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Does anyone know the legality on sex in your own home with people you dont live with these days? I know it's still advised but since it was banned on 1st June I never saw anything to lift it. But people I work with claim it was lifted within a week but couldnt show me evidence so just want to find out the facts since I cant find them when I search myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it wasnt actually a law about having sex, it was a law about visitors and overnight stays in your home ... maybe you can find it that way, pretty sure the bubble regulations that have come later must have superseded it |
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"it wasnt actually a law about having sex, it was a law about visitors and overnight stays in your home ... maybe you can find it that way, pretty sure the bubble regulations that have come later must have superseded it "
It wasnt about sex but sex was listed. But from what I've been told it had become completely legal regardless from the bubble regulations. Which to me was wrong anyway but multiple people had said it |
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"Does anyone know the legality on sex in your own home with people you dont live with these days? I know it's still advised but since it was banned on 1st June I never saw anything to lift it. But people I work with claim it was lifted within a week but couldnt show me evidence so just want to find out the facts since I cant find them when I search myself."
It's all bullshit, if you can find someone who wants to have sex then do what you think is right for you. |
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"it wasnt actually a law about having sex, it was a law about visitors and overnight stays in your home ... maybe you can find it that way, pretty sure the bubble regulations that have come later must have superseded it
It wasnt about sex but sex was listed. But from what I've been told it had become completely legal regardless from the bubble regulations. Which to me was wrong anyway but multiple people had said it"
sex wasnt listed that was tabloid click bait to sell papers
i would ignore what “multiple people” are saying too its all she said he said
reality is nobody is being prosecuted for consensual sex at home because of covid but if you want to keep yourself right check the current guidelines published by government |
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"If you don’t live in the same household you need to practise social distancing id say that’s pretty clear that sex with randoms or FWBs or anyone you don’t live with is off the cards. "
If you live alone you can add one person to your 'bubble' provided they're social distancing from others, I think.
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By *acplayMan
over a year ago
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Surely its about common sense, accountability and tracking. Bubbles allow for over night stays and within them contact as far as im aware is now allowed,mind not sure how many bubbles you can be part of... |
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"If you don’t live in the same household you need to practise social distancing id say that’s pretty clear that sex with randoms or FWBs or anyone you don’t live with is off the cards.
If you live alone you can add one person to your 'bubble' provided they're social distancing from others, I think.
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Yes sorry a support bubble is seen as one household. |
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"No one is going to get arrested for having consensual sex in their homes, no matter what the guidelines say."
Pretty damn selfish though surely we want to get rid of this thing for all our sakes not bend the rules do get your dick wet  |
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"Surely its about common sense, accountability and tracking. Bubbles allow for over night stays and within them contact as far as im aware is now allowed,mind not sure how many bubbles you can be part of... "
You can be part of one bubble only |
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"No one is going to get arrested for having consensual sex in their homes, no matter what the guidelines say.
Pretty damn selfish though surely we want to get rid of this thing for all our sakes not bend the rules do get your dick wet "
Just pointing out reality. If you want to believe it’s not going on I’ll leave you to it. |
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"No one is going to get arrested for having consensual sex in their homes, no matter what the guidelines say.
Pretty damn selfish though surely we want to get rid of this thing for all our sakes not bend the rules do get your dick wet
Just pointing out reality. If you want to believe it’s not going on I’ll leave you to it."
Oh god it’s definitely going on just need to look at local updates and all the fab straight men hunting for blow jobs to know that. Doesn’t make them any less selfish though ..... |
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"No one is going to get arrested for having consensual sex in their homes, no matter what the guidelines say.
Pretty damn selfish though surely we want to get rid of this thing for all our sakes not bend the rules do get your dick wet
Just pointing out reality. If you want to believe it’s not going on I’ll leave you to it."
And we will all be long dead before Covid 19 is a thing of the past.
You can wait if you want to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone know the legality on sex in your own home with people you dont live with these days? I know it's still advised but since it was banned on 1st June I never saw anything to lift it. But people I work with claim it was lifted within a week but couldnt show me evidence so just want to find out the facts since I cant find them when I search myself."
In answer to the question, rather than any moral debate, the law changed again on the 4th July. It is perfectly legal, but contrary to the guidelines, to have people over to your house and not socially distance at all.
Whether you choose to follow the guidelines is up to you to decide. You can either look up Hansard for the PM's speech or House of Commons Library for the legislation and regulations in full. |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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"If you don’t live in the same household you need to practise social distancing id say that’s pretty clear that sex with randoms or FWBs or anyone you don’t live with is off the cards. "
Obviously this did not apply to Professor Neil Ferguson and his extra marital trysts with his lover during Lockdown |
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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago
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"Surely its about common sense, accountability and tracking. Bubbles allow for over night stays and within them contact as far as im aware is now allowed,mind not sure how many bubbles you can be part of... "
only 1
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything goes apart from anal, fisting, piss play, fetching, space docking, soggy biscuit contests. Apart from that your good to go."
I think the visitor has to be willing also! |
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"Anything goes apart from anal, fisting, piss play, fetching, space docking, soggy biscuit contests. Apart from that your good to go.
I think the visitor has to be willing also!"
So 'Do unto others as you would hath done unto you' Doesn't apply then?  |
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"Anything goes apart from anal, fisting, piss play, fetching, space docking, soggy biscuit contests. Apart from that your good to go.
I think the visitor has to be willing also!"
Well thats pretty obvious, the law hasn't changed on that part. |
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"Surely its about common sense, accountability and tracking. Bubbles allow for over night stays and within them contact as far as im aware is now allowed,mind not sure how many bubbles you can be part of... "
Seems more like foam than a bubble for a lot of people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone know the legality on sex in your own home with people you dont live with these days? I know it's still advised but since it was banned on 1st June I never saw anything to lift it. But people I work with claim it was lifted within a week but couldnt show me evidence so just want to find out the facts since I cant find them when I search myself."
Everybody in your work-place has been shagging but not you!
You are making them feel guilty haha
Are you working in Rochdale, cos that'll answer why the covid rate is high!
Gulp
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over a year ago
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"If you don’t live in the same household you need to practise social distancing id say that’s pretty clear that sex with randoms or FWBs or anyone you don’t live with is off the cards. "
It's depressing how many people deliberately misunderstand. |
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"Surely its about common sense, accountability and tracking. Bubbles allow for over night stays and within them contact as far as im aware is now allowed,mind not sure how many bubbles you can be part of...
Seems more like foam than a bubble for a lot of people"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people are getting to the point where they are going to say fuck it, I'm going to do what I want to do.
Sod the virus and sod the government.
They cant lock us down forever. |
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"I think people are getting to the point where they are going to say fuck it, I'm going to do what I want to do.
Sod the virus and sod the government.
They cant lock us down forever."
There some people love being locked down, being told what to do quite prepared to give up there freedom |
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"Does anyone know the legality on sex in your own home with people you dont live with these days? I know it's still advised but since it was banned on 1st June I never saw anything to lift it. But people I work with claim it was lifted within a week but couldnt show me evidence so just want to find out the facts since I cant find them when I search myself.
Everybody in your work-place has been shagging but not you!
You are making them feel guilty haha
Are you working in Rochdale, cos that'll answer why the covid rate is high!
Gulp
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As a matter of fact I am hahaha |
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"Does anyone know the legality on sex in your own home with people you dont live with these days? I know it's still advised but since it was banned on 1st June I never saw anything to lift it. But people I work with claim it was lifted within a week but couldnt show me evidence so just want to find out the facts since I cant find them when I search myself.
In answer to the question, rather than any moral debate, the law changed again on the 4th July. It is perfectly legal, but contrary to the guidelines, to have people over to your house and not socially distance at all.
Whether you choose to follow the guidelines is up to you to decide. You can either look up Hansard for the PM's speech or House of Commons Library for the legislation and regulations in full."
Thanks  makes more sense now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think people are getting to the point where they are going to say fuck it, I'm going to do what I want to do.
Sod the virus and sod the government.
They cant lock us down forever."
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"No one is going to get arrested for having consensual sex in their homes, no matter what the guidelines say.
Pretty damn selfish though surely we want to get rid of this thing for all our sakes not bend the rules do get your dick wet
Just pointing out reality. If you want to believe it’s not going on I’ll leave you to it.
Oh god it’s definitely going on just need to look at local updates and all the fab straight men hunting for blow jobs to know that. Doesn’t make them any less selfish though ..... "
In terms of risk and transmission something like going to the gym potentially carries more risk than sex between two people. Being in a busy, indoors place with potential to infect multiple people at once.... Is going to the gym selfish?
How about sex between a married couple who don’t live together but have been unable to form a support bubble. Is this selfish? This could be a drop on the ocean as compared with a superspreader event within the guidelines such as a bar night or a gym visit
As soon as orgasms are involved perceptions of risk seem to be elevated and people are demonised
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"No one is going to get arrested for having consensual sex in their homes, no matter what the guidelines say.
Pretty damn selfish though surely we want to get rid of this thing for all our sakes not bend the rules do get your dick wet
Just pointing out reality. If you want to believe it’s not going on I’ll leave you to it.
Oh god it’s definitely going on just need to look at local updates and all the fab straight men hunting for blow jobs to know that. Doesn’t make them any less selfish though .....
In terms of risk and transmission something like going to the gym potentially carries more risk than sex between two people. Being in a busy, indoors place with potential to infect multiple people at once.... Is going to the gym selfish?
How about sex between a married couple who don’t live together but have been unable to form a support bubble. Is this selfish? This could be a drop on the ocean as compared with a superspreader event within the guidelines such as a bar night or a gym visit
As soon as orgasms are involved perceptions of risk seem to be elevated and people are demonised
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This is one area where the ‘rules’ are very clear ..... sec isn’t essential to life no matter what anyone thinks. Following the guidelines means the more vulnerable in society are less likely to die. As for the gym that is socially distanced so I would think less risky than a snog or face to face anything. Unless you’re talking glory holes. |
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"I think people are getting to the point where they are going to say fuck it, I'm going to do what I want to do.
Sod the virus and sod the government.
They cant lock us down forever."
The more people bend the rules the slower the rate is going to reduce and the longer it will last surely. |
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"I think people are getting to the point where they are going to say fuck it, I'm going to do what I want to do.
Sod the virus and sod the government.
They cant lock us down forever.
The more people bend the rules the slower the rate is going to reduce and the longer it will last surely. "
Lockdown ,rules are not a cure just delay ,there may never be a antidote |
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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Does anyone know the legality on sex in your own home with people you dont live with these days? I know it's still advised but since it was banned on 1st June I never saw anything to lift it. But people I work with claim it was lifted within a week but couldnt show me evidence so just want to find out the facts since I cant find them when I search myself.
It's all bullshit, if you can find someone who wants to have sex then do what you think is right for you."
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"No one is going to get arrested for having consensual sex in their homes, no matter what the guidelines say.
Pretty damn selfish though surely we want to get rid of this thing for all our sakes not bend the rules do get your dick wet
Just pointing out reality. If you want to believe it’s not going on I’ll leave you to it.
Oh god it’s definitely going on just need to look at local updates and all the fab straight men hunting for blow jobs to know that. Doesn’t make them any less selfish though .....
In terms of risk and transmission something like going to the gym potentially carries more risk than sex between two people. Being in a busy, indoors place with potential to infect multiple people at once.... Is going to the gym selfish?
How about sex between a married couple who don’t live together but have been unable to form a support bubble. Is this selfish? This could be a drop on the ocean as compared with a superspreader event within the guidelines such as a bar night or a gym visit
As soon as orgasms are involved perceptions of risk seem to be elevated and people are demonised
This is one area where the ‘rules’ are very clear ..... sec isn’t essential to life no matter what anyone thinks. Following the guidelines means the more vulnerable in society are less likely to die. As for the gym that is socially distanced so I would think less risky than a snog or face to face anything. Unless you’re talking glory holes. "
you are completely wrong in so many ways here which i think you partly knew already ... for example when you say the “rules” are very clear why use inverted commas around rules if not suggesting that they are something a bit more opaque than rules (which already makes it unclear... is it a guideline is it a law etc)
also your post suggests sex has been not allowed but sex itself is not specifically banned... people in a household can have sex, people in a bubble can have sex , the ban is not a sexual ban
people outwith that are advised to maintain social distance but this is not a section of the rules for sex its about distance full stop and therefore also about hugs etc which people are breaking constantly ... my entire facebook thread is littered with people having garden parties posing for photos cuddled in together but thinking its ok because they are outside (and no definitely not same household or bubble)
also sex isn’t essential to life no matter what anyone thinks i assume you missed out the word recreational because otherwise you might need to revisit biology |
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"No one is going to get arrested for having consensual sex in their homes, no matter what the guidelines say.
Pretty damn selfish though surely we want to get rid of this thing for all our sakes not bend the rules do get your dick wet
Just pointing out reality. If you want to believe it’s not going on I’ll leave you to it.
Oh god it’s definitely going on just need to look at local updates and all the fab straight men hunting for blow jobs to know that. Doesn’t make them any less selfish though .....
In terms of risk and transmission something like going to the gym potentially carries more risk than sex between two people. Being in a busy, indoors place with potential to infect multiple people at once.... Is going to the gym selfish?
How about sex between a married couple who don’t live together but have been unable to form a support bubble. Is this selfish? This could be a drop on the ocean as compared with a superspreader event within the guidelines such as a bar night or a gym visit
As soon as orgasms are involved perceptions of risk seem to be elevated and people are demonised
This is one area where the ‘rules’ are very clear ..... sec isn’t essential to life no matter what anyone thinks. Following the guidelines means the more vulnerable in society are less likely to die. As for the gym that is socially distanced so I would think less risky than a snog or face to face anything. Unless you’re talking glory holes.
you are completely wrong in so many ways here which i think you partly knew already ... for example when you say the “rules” are very clear why use inverted commas around rules if not suggesting that they are something a bit more opaque than rules (which already makes it unclear... is it a guideline is it a law etc)
also your post suggests sex has been not allowed but sex itself is not specifically banned... people in a household can have sex, people in a bubble can have sex , the ban is not a sexual ban
people outwith that are advised to maintain social distance but this is not a section of the rules for sex its about distance full stop and therefore also about hugs etc which people are breaking constantly ... my entire facebook thread is littered with people having garden parties posing for photos cuddled in together but thinking its ok because they are outside (and no definitely not same household or bubble)
also sex isn’t essential to life no matter what anyone thinks i assume you missed out the word recreational because otherwise you might need to revisit biology "
Yes recreational sex - on a swingers site I kind of assume that’s the kind we were discussing. I guess the key to the clarity is whether you follow the guidelines the reason for the inverted commas is because none of them are legally enforceable people are either responsible and follow them or they aren’t and they don’t. If you are allowed within guidelines to be within 2m (or 1m I forget where we are now) then sex is all systems go if you can’t within the guidelines me closer than 1 or 2m then no sex. I really don’t see how it’s unclear but I then some people with always manipulate the guidelines to suit themselves. |
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"Anything goes apart from anal, fisting, piss play, fetching, space docking, soggy biscuit contests. Apart from that your good to go."
You've got to many boundries... |
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"Anything goes apart from anal, fisting, piss play, fetching, space docking, soggy biscuit contests. Apart from that your good to go.
You've got to many boundries... "
No soggy biscuits, no fun!  |
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"I think people are getting to the point where they are going to say fuck it, I'm going to do what I want to do.
Sod the virus and sod the government.
They cant lock us down forever.
The more people bend the rules the slower the rate is going to reduce and the longer it will last surely. "
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"2 metre penises with appropriate condoms would be an evolutionary development to cope with C19 given a few thousand years.
Makes the whole subject of safe sex a strange affair. "
I think the adaptive evolutionary benefit would from those who travel to countries with smaller social distancing limits, giving guys with smaller cocks abilities to pass on their genes. |
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"No one is going to get arrested for having consensual sex in their homes, no matter what the guidelines say.
Pretty damn selfish though surely we want to get rid of this thing for all our sakes not bend the rules do get your dick wet "
Lots of people on here are meeting for sex! We will have a second wave because of it. |
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"Does anyone know the legality on sex in your own home with people you dont live with these days? I know it's still advised but since it was banned on 1st June I never saw anything to lift it. But people I work with claim it was lifted within a week but couldnt show me evidence so just want to find out the facts since I cant find them when I search myself."
What, sex in your own home isn’t allowed!? That’s criminal!! |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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"No one is going to get arrested for having consensual sex in their homes, no matter what the guidelines say.
Pretty damn selfish though surely we want to get rid of this thing for all our sakes not bend the rules do get your dick wet
Lots of people on here are meeting for sex! We will have a second wave because of it. "
If people flocking onto beaches or crowding into mass demonstrations or onto overcrowded trains/buses hasn't caused one I doubt very much that a bit of nookie will. |
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"Does anyone know the legality on sex in your own home with people you dont live with these days? I know it's still advised but since it was banned on 1st June I never saw anything to lift it. But people I work with claim it was lifted within a week but couldnt show me evidence so just want to find out the facts since I cant find them when I search myself.
It's all bullshit, if you can find someone who wants to have sex then do what you think is right for you."
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Against guidelines but not illegal to my knowledge.
We are certainly at the point where if it comes up we arent going to turn down a play session we both want for the sake of the guidelines. We could be in this same position for the next decade or multiple decades. We'll take our chances, life is full of risk. |
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I had it confirmed by the Scottish Government when i asked them what powers they had as public servants to tell home owners what to do in their own private homes, answer wad they are mere guidelines which cannot be enforced. Anybody require a copy feel free to pm me |
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