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When will it be safe to meet again?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm sure this has been asked a million times, but given Boris, Hancock et al are unlikely to announce that swinging is now out of lockdown we need to make our own judgement..
Do we wait for Fabs to lift the no meeting ban?
Do we wait until a vaccine has been proven and available?
Do we wait until the number of daily new cases hits zero?
Or do we wear rubber on all extremities and take the risk now? |
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"I'm sure this has been asked a million times, but given Boris, Hancock et al are unlikely to announce that swinging is now out of lockdown we need to make our own judgement..
Do we wait for Fabs to lift the no meeting ban?
Do we wait until a vaccine has been proven and available?
Do we wait until the number of daily new cases hits zero?
Or do we wear rubber on all extremities and take the risk now?"
I believe that Fab will keep their restrictions until the government has removed ALL restrictions. Ultimately, swinging involves close physical contact with people from other "bubbles", especially in the clubs. This could result in dozens of different bubbles cross contaminating each other... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sure this has been asked a million times, but given Boris, Hancock et al are unlikely to announce that swinging is now out of lockdown we need to make our own judgement..
Do we wait for Fabs to lift the no meeting ban?
Do we wait until a vaccine has been proven and available?
Do we wait until the number of daily new cases hits zero?
Or do we wear rubber on all extremities and take the risk now?
I believe that Fab will keep their restrictions until the government has removed ALL restrictions. Ultimately, swinging involves close physical contact with people from other "bubbles", especially in the clubs. This could result in dozens of different bubbles cross contaminating each other..."
End of next year at the earliest then? ;( |
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potentially It is never safe to meet, you will always spread something from person to person, from a common cold to something serious its all a risk you take, its when you deem it an acceptable risk.
So government wording on lifting the close contact restrictions shall be interesting as they cannot claim it is "safe" again |
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We've only been having safer sex, not safe sex, for quite a few years now. When we restart sex from this point, it won't be safe either. The new safer sex won't be quite as safe as it was though.
We will perhaps start forming new bubbles |
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"I'm sure this has been asked a million times, but given Boris, Hancock et al are unlikely to announce that swinging is now out of lockdown we need to make our own judgement..
Do we wait for Fabs to lift the no meeting ban?
Do we wait until a vaccine has been proven and available?
Do we wait until the number of daily new cases hits zero?
Or do we wear rubber on all extremities and take the risk now?
I believe that Fab will keep their restrictions until the government has removed ALL restrictions. Ultimately, swinging involves close physical contact with people from other "bubbles", especially in the clubs. This could result in dozens of different bubbles cross contaminating each other...
End of next year at the earliest then? ;("
Christmas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure this has been asked a million times, but given Boris, Hancock et al are unlikely to announce that swinging is now out of lockdown we need to make our own judgement..
Do we wait for Fabs to lift the no meeting ban?
Do we wait until a vaccine has been proven and available?
Do we wait until the number of daily new cases hits zero?
Or do we wear rubber on all extremities and take the risk now?
I believe that Fab will keep their restrictions until the government has removed ALL restrictions. Ultimately, swinging involves close physical contact with people from other "bubbles", especially in the clubs. This could result in dozens of different bubbles cross contaminating each other...
End of next year at the earliest then? ;(
Christmas"
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
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I always said the earliest reopening of parties would be NYE. But I dont think that'll happen now in all honesty.
I guess in the end it's going to come down to individuals to manage the risks as they see fit. Depending on their location,etc. The type of meet, the amount of people. That sort of thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They can't social distance when the schools reopen in September.. There has to be some kind of trial period to bring back gatherings.. Rumours that reducedfootball crowds will be back in September /Oct.. Will that be done sort of signal?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find this decision a real difficulty. I think 1-1 you can make a bubble ie if fwb. But personally I wouldn’t feel safe to meet more than that for quite some time. Once I’m vaccinated I would consider meets and only then. |
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It looks like snooker at Sheffield end of July could be the first indoor event with a crowd, all be it not crammed full, from what I can gather they are selling tickets in group bubbles of four, probably spaced two empty seats apart, single and pair tix may go on sale closer to the day to fill upto agreed limit, it's a good start, and definitely better than empty. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sure this has been asked a million times, but given Boris, Hancock et al are unlikely to announce that swinging is now out of lockdown we need to make our own judgement..
Do we wait for Fabs to lift the no meeting ban?
Do we wait until a vaccine has been proven and available?
Do we wait until the number of daily new cases hits zero?
Or do we wear rubber on all extremities and take the risk now?
I believe that Fab will keep their restrictions until the government has removed ALL restrictions. Ultimately, swinging involves close physical contact with people from other "bubbles", especially in the clubs. This could result in dozens of different bubbles cross contaminating each other...
End of next year at the earliest then? ;(
Christmas
Santa’s Cummings"
There's an idea for my next username lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It could be 10 or more years. I think the quicker we become in terms with and getting used to being asexual the better as it will become the new norm too. |
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"It could be 10 or more years. I think the quicker we become in terms with and getting used to being asexual the better as it will become the new norm too."
So you think the new norm will be everyone being asexual?? Mmmm being asexual isn’t a choice!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It could be 10 or more years. I think the quicker we become in terms with and getting used to being asexual the better as it will become the new norm too.
So you think the new norm will be everyone being asexual?? Mmmm being asexual isn’t a choice!! "
Yes I think so whilst masterbation will and have increased since the lockdown by 100% lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think a vaccine will arrove anytime soon if at all in our lifetime.They will find ways of controlling it with certain medication as they have done with other viruses but finding a vaccine to eradicate covid will be near impossible. Things will relax as time moves on and they find preventitive drugs which once someone is infected eleviates the sickness. People will meet for sex, you can't stop human nature but I think certain restrictions will remain in place for nightclub life in particular for a good while yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe swinging will go back to being small get togethers after dinner with just close friends?
I shall dust off the fondue and plant out the pampass grass.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It could be 10 or more years. I think the quicker we become in terms with and getting used to being asexual the better as it will become the new norm too.
So you think the new norm will be everyone being asexual?? Mmmm being asexual isn’t a choice!! Yes I think so whilst masterbation will and have increased since the lockdown by 100% lol "
Haha some of population being asexual and the rest wanking furiously and depleting the world's spunk reserves. It is the end of the world ha!! |
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"It could be 10 or more years. I think the quicker we become in terms with and getting used to being asexual the better as it will become the new norm too.
So you think the new norm will be everyone being asexual?? Mmmm being asexual isn’t a choice!! Yes I think so whilst masterbation will and have increased since the lockdown by 100% lol "
SMH.. you are born asexual like the same as being born gay or lesbian its not a lifestyle choice a pandemic won’t turn you asexual!!
As for wankers well you become one of them!! |
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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago
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"They can't social distance when the schools reopen in September.. There has to be some kind of trial period to bring back gatherings.. Rumours that reducedfootball crowds will be back in September /Oct.. Will that be done sort of signal?
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It was announced today - 17% capacity at best at football grounds from October so not sure where anyone thinks social distancing is going this year? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It could be 10 or more years. I think the quicker we become in terms with and getting used to being asexual the better as it will become the new norm too.
So you think the new norm will be everyone being asexual?? Mmmm being asexual isn’t a choice!! Yes I think so whilst masterbation will and have increased since the lockdown by 100% lol
Haha some of population being asexual and the rest wanking furiously and depleting the world's spunk reserves. It is the end of the world ha!! "
Yes it might be that too lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It could be 10 or more years. I think the quicker we become in terms with and getting used to being asexual the better as it will become the new norm too.
So you think the new norm will be everyone being asexual?? Mmmm being asexual isn’t a choice!! Yes I think so whilst masterbation will and have increased since the lockdown by 100% lol
SMH.. you are born asexual like the same as being born gay or lesbian its not a lifestyle choice a pandemic won’t turn you asexual!!
As for wankers well you become one of them!!"
That is right too, but cant you develop a asexual state as you become less interested in sex, or is it called something else there? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It could be 10 or more years. I think the quicker we become in terms with and getting used to being asexual the better as it will become the new norm too.
So you think the new norm will be everyone being asexual?? Mmmm being asexual isn’t a choice!! Yes I think so whilst masterbation will and have increased since the lockdown by 100% lol
SMH.. you are born asexual like the same as being born gay or lesbian its not a lifestyle choice a pandemic won’t turn you asexual!!
As for wankers well you become one of them!!That is right too, but cant you develop a asexual state as you become less interested in sex, or is it called something else there? "
That might be old age syndrome ha!! |
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By *7mutleyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"They can't social distance when the schools reopen in September.. There has to be some kind of trial period to bring back gatherings.. Rumours that reducedfootball crowds will be back in September /Oct.. Will that be done sort of signal?
Nothing has been announced, the last figures in taljs between prem league and government the attendance of grounds will be 30 to 40% of capacity. No further statement has been released.
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It was announced today - 17% capacity at best at football grounds from October so not sure where anyone thinks social distancing is going this year? "
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"I'm sure this has been asked a million times, but given Boris, Hancock et al are unlikely to announce that swinging is now out of lockdown we need to make our own judgement..
Do we wait for Fabs to lift the no meeting ban?
Do we wait until a vaccine has been proven and available?
Do we wait until the number of daily new cases hits zero?
Or do we wear rubber on all extremities and take the risk now?"
We're all grown ups, make your decision based on yourself and those you wish to engage with using common sense
There are many options you are "allowed" to do |
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By *zCaTzZWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm sure this has been asked a million times, but given Boris, Hancock et al are unlikely to announce that swinging is now out of lockdown we need to make our own judgement..
Do we wait for Fabs to lift the no meeting ban?
Do we wait until a vaccine has been proven and available?
Do we wait until the number of daily new cases hits zero?
Or do we wear rubber on all extremities and take the risk now?"
I wont feel safe until there are no new cases for at least 2 weeks ... I think trust ur instinct my instinct says ... no new cases for 2 weeks .. but there again i havr underlying health issues  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It could be 10 or more years. I think the quicker we become in terms with and getting used to being asexual the better as it will become the new norm too.
So you think the new norm will be everyone being asexual?? Mmmm being asexual isn’t a choice!! Yes I think so whilst masterbation will and have increased since the lockdown by 100% lol
SMH.. you are born asexual like the same as being born gay or lesbian its not a lifestyle choice a pandemic won’t turn you asexual!!
As for wankers well you become one of them!!That is right too, but cant you develop a asexual state as you become less interested in sex, or is it called something else there?
That might be old age syndrome ha!! "
Yes, it might be that too lol. |
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"I'm sure this has been asked a million times, but given Boris, Hancock et al are unlikely to announce that swinging is now out of lockdown we need to make our own judgement..
Do we wait for Fabs to lift the no meeting ban?
Do we wait until a vaccine has been proven and available?
Do we wait until the number of daily new cases hits zero?
Or do we wear rubber on all extremities and take the risk now?
I wont feel safe until there are no new cases for at least 2 weeks ... I think trust ur instinct my instinct says ... no new cases for 2 weeks .. but there again i havr underlying health issues "
In that case 2 weeks probably won't be nearly enough, no people testing positive doesn't mean there are no positives, most people will have mild or no symptoms and won't get tested. People have openly stated here that they won't get tested becauae they can't afford to live for two weeks on sick pay. |
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Ultimately we as swingers better positioned than most to understand risks involved with close contact with others cpls meeting cpls or singles meeting cpls or singles it’s always a risk for us it’s no kissing others at minute but apart from usual precautions and a good wash and sanitise we good to go but we don’t meet many people or that often so we are happy with that! V loves wearing a mask for fun anyway  |
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I feel that once the government deems it safe enough for nightclubs to be open, most clubs should fall into that category. Close and physical contact can't be avoided in any of these situations. It would be then down to people's own personal discretion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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guess everyone has to make up their own minds
quite a few on here seem meeting is worth the risk and that this is all a conspiracy anyway
cant see clubs properly opening any time soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe swinging will go back to being small get togethers after dinner with just close friends?
I shall dust off the fondue and plant out the pampass grass. "
That made me laugh...
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"Maybe swinging will go back to being small get togethers after dinner with just close friends?
I shall dust off the fondue and plant out the pampass grass.
That made me laugh...
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Made me laugh as well. Perhaps we shall all go back to putting car keys in bowls as well? |
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I have waited patiently for four months ,never been celibate so long it's been hard
When the new rules of sleepovers came into effect,I decided to go into a bubble the following weekend
I did a risk assessment:-
*Not meeting new guys at all till social distancing and all rules end,however long it takes (hence hidden profile I'm not looking for new meets)
*Only meeting established
fuckbuddies I had before covid,I know well and trust
*14 days between meets
*both of us were covid tested before first meet (I get weekly tests,obviously not everybody is able to do that,but my results are reassuring for them)
I'm minimizing risks and following rules,and very happy to be seeing people,other than just work and family,its not just sex I've missed,its the social side too
I won't be returning to my partying mode,till rules are complete history,so I shall be waiting a long time for that,which is not a problem to me |
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"I feel that once the government deems it safe enough for nightclubs to be open, most clubs should fall into that category. Close and physical contact can't be avoided in any of these situations. It would be then down to people's own personal discretion."
First sensible post here  |
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"I'm sure this has been asked a million times, but given Boris, Hancock et al are unlikely to announce that swinging is now out of lockdown we need to make our own judgement..
Do we wait for Fabs to lift the no meeting ban?
Do we wait until a vaccine has been proven and available?
Do we wait until the number of daily new cases hits zero?
Or do we wear rubber on all extremities and take the risk now?"
Save ?
Never. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People are idiots.
It's never going away but it's EXAGERATED anyway.
So I hysterical women saying "not meeting till this is over"
They are never going to go out untill they finally admit they are being hysterical.
I go to the pub and stuff. I am a key worker. I've got bigger problems than covid19.
People who worry about covid19 don't have real things to worry about.
I want to meet women right now. I won't wait forever.
I am too smart with mathmatics. The fake figures etc...it's all nonsence.
My mum is the expert. She started with tuberculosis in the 70s and now is leading this situation.
She's just forced to do as the nhs dictates even though it's destroying our country really over a mild illness.
45,000 ÷ 66,000 ,000
295 ,000 ÷ 66,000,000
2000 deaths on Friday but only 6 covid deaths
96% of covid deaths are over 45 years old
The nation has whipped itself into irrational hysteria...
Don't you dare say I am not "frount like essential key worker"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have thought about this
And think personally in September when the kids Go back to school i will start meeting again but be very selective perhaps get a regular lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people should date.
I don't believe in the laws stopping people.
Personally I only want a relationship. I am not intrested in hooking up.
But yeh...hooking up and swinging would be risky and unadvisable but I don't thik you should be forced not to.
I wouldn't do it but I want to meet a soul mate domme woman. If I arrange then to go for a walk/meal with a woman like that then I think it's worth it.
Swinging is more needless. It's like when I lived/worked in pattaya. But it's not as good.
If I really liked sex that much I would just go back to teaching abroad (I mean fucking mums)
The local women literally had sex with me for airconditioning. I didn't need to make any advances because they just followed me/knocked on my door.
....anyway...shagging randomers is fun but it's "non essential"
I think it's essential for a mature kinky guy like me to have romance though. |
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By *andR510Couple
over a year ago
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common sense is the way forward. Boris and co are acting on best guess information and its constantly being contradictory.
Wear a mask, don't wear a mask, wear a mask again...
Living your life on the basis that there's a very small risk of death from a virus is down to the individual person. I fully respect that people are still worried about meeting, but I also believe (like many others), that its time to move on in all walks of life including swinging, clubs, parties etc.
Make your own risk assessment and go from there.
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