) but pretty much everyone on here is condemning your actions. Btw, adding "we did other stuff apart from have sex" doesn't justify it one bit. Neither does mental health issues (which I'm not belittling in any way). If you really insist on seeing either of the 2 people you mentioned you could meet in a park, a safe distance away and still have contact where you can talk, get support etc.

I'm happy to be in the 99.9% hypocrite camp on this one.

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

I'll keep it short.

I have plenty of compassion. However, some of your arguments contradict themselves from the multiple posts you've made.

Orgasms can be reached through toys (believe many women find them better than a guys dick for that)

I don't have a dog. Getting me mixed up with another poster I'm afraid.

I'm leaving it there and will agree to disagree with you."

I've got a wardrobe full of toys, I just can't orgasm by myself I've tried. It's missing an important element. Even when I succeed in an orgasm it's like a dud firework, fizzles then pft nothing. Which has increased effect of my stress from the frustration. But you have no idea how it makes me feel. It's ok for most people having a less than satisfying orgasm. Consistently being unable to have one is stressing

Idea of a 3some was hoping 2 would achieve what 1 could not. Sadly it was only partially effective. Was fun but sadly no bang.

I wish I didn't have this body I wish I could be fucking normal but I'm not and I have to deal with that.

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

No offence but if your health is that bad, why on earth are you putting yourself at risk by meeting people? It makes no sense.

You think living in my isolation helps?

You haven't read a single word and understood that the stress of isolation is increasing the strain on my body. Where else am I going to find someone that accepts the fact 1 I like sex 2 I need lots of sex 3 I'm a fussy bitch and I'm not spreading my legs for everyone. So it's not like I'm meeting completely random people. Is meeting someone here any different to meeting them in the pub?

I've read it all. It doesn't matter who you're meeting, you shouldn't be doing it.

Your craving of sex is irrelevant, I'm craving sex but I'm not willing to put other people at risk because I'm thinking with my fanny and not my head.

I genuinely feel for you with your health issues but meeting up for sex is not a responsible thing to do in the current situation. "

What part of it said I am meeting now jfc people reading what isn't there and ignoring what is.

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

No offence but if your health is that bad, why on earth are you putting yourself at risk by meeting people? It makes no sense.

You think living in my isolation helps?

You haven't read a single word and understood that the stress of isolation is increasing the strain on my body. Where else am I going to find someone that accepts the fact 1 I like sex 2 I need lots of sex 3 I'm a fussy bitch and I'm not spreading my legs for everyone. So it's not like I'm meeting completely random people. Is meeting someone here any different to meeting them in the pub?

I've read it all. It doesn't matter who you're meeting, you shouldn't be doing it.

Your craving of sex is irrelevant, I'm craving sex but I'm not willing to put other people at risk because I'm thinking with my fanny and not my head.

I genuinely feel for you with your health issues but meeting up for sex is not a responsible thing to do in the current situation.

What part of it said I am meeting now jfc people reading what isn't there and ignoring what is. "

So you're not going to meet anyone now? Until the restrictions are lifted?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's not just HMP uk, its hmp global. I'm stuck in france on lock down and I think their draconian measures are worse than the uk currently "

On the spot fine if you don't have papers or a letter or shopping receipt permitting you to be out

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By *ch WellMan  over a year ago

Scotland

What are folk doing regarding dog walking? Asking for a friend, genuinely, I don't have a dog

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By *acktar74Man  over a year ago

leeds


"What are folk doing regarding dog walking? Asking for a friend, genuinely, I don't have a dog"

I walk it

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

No offence but if your health is that bad, why on earth are you putting yourself at risk by meeting people? It makes no sense.

You think living in my isolation helps?

You haven't read a single word and understood that the stress of isolation is increasing the strain on my body. Where else am I going to find someone that accepts the fact 1 I like sex 2 I need lots of sex 3 I'm a fussy bitch and I'm not spreading my legs for everyone. So it's not like I'm meeting completely random people. Is meeting someone here any different to meeting them in the pub?

I've read it all. It doesn't matter who you're meeting, you shouldn't be doing it.

Your craving of sex is irrelevant, I'm craving sex but I'm not willing to put other people at risk because I'm thinking with my fanny and not my head.

I genuinely feel for you with your health issues but meeting up for sex is not a responsible thing to do in the current situation.

What part of it said I am meeting now jfc people reading what isn't there and ignoring what is.

So you're not going to meet anyone now? Until the restrictions are lifted? "

As I said so in my post.

But of course you read it

I have hypersexuality, I'm always craving sex no matter what frame of mind I'm in I struggle to orgasm. If I was so inclined I'd be fucking at least 20 guys a day since most can't last 10 mins at a push. But I don't and haven't. Engaging in social interaction and sex with 2 of my trusted fwb I was abused I took an available opportunity which was before the pubs had closed. Before the restrictions was enforced on Sunday and before lockdown yesterday.

Here on this thread is the guy flouting the lockdown being a hypocrite.

I made sure of minimal risks and I wasn't breaking the law and I was judged and abused for it.

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By *ildatheart6969Couple  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

No offence but if your health is that bad, why on earth are you putting yourself at risk by meeting people? It makes no sense.

You think living in my isolation helps?

You haven't read a single word and understood that the stress of isolation is increasing the strain on my body. Where else am I going to find someone that accepts the fact 1 I like sex 2 I need lots of sex 3 I'm a fussy bitch and I'm not spreading my legs for everyone. So it's not like I'm meeting completely random people. Is meeting someone here any different to meeting them in the pub?

I've read it all. It doesn't matter who you're meeting, you shouldn't be doing it.

Your craving of sex is irrelevant, I'm craving sex but I'm not willing to put other people at risk because I'm thinking with my fanny and not my head.

I genuinely feel for you with your health issues but meeting up for sex is not a responsible thing to do in the current situation.

What part of it said I am meeting now jfc people reading what isn't there and ignoring what is.

So you're not going to meet anyone now? Until the restrictions are lifted?

As I said so in my post.

But of course you read it

I have hypersexuality, I'm always craving sex no matter what frame of mind I'm in I struggle to orgasm. If I was so inclined I'd be fucking at least 20 guys a day since most can't last 10 mins at a push. But I don't and haven't. Engaging in social interaction and sex with 2 of my trusted fwb I was abused I took an available opportunity which was before the pubs had closed. Before the restrictions was enforced on Sunday and before lockdown yesterday.

Here on this thread is the guy flouting the lockdown being a hypocrite.

I made sure of minimal risks and I wasn't breaking the law and I was judged and abused for it.

"

To be honest I thought you were a sex addict

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"

I've read it all. It doesn't matter who you're meeting, you shouldn't be doing it.

Your craving of sex is irrelevant, I'm craving sex but I'm not willing to put other people at risk because I'm thinking with my fanny and not my head.

I genuinely feel for you with your health issues but meeting up for sex is not a responsible thing to do in the current situation.

What part of it said I am meeting now jfc people reading what isn't there and ignoring what is.

So you're not going to meet anyone now? Until the restrictions are lifted?

As I said so in my post.

But of course you read it

I have hypersexuality, I'm always craving sex no matter what frame of mind I'm in I struggle to orgasm. If I was so inclined I'd be fucking at least 20 guys a day since most can't last 10 mins at a push. But I don't and haven't. Engaging in social interaction and sex with 2 of my trusted fwb I was abused I took an available opportunity which was before the pubs had closed. Before the restrictions was enforced on Sunday and before lockdown yesterday.

Here on this thread is the guy flouting the lockdown being a hypocrite.

I made sure of minimal risks and I wasn't breaking the law and I was judged and abused for it.

"

You also made the point that it's because you can't afford to pay fines, not because it's risky to countless other people.

I'm going to stop discussing this now, I've a feeling it might not end well.

Everyone needs to do their part to prevent the spread of this illness, I hope everyone does so.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm glad to not be a disease vector. Sacrifices have to be made in exceptional circumstances.

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

No offence but if your health is that bad, why on earth are you putting yourself at risk by meeting people? It makes no sense.

You think living in my isolation helps?

You haven't read a single word and understood that the stress of isolation is increasing the strain on my body. Where else am I going to find someone that accepts the fact 1 I like sex 2 I need lots of sex 3 I'm a fussy bitch and I'm not spreading my legs for everyone. So it's not like I'm meeting completely random people. Is meeting someone here any different to meeting them in the pub?

I've read it all. It doesn't matter who you're meeting, you shouldn't be doing it.

Your craving of sex is irrelevant, I'm craving sex but I'm not willing to put other people at risk because I'm thinking with my fanny and not my head.

I genuinely feel for you with your health issues but meeting up for sex is not a responsible thing to do in the current situation.

What part of it said I am meeting now jfc people reading what isn't there and ignoring what is.

So you're not going to meet anyone now? Until the restrictions are lifted?

As I said so in my post.

But of course you read it

I have hypersexuality, I'm always craving sex no matter what frame of mind I'm in I struggle to orgasm. If I was so inclined I'd be fucking at least 20 guys a day since most can't last 10 mins at a push. But I don't and haven't. Engaging in social interaction and sex with 2 of my trusted fwb I was abused I took an available opportunity which was before the pubs had closed. Before the restrictions was enforced on Sunday and before lockdown yesterday.

Here on this thread is the guy flouting the lockdown being a hypocrite.

I made sure of minimal risks and I wasn't breaking the law and I was judged and abused for it.

To be honest I thought you were a sex addict"

You think that means my constant need for sex all time means il do it when ever? Fuck me I've attended swingers clubs and never had sex in them. I'm not an addict. Just as a body craves salty food when the body has low levels of salt so does the body crave what it needs to get well. Doesn't make me a sex addict. It means I need serotonin and dopamine and all the other chemicals the brain produces from an orgasm. But I'm not jumping every cock that walks my way.

I had an opportunity on Friday and I took it hopes of relieving the stress and cortisol levels.

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"This morning we went for a walk only came across 2 other people we crossed the road to avoid getting near them so were miles away

Does this mean we have had our allocation of exercise and can’t go for another walk or if we do what we done on our mornings walk go out"

Was there a drone hovering, or a very big bouncy ball following you?

If not you might be alright.

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"I'm glad to not be a disease vector. Sacrifices have to be made in exceptional circumstances."

I'd like to know you can say I am when I'm isolated 99% of my time and this goes back many months. You all are just entering my world of isolation now.

You also are by attending your necessary needs. So unless you don't leave your house what so ever you are posing risk still.

You all have degrees in which you think you're better than others yet contribute more to the risk than me.

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"I'm glad to not be a disease vector. Sacrifices have to be made in exceptional circumstances.

I'd like to know you can say I am when I'm isolated 99% of my time and this goes back many months. You all are just entering my world of isolation now.

You also are by attending your necessary needs. So unless you don't leave your house what so ever you are posing risk still.

You all have degrees in which you think you're better than others yet contribute more to the risk than me. "

How have I contributed to the risk?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc. "

Unless of course you have a android phone and take that with you andyou havent turned off google tracking.

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"I'm glad to not be a disease vector. Sacrifices have to be made in exceptional circumstances.

I'd like to know you can say I am when I'm isolated 99% of my time and this goes back many months. You all are just entering my world of isolation now.

You also are by attending your necessary needs. So unless you don't leave your house what so ever you are posing risk still.

You all have degrees in which you think you're better than others yet contribute more to the risk than me.

How have I contributed to the risk? "

The post wasn't directed to you, more specifically to someone making indirect attack at me. The hypocrites, the holier than thou who think they have a right to abuse another.

Making a statement that they are not contributing to the risks what so ever but neglecting to understand that they are unless that have completely quarantined themself that each trip they make and considering the lockdown standing in queues to enter the stores it's still risking spread. They are still a "disease vector"

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By *ik MMan  over a year ago

Lancashire


"I'm glad to not be a disease vector. Sacrifices have to be made in exceptional circumstances.

I'd like to know you can say I am when I'm isolated 99% of my time and this goes back many months. You all are just entering my world of isolation now.

You also are by attending your necessary needs. So unless you don't leave your house what so ever you are posing risk still.

You all have degrees in which you think you're better than others yet contribute more to the risk than me. "

Not quite - we’re following government instructions while you seem to think it’s ok to do whatever you need to get by.

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"I'm glad to not be a disease vector. Sacrifices have to be made in exceptional circumstances.

I'd like to know you can say I am when I'm isolated 99% of my time and this goes back many months. You all are just entering my world of isolation now.

You also are by attending your necessary needs. So unless you don't leave your house what so ever you are posing risk still.

You all have degrees in which you think you're better than others yet contribute more to the risk than me.

Not quite - we’re following government instructions while you seem to think it’s ok to do whatever you need to get by. "

Who says I haven't been? I'm not the one flouting lockdown measures nor was I attending mass gatherings. I don't have family my social circle is extremely small but because I saw FWB on Friday the benefits part people have issues with. What if I called them family, my partner would that make a difference? That FRIDAY I'm being judged for

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By *eavenscentitCouple  over a year ago

barnstaple


"What are folk doing regarding dog walking? Asking for a friend, genuinely, I don't have a dog"

We walked today, no one else in sight.

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By *ildatheart6969Couple  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I'm glad to not be a disease vector. Sacrifices have to be made in exceptional circumstances.

I'd like to know you can say I am when I'm isolated 99% of my time and this goes back many months. You all are just entering my world of isolation now.

You also are by attending your necessary needs. So unless you don't leave your house what so ever you are posing risk still.

You all have degrees in which you think you're better than others yet contribute more to the risk than me.

Not quite - we’re following government instructions while you seem to think it’s ok to do whatever you need to get by.

Who says I haven't been? I'm not the one flouting lockdown measures nor was I attending mass gatherings. I don't have family my social circle is extremely small but because I saw FWB on Friday the benefits part people have issues with. What if I called them family, my partner would that make a difference? That FRIDAY I'm being judged for"

Welcome to 1984

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling

Interesting what some people consider an "attack". I've just reread my three (that is right 3!) responses to your other thread.

I'd love to know how a single one of them is considered an attack.

If somebody could point out exactly what I said in those responses to be considered an attack, especially one that would result in such an obsession that despite blocking my still seems to be interacting with me and what I say on the forum, would be greatly appreciated.

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"I'm glad to not be a disease vector. Sacrifices have to be made in exceptional circumstances.

I'd like to know you can say I am when I'm isolated 99% of my time and this goes back many months. You all are just entering my world of isolation now.

You also are by attending your necessary needs. So unless you don't leave your house what so ever you are posing risk still.

You all have degrees in which you think you're better than others yet contribute more to the risk than me.

Not quite - we’re following government instructions while you seem to think it’s ok to do whatever you need to get by.

Who says I haven't been? I'm not the one flouting lockdown measures nor was I attending mass gatherings. I don't have family my social circle is extremely small but because I saw FWB on Friday the benefits part people have issues with. What if I called them family, my partner would that make a difference? That FRIDAY I'm being judged for

Welcome to 1984"

It's going to be a lot worse than that.

Come the day someone's going to be stabbed for a loaf of bread.

People have been disgusting individuals with regards to this virus. Abusing people who are trying to survive and maintain some semblance balance. People who still had to go to work or end up with no money so they starve but people abused them telling them they shouldn't be going to work. Clubs that remained open were abused because the government didn't issue more than a recommendation so their business would collapse without the insurance payout.

Yet hypocrites think they can do as they like without being called out on it. These very same people who are all for the be kind agenda and yet now abusing others with no glimpse of compassion.

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By *HaRiFMan  over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Do the best you can given your individual circumstances and be mindful that’s all anyone can ask I suppose. I must admit when this all started few months back I didn’t think it would be as serious as it has become, we can’t afford to be complacent if anything were to happen to our loved ones because of our recklessness we would not be able to forgive our selfs. I know it feels surreal like we are in some sort of film or some thing but this shit is real unfortunately. Please be responsible use your common sense and look after each other and the wider community. That’s not really a big ask is it.

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"Interesting what some people consider an "attack". I've just reread my three (that is right 3!) responses to your other thread.

I'd love to know how a single one of them is considered an attack.

If somebody could point out exactly what I said in those responses to be considered an attack, especially one that would result in such an obsession that despite blocking my still seems to be interacting with me and what I say on the forum, would be greatly appreciated. "

did you make the post about being a " disease vector" ? I'm sorry do you have more than 1 account on the forum?

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By *inkykat dirtydogCouple  over a year ago

Cov


"I just went out to hang the washing on the line

I'll have to wait until tomorrow to bring it back in "

Shouldn't laugh at all, but his made us both chuggle

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By *ensualguy70TV/TS  over a year ago

paisley

Anything the Government advises, do the exact opposite

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By *ools and the brainCouple  over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Anything the Government advises, do the exact opposite "

Yeah that sounds very logical.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

No offence but if your health is that bad, why on earth are you putting yourself at risk by meeting people? It makes no sense.

You think living in my isolation helps?

You haven't read a single word and understood that the stress of isolation is increasing the strain on my body. Where else am I going to find someone that accepts the fact 1 I like sex 2 I need lots of sex 3 I'm a fussy bitch and I'm not spreading my legs for everyone. So it's not like I'm meeting completely random people. Is meeting someone here any different to meeting them in the pub?

I've read it all. It doesn't matter who you're meeting, you shouldn't be doing it.

Your craving of sex is irrelevant, I'm craving sex but I'm not willing to put other people at risk because I'm thinking with my fanny and not my head.

I genuinely feel for you with your health issues but meeting up for sex is not a responsible thing to do in the current situation.

What part of it said I am meeting now jfc people reading what isn't there and ignoring what is.

So you're not going to meet anyone now? Until the restrictions are lifted?

As I said so in my post.

But of course you read it

I have hypersexuality, I'm always craving sex no matter what frame of mind I'm in I struggle to orgasm. If I was so inclined I'd be fucking at least 20 guys a day since most can't last 10 mins at a push. But I don't and haven't. Engaging in social interaction and sex with 2 of my trusted fwb I was abused I took an available opportunity which was before the pubs had closed. Before the restrictions was enforced on Sunday and before lockdown yesterday.

Here on this thread is the guy flouting the lockdown being a hypocrite.

I made sure of minimal risks and I wasn't breaking the law and I was judged and abused for it.

"

You have really missed the point of the government suggested guidelines to prevent the spread of this virus. You don't have to wait untiy you're locked in doors before responding like sensible person. The dog walker wasn't spreading it because of his social distancing unlike your actions.

If the things are true that you have said about yourself then I suggest you get some serious help in a few different areas. I'm also going to guess by your avoidance of a question posted to you about not meeting now and the way you replied by suggesting you're unable to control yourself with sexual needs that you will just continue to meet.

Your Fwb(s) need to cop on and think too.

It's sad that you are willing to put the lives of others at risk because of sexual needs you may or may not have.

I hope this is an awakening for what really matters and what's important.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I heard that the Proclaimers are planning on going for a walk tomorrow

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

No offence but if your health is that bad, why on earth are you putting yourself at risk by meeting people? It makes no sense.

You think living in my isolation helps?

You haven't read a single word and understood that the stress of isolation is increasing the strain on my body. Where else am I going to find someone that accepts the fact 1 I like sex 2 I need lots of sex 3 I'm a fussy bitch and I'm not spreading my legs for everyone. So it's not like I'm meeting completely random people. Is meeting someone here any different to meeting them in the pub?

I've read it all. It doesn't matter who you're meeting, you shouldn't be doing it.

Your craving of sex is irrelevant, I'm craving sex but I'm not willing to put other people at risk because I'm thinking with my fanny and not my head.

I genuinely feel for you with your health issues but meeting up for sex is not a responsible thing to do in the current situation.

What part of it said I am meeting now jfc people reading what isn't there and ignoring what is.

So you're not going to meet anyone now? Until the restrictions are lifted?

As I said so in my post.

But of course you read it

I have hypersexuality, I'm always craving sex no matter what frame of mind I'm in I struggle to orgasm. If I was so inclined I'd be fucking at least 20 guys a day since most can't last 10 mins at a push. But I don't and haven't. Engaging in social interaction and sex with 2 of my trusted fwb I was abused I took an available opportunity which was before the pubs had closed. Before the restrictions was enforced on Sunday and before lockdown yesterday.

Here on this thread is the guy flouting the lockdown being a hypocrite.

I made sure of minimal risks and I wasn't breaking the law and I was judged and abused for it.

You have really missed the point of the government suggested guidelines to prevent the spread of this virus. You don't have to wait untiy you're locked in doors before responding like sensible person. The dog walker wasn't spreading it because of his social distancing unlike your actions.

If the things are true that you have said about yourself then I suggest you get some serious help in a few different areas. I'm also going to guess by your avoidance of a question posted to you about not meeting now and the way you replied by suggesting you're unable to control yourself with sexual needs that you will just continue to meet.

Your Fwb(s) need to cop on and think too.

It's sad that you are willing to put the lives of others at risk because of sexual needs you may or may not have.

I hope this is an awakening for what really matters and what's important. "

I didn't avoid the question I answered it about not meeting now. It isn't my fault people don't read everything. I have not stated I'm meeting now at all. I've stated that I'm waiting to end of lockdown and only leaving the house when absolutely necessary. I'm sorry you have the inability to read all that's provided for you to read.

I've followed guidelines. I'm following the lockdown. I did not reply with the fact I am unable to control my sexual needs in the slightest. As I pointed out if that was the case I'd be fucking all and sundry. Which I don't!!

If you're going to make accusations I suggest you read up before making them.

I pointed out his hypocrisy! Willing to flout the lockdown for his benefit. When giving me abuse for something before full isolation restrictions were in place.

I was attacked for meeting 2 FWB for my mental, emotional and physical needs. The fact that at some point there was people have lost their shit about it.

Now if I'd gone to see platonic friends people wouldn't have been so abusive and judgemental. It is not like I went to visit someone vulnerable, I'm the vulnerable one who made a decision about the risk to my health to stay with a friend and engaged in interaction social and sexual with 2 friends in private accommodation away from the public. The risks were minimal as compared to people going to public high traffic areas.

I was pointing out about people being judgemental and bullying others and I was attacked for something that happened on Friday before the Sunday's 12 week isolation I'd had to have followed.

It was up to me to make a decision on the risks to myself during that isolation period if I wanted to invite a trusted individual to my home to aid with my needs. But now there is lockdown and there's fuck all I can change about that so I will now have to suffer that till lockdown ends.

I've been sensible and responsible and minimised risk. I'm isolated I went through the reccomended 7 days of zero symptoms by the fact my life is always isolated and the fact one of the person's I'd seen Friday I'd seen the Friday before who is also isolated. So I wasnt acting irresponsiblely. I haven't gone to mass gatherings, I haven't gone to visit other vulnerable people and I restricted myself from the public.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

No offence but if your health is that bad, why on earth are you putting yourself at risk by meeting people? It makes no sense.

You think living in my isolation helps?

You haven't read a single word and understood that the stress of isolation is increasing the strain on my body. Where else am I going to find someone that accepts the fact 1 I like sex 2 I need lots of sex 3 I'm a fussy bitch and I'm not spreading my legs for everyone. So it's not like I'm meeting completely random people. Is meeting someone here any different to meeting them in the pub?

I've read it all. It doesn't matter who you're meeting, you shouldn't be doing it.

Your craving of sex is irrelevant, I'm craving sex but I'm not willing to put other people at risk because I'm thinking with my fanny and not my head.

I genuinely feel for you with your health issues but meeting up for sex is not a responsible thing to do in the current situation.

What part of it said I am meeting now jfc people reading what isn't there and ignoring what is.

So you're not going to meet anyone now? Until the restrictions are lifted?

As I said so in my post.

But of course you read it

I have hypersexuality, I'm always craving sex no matter what frame of mind I'm in I struggle to orgasm. If I was so inclined I'd be fucking at least 20 guys a day since most can't last 10 mins at a push. But I don't and haven't. Engaging in social interaction and sex with 2 of my trusted fwb I was abused I took an available opportunity which was before the pubs had closed. Before the restrictions was enforced on Sunday and before lockdown yesterday.

Here on this thread is the guy flouting the lockdown being a hypocrite.

I made sure of minimal risks and I wasn't breaking the law and I was judged and abused for it.

You have really missed the point of the government suggested guidelines to prevent the spread of this virus. You don't have to wait untiy you're locked in doors before responding like sensible person. The dog walker wasn't spreading it because of his social distancing unlike your actions.

If the things are true that you have said about yourself then I suggest you get some serious help in a few different areas. I'm also going to guess by your avoidance of a question posted to you about not meeting now and the way you replied by suggesting you're unable to control yourself with sexual needs that you will just continue to meet.

Your Fwb(s) need to cop on and think too.

It's sad that you are willing to put the lives of others at risk because of sexual needs you may or may not have.

I hope this is an awakening for what really matters and what's important.

If you're going to make accusations I suggest you read up before making them.

I pointed out his hypocrisy! Willing to flout the lockdown for his benefit. When giving me abuse for something before full isolation restrictions were in place.

I was attacked for meeting 2 FWB for my mental, emotional and physical needs. The fact that at some point there was people have lost their shit about it."

I refer you back to the 3 interactions I had with you. Not one of them was abuse.

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

No offence but if your health is that bad, why on earth are you putting yourself at risk by meeting people? It makes no sense.

You think living in my isolation helps?

You haven't read a single word and understood that the stress of isolation is increasing the strain on my body. Where else am I going to find someone that accepts the fact 1 I like sex 2 I need lots of sex 3 I'm a fussy bitch and I'm not spreading my legs for everyone. So it's not like I'm meeting completely random people. Is meeting someone here any different to meeting them in the pub?

I've read it all. It doesn't matter who you're meeting, you shouldn't be doing it.

Your craving of sex is irrelevant, I'm craving sex but I'm not willing to put other people at risk because I'm thinking with my fanny and not my head.

I genuinely feel for you with your health issues but meeting up for sex is not a responsible thing to do in the current situation.

What part of it said I am meeting now jfc people reading what isn't there and ignoring what is.

So you're not going to meet anyone now? Until the restrictions are lifted?

As I said so in my post.

But of course you read it

I have hypersexuality, I'm always craving sex no matter what frame of mind I'm in I struggle to orgasm. If I was so inclined I'd be fucking at least 20 guys a day since most can't last 10 mins at a push. But I don't and haven't. Engaging in social interaction and sex with 2 of my trusted fwb I was abused I took an available opportunity which was before the pubs had closed. Before the restrictions was enforced on Sunday and before lockdown yesterday.

Here on this thread is the guy flouting the lockdown being a hypocrite.

I made sure of minimal risks and I wasn't breaking the law and I was judged and abused for it.

You have really missed the point of the government suggested guidelines to prevent the spread of this virus. You don't have to wait untiy you're locked in doors before responding like sensible person. The dog walker wasn't spreading it because of his social distancing unlike your actions.

If the things are true that you have said about yourself then I suggest you get some serious help in a few different areas. I'm also going to guess by your avoidance of a question posted to you about not meeting now and the way you replied by suggesting you're unable to control yourself with sexual needs that you will just continue to meet.

Your Fwb(s) need to cop on and think too.

It's sad that you are willing to put the lives of others at risk because of sexual needs you may or may not have.

I hope this is an awakening for what really matters and what's important.

If you're going to make accusations I suggest you read up before making them.

I pointed out his hypocrisy! Willing to flout the lockdown for his benefit. When giving me abuse for something before full isolation restrictions were in place.

I was attacked for meeting 2 FWB for my mental, emotional and physical needs. The fact that at some point there was people have lost their shit about it.

I refer you back to the 3 interactions I had with you. Not one of them was abuse. "

But you're forgetting the hypocrite thread I posted. 4 posts were removed from the thread also. When I was writing my last post which at the time had 171 messages on it by time I posted it there was 177 then moderators closed the thread and removed 4. Now it looks as if the thread was closed before 175.

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By *ch WellMan  over a year ago

Scotland


"What are folk doing regarding dog walking? Asking for a friend, genuinely, I don't have a dog

We walked today, no one else in sight."

Just once? The dog usually goes out at least twice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I wasnt the one flouting lockdown you were blatantly flouting it before you have been given information stating its ok to excise the right to walk your dog.

Lockdown came into force last night I have no intention of breaking lock down rules unless absolutely necessary.

Il inform you what's been happening to me since all this began. It's not as simple or selfish as people make out.

Stress and weather affects my body like this. I have cushing syndrome as well as a host of many other conditions some interconnecting some not but every single one has an effect on my mental well-being.

What has worked for me with the cushing syndrome, lots of sex orgasms reducing the cortisol levels in my blood. Seeing as I've been isolating myself for well over a year, the fact my last orgasm was in August!! And not for the lack of trying. It's had a massive effect.

Besides weight gain the critical part is the inability to contend with infections. My skin is thinned, it dries, it cracks, it gets infected, it can't handle the infection. My lymphatic system doesn't want to work properly. Sepsis damaged my lungs, heart, kidneys, and God knows what else. I've been living in fear of someone attacking me for coughing which I've had since my 1st sepsis attack.

Increased stressors means its exaggerated. Lacking access to good food means decline in my health also. Today I wake to find more infected skin areas of green puss. I'm at risk of skin tears at the weakest points. It's only going to get worse and if it enters my blood stream I'm at higher risk of sepsis rearing its ugly head again. I doubt I could survive that this time given how stretched nhs is. So you think my health and my life isn't important. I wish my gp wouldn't wait to help me until sepsis starts it's easily avoided with antibiotics but this is what I'm left with. Judging me when I'm trying to not suffer this if it was an easy fix of grabbing some meds from the chemist you wouldn't judge me on that. I'm just left to handle with what works. Before you suggest I've tried to get a new gp. Life isn't fucking easy and people don't understand what another person goes through.

To everyone it just looks as if I'm after a fuck for simple pleasures. When I was just trying to survive and I'm here giving people information that's embarrassing and disgusting to prove you don't know what people's needs are and what goes on in their life that warrants their decisions. I shall now go without because I can't pay the fines of lockdown I couldn't expect anyone else to pay them.

But now you know it's not a simple case of gagging for a fuck. But you won't care because you have idea what compassion or empathy is.

But tell me if this was happening to you wouldn't you do what it takes to survive with your health. You clearly consider it for walking the dog but would you think your health is more important than having to let your dog shit on newspaper or puppypads instead of walks.

Any volunteers after this lockdown to lance the abcesses and put the creams where I can't reach? I think not why would there be il be a live rotten pustuled "corpse"

So good luck with the lockdown enjoy cabin fever because I'm going to revel in the fact people are going to final start understanding some of the shit I go through. If people manage to reach out to me for support with managing those feelings and my compassion, they will be left to handle it themselves I'd be in no position to help or I dare say care after.

No offence but if your health is that bad, why on earth are you putting yourself at risk by meeting people? It makes no sense.

You think living in my isolation helps?

You haven't read a single word and understood that the stress of isolation is increasing the strain on my body. Where else am I going to find someone that accepts the fact 1 I like sex 2 I need lots of sex 3 I'm a fussy bitch and I'm not spreading my legs for everyone. So it's not like I'm meeting completely random people. Is meeting someone here any different to meeting them in the pub?

I've read it all. It doesn't matter who you're meeting, you shouldn't be doing it.

Your craving of sex is irrelevant, I'm craving sex but I'm not willing to put other people at risk because I'm thinking with my fanny and not my head.

I genuinely feel for you with your health issues but meeting up for sex is not a responsible thing to do in the current situation.

What part of it said I am meeting now jfc people reading what isn't there and ignoring what is.

So you're not going to meet anyone now? Until the restrictions are lifted?

As I said so in my post.

But of course you read it

I have hypersexuality, I'm always craving sex no matter what frame of mind I'm in I struggle to orgasm. If I was so inclined I'd be fucking at least 20 guys a day since most can't last 10 mins at a push. But I don't and haven't. Engaging in social interaction and sex with 2 of my trusted fwb I was abused I took an available opportunity which was before the pubs had closed. Before the restrictions was enforced on Sunday and before lockdown yesterday.

Here on this thread is the guy flouting the lockdown being a hypocrite.

I made sure of minimal risks and I wasn't breaking the law and I was judged and abused for it.

You have really missed the point of the government suggested guidelines to prevent the spread of this virus. You don't have to wait untiy you're locked in doors before responding like sensible person. The dog walker wasn't spreading it because of his social distancing unlike your actions.

If the things are true that you have said about yourself then I suggest you get some serious help in a few different areas. I'm also going to guess by your avoidance of a question posted to you about not meeting now and the way you replied by suggesting you're unable to control yourself with sexual needs that you will just continue to meet.

Your Fwb(s) need to cop on and think too.

It's sad that you are willing to put the lives of others at risk because of sexual needs you may or may not have.

I hope this is an awakening for what really matters and what's important.

I didn't avoid the question I answered it about not meeting now. It isn't my fault people don't read everything. I have not stated I'm meeting now at all. I've stated that I'm waiting to end of lockdown and only leaving the house when absolutely necessary. I'm sorry you have the inability to read all that's provided for you to read.

I've followed guidelines. I'm following the lockdown. I did not reply with the fact I am unable to control my sexual needs in the slightest. As I pointed out if that was the case I'd be fucking all and sundry. Which I don't!!

If you're going to make accusations I suggest you read up before making them.

I pointed out his hypocrisy! Willing to flout the lockdown for his benefit. When giving me abuse for something before full isolation restrictions were in place.

I was attacked for meeting 2 FWB for my mental, emotional and physical needs. The fact that at some point there was people have lost their shit about it.

Now if I'd gone to see platonic friends people wouldn't have been so abusive and judgemental. It is not like I went to visit someone vulnerable, I'm the vulnerable one who made a decision about the risk to my health to stay with a friend and engaged in interaction social and sexual with 2 friends in private accommodation away from the public. The risks were minimal as compared to people going to public high traffic areas.

I was pointing out about people being judgemental and bullying others and I was attacked for something that happened on Friday before the Sunday's 12 week isolation I'd had to have followed.

It was up to me to make a decision on the risks to myself during that isolation period if I wanted to invite a trusted individual to my home to aid with my needs. But now there is lockdown and there's fuck all I can change about that so I will now have to suffer that till lockdown ends.

I've been sensible and responsible and minimised risk. I'm isolated I went through the reccomended 7 days of zero symptoms by the fact my life is always isolated and the fact one of the person's I'd seen Friday I'd seen the Friday before who is also isolated. So I wasnt acting irresponsiblely. I haven't gone to mass gatherings, I haven't gone to visit other vulnerable people and I restricted myself from the public. "

Jesus wept. Ok where to start

You say you were following government guidelines.....wrong, government guidelines on Friday were to practice social distancing, you didn't

Walking a dog or any other pet that requires walking isn't flouting the lockdown, this is allowed

I won't give you abuse, but will give harsh criticism to ANYONE (Not just you) who meets FWB, platonic friends, romantic friends, family who don't live in the same household, work colleagues, vague acquaintances.

Your needs, my needs, everyone's needs are secondary to this global crisis WE ARE ALL facing

You said yourself your body has immunity problems AND lung problems. This puts you at high risk and you should have been practising self isolation and social distancing weeks ago, yes yes I know "This is your world" regardless you should not have left the house or had people visit you. Fact

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Walking a dog or any other pet that requires walking isn't flouting the lockdown, this is allowed

"

Not 3 times a day it isn't.

Lay off the woman, be kind and compassionate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Walking a dog or any other pet that requires walking isn't flouting the lockdown, this is allowed

Not 3 times a day it isn't.

Lay off the woman, be kind and compassionate "

So the dog only gets to shit once a day???

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By *oan of DArcCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow


"It has its problems in that how the hell will they know if you have been out once already? In the current situation they won't know.

I've taken my dogs out for a quick walk and toilet break this morning. I'll be doing it again at least another 2 times (so at least 3 walks/toilet breaks in 24 hours) today. I'll be avoiding other people, I won't get in close proximity to them etc but unless I bump in to the exact same police officers (didn't see any this morning at all) they won't know if I have been out once, twice, or 100 times.

I won't be going out any other time however. Not to meet others, friends or family etc. "

I'm afraid this is part of the problem, we shouldn't be motivated by the legal consequences of breaching the guidance, it should be about each of us taking responsibility for reducing the transmission of the virus.

Of course as I individuals it's natural to believe that our solitary walk several times a day won't affect anything, but if everyone thought like that we'd have a situation like we did at the weekend, where people were coming into close proximity to each other in public spaces.

If we ALL follow the guidance without looking for ways to bend them to suit our own circumstances we've got a chance of overcoming this crisis quickly.

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/full-guidance-on-staying-at-home-and-away-from-others/full-guidance-on-staying-at-home-and-away-from-others

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

People speed because they think they won't get caught even through the law clearly states don't and there are consequences. It's responsible people who understand this and realise it's value.

As the officer asked, "Do you know why you're getting a ticket?"

Driver, "I was speeding".

Officer, "No it's not"

Driver, "why then"?

Officer, "It's because you were caught speeding".

If you decide to speed don't get caught or all hell can break loose and the consequences are higher than the thrill.

Enjoy yourselves, but remember this virus has spread without exception because of first and secondary contacts.

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By *oan of DArcCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow


"I thought the advice was totally clear no confusion at all.

And that's the problem. Some people don't seem to be able to grasp the simplest and clearest of instructions "

...and if they do they occupy themselves in trying to find a workaround.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We still need stronger rules..... came to work this morning looking for guidance and expecting to be sent home again, only to be told business as usual!

We have tenuous links to critical services at “some” of our locations but not all. And from my office window I can see euro car parts open with a queue of people (admittedly social distancing) and a spray repair shop still operating as normal.

Businesses are trying to stay in business but this makes the lockdown less effective. Only more draconian rules will force the issue, guess we will see those next. And I think we need them. "

Exactly my thoughts.

The mot rule arrived today 6 month on your mot to keep you on the road. But yet my mate works at a garage people wanted bulbs fitted yesterday, tyres so they could go away for the day!

It’s absolutely ridiculous guys

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman  over a year ago

all loved up


"

Walking a dog or any other pet that requires walking isn't flouting the lockdown, this is allowed

Not 3 times a day it isn't.

Lay off the woman, be kind and compassionate

So the dog only gets to shit once a day???"

they have said dogs can still be walked but try to make it part of your exercise and If there is more than one person in the home that can walk the dog then try to individually take the dog. Otherwise it's okay to walk to dog more than once ( as it's a basic need for the animals x )

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By *oan of DArcCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'm glad to not be a disease vector. Sacrifices have to be made in exceptional circumstances.

I'd like to know you can say I am when I'm isolated 99% of my time and this goes back many months. You all are just entering my world of isolation now.

You also are by attending your necessary needs. So unless you don't leave your house what so ever you are posing risk still.

You all have degrees in which you think you're better than others yet contribute more to the risk than me.

Not quite - we’re following government instructions while you seem to think it’s ok to do whatever you need to get by.

Who says I haven't been? I'm not the one flouting lockdown measures nor was I attending mass gatherings. I don't have family my social circle is extremely small but because I saw FWB on Friday the benefits part people have issues with. What if I called them family, my partner would that make a difference? That FRIDAY I'm being judged for

Welcome to 1984"

Let's hope we all make it to 2021

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By *unloversCouple  over a year ago

rotherham

An old lady came into our shop yesterday and we said

Shouldn’t you be at home

Her reply was

If the good lord wants to take me he will

The elderly are so bloody stubborn and will not do as they are told when we live

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Walking a dog or any other pet that requires walking isn't flouting the lockdown, this is allowed

Not 3 times a day it isn't.

Lay off the woman, be kind and compassionate

So the dog only gets to shit once a day???"

No

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Window cleaners ? There’s one outside now cleaning my neighbours windows , are we not on a lock down , wouldn’t say cleaning windows is a vital service

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By * and M lookingCouple  over a year ago

Worcester

We need the HSE to assist with this.

The large corporations have obviously been putting pressure on the government to let them continue to trade.

Surely if an employee is now going into work because of this they are being put at undue risk.

If they die, there is surely a case for corporate manslaughter.

STOP PUTTING MONEY OVER HEALTH.

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By *ercuryMan  over a year ago

Grantham


"Window cleaners ? There’s one outside now cleaning my neighbours windows , are we not on a lock down , wouldn’t say cleaning windows is a vital service "

You can still work, providing you adhere to the Goverment guidelines.

Essential work isn't the same as necessary work. It may come that the guidelines will be further tightened and that "essential" work only will be permitted.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple  over a year ago

Bedworth

If you want to be out walking more then apply to Royal Mail. You’ll be out for 8 hours a day delivering all the unnecessary shite people have ordered online while they’re bored at home!

Mind you, most offices don’t have enough space indoors for people to work 2m apart so you’ll probably be sorting shoulder to shoulder like normal and maybe even still sharing a van with another colleague. Oh and you won’t get any ppe like gloves, wipes or hand gel as they were too late thinking about ordering any and now they can’t get it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"An old lady came into our shop yesterday and we said

Shouldn’t you be at home

Her reply was

If the good lord wants to take me he will

The elderly are so bloody stubborn and will not do as they are told when we live"

A woman on Fab posted a comment about a "great meet" on her status a couple of days back so I messaged her telling her she was irresponsible. Hilariously she's put a recent status up naming me and saying I'm stupid because she'd be dead if she had the virus due to underlying health conditions.

As one of the great philosophers once said "stupid is as stupid does"

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By *ildatheart6969Couple  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Window cleaners ? There’s one outside now cleaning my neighbours windows , are we not on a lock down , wouldn’t say cleaning windows is a vital service "

Phone the police

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By *otsossieMan  over a year ago

Chesterfield

Darwin in action.

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By *uttyjonnMan  over a year ago

SEA


"

I messaged her telling her she was irresponsible."

If you saw 3 blokes walking down the road in Salford would you go and tell them how irresponsible they are being? If yes hats off to you

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By *ebjonnsonMan  over a year ago

Maldon


"It's not just HMP uk, its hmp global. I'm stuck in france on lock down and I think their draconian measures are worse than the uk currently "

At least it’s a bit warmer there, and no shortage of wine.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I messaged her telling her she was irresponsible.

If you saw 3 blokes walking down the road in Salford would you go and tell them how irresponsible they are being? If yes hats off to you "

I told a group of 4 teenagers the other day so yeah.

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By *ildatheart6969Couple  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"

I messaged her telling her she was irresponsible.

If you saw 3 blokes walking down the road in Salford would you go and tell them how irresponsible they are being? If yes hats off to you

I told a group of 4 teenagers the other day so yeah. "

You told 4 wow.

You're not a traffic warden by any chance are you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I messaged her telling her she was irresponsible.

If you saw 3 blokes walking down the road in Salford would you go and tell them how irresponsible they are being? If yes hats off to you

I told a group of 4 teenagers the other day so yeah.

You told 4 wow.

You're not a traffic warden by any chance are you"

Do you really have to be such an argumentative tool all the time? I said they shouldn't be in a group together as per guidelines.

And no I'm not, I'm just someone that gives a fuck about the rest of the population.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"

I messaged her telling her she was irresponsible.

If you saw 3 blokes walking down the road in Salford would you go and tell them how irresponsible they are being? If yes hats off to you

I told a group of 4 teenagers the other day so yeah.

You told 4 wow.

You're not a traffic warden by any chance are you

Do you really have to be such an argumentative tool all the time? I said they shouldn't be in a group together as per guidelines.

And no I'm not, I'm just someone that gives a fuck about the rest of the population. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well Fab has said it and not too late.

Well done admin.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The issue with the government telling people to do something is that there will always be the 5-10% who will ignore it- this has always been the case and the government know it. It’s the 5-10% that bugger up any predictive model they have on this virus

They need emergency laws and the police/ army to in force it and they need to start testing more people - especially in contacts - it’s not rocket science.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The issue with the government telling people to do something is that there will always be the 5-10% who will ignore it- this has always been the case and the government know it. It’s the 5-10% that bugger up any predictive model they have on this virus

They need emergency laws and the police/ army to in force it and they need to start testing more people - especially in contacts - it’s not rocket science.

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By *xhib12Man  over a year ago

Blyth

It's not just all about keeping away from other people. The virus can survive on some surfaces for many hours, up to 72 apparently. The more you're outside the relative safety of your home the higher the risk of you coming

into contact with the virus.

Remember the virus doesn't move, people move the virus, that's how it spreads.

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By *etLikeMan  over a year ago

most fundamental aspects


"The issue with the government telling people to do something is that there will always be the 5-10% who will ignore it- this has always been the case and the government know it. It’s the 5-10% that bugger up any predictive model they have on this virus

They need emergency laws and the police/ army to in force it and they need to start testing more people - especially in contacts - it’s not rocket science."

No it’s not rocket science, it’s something much simpler: common sense!

It feels like being back at school where the whole class got detention because one person was being a dick.

So everyone has to suffer because the minority are selfish, ignorant or deliberately obtuse

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The issue with the government telling people to do something is that there will always be the 5-10% who will ignore it- this has always been the case and the government know it. It’s the 5-10% that bugger up any predictive model they have on this virus

They need emergency laws and the police/ army to in force it and they need to start testing more people - especially in contacts - it’s not rocket science.

No it’s not rocket science, it’s something much simpler: common sense!

It feels like being back at school where the whole class got detention because one person was being a dick.

So everyone has to suffer because the minority are selfish, ignorant or deliberately obtuse "

Yes. The disease can kill anyone. The disease will overwhelm our health system which means more people will die.

Even if you personally are healthy and will be fine, your movements will contribute to the spread of the disease. Locking up limits that.

Save lives. Stay the fuck at home. (Unless you genuinely can't, in which case, thank you for your service and be well)

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By *nicecoupleXCouple  over a year ago

Hitch


"It’s simple people.

One trip to exercise. Whatever you do walk, run etc.

End of outings unless going to buy food, infrequently.

Or visit my hospital and watch people die If you want to go out more.

"

Exactly. Not exactly rocket science is it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've just been out for my daily exercise combined with a trip to the shop

Most of the cars I saw were suped up driven by boy racers, majority of other drivers were on their phone. Apparently quarantine during a pandemic means you can break the speed limit and use your mobile while driving....who knew

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've just been out for my daily exercise combined with a trip to the shop

Most of the cars I saw were suped up driven by boy racers, majority of other drivers were on their phone. Apparently quarantine during a pandemic means you can break the speed limit and use your mobile while driving....who knew"

Crikey...it's all going on down your way

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"The issue with the government telling people to do something is that there will always be the 5-10% who will ignore it- this has always been the case and the government know it. It’s the 5-10% that bugger up any predictive model they have on this virus

They need emergency laws and the police/ army to in force it and they need to start testing more people - especially in contacts - it’s not rocket science.

No it’s not rocket science, it’s something much simpler: common sense!

It feels like being back at school where the whole class got detention because one person was being a dick.

So everyone has to suffer because the minority are selfish, ignorant or deliberately obtuse "

It's not about suffering, it's about doing what's right to protect the vulnerable and make the key workers lives easier. If other people choose to break the rules, I'm hoping that larger on the spot fines are introduced.

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By *tace 309TV/TS  over a year ago

durham


"Sums it up perfectly

Women = be sensible, do as instructed, be safe

Men = this is bullshit, it's overreacting, they can't tell me what to do

FFS fellas get an education

"

men =brain dead

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The issue with the government telling people to do something is that there will always be the 5-10% who will ignore it- this has always been the case and the government know it. It’s the 5-10% that bugger up any predictive model they have on this virus

They need emergency laws and the police/ army to in force it and they need to start testing more people - especially in contacts - it’s not rocket science.

No it’s not rocket science, it’s something much simpler: common sense!

It feels like being back at school where the whole class got detention because one person was being a dick.

So everyone has to suffer because the minority are selfish, ignorant or deliberately obtuse

It's not about suffering, it's about doing what's right to protect the vulnerable and make the key workers lives easier. If other people choose to break the rules, I'm hoping that larger on the spot fines are introduced."

We all have to suffer, most likely, for the greater good.

The knobheads doing what they like are increasing the death toll.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m not going to rant and call people stupid or worse for not taking notice of the requests made by the government.

But can I ask you to read this and then think every time you decide to go out and circumvent the advice you are potentially making this worse.

Today we were asked to produce some parts to be used in ventilators by one of our customers.

Of course we said absolutely, we are already signed up to the government ventilator hero’s ( a government web site for manufacturers to offer their capacity to companies that have products needed for the current emergency) and offered any help we can.

So we are running with minimum staff so we can try to keep them safe, I’m normally on the road, on site, design, sales which is obviously of no importance right now so I’m doing what I can to make things easier for the people who are in.

Sorry for the preambles but trying to explain why me being out in the company van, which I’ve never driven and first time driving a manual for a long time had more of a right to be driving around the Kent country roads picking up tooling etc so we can run as many machines as possible to run these parts then people out for a bike ride.

It was like a summer Sunday, the government advice is to go out once a day locally to your home for this and I’m sure the people out thought it wouldn’t matter if they cycled miles into the countryside as a couple or on their own.

The trouble is, especially in the south east, it’s not just you it’s everyone else that also thinks the same.

Think about the consequences if you have an accident, probably not your fault at all, man in big white should learn how to drive, you are now a burden on icu.

Probably not explaining myself very well.

Just saying this isn’t a holiday, take responsibility for every decision you make, you might not have panic bought the toilet rolls but you put yourself in a position that could put a strain on the NHS.

We are running at a loss and not sure if we will be able to keep going once this is over and the unpaid vat and finance needs to be settled but it does feel good to be doing our small part.

I’m not putting anything else on in defence or argument for this post, Fab at the moment for me is a trip into another universe that takes me away from the stress and anxiety.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Last sobering thought, one of my customers makes parts for “medical fridge”

Big ones that are put into morgues, they are being asked to make as many as they can.

Let’s hope they are just putting things in pace just in case.

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