I'd probably attend although might limit my time there, subject to how things were. If there's a lot of space being kept between people it would be safer and with an outdors setting it should be much safer than indoors |
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over a year ago
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If you can go to a pub with up to 30 people in the garden then I don't see any reason why not (not saying you go to pubs btw) as long as you stick to guidelines, its my son's 18th birthday in two weeks, I will be popping by, won't stay long but wouldn't miss it.
Danish x |
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By *Wman15Man
over a year ago
Altrincham |
Are we invited then?
Will there be jelly and ice cream?
I would definitely go if I were you. Outside activities carry minimal risk and feel good events like this are definitely good for everyone |
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"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there
Would you attend
Not sure if it’s worth the risk or even if it’s allowed
Xxxxx"
Depends on the weather. No issues with small gatherings outside but would not wish to sit in the pouring rain. |
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"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there
Would you attend
Not sure if it’s worth the risk or even if it’s allowed
Xxxxx"
Absolutely, why not ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there
Would you attend
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Bit short notice for us to get to Rotherham,but appreciate the invite  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there
Would you attend
Not sure if it’s worth the risk or even if it’s allowed
Xxxxx"
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I would go for a while, you won't get that first birthday party back. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there
Would you attend
Bit short notice for us to get to Rotherham,but appreciate the invite "
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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago
upton wirral |
"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there
Would you attend
Not sure if it’s worth the risk or even if it’s allowed
Xxxxx"
close family yes enjoy |
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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago
rotherham |
It’s not all close family
There will be about 6 households with people there I don’t know anything about
I also work with customers every day in a shop so would hate to take anything with me
I want to go but I’m worried
Xxx |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"It’s not all close family
There will be about 6 households with people there I don’t know anything about
I also work with customers every day in a shop so would hate to take anything with me
I want to go but I’m worried
Xxx"
Hmmm...that's different then. Can you visit her before other guests arrive? X |
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"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there
Would you attend
Not sure if it’s worth the risk or even if it’s allowed
Xxxxx"
Help me out here.
There are NHS advice lines.
There are local authority advice lines.
There are government websites.
You, on the other hand, are asking for advice about a complex public health issue on a swingers website.
You might want to ask yourself a few hard questions. |
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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago
my house |
I have grandsons and was one of my grandsons birthday in April.... i went but didn't stay long and i am high risk. I would go if only for half an hour. As previous said, first birthday. If you feel uncomfortable just tell them, at least you can show your face. Good luck. Xx |
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"It maybe a swingers site but the forums about the virus are for people who want to chat about it or ask for advice
Thanx for,your input
Chat forums are for allsorts of subjects"
You know what bother's me more than anything?
It's not that we live in interesting times and things are sketchy for everyone. It's that during all of this, some individuals just wanna piss on others for the sake of it.
Why should it matter what the venue or forum is? Who cares if this is a swingers site? A question was asked and it hurts no one to answer with their opinion rather than try to shut it down.
Personally speaking, from observation alone, Fab's forums have become increasingly hostile as of late. I get everyone is scared. I get everyone wants to be safe. I get we all need some common sense.
But for crying out loud, it's not what you say people, it's how you say it.
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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago
rotherham |
Thank you for that
I know I asked a simple question but wasn’t expecting a snotty response
There are loads of advice lines but sometimes it’s quicker to get an answer from here
All the sensible answers ha e been read and thank you so much for your replies
Party has been and gone now
Xxxx |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Thank you for that
I know I asked a simple question but wasn’t expecting a snotty response
There are loads of advice lines but sometimes it’s quicker to get an answer from here
All the sensible answers ha e been read and thank you so much for your replies
Party has been and gone now
Xxxx"
Unfortunately there are always those with a snotty response, best ignored...the forums are to spark discussion as well as get people's opinions on different things. Those opinions will differ, but people don't need to be rude to others. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not that hard really, covid is still out there and numbers are still rising, feeling bad about missing is fine. But how bad will you feel if someone at the party gets sick due to being there. If your worried about it then I would say don't go. Have all the people you don't know, who are going, stayed safe and isolated? At the end of the day it's only a party and there will be loads more to come. |
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"It maybe a swingers site but the forums about the virus are for people who want to chat about it or ask for advice
Thanx for,your input
Chat forums are for allsorts of subjects
You know what bother's me more than anything?
It's not that we live in interesting times and things are sketchy for everyone. It's that during all of this, some individuals just wanna piss on others for the sake of it.
Why should it matter what the venue or forum is? Who cares if this is a swingers site? A question was asked and it hurts no one to answer with their opinion rather than try to shut it down.
Personally speaking, from observation alone, Fab's forums have become increasingly hostile as of late. I get everyone is scared. I get everyone wants to be safe. I get we all need some common sense.
But for crying out loud, it's not what you say people, it's how you say it.
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over a year ago
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"Thank you for that
I know I asked a simple question but wasn’t expecting a snotty response
There are loads of advice lines but sometimes it’s quicker to get an answer from here
All the sensible answers ha e been read and thank you so much for your replies
Party has been and gone now
Xxxx"
Did you go? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"No I didn’t go because there was about 60 people there
No way could they have distanced
Plus bouncy castle and loads of kids
To risky"
Sounds like the right decision, I wouldn't have gone, with that amount of people. X |
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over a year ago
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"No I didn’t go because there was about 60 people there
No way could they have distanced
Plus bouncy castle and loads of kids
To risky"
Wise choice, (in my opinion) you can always go around today or tomorrow! |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I will see her soon enough
Just don’t wanna miss those first steps
Xxxx"
It's very hard at the moment, isn't it. My nephew, whom I'm very close to, has just become a new daddy. Baby was in hospital for a week with an infection, I'm desperate to meet her, but have a heavy cold, so won't go near her until I am better....I get daily photos of her though |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Aw bless
It won’t be long for you I’m sure
Xxx"
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No, it wont! He's thinking of doing a drive by, so I can at least peer through the window at her! I will wear a mask when I do see her. They are being careful and limiting the amount of people that are able to see her at the moment. |
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OP, My 2 pennies worth is to ask yourself the question "would I regret not going?" Covid should be taken seriously, but it shouldn't dictate how you live your life. As others have said, this will be the only time he turns 1. Go, but take precautions as necessary. The positive benefits to your well-being having gone, will outweigh any potential risks. In my opinion. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"OP, My 2 pennies worth is to ask yourself the question "would I regret not going?" Covid should be taken seriously, but it shouldn't dictate how you live your life. As others have said, this will be the only time he turns 1. Go, but take precautions as necessary. The positive benefits to your well-being having gone, will outweigh any potential risks. In my opinion."
It was yesterday ,OP didn't, you will see why, above  |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there
Would you attend
Not sure if it’s worth the risk or even if it’s allowed
Xxxxx"
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Go, take all the precautions you feel you need to but you would feel bad if you don't and I'm sure they would miss granny not being involved in that first birthday party |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"OP, My 2 pennies worth is to ask yourself the question "would I regret not going?" Covid should be taken seriously, but it shouldn't dictate how you live your life. As others have said, this will be the only time he turns 1. Go, but take precautions as necessary. The positive benefits to your well-being having gone, will outweigh any potential risks. In my opinion.
It was yesterday ,OP didn't, you will see why, above "
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Oops, dammit  Sorry Op, hope you get to see them soon |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"OP, My 2 pennies worth is to ask yourself the question "would I regret not going?" Covid should be taken seriously, but it shouldn't dictate how you live your life. As others have said, this will be the only time he turns 1. Go, but take precautions as necessary. The positive benefits to your well-being having gone, will outweigh any potential risks. In my opinion.
It was yesterday ,OP didn't, you will see why, above
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Oops, dammit Sorry Op, hope you get to see them soon "
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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"OP, My 2 pennies worth is to ask yourself the question "would I regret not going?" Covid should be taken seriously, but it shouldn't dictate how you live your life. As others have said, this will be the only time he turns 1. Go, but take precautions as necessary. The positive benefits to your well-being having gone, will outweigh any potential risks. In my opinion.
It was yesterday ,OP didn't, you will see why, above
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Oops, dammit Sorry Op, hope you get to see them soon
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*note to self, read whole thread before answering original question 
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"OP, My 2 pennies worth is to ask yourself the question "would I regret not going?" Covid should be taken seriously, but it shouldn't dictate how you live your life. As others have said, this will be the only time he turns 1. Go, but take precautions as necessary. The positive benefits to your well-being having gone, will outweigh any potential risks. In my opinion.
It was yesterday ,OP didn't, you will see why, above
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Oops, dammit Sorry Op, hope you get to see them soon
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*note to self, read whole thread before answering original question
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 it was a good post |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Thank you for all your comments
No comment to the rude person who messaged me privately
I’ll not even get into that one
Did t realise I was whining
Pmsl
Not my style"
Knowing you personally, for many years,you are definitely not a whiner. You are a lovely kind lady, just considering others, it's a pity more people don't have your caring attitude xx |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Awww thanks honey
Love ya always
Always takes one to spoil things but luckily I’m not the type to take it to heart
Xxxxxx"
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No, you're not one to take it to heart, I agree. Love ya too  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I didn’t go because there was about 60 people there
No way could they have distanced
Plus bouncy castle and loads of kids
To risky"
Hope they are all ok and no-one brought anything nasty to the party. X
I wouldn't have gone either. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"No I didn’t go because there was about 60 people there
No way could they have distanced
Plus bouncy castle and loads of kids
To risky
Hope they are all ok and no-one brought anything nasty to the party. X
I wouldn't have gone either. "
Me neither, in the circumstances, too many people |
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