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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
I read an interesting article that there could be problems in the future as one might want to find a partner but are faced with a dilemma, what if they are vaccinated or not? So even if they like the person they might not want them cos they have or havent had the jab, what do you think of it? I can see this to become a big problem for the dating scene. |
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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago
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Not really.
Have many friends that wouldn't have a flu vax before the Pandemic. Most have changed their view of that now however. Realising that they were probably helping to kill others without it.
The Pandemic has taught people much. It's also taught us all much about people. |
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Who wouldn't dare ShagTonight!
I could see a small possible reluctance now amongst some but I'm guessing that as we relax restrictions that people will not give it too much thought, unless someone was of a rabidly antivax mindset overall. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You do like to see problems when there are no problems to be seen don’t you Shag!!!!!
Normal life will return and people will live normally once more so it’s still a case of some will like marmite and some won’t.!!!!
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I wouldn’t date someone that refused the vaccinate nor would I date a Tory .... purely down to the values and the way they live their lives would be so different to me it would be a waste of time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mm.
Its okay i'm vaccinated.
Its ok I've been snipped
It's ok i'm on the pill
It's ok i don't have any STI's
All the above could be lies but never bothered many in past. Just screwed, sometimes by the lie too |
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"Mm.
Its okay i'm vaccinated.
Its ok I've been snipped
It's ok i'm on the pill
It's ok i don't have any STI's
All the above could be lies but never bothered many in past. Just screwed, sometimes by the lie too"
I'd hope that in most cases, the dating thing would sort that out. In the swinging scene the level of checks is different, but I'd absolutely have conversations about values, including on public health, before getting into a relationship with someone. |
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"Mm.
Its okay i'm vaccinated.
Its ok I've been snipped
It's ok i'm on the pill
It's ok i don't have any STI's
All the above could be lies but never bothered many in past. Just screwed, sometimes by the lie too"
Wow, how unusual for a man to lie.. So shocked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mm.
Its okay i'm vaccinated.
Its ok I've been snipped
It's ok i'm on the pill
It's ok i don't have any STI's
All the above could be lies but never bothered many in past. Just screwed, sometimes by the lie too"
if you start a relationship where you cant trust any of those statements from them then you have a much bigger problem than a lack of vaccine |
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"Mm.
Its okay i'm vaccinated.
Its ok I've been snipped
It's ok i'm on the pill
It's ok i don't have any STI's
All the above could be lies but never bothered many in past. Just screwed, sometimes by the lie too
if you start a relationship where you cant trust any of those statements from them then you have a much bigger problem than a lack of vaccine "
Hahaha this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your article sounds like it assumes people have a choice as to whether they get vaccinated or not. And indeed the vast majority do. But not everyone. Some may wish to get vaccinated but are unable.
Its a quandary! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your article sounds like it assumes people have a choice as to whether they get vaccinated or not. And indeed the vast majority do. But not everyone. Some may wish to get vaccinated but are unable.
Its a quandary! "
i think people tend to view this very differently to choose not to be vaccinated though |
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"Your article sounds like it assumes people have a choice as to whether they get vaccinated or not. And indeed the vast majority do. But not everyone. Some may wish to get vaccinated but are unable.
Its a quandary!
i think people tend to view this very differently to choose not to be vaccinated though "
Yup. No quandary. If you can't you're fine, if you donwanna I donwanna know you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your article sounds like it assumes people have a choice as to whether they get vaccinated or not. And indeed the vast majority do. But not everyone. Some may wish to get vaccinated but are unable.
Its a quandary!
i think people tend to view this very differently to choose not to be vaccinated though
Yup. No quandary. If you can't you're fine, if you donwanna I donwanna know you."
its more about the motivation and what that says about your team player spirit (which would carry into hoe you behave in a relationship) than the ability to have the medication itself |
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"Your article sounds like it assumes people have a choice as to whether they get vaccinated or not. And indeed the vast majority do. But not everyone. Some may wish to get vaccinated but are unable.
Its a quandary!
i think people tend to view this very differently to choose not to be vaccinated though
Yup. No quandary. If you can't you're fine, if you donwanna I donwanna know you.
its more about the motivation and what that says about your team player spirit (which would carry into hoe you behave in a relationship) than the ability to have the medication itself "
Yes, or community mindedness/morals.
It's severely unaligned with mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your article sounds like it assumes people have a choice as to whether they get vaccinated or not. And indeed the vast majority do. But not everyone. Some may wish to get vaccinated but are unable.
Its a quandary!
i think people tend to view this very differently to choose not to be vaccinated though "
I think you will be correct in that in the long run. So yes I fully agree. But at the minute that isn't the case. Its very "are you/aren't you?" with no middle ground. Driven mainly by the media scaremongering to be fair.
But yes eventually it will level out. |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
"You do like to see problems when there are no problems to be seen don’t you Shag!!!!!
Normal life will return and people will live normally once more so it’s still a case of some will like marmite and some won’t.!!!!
T"
No I dont. I can see it becoming a problem in the future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not really.
Have many friends that wouldn't have a flu vax before the Pandemic. Most have changed their view of that now however. Realising that they were probably helping to kill others without it.
The Pandemic has taught people much. It's also taught us all much about people."
The flue jab killed my father, so im never going to have one, have had my first covid jab tho and just waiting for my second, im not sure how effective they will be tho, but i thought it worth the risk, as very few people have had severe side effects from it, but it is a very different type of jab, the flue jab basicly gives you a low does of flue and relies on your imunity to do the rest, the covid jabs dont work in the same way |
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"You do like to see problems when there are no problems to be seen don’t you Shag!!!!!
Normal life will return and people will live normally once more so it’s still a case of some will like marmite and some won’t.!!!!
TNo I dont. I can see it becoming a problem in the future."
Why is it a problem?
I don't want to date people who don't share my core values. That's always been true |
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"Not really.
Have many friends that wouldn't have a flu vax before the Pandemic. Most have changed their view of that now however. Realising that they were probably helping to kill others without it.
The Pandemic has taught people much. It's also taught us all much about people.
The flue jab killed my father, so im never going to have one, have had my first covid jab tho and just waiting for my second, im not sure how effective they will be tho, but i thought it worth the risk, as very few people have had severe side effects from it, but it is a very different type of jab, the flue jab basicly gives you a low does of flue and relies on your imunity to do the rest, the covid jabs dont work in the same way"
The flu jab left a relative of mine with permanent disability a long time ago.
I still get mine - to protect him and people like him who can't. |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
"You do like to see problems when there are no problems to be seen don’t you Shag!!!!!
Normal life will return and people will live normally once more so it’s still a case of some will like marmite and some won’t.!!!!
TNo I dont. I can see it becoming a problem in the future.
Why is it a problem?
I don't want to date people who don't share my core values. That's always been true"
Cos of peoples different views and values, one we know is together with someone and he doesnt want the children to be vaccinated, but she does, so he have a big decision to make. |
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"You do like to see problems when there are no problems to be seen don’t you Shag!!!!!
Normal life will return and people will live normally once more so it’s still a case of some will like marmite and some won’t.!!!!
TNo I dont. I can see it becoming a problem in the future.
Why is it a problem?
I don't want to date people who don't share my core values. That's always been trueCos of peoples different views and values, one we know is together with someone and he doesnt want the children to be vaccinated, but she does, so he have a big decision to make. "
That's why I wouldn't date someone who is against vaccination. It's very much against my values.
(Or in my case someone who wants children. Nope nope nope) |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
"You do like to see problems when there are no problems to be seen don’t you Shag!!!!!
Normal life will return and people will live normally once more so it’s still a case of some will like marmite and some won’t.!!!!
TNo I dont. I can see it becoming a problem in the future.
Why is it a problem?
I don't want to date people who don't share my core values. That's always been trueCos of peoples different views and values, one we know is together with someone and he doesnt want the children to be vaccinated, but she does, so he have a big decision to make.
That's why I wouldn't date someone who is against vaccination. It's very much against my values.
(Or in my case someone who wants children. Nope nope nope)"
That is good, although this couple was together before covid so this have become a problem for them. I really feel for the guy, cos he is a nice guy and I hope everything works out for him  |
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Anyone who won’t have the vaccine is obviously of a far different mindset than myself with a fundamental belief that is radically different to my own... I wouldn’t want to date someone so detached from reality and the benefits of modern science |
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over a year ago
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"I read an interesting article that there could be problems in the future as one might want to find a partner but are faced with a dilemma, what if they are vaccinated or not? So even if they like the person they might not want them cos they have or havent had the jab, what do you think of it? I can see this to become a big problem for the dating scene."
Wot a lot of rubbish if you love someone it shouldnt make a difference if he or she didnt want yo be a Sheep |
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"Anyone who won’t have the vaccine is obviously of a far different mindset than myself with a fundamental belief that is radically different to my own... I wouldn’t want to date someone so detached from reality and the benefits of modern science "
There are valid reasons why some cannot or will not have the vaccine and if you're not prepared to understand that then you're no loss. Btw, I have had mine not that I'd ever make that an issue to anyone |
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"Anyone who won’t have the vaccine is obviously of a far different mindset than myself with a fundamental belief that is radically different to my own... I wouldn’t want to date someone so detached from reality and the benefits of modern science
There are valid reasons why some cannot or will not have the vaccine and if you're not prepared to understand that then you're no loss. Btw, I have had mine not that I'd ever make that an issue to anyone "
I mentioned in my comment that it’s someone who WON’T have it rather than someone who CAN’T.. I am aware of the difference. And in my opinion there are NO valid reasons for why someone who can be vaccinated but refuse to... |
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"Anyone who won’t have the vaccine is obviously of a far different mindset than myself with a fundamental belief that is radically different to my own... I wouldn’t want to date someone so detached from reality and the benefits of modern science "
Agreed |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
"Anyone who won’t have the vaccine is obviously of a far different mindset than myself with a fundamental belief that is radically different to my own... I wouldn’t want to date someone so detached from reality and the benefits of modern science
There are valid reasons why some cannot or will not have the vaccine and if you're not prepared to understand that then you're no loss. Btw, I have had mine not that I'd ever make that an issue to anyone "
This |
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"Anyone who won’t have the vaccine is obviously of a far different mindset than myself with a fundamental belief that is radically different to my own... I wouldn’t want to date someone so detached from reality and the benefits of modern science
There are valid reasons why some cannot or will not have the vaccine and if you're not prepared to understand that then you're no loss. Btw, I have had mine not that I'd ever make that an issue to anyone "
I’ve yet to hear a valid reason why someone won’t have the vaccine. |
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"Anyone who won’t have the vaccine is obviously of a far different mindset than myself with a fundamental belief that is radically different to my own... I wouldn’t want to date someone so detached from reality and the benefits of modern science "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read an interesting article that there could be problems in the future as one might want to find a partner but are faced with a dilemma, what if they are vaccinated or not? So even if they like the person they might not want them cos they have or havent had the jab, what do you think of it? I can see this to become a big problem for the dating scene."
The fact that many people who have been injected still go on to contract the virus it's really a non issue. |
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"Anyone who won’t have the vaccine is obviously of a far different mindset than myself with a fundamental belief that is radically different to my own... I wouldn’t want to date someone so detached from reality and the benefits of modern science
There are valid reasons why some cannot or will not have the vaccine and if you're not prepared to understand that then you're no loss. Btw, I have had mine not that I'd ever make that an issue to anyone
I’ve yet to hear a valid reason why someone won’t have the vaccine."
probably they are in the 'I won't get covid or covid not real' brigade they need to get in the real world |
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"Not really.
Have many friends that wouldn't have a flu vax before the Pandemic. Most have changed their view of that now however. Realising that they were probably helping to kill others without it.
The Pandemic has taught people much. It's also taught us all much about people.
The flue jab killed my father, so im never going to have one, have had my first covid jab tho and just waiting for my second, im not sure how effective they will be tho, but i thought it worth the risk, as very few people have had severe side effects from it, but it is a very different type of jab, the flue jab basicly gives you a low does of flue and relies on your imunity to do the rest, the covid jabs dont work in the same way"
The flu vaccine for adults won't typically give you a live virus. You can check each year, which of the various flu strains are included in the vaccine and their format. There are some changes each year and I can fully understand your hesitation, based on your circumstances. Children and adults have been getting different forms recently. |
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I'd also struggle very much with dating a full-on conspiracy wingbit, as their balance of focus, their priorities and rational thinking capabilities are likely to be a bit off from mine. I don't want a clone but I do want someone who is reasonably grounded and takes good decisions, ss well as wanting good for others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mm.
Its okay i'm vaccinated.
Its ok I've been snipped
It's ok i'm on the pill
It's ok i don't have any STI's
All the above could be lies but never bothered many in past. Just screwed, sometimes by the lie too
if you start a relationship where you cant trust any of those statements from them then you have a much bigger problem than a lack of vaccine "
I never have or would. But many have been left holding the baby - some people (and not just men) lie to get what they want and are very good at it. Why would Covid change them - HIV didn't. |
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I wouldn't date a conspiracy theorist same as I wouldn't date a moral high ground nagist Or end of the world street screecher.
Am I going to ask my meets or potential dating partners if they've been covid vaccinated, no.
If someone starts asking me about my covid vaccinations status outside of, for potential travel requirements, I'll probably respond suggesting that they should look elsewhere. |
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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Who wouldn't dare ShagTonight!
I could see a small possible reluctance now amongst some but I'm guessing that as we relax restrictions that people will not give it too much thought, unless someone was of a rabidly antivax mindset overall. "
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
"Who wouldn't dare ShagTonight!
I could see a small possible reluctance now amongst some but I'm guessing that as we relax restrictions that people will not give it too much thought, unless someone was of a rabidly antivax mindset overall. "
Yes who wouldnt, some might and some dont |
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"Anyone who won’t have the vaccine is obviously of a far different mindset than myself with a fundamental belief that is radically different to my own... I wouldn’t want to date someone so detached from reality and the benefits of modern science
There are valid reasons why some cannot or will not have the vaccine and if you're not prepared to understand that then you're no loss. Btw, I have had mine not that I'd ever make that an issue to anyone
I mentioned in my comment that it’s someone who WON’T have it rather than someone who CAN’T.. I am aware of the difference. And in my opinion there are NO valid reasons for why someone who can be vaccinated but refuse to..."
There are medical and mental reasons why someone can't have the vaccine as is no becoming apparent as none of the major vaccines available are for the under 30's |
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"Anyone who won’t have the vaccine is obviously of a far different mindset than myself with a fundamental belief that is radically different to my own... I wouldn’t want to date someone so detached from reality and the benefits of modern science
There are valid reasons why some cannot or will not have the vaccine and if you're not prepared to understand that then you're no loss. Btw, I have had mine not that I'd ever make that an issue to anyone
I mentioned in my comment that it’s someone who WON’T have it rather than someone who CAN’T.. I am aware of the difference. And in my opinion there are NO valid reasons for why someone who can be vaccinated but refuse to...
There are medical and mental reasons why someone can't have the vaccine as is no becoming apparent as none of the major vaccines available are for the under 30's"
Both Moderna and Pfizer are viable options for the under 30s |
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"Anyone who won’t have the vaccine is obviously of a far different mindset than myself with a fundamental belief that is radically different to my own... I wouldn’t want to date someone so detached from reality and the benefits of modern science
There are valid reasons why some cannot or will not have the vaccine and if you're not prepared to understand that then you're no loss. Btw, I have had mine not that I'd ever make that an issue to anyone
I mentioned in my comment that it’s someone who WON’T have it rather than someone who CAN’T.. I am aware of the difference. And in my opinion there are NO valid reasons for why someone who can be vaccinated but refuse to...
There are medical and mental reasons why someone can't have the vaccine as is no becoming apparent as none of the major vaccines available are for the under 30's
Both Moderna and Pfizer are viable options for the under 30s"
Sorry, I missed that. Yes just the Astrazenica is not. Sorry but the roll out for the Moderna isn't full on yet |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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It wouldn't bother me if someone was vaccinated or not really. It's their decision and it's not my place to push what I believe on anyone else. If they were someone who did push their views on topics and decided only they were right and everyone else is wrong then we wouldn't even get past chatting for long no matter anything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh ffs.
Seriously my list of wants and needs in a partner are apparently too long, I'm certainly not going to add anything else.
What someone chooses to do re vaccination is entirely up to them. |
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"I wouldn't date an anti vaxxer, that includes people who say 'im not an anti vaxxer, I just know this jab isn't a vaccine and hasn't been tested enough'.
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Yeah.
I don't want to be with people who don't agree with my values. No one ever questions "must love dogs", why is "agrees with me on public health" an issue? It's much more important - particularly if you have kids  |
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"If I was dating I wouldn't really mind if the other person was vaccinated or not. "
Yup ^^^^ I'm not going to influence anyone else's health choices about the vaccine or be concerned about it, it's personal choice. |
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over a year ago
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"I wouldn't date an anti vaxxer, that includes people who say 'im not an anti vaxxer, I just know this jab isn't a vaccine and hasn't been tested enough'.
Yeah.
I don't want to be with people who don't agree with my values. No one ever questions "must love dogs", why is "agrees with me on public health" an issue? It's much more important - particularly if you have kids "
I agree, it goes beyond "personal choice", which IMO only applies if your decisions do not potentially put others at risk. It's part and parcel of living in a civilised society. Absolutely you have the right to refuse something which is in the public interest, I have the right to make my own decisions about you based on that. |
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Make no difference at all to me I've had a vax got the second next week! I would not judge weather to meet someone on weather they are vaxed or not! None of my business! Would never dream to even ask! x |
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"I wouldn’t date someone that refused the vaccinate nor would I date a Tory .... purely down to the values and the way they live their lives would be so different to me it would be a waste of time. "
Always find the "wouldn't date a Tory" comments hilarious. Never heard it the other way around. |
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"I wouldn’t date someone that refused the vaccinate nor would I date a Tory .... purely down to the values and the way they live their lives would be so different to me it would be a waste of time.
Always find the "wouldn't date a Tory" comments hilarious. Never heard it the other way around."
Wonder why ... lol |
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Always find the "wouldn't date a Tory" comments hilarious. Never heard it the other way around."
There was a thread a couple of days ago where a man wouldn't meet a woman who said on her profile she was a "leftie" |
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Always find the "wouldn't date a Tory" comments hilarious. Never heard it the other way around.
There was a thread a couple of days ago where a man wouldn't meet a woman who said on her profile she was a "leftie" "
I hear it all the time and have specifically added stuff to my profile to steer people away who might find my politics objectionable.
I don't have to talk about it, but I'd rather not listen to a spiel about why I'm an idiot either. |
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Always find the "wouldn't date a Tory" comments hilarious. Never heard it the other way around.
There was a thread a couple of days ago where a man wouldn't meet a woman who said on her profile she was a "leftie"
I hear it all the time and have specifically added stuff to my profile to steer people away who might find my politics objectionable.
I don't have to talk about it, but I'd rather not listen to a spiel about why I'm an idiot either."
I don't really give anyone I'm talking to a spiel about politics or anything else. We will have a healthy in depth discussion about an issue and then we will both agree I'm right. |
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By *ammskiMan
over a year ago
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Always find the "wouldn't date a Tory" comments hilarious. Never heard it the other way around.
There was a thread a couple of days ago where a man wouldn't meet a woman who said on her profile she was a "leftie"
I hear it all the time and have specifically added stuff to my profile to steer people away who might find my politics objectionable.
I don't have to talk about it, but I'd rather not listen to a spiel about why I'm an idiot either.
I don't really give anyone I'm talking to a spiel about politics or anything else. We will have a healthy in depth discussion about an issue and then we will both agree I'm right. "
You do make people laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn’t date someone that refused the vaccinate nor would I date a Tory .... purely down to the values and the way they live their lives would be so different to me it would be a waste of time.
Always find the "wouldn't date a Tory" comments hilarious. Never heard it the other way around.
Wonder why ... lol "
i think it should work both ways though , if someones politics is such a large part of their personality that its the first thing they need to say about themselves on a dating profile before you even meet them , chances are they don’t have much of an open mind for discussion or debate on way more than politics - for this reason i wont swipe anyone who has anything about snp on their bios - its not who they vote that put me off , its that they decided that was a defining feature of their personality
i dont need to date someone who thinks in all the same ways as me , but i do want to date someone who can respect and discuss our differences without it becoming bitter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn’t date someone that refused the vaccinate nor would I date a Tory .... purely down to the values and the way they live their lives would be so different to me it would be a waste of time.
Always find the "wouldn't date a Tory" comments hilarious. Never heard it the other way around.
Wonder why ... lol
i think it should work both ways though , if someones politics is such a large part of their personality that its the first thing they need to say about themselves on a dating profile before you even meet them , chances are they don’t have much of an open mind for discussion or debate on way more than politics - for this reason i wont swipe anyone who has anything about snp on their bios - its not who they vote that put me off , its that they decided that was a defining feature of their personality
i dont need to date someone who thinks in all the same ways as me , but i do want to date someone who can respect and discuss our differences without it becoming bitter"
i probably should have added if someone in scotland has a union jack flag on their profile is the same result - swipe left |
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"I read an interesting article that there could be problems in the future as one might want to find a partner but are faced with a dilemma, what if they are vaccinated or not? So even if they like the person they might not want them cos they have or havent had the jab, what do you think of it? I can see this to become a big problem for the dating scene."
I agree with some above, I think it’s more about someone’s morals, views and beliefs than just being vaccinated or not.
I’d not date or meet someone who feels the need to spout of their opinion on anything on a dating/ fab profile.
As long as there’s healthy discussion and reasoning it’s fine.... must be a Man Utd supporter though  haha x |
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I see zero long term issue. You'll either be legitimately exempt, which is why herd immunity exists, or they'll just be showing themselves up to be cretins early doors. Bullets will be dodged.
And obviously people will get bored of being anti vaccine etc., once the novelty dies down, just like everything else they could pretend to care about but don't. The ones left, all the better to find and avoid them early as possible. |
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"Mm.
Its okay i'm vaccinated.
Its ok I've been snipped
It's ok i'm on the pill
It's ok i don't have any STI's
All the above could be lies but never bothered many in past. Just screwed, sometimes by the lie too
Wow, how unusual for a man to lie.. So shocked "
Women lie just as much! |
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"I see zero long term issue. You'll either be legitimately exempt, which is why herd immunity exists, or they'll just be showing themselves up to be cretins early doors. Bullets will be dodged.
And obviously people will get bored of being anti vaccine etc., once the novelty dies down, just like everything else they could pretend to care about but don't. The ones left, all the better to find and avoid them early as possible."
Judgemental much  |
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"I see zero long term issue. You'll either be legitimately exempt, which is why herd immunity exists, or they'll just be showing themselves up to be cretins early doors. Bullets will be dodged.
And obviously people will get bored of being anti vaccine etc., once the novelty dies down, just like everything else they could pretend to care about but don't. The ones left, all the better to find and avoid them early as possible.
Judgemental much "
you say judge, I say not a irresponsible fool... Hmm, doesn't have quite the same ring to it does it? |
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"I wouldn't date an anti vaxxer, that includes people who say 'im not an anti vaxxer, I just know this jab isn't a vaccine and hasn't been tested enough'.
Yeah.
I don't want to be with people who don't agree with my values. No one ever questions "must love dogs", why is "agrees with me on public health" an issue? It's much more important - particularly if you have kids
I agree, it goes beyond "personal choice", which IMO only applies if your decisions do not potentially put others at risk. It's part and parcel of living in a civilised society. Absolutely you have the right to refuse something which is in the public interest, I have the right to make my own decisions about you based on that. "
So you're actually saying that people cannot have a personal choice? |
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"I wouldn't date an anti vaxxer, that includes people who say 'im not an anti vaxxer, I just know this jab isn't a vaccine and hasn't been tested enough'.
Yeah.
I don't want to be with people who don't agree with my values. No one ever questions "must love dogs", why is "agrees with me on public health" an issue? It's much more important - particularly if you have kids
I agree, it goes beyond "personal choice", which IMO only applies if your decisions do not potentially put others at risk. It's part and parcel of living in a civilised society. Absolutely you have the right to refuse something which is in the public interest, I have the right to make my own decisions about you based on that.
So you're actually saying that people cannot have a personal choice? "
thats not what has been said at all
just that based on that personal choice, they can easily tell they would not be compatible people |
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"I wouldn't date an anti vaxxer, that includes people who say 'im not an anti vaxxer, I just know this jab isn't a vaccine and hasn't been tested enough'.
Yeah.
I don't want to be with people who don't agree with my values. No one ever questions "must love dogs", why is "agrees with me on public health" an issue? It's much more important - particularly if you have kids
I agree, it goes beyond "personal choice", which IMO only applies if your decisions do not potentially put others at risk. It's part and parcel of living in a civilised society. Absolutely you have the right to refuse something which is in the public interest, I have the right to make my own decisions about you based on that.
So you're actually saying that people cannot have a personal choice? "
People have personal choice.
People are allowed to date or not date anyone they want for any reason they want.
I choose not to voluntarily associate with people who have these sorts of attitudes to public health. |
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"I wouldn't date an anti vaxxer, that includes people who say 'im not an anti vaxxer, I just know this jab isn't a vaccine and hasn't been tested enough'.
Yeah.
I don't want to be with people who don't agree with my values. No one ever questions "must love dogs", why is "agrees with me on public health" an issue? It's much more important - particularly if you have kids
I agree, it goes beyond "personal choice", which IMO only applies if your decisions do not potentially put others at risk. It's part and parcel of living in a civilised society. Absolutely you have the right to refuse something which is in the public interest, I have the right to make my own decisions about you based on that.
So you're actually saying that people cannot have a personal choice?
People have personal choice.
People are allowed to date or not date anyone they want for any reason they want.
I choose not to voluntarily associate with people who have these sorts of attitudes to public health."
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"If I was dating I wouldn't really mind if the other person was vaccinated or not.
Yup ^^^^ I'm not going to influence anyone else's health choices about the vaccine or be concerned about it, it's personal choice. "
since this thread was about dating not fucking , and dating often leads to raising a family
if you were one way on the vaccine and your partner the other , both strongly and not because of medical restrictions- how would you deal with that when it cane time for the kids to get theirs?
its for reasons like that, that i see it as way more than did you get a jab in your arm or not. people can get along with different opinions sure, but if you have fundamentally different values and go into a relationship together thats asking for some big problems later down the line |
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"If I was dating I wouldn't really mind if the other person was vaccinated or not.
Yup ^^^^ I'm not going to influence anyone else's health choices about the vaccine or be concerned about it, it's personal choice.
since this thread was about dating not fucking , and dating often leads to raising a family
if you were one way on the vaccine and your partner the other , both strongly and not because of medical restrictions- how would you deal with that when it cane time for the kids to get theirs?
its for reasons like that, that i see it as way more than did you get a jab in your arm or not. people can get along with different opinions sure, but if you have fundamentally different values and go into a relationship together thats asking for some big problems later down the line "
If I was dating I wouldn't be too bothered if the guy had it or not as long as he was sensible day to day.
My husband has had it, I haven't yet and I'm not sure whether I will yet. He had it on Sunday and I was stressing about it massively.
When it comes to our children my 19 year old can decide for himself, the other 2 I'm not keen for them to have it at the moment. It will be a while before they're offered it anyway. |
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"I wouldn't date an anti vaxxer, that includes people who say 'im not an anti vaxxer, I just know this jab isn't a vaccine and hasn't been tested enough'.
Yeah.
I don't want to be with people who don't agree with my values. No one ever questions "must love dogs", why is "agrees with me on public health" an issue? It's much more important - particularly if you have kids
I agree, it goes beyond "personal choice", which IMO only applies if your decisions do not potentially put others at risk. It's part and parcel of living in a civilised society. Absolutely you have the right to refuse something which is in the public interest, I have the right to make my own decisions about you based on that.
So you're actually saying that people cannot have a personal choice?
thats not what has been said at all
just that based on that personal choice, they can easily tell they would not be compatible people "
Seems like you did
"I agree, it goes beyond "personal choice", which IMO only applies if your decisions do not potentially put others at risk." |
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"I wouldn't date an anti vaxxer, that includes people who say 'im not an anti vaxxer, I just know this jab isn't a vaccine and hasn't been tested enough'.
Yeah.
I don't want to be with people who don't agree with my values. No one ever questions "must love dogs", why is "agrees with me on public health" an issue? It's much more important - particularly if you have kids
I agree, it goes beyond "personal choice", which IMO only applies if your decisions do not potentially put others at risk. It's part and parcel of living in a civilised society. Absolutely you have the right to refuse something which is in the public interest, I have the right to make my own decisions about you based on that.
So you're actually saying that people cannot have a personal choice?
People have personal choice.
People are allowed to date or not date anyone they want for any reason they want.
I choose not to voluntarily associate with people who have these sorts of attitudes to public health."
I don't disagree which it appears you think I do. However, as I said, I've had my vaccine and it's fast becoming that the virus is less and less virilant but people are more toxic. Just saying and thus is not aimed at anyone in particular but as a whole |
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