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"So looking around people seem to be pretty open about meeting. Lots of statuses from people looking to meet or talking about a meet they had recently. The government and fabs itself is still under the guise that we shouldn’t be meeting. What’s your thoughts? Personally I feel like this is over. Everyone that’s at risk has pretty much been vaccinated and even just 1 shot seems to provide 80% of the protection. I feel the government is taking this extra slowly to avoid the risk of another lockdown. But I’m looking at the cases/deaths and then going out and see every play park packed to the brim with kids, parents mingling, there’s secret uni parties happening, people on fabs are mixing genitalia. I really feel we could be fully open right now." Go tell boris that in your expert opinion he's dragging his feet  | |||
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"So looking around people seem to be pretty open about meeting. Lots of statuses from people looking to meet or talking about a meet they had recently. The government and fabs itself is still under the guise that we shouldn’t be meeting. What’s your thoughts? Personally I feel like this is over. Everyone that’s at risk has pretty much been vaccinated and even just 1 shot seems to provide 80% of the protection. I feel the government is taking this extra slowly to avoid the risk of another lockdown. But I’m looking at the cases/deaths and then going out and see every play park packed to the brim with kids, parents mingling, there’s secret uni parties happening, people on fabs are mixing genitalia. I really feel we could be fully open right now. Go tell boris that in your expert opinion he's dragging his feet "I’ll be following the rules it’s more the fact that it seems like no rules are being enforced | |||
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"So looking around people seem to be pretty open about meeting. Lots of statuses from people looking to meet or talking about a meet they had recently. The government and fabs itself is still under the guise that we shouldn’t be meeting. What’s your thoughts? Personally I feel like this is over. Everyone that’s at risk has pretty much been vaccinated and even just 1 shot seems to provide 80% of the protection. I feel the government is taking this extra slowly to avoid the risk of another lockdown. But I’m looking at the cases/deaths and then going out and see every play park packed to the brim with kids, parents mingling, there’s secret uni parties happening, people on fabs are mixing genitalia. I really feel we could be fully open right now. Go tell boris that in your expert opinion he's dragging his feet
I’ll be following the rules it’s more the fact that it seems like no rules are being enforced "I've reported a few people that have asked for meets etc. Not sure what happened as I'm sure admin are inundated with similar reports right now. It's something we need to police ourselves as well. Stick to your guns. | |||
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"I have had both injections, am tested twice weekly and can test more as I have a kit at home. For me its time to play" Such a selfish attitude, risking all those who still have not been vaccinated as yet, regardless of vaccination you can still carry and pass this virus on, for us our family's health is far more important! Esp when it comes to a quick bonk! | |||
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"I have had both injections, am tested twice weekly and can test more as I have a kit at home. For me its time to play Such a selfish attitude, risking all those who still have not been vaccinated as yet, regardless of vaccination you can still carry and pass this virus on, for us our family's health is far more important! Esp when it comes to a quick bonk! " Sorry but I have to agree with this...you're protected. What about those of us you could pass it on to? I get the desire to get back into the swing of things but I do think some people are being pretty selfish about it all and just having no regard for others. Lu  | |||
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"I have had both injections, am tested twice weekly and can test more as I have a kit at home. For me its time to play Such a selfish attitude, risking all those who still have not been vaccinated as yet, regardless of vaccination you can still carry and pass this virus on, for us our family's health is far more important! Esp when it comes to a quick bonk! " My understanding so far is that the vaccine also stop transmission according to all the data but they can’t say thaf because they haven’t done a study for it, and they haven’t done a study for it because it’s a very hard study to do ethically | |||
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"Selfish and entitled behaviour and it’s exactly this sort of attitude that led to the most recent lockdown and massive spike at the start of this year. We had this type of message in the autumn, yet here we are. It’s not over yet and it’s incredibly irresponsible to consider meeting others right now" This | |||
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"I have had both injections, am tested twice weekly and can test more as I have a kit at home. For me its time to play Such a selfish attitude, risking all those who still have not been vaccinated as yet, regardless of vaccination you can still carry and pass this virus on, for us our family's health is far more important! Esp when it comes to a quick bonk! My understanding so far is that the vaccine also stop transmission according to all the data but they can’t say thaf because they haven’t done a study for it, and they haven’t done a study for it because it’s a very hard study to do ethically " The vaccine only prevents the vaccinated from becoming seriously ill, you still have a chance of becoming ill just with less serious consequences, however you can still carry this virus! (and this is what the minority seem to forget) and not show symptoms but can still be passing this pathogen on to your loved ones, friends or the general public at large, this will cause the virus to spread and in turn lengthen the restrictions we are all under! Stop being selfish and think of those who have not been vaccinated yet! Then we can all get on with life once this is over! | |||
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" I think you should do whatever you want. No one I personally know Is following the rules. Neighbours, friends and even family. Everyone is meeting up with their kids, neighbours having parties, popping around each other’s houses for a drink... even Meeting for sex. It’s only on fab forums & other forums you get people branding everyone as selfish because they dare to live their life after a year of this shit." I second this. Seems to be a lot of judgemental people on the forums regarding any form of social contact with others. But here in the real world it’s happening as you say. Personally I regard myself as educated and grown up enough to make my own informed decisions. | |||
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" I think you should do whatever you want. No one I personally know Is following the rules. Neighbours, friends and even family. Everyone is meeting up with their kids, neighbours having parties, popping around each other’s houses for a drink... even Meeting for sex. It’s only on fab forums & other forums you get people branding everyone as selfish because they dare to live their life after a year of this shit. I second this. Seems to be a lot of judgemental people on the forums regarding any form of social contact with others. But here in the real world it’s happening as you say. Personally I regard myself as educated and grown up enough to make my own informed decisions. " Same ... but here on the fab virus section you will get called all sorts for not agreeing. | |||
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" I think you should do whatever you want. No one I personally know Is following the rules. Neighbours, friends and even family. Everyone is meeting up with their kids, neighbours having parties, popping around each other’s houses for a drink... even Meeting for sex. It’s only on fab forums & other forums you get people branding everyone as selfish because they dare to live their life after a year of this shit. I second this. Seems to be a lot of judgemental people on the forums regarding any form of social contact with others. But here in the real world it’s happening as you say. Personally I regard myself as educated and grown up enough to make my own informed decisions. Same ... but here on the fab virus section you will get called all sorts for not agreeing. " We're capable of understanding the risks to ourselves and others, as I'd hope most adults are. I'd expect people who don't agree to avoid us, in the same way we avoid people who we don't think we'd sync with. The level of bile and vitriol on the forum's around people's choices is staggering, and totally unwelcome. Fab is supposed to be a fun place, not a shooting gallery. | |||
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" I think you should do whatever you want. No one I personally know Is following the rules. Neighbours, friends and even family. Everyone is meeting up with their kids, neighbours having parties, popping around each other’s houses for a drink... even Meeting for sex. It’s only on fab forums & other forums you get people branding everyone as selfish because they dare to live their life after a year of this shit. I second this. Seems to be a lot of judgemental people on the forums regarding any form of social contact with others. But here in the real world it’s happening as you say. Personally I regard myself as educated and grown up enough to make my own informed decisions. Same ... but here on the fab virus section you will get called all sorts for not agreeing. We're capable of understanding the risks to ourselves and others, as I'd hope most adults are. I'd expect people who don't agree to avoid us, in the same way we avoid people who we don't think we'd sync with. The level of bile and vitriol on the forum's around people's choices is staggering, and totally unwelcome. Fab is supposed to be a fun place, not a shooting gallery. " The issue being we are in a delicate position now ... if you feel casual sex is more important than the economy, people’s jobs, the mental health of the NHS the mental health of kids when residential and transitions are cancelled then you fill your boots For me I’m an adult and casual sex isn’t as important as all those things so let’s get those sorted first. | |||
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" I think you should do whatever you want. No one I personally know Is following the rules. Neighbours, friends and even family. Everyone is meeting up with their kids, neighbours having parties, popping around each other’s houses for a drink... even Meeting for sex. It’s only on fab forums & other forums you get people branding everyone as selfish because they dare to live their life after a year of this shit." Doing what you want will get us in this mess again potentially .. is a quick fuck worth that? | |||
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" I think you should do whatever you want. No one I personally know Is following the rules. Neighbours, friends and even family. Everyone is meeting up with their kids, neighbours having parties, popping around each other’s houses for a drink... even Meeting for sex. It’s only on fab forums & other forums you get people branding everyone as selfish because they dare to live their life after a year of this shit. I second this. Seems to be a lot of judgemental people on the forums regarding any form of social contact with others. But here in the real world it’s happening as you say. Personally I regard myself as educated and grown up enough to make my own informed decisions. Same ... but here on the fab virus section you will get called all sorts for not agreeing. We're capable of understanding the risks to ourselves and others, as I'd hope most adults are. I'd expect people who don't agree to avoid us, in the same way we avoid people who we don't think we'd sync with. The level of bile and vitriol on the forum's around people's choices is staggering, and totally unwelcome. Fab is supposed to be a fun place, not a shooting gallery. The issue being we are in a delicate position now ... if you feel casual sex is more important than the economy, people’s jobs, the mental health of the NHS the mental health of kids when residential and transitions are cancelled then you fill your boots For me I’m an adult and casual sex isn’t as important as all those things so let’s get those sorted first. " This is kind of the point. We're all capable of making the right decisions. Sniping and insulting other people just creates a different problem. For us it's not about meeting it's about having the freedom to make the decision ourselves and allowing others the same courtesy. | |||
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" I think you should do whatever you want. No one I personally know Is following the rules. Neighbours, friends and even family. Everyone is meeting up with their kids, neighbours having parties, popping around each other’s houses for a drink... even Meeting for sex. It’s only on fab forums & other forums you get people branding everyone as selfish because they dare to live their life after a year of this shit. I second this. Seems to be a lot of judgemental people on the forums regarding any form of social contact with others. But here in the real world it’s happening as you say. Personally I regard myself as educated and grown up enough to make my own informed decisions. Same ... but here on the fab virus section you will get called all sorts for not agreeing. We're capable of understanding the risks to ourselves and others, as I'd hope most adults are. I'd expect people who don't agree to avoid us, in the same way we avoid people who we don't think we'd sync with. The level of bile and vitriol on the forum's around people's choices is staggering, and totally unwelcome. Fab is supposed to be a fun place, not a shooting gallery. The issue being we are in a delicate position now ... if you feel casual sex is more important than the economy, people’s jobs, the mental health of the NHS the mental health of kids when residential and transitions are cancelled then you fill your boots For me I’m an adult and casual sex isn’t as important as all those things so let’s get those sorted first. This is kind of the point. We're all capable of making the right decisions. Sniping and insulting other people just creates a different problem. For us it's not about meeting it's about having the freedom to make the decision ourselves and allowing others the same courtesy." It’s not just about you though your decisions keep community transmission too high for people to get their real live back ... not casual sex but important things like money and jobs and mental health. That’s far more important | |||
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" I think you should do whatever you want. No one I personally know Is following the rules. Neighbours, friends and even family. Everyone is meeting up with their kids, neighbours having parties, popping around each other’s houses for a drink... even Meeting for sex. It’s only on fab forums & other forums you get people branding everyone as selfish because they dare to live their life after a year of this shit. I second this. Seems to be a lot of judgemental people on the forums regarding any form of social contact with others. But here in the real world it’s happening as you say. Personally I regard myself as educated and grown up enough to make my own informed decisions. Same ... but here on the fab virus section you will get called all sorts for not agreeing. We're capable of understanding the risks to ourselves and others, as I'd hope most adults are. I'd expect people who don't agree to avoid us, in the same way we avoid people who we don't think we'd sync with. The level of bile and vitriol on the forum's around people's choices is staggering, and totally unwelcome. Fab is supposed to be a fun place, not a shooting gallery. The issue being we are in a delicate position now ... if you feel casual sex is more important than the economy, people’s jobs, the mental health of the NHS the mental health of kids when residential and transitions are cancelled then you fill your boots For me I’m an adult and casual sex isn’t as important as all those things so let’s get those sorted first. This is kind of the point. We're all capable of making the right decisions. Sniping and insulting other people just creates a different problem. For us it's not about meeting it's about having the freedom to make the decision ourselves and allowing others the same courtesy." I agree entirely with you. We can all make our own decisions. And we shouldn’t be sniped at if it differs from the views of others. | |||
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" If people feel happy to meet up they should do so and think we've all had enough of being virtual prisoners and has got to all of us as we think this as a social site more than a sex site so have missed meeting up with our friends and making new ones as well and of course the chance of some sexy fun!! and our biggest worry is what is going to happen after al this is over although it won't be over for a very long time and that's another factor people will have get their heads around ??. And for the ones who think they have no debt to the NHS or it's workers ...and a large portion of you wouldn't even here with out the NHS and yes we all pay in to and the workers get paid ...but still pretty a bargain isn't it ?? and we both know people who live in America and you should see how much it costs to have a baby over there ?? et etc etc "I’ve lived in both the USA and obviously the UK. I think people can be very blinkered into the whole OUR health service is free (which it isn’t) and other countries have to pay therefore ours is better. Do I owe a huge debt to a mechanic I’ve paid when he fixes my car ? Or how about the dentist after I’ve paid him to extract a tooth ? Runumeration settles any debt I feel I should owe | |||
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" If people feel happy to meet up they should do so and think we've all had enough of being virtual prisoners and has got to all of us as we think this as a social site more than a sex site so have missed meeting up with our friends and making new ones as well and of course the chance of some sexy fun!! and our biggest worry is what is going to happen after al this is over although it won't be over for a very long time and that's another factor people will have get their heads around ??. And for the ones who think they have no debt to the NHS or it's workers ...and a large portion of you wouldn't even here with out the NHS and yes we all pay in to and the workers get paid ...but still pretty a bargain isn't it ?? and we both know people who live in America and you should see how much it costs to have a baby over there ?? et etc etc
I’ve lived in both the USA and obviously the UK. I think people can be very blinkered into the whole OUR health service is free (which it isn’t) and other countries have to pay therefore ours is better. Do I owe a huge debt to a mechanic I’ve paid when he fixes my car ? Or how about the dentist after I’ve paid him to extract a tooth ? Runumeration settles any debt I feel I should owe "It’s probably a good thing that the NHS staff don’t put money as the be all and end all you know all those cleaners that have worked through in minimum wage, porters, nurses ...... I wonder what would have happened had they said ‘sod this for £9 an hour I’m off’ .... | |||
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"I guess the bottom line is whether you think your sexual needs re more important than real physical needs of the community. " Unfortunately we always depend on each other - it's just that it's usually not this obvious or difficult | |||
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" I think you should do whatever you want. No one I personally know Is following the rules. Neighbours, friends and even family. Everyone is meeting up with their kids, neighbours having parties, popping around each other’s houses for a drink... even Meeting for sex. It’s only on fab forums & other forums you get people branding everyone as selfish because they dare to live their life after a year of this shit. I second this. Seems to be a lot of judgemental people on the forums regarding any form of social contact with others. But here in the real world it’s happening as you say. Personally I regard myself as educated and grown up enough to make my own informed decisions. Same ... but here on the fab virus section you will get called all sorts for not agreeing. We're capable of understanding the risks to ourselves and others, as I'd hope most adults are. I'd expect people who don't agree to avoid us, in the same way we avoid people who we don't think we'd sync with. The level of bile and vitriol on the forum's around people's choices is staggering, and totally unwelcome. Fab is supposed to be a fun place, not a shooting gallery. The issue being we are in a delicate position now ... if you feel casual sex is more important than the economy, people’s jobs, the mental health of the NHS the mental health of kids when residential and transitions are cancelled then you fill your boots For me I’m an adult and casual sex isn’t as important as all those things so let’s get those sorted first. This is kind of the point. We're all capable of making the right decisions. Sniping and insulting other people just creates a different problem. For us it's not about meeting it's about having the freedom to make the decision ourselves and allowing others the same courtesy. It’s not just about you though your decisions keep community transmission too high for people to get their real live back ... not casual sex but important things like money and jobs and mental health. That’s far more important " The same point of view can be applied to so many things. Speeding in a car, drinking too much when out, making abusive statements online, smoking, overeating, partaking in any extreme sport. They all carry the risk of causing problems or harm to others. How many people who share their opinions on covid can honestly say they've done anything on that tiny list? | |||
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"I guess the bottom line is whether you think your sexual needs re more important than real physical needs of the community. Unfortunately we always depend on each other - it's just that it's usually not this obvious or difficult" Yes I totally agree this year has really shown people in their true colours ...... | |||
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" I think you should do whatever you want. No one I personally know Is following the rules. Neighbours, friends and even family. Everyone is meeting up with their kids, neighbours having parties, popping around each other’s houses for a drink... even Meeting for sex. It’s only on fab forums & other forums you get people branding everyone as selfish because they dare to live their life after a year of this shit. I second this. Seems to be a lot of judgemental people on the forums regarding any form of social contact with others. But here in the real world it’s happening as you say. Personally I regard myself as educated and grown up enough to make my own informed decisions. Same ... but here on the fab virus section you will get called all sorts for not agreeing. We're capable of understanding the risks to ourselves and others, as I'd hope most adults are. I'd expect people who don't agree to avoid us, in the same way we avoid people who we don't think we'd sync with. The level of bile and vitriol on the forum's around people's choices is staggering, and totally unwelcome. Fab is supposed to be a fun place, not a shooting gallery. The issue being we are in a delicate position now ... if you feel casual sex is more important than the economy, people’s jobs, the mental health of the NHS the mental health of kids when residential and transitions are cancelled then you fill your boots For me I’m an adult and casual sex isn’t as important as all those things so let’s get those sorted first. This is kind of the point. We're all capable of making the right decisions. Sniping and insulting other people just creates a different problem. For us it's not about meeting it's about having the freedom to make the decision ourselves and allowing others the same courtesy. It’s not just about you though your decisions keep community transmission too high for people to get their real live back ... not casual sex but important things like money and jobs and mental health. That’s far more important The same point of view can be applied to so many things. Speeding in a car, drinking too much when out, making abusive statements online, smoking, overeating, partaking in any extreme sport. They all carry the risk of causing problems or harm to others. How many people who share their opinions on covid can honestly say they've done anything on that tiny list?" Last time I checked partaking in an extreme sport doesn’t kill anyone else ... unless it’s a team sport abs they are partaking willingly with full agreement. People shagging strangers and passing covid onto others in schools or supermarkets don’t have the agreement of the person they’ve spread it to. | |||
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"I have had both injections, am tested twice weekly and can test more as I have a kit at home. For me its time to play Such a selfish attitude, risking all those who still have not been vaccinated as yet, regardless of vaccination you can still carry and pass this virus on, for us our family's health is far more important! Esp when it comes to a quick bonk! " this | |||
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" I think you should do whatever you want. No one I personally know Is following the rules. Neighbours, friends and even family. Everyone is meeting up with their kids, neighbours having parties, popping around each other’s houses for a drink... even Meeting for sex. It’s only on fab forums & other forums you get people branding everyone as selfish because they dare to live their life after a year of this shit. I second this. Seems to be a lot of judgemental people on the forums regarding any form of social contact with others. But here in the real world it’s happening as you say. Personally I regard myself as educated and grown up enough to make my own informed decisions. Same ... but here on the fab virus section you will get called all sorts for not agreeing. We're capable of understanding the risks to ourselves and others, as I'd hope most adults are. I'd expect people who don't agree to avoid us, in the same way we avoid people who we don't think we'd sync with. The level of bile and vitriol on the forum's around people's choices is staggering, and totally unwelcome. Fab is supposed to be a fun place, not a shooting gallery. The issue being we are in a delicate position now ... if you feel casual sex is more important than the economy, people’s jobs, the mental health of the NHS the mental health of kids when residential and transitions are cancelled then you fill your boots For me I’m an adult and casual sex isn’t as important as all those things so let’s get those sorted first. This is kind of the point. We're all capable of making the right decisions. Sniping and insulting other people just creates a different problem. For us it's not about meeting it's about having the freedom to make the decision ourselves and allowing others the same courtesy. It’s not just about you though your decisions keep community transmission too high for people to get their real live back ... not casual sex but important things like money and jobs and mental health. That’s far more important The same point of view can be applied to so many things. Speeding in a car, drinking too much when out, making abusive statements online, smoking, overeating, partaking in any extreme sport. They all carry the risk of causing problems or harm to others. How many people who share their opinions on covid can honestly say they've done anything on that tiny list? Last time I checked partaking in an extreme sport doesn’t kill anyone else ... unless it’s a team sport abs they are partaking willingly with full agreement. People shagging strangers and passing covid onto others in schools or supermarkets don’t have the agreement of the person they’ve spread it to. " I can't tell if you're deliberately missing the point? Live and let live, happy posting  | |||
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" I think you should do whatever you want. No one I personally know Is following the rules. Neighbours, friends and even family. Everyone is meeting up with their kids, neighbours having parties, popping around each other’s houses for a drink... even Meeting for sex. It’s only on fab forums & other forums you get people branding everyone as selfish because they dare to live their life after a year of this shit. I second this. Seems to be a lot of judgemental people on the forums regarding any form of social contact with others. But here in the real world it’s happening as you say. Personally I regard myself as educated and grown up enough to make my own informed decisions. Same ... but here on the fab virus section you will get called all sorts for not agreeing. We're capable of understanding the risks to ourselves and others, as I'd hope most adults are. I'd expect people who don't agree to avoid us, in the same way we avoid people who we don't think we'd sync with. The level of bile and vitriol on the forum's around people's choices is staggering, and totally unwelcome. Fab is supposed to be a fun place, not a shooting gallery. The issue being we are in a delicate position now ... if you feel casual sex is more important than the economy, people’s jobs, the mental health of the NHS the mental health of kids when residential and transitions are cancelled then you fill your boots For me I’m an adult and casual sex isn’t as important as all those things so let’s get those sorted first. This is kind of the point. We're all capable of making the right decisions. Sniping and insulting other people just creates a different problem. For us it's not about meeting it's about having the freedom to make the decision ourselves and allowing others the same courtesy. It’s not just about you though your decisions keep community transmission too high for people to get their real live back ... not casual sex but important things like money and jobs and mental health. That’s far more important The same point of view can be applied to so many things. Speeding in a car, drinking too much when out, making abusive statements online, smoking, overeating, partaking in any extreme sport. They all carry the risk of causing problems or harm to others. How many people who share their opinions on covid can honestly say they've done anything on that tiny list? Last time I checked partaking in an extreme sport doesn’t kill anyone else ... unless it’s a team sport abs they are partaking willingly with full agreement. People shagging strangers and passing covid onto others in schools or supermarkets don’t have the agreement of the person they’ve spread it to. I can't tell if you're deliberately missing the point? Live and let live, happy posting "What’s your point? The attitude of I can do what I like is more ‘live and kill others’ tbh............ I’d be happy for you to clarify the point as I cannot see how they relate to COVID | |||
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"I am a medical practitioner and know the risks" That makes it even worse if you’re regularly in contact with vulnerable people ... Jesus | |||
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" I think you should do whatever you want. No one I personally know Is following the rules. Neighbours, friends and even family. Everyone is meeting up with their kids, neighbours having parties, popping around each other’s houses for a drink... even Meeting for sex. It’s only on fab forums & other forums you get people branding everyone as selfish because they dare to live their life after a year of this shit. I second this. Seems to be a lot of judgemental people on the forums regarding any form of social contact with others. But here in the real world it’s happening as you say. Personally I regard myself as educated and grown up enough to make my own informed decisions. Same ... but here on the fab virus section you will get called all sorts for not agreeing. We're capable of understanding the risks to ourselves and others, as I'd hope most adults are. I'd expect people who don't agree to avoid us, in the same way we avoid people who we don't think we'd sync with. The level of bile and vitriol on the forum's around people's choices is staggering, and totally unwelcome. Fab is supposed to be a fun place, not a shooting gallery. The issue being we are in a delicate position now ... if you feel casual sex is more important than the economy, people’s jobs, the mental health of the NHS the mental health of kids when residential and transitions are cancelled then you fill your boots For me I’m an adult and casual sex isn’t as important as all those things so let’s get those sorted first. This is kind of the point. We're all capable of making the right decisions. Sniping and insulting other people just creates a different problem. For us it's not about meeting it's about having the freedom to make the decision ourselves and allowing others the same courtesy. It’s not just about you though your decisions keep community transmission too high for people to get their real live back ... not casual sex but important things like money and jobs and mental health. That’s far more important The same point of view can be applied to so many things. Speeding in a car, drinking too much when out, making abusive statements online, smoking, overeating, partaking in any extreme sport. They all carry the risk of causing problems or harm to others. How many people who share their opinions on covid can honestly say they've done anything on that tiny list? Last time I checked partaking in an extreme sport doesn’t kill anyone else ... unless it’s a team sport abs they are partaking willingly with full agreement. People shagging strangers and passing covid onto others in schools or supermarkets don’t have the agreement of the person they’ve spread it to. I can't tell if you're deliberately missing the point? Live and let live, happy posting
What’s your point? The attitude of I can do what I like is more ‘live and kill others’ tbh............ I’d be happy for you to clarify the point as I cannot see how they relate to COVID "The point is, it's not for you to make decisions for me, and vice versa. I'd lay good money that you've done selfish, dangerous things that have affected others negatively, or carried that risk. The difference is you believe you have a safe platform to spray others with spite because this situation applies globally. You'll notice that at no point have I advocated breach of rules, or meeting. I've made the point that my decisions are my own, and I take responsibility for them. You're too eager to jump on a bandwagon that attacks others, rather than caring for your own. Good day! | |||
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" I think you should do whatever you want. No one I personally know Is following the rules. Neighbours, friends and even family. Everyone is meeting up with their kids, neighbours having parties, popping around each other’s houses for a drink... even Meeting for sex. It’s only on fab forums & other forums you get people branding everyone as selfish because they dare to live their life after a year of this shit. I second this. Seems to be a lot of judgemental people on the forums regarding any form of social contact with others. But here in the real world it’s happening as you say. Personally I regard myself as educated and grown up enough to make my own informed decisions. Same ... but here on the fab virus section you will get called all sorts for not agreeing. We're capable of understanding the risks to ourselves and others, as I'd hope most adults are. I'd expect people who don't agree to avoid us, in the same way we avoid people who we don't think we'd sync with. The level of bile and vitriol on the forum's around people's choices is staggering, and totally unwelcome. Fab is supposed to be a fun place, not a shooting gallery. The issue being we are in a delicate position now ... if you feel casual sex is more important than the economy, people’s jobs, the mental health of the NHS the mental health of kids when residential and transitions are cancelled then you fill your boots For me I’m an adult and casual sex isn’t as important as all those things so let’s get those sorted first. This is kind of the point. We're all capable of making the right decisions. Sniping and insulting other people just creates a different problem. For us it's not about meeting it's about having the freedom to make the decision ourselves and allowing others the same courtesy. It’s not just about you though your decisions keep community transmission too high for people to get their real live back ... not casual sex but important things like money and jobs and mental health. That’s far more important The same point of view can be applied to so many things. Speeding in a car, drinking too much when out, making abusive statements online, smoking, overeating, partaking in any extreme sport. They all carry the risk of causing problems or harm to others. How many people who share their opinions on covid can honestly say they've done anything on that tiny list? Last time I checked partaking in an extreme sport doesn’t kill anyone else ... unless it’s a team sport abs they are partaking willingly with full agreement. People shagging strangers and passing covid onto others in schools or supermarkets don’t have the agreement of the person they’ve spread it to. I can't tell if you're deliberately missing the point? Live and let live, happy posting
What’s your point? The attitude of I can do what I like is more ‘live and kill others’ tbh............ I’d be happy for you to clarify the point as I cannot see how they relate to COVID
The point is, it's not for you to make decisions for me, and vice versa. I'd lay good money that you've done selfish, dangerous things that have affected others negatively, or carried that risk. The difference is you believe you have a safe platform to spray others with spite because this situation applies globally. You'll notice that at no point have I advocated breach of rules, or meeting. I've made the point that my decisions are my own, and I take responsibility for them. You're too eager to jump on a bandwagon that attacks others, rather than caring for your own.
Good day!"I’ve not sprayed anyone with spite at all..... I think you have totally missed the point in that your actions affect the community as a whole. I have never even said that I am capable of making decisions for anyone else .... I’ve merely stated the fact that if you meet people for casual sex now then every single person in this country might suffer for a quick shag. I think you’re being particularly sensitive as the truth hurts who knows. | |||
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" I think you should do whatever you want. No one I personally know Is following the rules. Neighbours, friends and even family. Everyone is meeting up with their kids, neighbours having parties, popping around each other’s houses for a drink... even Meeting for sex. It’s only on fab forums & other forums you get people branding everyone as selfish because they dare to live their life after a year of this shit. I second this. Seems to be a lot of judgemental people on the forums regarding any form of social contact with others. But here in the real world it’s happening as you say. Personally I regard myself as educated and grown up enough to make my own informed decisions. Same ... but here on the fab virus section you will get called all sorts for not agreeing. We're capable of understanding the risks to ourselves and others, as I'd hope most adults are. I'd expect people who don't agree to avoid us, in the same way we avoid people who we don't think we'd sync with. The level of bile and vitriol on the forum's around people's choices is staggering, and totally unwelcome. Fab is supposed to be a fun place, not a shooting gallery. The issue being we are in a delicate position now ... if you feel casual sex is more important than the economy, people’s jobs, the mental health of the NHS the mental health of kids when residential and transitions are cancelled then you fill your boots For me I’m an adult and casual sex isn’t as important as all those things so let’s get those sorted first. This is kind of the point. We're all capable of making the right decisions. Sniping and insulting other people just creates a different problem. For us it's not about meeting it's about having the freedom to make the decision ourselves and allowing others the same courtesy." Said person is ALWAYS doing it. Must have some Angel wings tucked away somewhere.. | |||
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" If people feel happy to meet up they should do so and think we've all had enough of being virtual prisoners and has got to all of us as we think this as a social site more than a sex site so have missed meeting up with our friends and making new ones as well and of course the chance of some sexy fun!! and our biggest worry is what is going to happen after al this is over although it won't be over for a very long time and that's another factor people will have get their heads around ??. And for the ones who think they have no debt to the NHS or it's workers ...and a large portion of you wouldn't even here with out the NHS and yes we all pay in to and the workers get paid ...but still pretty a bargain isn't it ?? and we both know people who live in America and you should see how much it costs to have a baby over there ?? et etc etc
I’ve lived in both the USA and obviously the UK. I think people can be very blinkered into the whole OUR health service is free (which it isn’t) and other countries have to pay therefore ours is better. Do I owe a huge debt to a mechanic I’ve paid when he fixes my car ? Or how about the dentist after I’ve paid him to extract a tooth ? Runumeration settles any debt I feel I should owe "I agree with you to some extent but not with regards to any comparison on the cost of healthcare b/w UK and USA. I know people who have had to sell their home to pay for cancer treatment in USA because their unbelievably expensive health insurance still wasn’t enough to pay the bills. People don’t bother going to A&E or call ambulances as they simply cannot afford the bill. Yes we all pay taxes to fund the NHS but nothing like what the real cost to us as an individual should we require treatment. Sadly like any “insurance” it is something we all resent paying every year as we do not need it until (and if) we need it. Luckily universal healthcare regardless of pre-existing conditions is the cornerstone of the NHS. For now! Current Govt would LOVE us to move to USA style insurance - good luck getting sufficient cover or pre-existing/hereditary conditions covered! | |||
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"Having survived over a year of enforced celibacy, I can't see how a few more weeks or even months will possibly harm me or anyone else...... However I can clearly see how a reckless, unnecessary meeting now , could directly hurt, and possibly even kill myself, or someone that I love or care about! Even if it puts people I don't care about, or actually dislike in unnecessary danger it's not worth it.. Ffs people just do an honest cost benefits analysis, and tell me that you honestly think a little legover is worth the potential harm? " People are terrible at calculating risk. | |||
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"People are notoriously bad at risk assessment, which is why when something as catastrophic as the virus is, expertise is used and our democratically elected representatives manage the situation, including imposing restrictions to lifestyles. The desperate who care not for others' wellbeing, seem to be the ones that most need restraint. They will lose out, as their behaviour and choices affect us all in the long term. They will probably still moan and whinge, when they are unable to do things in future, because of their myopic views today. People are being asked to hold fire for 2 months, whilst the few remaining restrictions are cancelled. It's not a tougher 2 months than we've been through, it's an easier 2 months. The infection rates aren't good at present and they could mean that you get a lifelong disability or organ failure, including your brain failing. Use the bit of healthy brain that you have today, to make smart decisions for just a few weeks. The disease isn't 1 that just affects others badly, it can really be you that's left with an impaired quality of life, that - believe me - is worse than a few weeks holding yourself back. Get a grip " All the people that are meeting and doing as they please.... they do know they could catch covid by doing it. They have made their choice and they do their own risk assessment. Just be happy, look out for yourself and get on with your own life instead putting berating others for their choices. | |||
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