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"So from midnight having sex with someone from another household is illegal, that's the majority of the population screwed then "where is all this coming from.. | |||
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"We just read it.. bonkers... " Where have you read this? | |||
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"2nd time I’ve read something similar on a profile..am waiting for someone to say April fools or show some evidence "I've just found the article in the Mirror online. They haven't specifically made sex illegal - that is just the Mirror twisting wording. There is amendments coming through legislation which makes it illegal e.g. fines for one or more person from seperate households to be together within private spaces without a reasonable excuse. This has always been the case since the start of the lockdown, but passing it through legislation givesthe authorities more power for people in private spaces.  | |||
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"It must only apply to indoor private spaces I guess, as they have said you can have guests in your garden socially distancing." so you can have six people walk through your house to the Garden ... ( if there is no other way through) but you cant are your partner if you have one that lives in a different house... but your kids can go to school. And you can go to work and social distance where possible... except in your own home x | |||
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"It must only apply to indoor private spaces I guess, as they have said you can have guests in your garden socially distancing. so you can have six people walk through your house to the Garden ... ( if there is no other way through) but you cant are your partner if you have one that lives in a different house... but your kids can go to school. And you can go to work and social distance where possible... except in your own home x " You got it | |||
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"The government is introducing new lockdown measures that prevent people from socialising (or gathering) with one person from outside of their household in a private space Up until now the person visiting a house for sex would have been the one in breach of the measures But now both people would be able to be prosecuted under the law with a bill called amendment regulations being introduced in parliament tomorrow For those couples looking for a workaround, having sex in a public place is already illegal The new legislation explicitly bans being inside the house in a gathering of more than one person without a reasonable excuse " What is the website link? | |||
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"It must only apply to indoor private spaces I guess, as they have said you can have guests in your garden socially distancing. so you can have six people walk through your house to the Garden ... ( if there is no other way through) but you cant are your partner if you have one that lives in a different house... but your kids can go to school. And you can go to work and social distance where possible... except in your own home x You got it " except when I have to go into people I care for via various places where I can't social distance... and thats all perfectly okay | |||
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"It must only apply to indoor private spaces I guess, as they have said you can have guests in your garden socially distancing. so you can have six people walk through your house to the Garden ... ( if there is no other way through) but you cant are your partner if you have one that lives in a different house... but your kids can go to school. And you can go to work and social distance where possible... except in your own home x You got it except when I have to go into people I care for via various places where I can't social distance... and thats all perfectly okay " Yes but you must use ppe. Unless like me it is family you are paid to care for then you have to find extra money to buy it. | |||
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"It must only apply to indoor private spaces I guess, as they have said you can have guests in your garden socially distancing. so you can have six people walk through your house to the Garden ... ( if there is no other way through) but you cant are your partner if you have one that lives in a different house... but your kids can go to school. And you can go to work and social distance where possible... except in your own home x You got it except when I have to go into people I care for via various places where I can't social distance... and thats all perfectly okay Yes but you must use ppe. Unless like me it is family you are paid to care for then you have to find extra money to buy it. " no we don't have to use ppe. Due to them having special needs and it sending most of them into total breakdowns. I'm not paid I'm just a volunteer. And someone has to do it. X | |||
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"It actually says if you read it that people cant stay overnight...." Perfect. She has to go home after. "Sorry, I'd love you to stay the night but the government says no"  | |||
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"It must only apply to indoor private spaces I guess, as they have said you can have guests in your garden socially distancing. so you can have six people walk through your house to the Garden ... ( if there is no other way through) but you cant are your partner if you have one that lives in a different house... but your kids can go to school. And you can go to work and social distance where possible... except in your own home x You got it except when I have to go into people I care for via various places where I can't social distance... and thats all perfectly okay Yes but you must use ppe. Unless like me it is family you are paid to care for then you have to find extra money to buy it. no we don't have to use ppe. Due to them having special needs and it sending most of them into total breakdowns. I'm not paid I'm just a volunteer. And someone has to do it. X" Yes that is one of those loopholes. You are doing a very important job and it flies under the government's nose so they just ignore you. To them you are an anomaly. Personally I think you are an angel keep up your work. | |||
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"It must only apply to indoor private spaces I guess, as they have said you can have guests in your garden socially distancing. so you can have six people walk through your house to the Garden ... ( if there is no other way through) but you cant are your partner if you have one that lives in a different house... but your kids can go to school. And you can go to work and social distance where possible... except in your own home x You got it except when I have to go into people I care for via various places where I can't social distance... and thats all perfectly okay Yes but you must use ppe. Unless like me it is family you are paid to care for then you have to find extra money to buy it. no we don't have to use ppe. Due to them having special needs and it sending most of them into total breakdowns. I'm not paid I'm just a volunteer. And someone has to do it. X Yes that is one of those loopholes. You are doing a very important job and it flies under the government's nose so they just ignore you. To them you are an anomaly. Personally I think you are an angel keep up your work. " I'm no angel. I originally took up the work as it enabled me to drive about when I'd have otherwise been stuck in.. this particular niche came about as I have experience and several of my daughters friends needed the help and their parents fell who normally cared for them fell into vulnerable groups.. but since taking on the few people originally. I now have 7 that I look in on. They arent in vulnerable groups for their health.. just their mental health and grasp on the world. Like they cant go shopping alone. | |||
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"Sometimes people think Facebook hysteria is the real world" Facebook is the Covid 19 of the social media world. | |||
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"So from midnight having sex with someone from another household is illegal, that's the majority of the population screwed then "how are they going to enforce that one......... maybe they can tap in on your mobile phone......... this sounds ridiculous but maybe they can    | |||
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"So from midnight having sex with someone from another household is illegal, that's the majority of the population screwed then how are they going to enforce that one......... maybe they can tap in on your mobile phone......... this sounds ridiculous but maybe they can "Think I may be o.k. with my 12 yr old Nokia on Pay as you go | |||
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"So from midnight having sex with someone from another household is illegal, that's the majority of the population screwed then how are they going to enforce that one......... maybe they can tap in on your mobile phone......... this sounds ridiculous but maybe they can
Think I may be o.k. with my 12 yr old Nokia on Pay as you go "maybe but play safe turn it off | |||
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"From Monday up to 6 people from different households can meet in a private garden, remaining 2m apart. You are allowed into that home to use the toilet. No one is allowed to stay overnight. " think about it though how can that be enforced, would a family member dob you in? | |||
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"Doesn't say nothing about 2 folk from separate households in a car. Who's got blacked out windows?" Me! And a very large, comfortable leather back seat | |||
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"How can what be enforced? If you can have someone in your home to use the toilet, you therefore can have... someone in your home. " the thread title is about sex in your home | |||
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"What worries me about all this twisted media is people will be too afraid to access sexual health services or be honest when they do. " They're largely mail order kits atm, I think, which will deter a lot of people | |||
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"It must only apply to indoor private spaces I guess, as they have said you can have guests in your garden socially distancing. so you can have six people walk through your house to the Garden ... ( if there is no other way through) but you cant are your partner if you have one that lives in a different house... but your kids can go to school. And you can go to work and social distance where possible... except in your own home x " Ah but if they have to go through the house they can't access the garden???? | |||
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"So from midnight having sex with someone from another household is illegal, that's the majority of the population screwed then "Hmmmmm...if I dig a tunnel from my house to your house can we just tell the folk we're cohabiting? | |||
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"So from midnight having sex with someone from another household is illegal, that's the majority of the population screwed then
Hmmmmm...if I dig a tunnel from my house to your house can we just tell the folk we're cohabiting? "Rules are meant to be broken  | |||
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"So from midnight having sex with someone from another household is illegal, that's the majority of the population screwed then "Apparently there may be a loophole in the rules, i.e. it does not include people that carry out work in your home. | |||
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"How the holy hell can this be enforced? I'm not one for the tin foil hat consipracies, I have my own opinions on the whole lockdown situation but I can't help but think there are certain freedoms are being taken away, like when the whole social distancing rules end, will they ammend this "law", I honestly am starting to feel like the government are using a pandemic as a power grab, we're past a peak, starting to get some level of normality but lets talk sence, sex has been proven vital for physical and mental health, there is a reason why masterbation is something almost everyone does, so why is this being made to be 'illegal' now, getting a bit much in my humble opinion" aex itself isnt. It's that people shouldn't be in the house in the first place. I'm with you that allowing couples that dont live together should have been allowed already... the long term issues this non contact is going to have could be with us for years. Mental health services were already under pressure before all this... more so now. There are however loop holes.. as you can go to another house to calm down.. but I doubt that would work if you lived by yourself. Looking at the way things have been all last week and this weekend I cant see most listening | |||
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"So from midnight having sex with someone from another household is illegal, that's the majority of the population screwed then
Apparently there may be a loophole in the rules, i.e. it does not include people that carry out work in your home. "theirs another loophole the people who don't care anymore | |||
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"How the holy hell can this be enforced? I'm not one for the tin foil hat consipracies, I have my own opinions on the whole lockdown situation but I can't help but think there are certain freedoms are being taken away, like when the whole social distancing rules end, will they ammend this "law", I honestly am starting to feel like the government are using a pandemic as a power grab, we're past a peak, starting to get some level of normality but lets talk sence, sex has been proven vital for physical and mental health, there is a reason why masterbation is something almost everyone does, so why is this being made to be 'illegal' now, getting a bit much in my humble opinion aex itself isnt. It's that people shouldn't be in the house in the first place. I'm with you that allowing couples that dont live together should have been allowed already... the long term issues this non contact is going to have could be with us for years. Mental health services were already under pressure before all this... more so now. There are however loop holes.. as you can go to another house to calm down.. but I doubt that would work if you lived by yourself. Looking at the way things have been all last week and this weekend I cant see most listening " Non contact rules are going to have a huge knock on effect in the future, me personally, my own mental health does take a knock when I see articles like this, even if I'm aware that its probably a load of shit, simply because it starts to feel like we're moving forward then boom, shit like this, I think at somepoint people will have to take there own risk assesments, not just for sex but in general, like are we going to miss celebrating birthdays and not being able to hug loved ones for years, possibly forever, as vaccine may not ever come or work, if thats the case it's not a life I want too live I'm afraid, social and physical interaction forms a huge chunk of peoples lives and for me, if thats out the window whats the point? I get so much out of interactions with other humans, and it is not the same over social media or skype/zoom | |||
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"I just checked some escort sites and there loads of escorts still advertising business. " Haha for research purposes only I presume | |||
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"So from midnight having sex with someone from another household is illegal, that's the majority of the population screwed then
Apparently there may be a loophole in the rules, i.e. it does not include people that carry out work in your home. "Can I fuck the cleaner then, in lieu of payment?  | |||
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"I just checked some escort sites and there loads of escorts still advertising business. " they have been told not to though and encouraged to do online stuff instead.. I know one that has put a claim in as she is counted as self employed | |||
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"So from midnight having sex with someone from another household is illegal, that's the majority of the population screwed then
Apparently there may be a loophole in the rules, i.e. it does not include people that carry out work in your home. "So its ok to fuck the plumber/cleaner/gas fitter? | |||
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"So from midnight having sex with someone from another household is illegal, that's the majority of the population screwed then
Apparently there may be a loophole in the rules, i.e. it does not include people that carry out work in your home.
Not advising or encouraging it, but it only highlights what a shambles the rules. They should be water tight and not open to interpretation.
So its ok to fuck the plumber/cleaner/gas fitter?" | |||
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"So from midnight having sex with someone from another household is illegal, that's the majority of the population screwed then
Apparently there may be a loophole in the rules, i.e. it does not include people that carry out work in your home. "That is the case, Cleaners,Plumbers,Estate Agents, Surveyors, and even potential buyers or prospective tenants if your house is for sale or to let are all allowed to enter my house. | |||
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"How the holy hell can this be enforced? I'm not one for the tin foil hat consipracies, I have my own opinions on the whole lockdown situation but I can't help but think there are certain freedoms are being taken away, like when the whole social distancing rules end, will they ammend this "law", I honestly am starting to feel like the government are using a pandemic as a power grab, we're past a peak, starting to get some level of normality but lets talk sence, sex has been proven vital for physical and mental health, there is a reason why masterbation is something almost everyone does, so why is this being made to be 'illegal' now, getting a bit much in my humble opinion" I've been saying this all along. There's a much bigger picture here, I don't know what it is, but perhaps the tin foil hat brigade need to stop being so self righteous and wake up a bit instead of mocking everything that rocks their comfortable little lives. Our rights are slowly being eroded. | |||
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"Whether the rules can be enforced is another matter but its perfectly simple. The virus is most easily spread when two or more people are in close contact (closer than 2m). Even more so indoors compared to outdoors. The rules are to try and slow our stop spread of the virus. " | |||
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"So from midnight having sex with someone from another household is illegal, that's the majority of the population screwed then
Apparently there may be a loophole in the rules, i.e. it does not include people that carry out work in your home.
So its ok to fuck the plumber/cleaner/gas fitter?"Seems to have been a shortage of tradesman for years so maybe here’s the incentive for people to learn a trade lol | |||
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"Do you think this is to help boost the sales of strap ons as you could argue that you're technically not having fully penetrating sex with that person. Haha "Ok tradesman check. 12 inch strap on check. N95 mask and disposable gloves check... Think I'm all ready to go  | |||
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"Sometimes people think Facebook hysteria is the real world Facebook is the Covid 19 of the social media world." The difference being if you’ve had Facebook before and recovered from it, like I have, you definitely have permanent immunity to it | |||
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"Do you think this is to help boost the sales of strap ons as you could argue that you're technically not having fully penetrating sex with that person. Haha
Ok tradesman check. 12 inch strap on check. N95 mask and disposable gloves check... Think I'm all ready to go "Haha. You got it girl everything ready to go. | |||
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"Here's a bit of a reality check and something half the looney lefty conspiracy theorist, they're eroding our liberties bunch probably won't like... But maybe, just maybe look at the bigger picture. Do you think this has been brought in to stop you bumping ugly with the genitals of your choosing? Or could it be in response to the number of idiots hosting large scale parties in private dwellings? Up until now the only deterrent was the police asking them to leave. Now these idiots can at least be fined and if needed further criminal proceedings taken. Why is this a problem...because it takes up resources such as the police and occasionally the nhs when someone needs attention after to much drink or other substance misuse. Do you really think special branch are deploying a crack team to monitor you.. or your local copper really gives a f*ck if you decide to meet someone else.. not a chance. Stop reading trash news, turning it into some sort of over blown theory.. and grow the f*ck up.. And apologise for the rant but sick of hearing people whine how hard done by they are. We have a system that's paying for people not to have to go to work, that allows freedom of opinion and expression, is tolerant and accepting of peoples sexual choice. Take a trip to China, Pakistan, Russia.. and tell them how crap life in the uk is. And breathe....." So how do you propose they police it then? Spy cams in every home? More snitching from neighbours who do it out of spite or without knowing the true circumstances? Tuning into people's smart speakers etc? Do you not see how intrusive this really is??  | |||
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"Here's a bit of a reality check and something half the looney lefty conspiracy theorist, they're eroding our liberties bunch probably won't like... But maybe, just maybe look at the bigger picture. Do you think this has been brought in to stop you bumping ugly with the genitals of your choosing? Or could it be in response to the number of idiots hosting large scale parties in private dwellings? Up until now the only deterrent was the police asking them to leave. Now these idiots can at least be fined and if needed further criminal proceedings taken. Why is this a problem...because it takes up resources such as the police and occasionally the nhs when someone needs attention after to much drink or other substance misuse. Do you really think special branch are deploying a crack team to monitor you.. or your local copper really gives a f*ck if you decide to meet someone else.. not a chance. Stop reading trash news, turning it into some sort of over blown theory.. and grow the f*ck up.. And apologise for the rant but sick of hearing people whine how hard done by they are. We have a system that's paying for people not to have to go to work, that allows freedom of opinion and expression, is tolerant and accepting of peoples sexual choice. Take a trip to China, Pakistan, Russia.. and tell them how crap life in the uk is. And breathe..... So how do you propose they police it then? Spy cams in every home? More snitching from neighbours who do it out of spite or without knowing the true circumstances? Tuning into people's smart speakers etc? Do you not see how intrusive this really is?? "You seem to be missing the point.. they wont police it.. They have sh*t all interest in you meeting someone in your home for sex. They do however have an interesting in breaking up large scale house parties that get out of hand.. cause neighbours to complain and call the police. Trust me they ain't monitoring alexa for the sounds of you crying out the lords name. It's all about perspective... not everything is done to keep you down.. Now off you pop to North Korea and tell them of your troubles. | |||
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"the new law (making sex with anyone who does not live in your household) illegal, comes into force as part of the new covid-19 legislation. People shagging outside of their own household (so anyone not living together), could be prosecuted and get a criminal record. That basically fucks every dating app & website. Mary Whitehouse will be jumping for joy." Doubt it she's been dead nearly 20 years.. Unless the government has brought her back as a zombie.. Maybe that's the real reason all this is going on.. people quick.. Zombie Whitehouse is back.. | |||
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"Here's a bit of a reality check and something half the looney lefty conspiracy theorist, they're eroding our liberties bunch probably won't like... But maybe, just maybe look at the bigger picture. Do you think this has been brought in to stop you bumping ugly with the genitals of your choosing? Or could it be in response to the number of idiots hosting large scale parties in private dwellings? Up until now the only deterrent was the police asking them to leave. Now these idiots can at least be fined and if needed further criminal proceedings taken. Why is this a problem...because it takes up resources such as the police and occasionally the nhs when someone needs attention after to much drink or other substance misuse. Do you really think special branch are deploying a crack team to monitor you.. or your local copper really gives a f*ck if you decide to meet someone else.. not a chance. Stop reading trash news, turning it into some sort of over blown theory.. and grow the f*ck up.. And apologise for the rant but sick of hearing people whine how hard done by they are. We have a system that's paying for people not to have to go to work, that allows freedom of opinion and expression, is tolerant and accepting of peoples sexual choice. Take a trip to China, Pakistan, Russia.. and tell them how crap life in the uk is. And breathe..... So how do you propose they police it then? Spy cams in every home? More snitching from neighbours who do it out of spite or without knowing the true circumstances? Tuning into people's smart speakers etc? Do you not see how intrusive this really is??
You seem to be missing the point.. they wont police it..
They have sh*t all interest in you meeting someone in your home for sex.
They do however have an interesting in breaking up large scale house parties that get out of hand.. cause neighbours to complain and call the police.
Trust me they ain't monitoring alexa for the sounds of you crying out the lords name.
It's all about perspective... not everything is done to keep you down..
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"Here's a bit of a reality check and something half the looney lefty conspiracy theorist, they're eroding our liberties bunch probably won't like... But maybe, just maybe look at the bigger picture. Do you think this has been brought in to stop you bumping ugly with the genitals of your choosing? Or could it be in response to the number of idiots hosting large scale parties in private dwellings? Up until now the only deterrent was the police asking them to leave. Now these idiots can at least be fined and if needed further criminal proceedings taken. Why is this a problem...because it takes up resources such as the police and occasionally the nhs when someone needs attention after to much drink or other substance misuse. Do you really think special branch are deploying a crack team to monitor you.. or your local copper really gives a f*ck if you decide to meet someone else.. not a chance. Stop reading trash news, turning it into some sort of over blown theory.. and grow the f*ck up.. And apologise for the rant but sick of hearing people whine how hard done by they are. We have a system that's paying for people not to have to go to work, that allows freedom of opinion and expression, is tolerant and accepting of peoples sexual choice. Take a trip to China, Pakistan, Russia.. and tell them how crap life in the uk is. And breathe..... So how do you propose they police it then? Spy cams in every home? More snitching from neighbours who do it out of spite or without knowing the true circumstances? Tuning into people's smart speakers etc? Do you not see how intrusive this really is??
You seem to be missing the point.. they wont police it..
They have sh*t all interest in you meeting someone in your home for sex.
They do however have an interesting in breaking up large scale house parties that get out of hand.. cause neighbours to complain and call the police.
Trust me they ain't monitoring alexa for the sounds of you crying out the lords name.
It's all about perspective... not everything is done to keep you down..
Now off you pop to North Korea and tell them of your troubles."No need for rudeness. I want talking about parties, I was referring to 1 person visiting and breaking rules. North Korea has nothing to do with my post. | |||
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"Here's a bit of a reality check and something half the looney lefty conspiracy theorist, they're eroding our liberties bunch probably won't like... But maybe, just maybe look at the bigger picture. Do you think this has been brought in to stop you bumping ugly with the genitals of your choosing? Or could it be in response to the number of idiots hosting large scale parties in private dwellings? Up until now the only deterrent was the police asking them to leave. Now these idiots can at least be fined and if needed further criminal proceedings taken. Why is this a problem...because it takes up resources such as the police and occasionally the nhs when someone needs attention after to much drink or other substance misuse. Do you really think special branch are deploying a crack team to monitor you.. or your local copper really gives a f*ck if you decide to meet someone else.. not a chance. Stop reading trash news, turning it into some sort of over blown theory.. and grow the f*ck up.. And apologise for the rant but sick of hearing people whine how hard done by they are. We have a system that's paying for people not to have to go to work, that allows freedom of opinion and expression, is tolerant and accepting of peoples sexual choice. Take a trip to China, Pakistan, Russia.. and tell them how crap life in the uk is. And breathe..... So how do you propose they police it then? Spy cams in every home? More snitching from neighbours who do it out of spite or without knowing the true circumstances? Tuning into people's smart speakers etc? Do you not see how intrusive this really is??
You seem to be missing the point.. they wont police it..
They have sh*t all interest in you meeting someone in your home for sex.
They do however have an interesting in breaking up large scale house parties that get out of hand.. cause neighbours to complain and call the police.
Trust me they ain't monitoring alexa for the sounds of you crying out the lords name.
It's all about perspective... not everything is done to keep you down..
Now off you pop to North Korea and tell them of your troubles.
No need for rudeness. I want talking about parties, I was referring to 1 person visiting and breaking rules. North Korea has nothing to do with my post. "*wasn't, not want. | |||
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"Here's a bit of a reality check and something half the looney lefty conspiracy theorist, they're eroding our liberties bunch probably won't like... But maybe, just maybe look at the bigger picture. Do you think this has been brought in to stop you bumping ugly with the genitals of your choosing? Or could it be in response to the number of idiots hosting large scale parties in private dwellings? Up until now the only deterrent was the police asking them to leave. Now these idiots can at least be fined and if needed further criminal proceedings taken. Why is this a problem...because it takes up resources such as the police and occasionally the nhs when someone needs attention after to much drink or other substance misuse. Do you really think special branch are deploying a crack team to monitor you.. or your local copper really gives a f*ck if you decide to meet someone else.. not a chance. Stop reading trash news, turning it into some sort of over blown theory.. and grow the f*ck up.. And apologise for the rant but sick of hearing people whine how hard done by they are. We have a system that's paying for people not to have to go to work, that allows freedom of opinion and expression, is tolerant and accepting of peoples sexual choice. Take a trip to China, Pakistan, Russia.. and tell them how crap life in the uk is. And breathe..... So how do you propose they police it then? Spy cams in every home? More snitching from neighbours who do it out of spite or without knowing the true circumstances? Tuning into people's smart speakers etc? Do you not see how intrusive this really is??
You seem to be missing the point.. they wont police it..
They have sh*t all interest in you meeting someone in your home for sex.
They do however have an interesting in breaking up large scale house parties that get out of hand.. cause neighbours to complain and call the police.
Trust me they ain't monitoring alexa for the sounds of you crying out the lords name.
It's all about perspective... not everything is done to keep you down..
Now off you pop to North Korea and tell them of your troubles.
No need for rudeness. I want talking about parties, I was referring to 1 person visiting and breaking rules. North Korea has nothing to do with my post. *wasn't, not want. "And if you read the post I was talking about 1 person meeting another.. the entire rant was about how the police and the government have absolutely no interest in one person meeting another.. They know its happening frequently.. every minute of everyday... Hence why I'm trying to explain you won't be receiving a knock at the door if you decide to meet someone. And sorry you perceive it to be rude.. and my apologies to North Korea.. kim has enough on his plate. | |||
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"Here's a bit of a reality check and something half the looney lefty conspiracy theorist, they're eroding our liberties bunch probably won't like... But maybe, just maybe look at the bigger picture. Do you think this has been brought in to stop you bumping ugly with the genitals of your choosing? Or could it be in response to the number of idiots hosting large scale parties in private dwellings? Up until now the only deterrent was the police asking them to leave. Now these idiots can at least be fined and if needed further criminal proceedings taken. Why is this a problem...because it takes up resources such as the police and occasionally the nhs when someone needs attention after to much drink or other substance misuse. Do you really think special branch are deploying a crack team to monitor you.. or your local copper really gives a f*ck if you decide to meet someone else.. not a chance. Stop reading trash news, turning it into some sort of over blown theory.. and grow the f*ck up.. And apologise for the rant but sick of hearing people whine how hard done by they are. We have a system that's paying for people not to have to go to work, that allows freedom of opinion and expression, is tolerant and accepting of peoples sexual choice. Take a trip to China, Pakistan, Russia.. and tell them how crap life in the uk is. And breathe..... So how do you propose they police it then? Spy cams in every home? More snitching from neighbours who do it out of spite or without knowing the true circumstances? Tuning into people's smart speakers etc? Do you not see how intrusive this really is??
You seem to be missing the point.. they wont police it..
They have sh*t all interest in you meeting someone in your home for sex.
They do however have an interesting in breaking up large scale house parties that get out of hand.. cause neighbours to complain and call the police.
Trust me they ain't monitoring alexa for the sounds of you crying out the lords name.
It's all about perspective... not everything is done to keep you down..
Now off you pop to North Korea and tell them of your troubles.
No need for rudeness. I want talking about parties, I was referring to 1 person visiting and breaking rules. North Korea has nothing to do with my post. *wasn't, not want.
And if you read the post I was talking about 1 person meeting another.. the entire rant was about how the police and the government have absolutely no interest in one person meeting another..
They know its happening frequently.. every minute of everyday...
Hence why I'm trying to explain you won't be receiving a knock at the door if you decide to meet someone.
And sorry you perceive it to be rude.. and my apologies to North Korea.. kim has enough on his plate."Seems you have a thing about Kim and North Korea. I hope your neighbours aren't seeing your status update. Enjoy your day. | |||
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"Here's a bit of a reality check and something half the looney lefty conspiracy theorist, they're eroding our liberties bunch probably won't like... But maybe, just maybe look at the bigger picture. Do you think this has been brought in to stop you bumping ugly with the genitals of your choosing? Or could it be in response to the number of idiots hosting large scale parties in private dwellings? Up until now the only deterrent was the police asking them to leave. Now these idiots can at least be fined and if needed further criminal proceedings taken. Why is this a problem...because it takes up resources such as the police and occasionally the nhs when someone needs attention after to much drink or other substance misuse. Do you really think special branch are deploying a crack team to monitor you.. or your local copper really gives a f*ck if you decide to meet someone else.. not a chance. Stop reading trash news, turning it into some sort of over blown theory.. and grow the f*ck up.. And apologise for the rant but sick of hearing people whine how hard done by they are. We have a system that's paying for people not to have to go to work, that allows freedom of opinion and expression, is tolerant and accepting of peoples sexual choice. Take a trip to China, Pakistan, Russia.. and tell them how crap life in the uk is. And breathe..... So how do you propose they police it then? Spy cams in every home? More snitching from neighbours who do it out of spite or without knowing the true circumstances? Tuning into people's smart speakers etc? Do you not see how intrusive this really is??
You seem to be missing the point.. they wont police it..
They have sh*t all interest in you meeting someone in your home for sex.
They do however have an interesting in breaking up large scale house parties that get out of hand.. cause neighbours to complain and call the police.
Trust me they ain't monitoring alexa for the sounds of you crying out the lords name.
It's all about perspective... not everything is done to keep you down..
Now off you pop to North Korea and tell them of your troubles.
No need for rudeness. I want talking about parties, I was referring to 1 person visiting and breaking rules. North Korea has nothing to do with my post. *wasn't, not want.
And if you read the post I was talking about 1 person meeting another.. the entire rant was about how the police and the government have absolutely no interest in one person meeting another..
They know its happening frequently.. every minute of everyday...
Hence why I'm trying to explain you won't be receiving a knock at the door if you decide to meet someone.
And sorry you perceive it to be rude.. and my apologies to North Korea.. kim has enough on his plate.
Seems you have a thing about Kim and North Korea. I hope your neighbours aren't seeing your status update. Enjoy your day. "You mean this one? "Can't wait until we can host a party again for a whole bunch of awesome couples." You think they may be upset they won't get an invite? They're lovely and all but not for us.. And thankfully as the status says "until we can host" so it won't be before our dictator says it's ok to have larger gathering. And thank you, we will do our best. Enjoy yours and hopefully the government agents aren't listening in or searching a swingers site for people who have privacy concerns but put face pictures and location details on their profile. ;-) | |||
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"Here's a bit of a reality check and something half the looney lefty conspiracy theorist, they're eroding our liberties bunch probably won't like... But maybe, just maybe look at the bigger picture. Do you think this has been brought in to stop you bumping ugly with the genitals of your choosing? Or could it be in response to the number of idiots hosting large scale parties in private dwellings? Up until now the only deterrent was the police asking them to leave. Now these idiots can at least be fined and if needed further criminal proceedings taken. Why is this a problem...because it takes up resources such as the police and occasionally the nhs when someone needs attention after to much drink or other substance misuse. Do you really think special branch are deploying a crack team to monitor you.. or your local copper really gives a f*ck if you decide to meet someone else.. not a chance. Stop reading trash news, turning it into some sort of over blown theory.. and grow the f*ck up.. And apologise for the rant but sick of hearing people whine how hard done by they are. We have a system that's paying for people not to have to go to work, that allows freedom of opinion and expression, is tolerant and accepting of peoples sexual choice. Take a trip to China, Pakistan, Russia.. and tell them how crap life in the uk is. And breathe..... So how do you propose they police it then? Spy cams in every home? More snitching from neighbours who do it out of spite or without knowing the true circumstances? Tuning into people's smart speakers etc? Do you not see how intrusive this really is??
You seem to be missing the point.. they wont police it..
They have sh*t all interest in you meeting someone in your home for sex.
They do however have an interesting in breaking up large scale house parties that get out of hand.. cause neighbours to complain and call the police.
Trust me they ain't monitoring alexa for the sounds of you crying out the lords name.
It's all about perspective... not everything is done to keep you down..
Now off you pop to North Korea and tell them of your troubles.
No need for rudeness. I want talking about parties, I was referring to 1 person visiting and breaking rules. North Korea has nothing to do with my post. *wasn't, not want.
And if you read the post I was talking about 1 person meeting another.. the entire rant was about how the police and the government have absolutely no interest in one person meeting another..
They know its happening frequently.. every minute of everyday...
Hence why I'm trying to explain you won't be receiving a knock at the door if you decide to meet someone.
And sorry you perceive it to be rude.. and my apologies to North Korea.. kim has enough on his plate.
Seems you have a thing about Kim and North Korea. I hope your neighbours aren't seeing your status update. Enjoy your day. "I have a pen pal who lives in North Korea, I asked what it was like living there? He answered 'cant complain ' | |||
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"Here's a bit of a reality check and something half the looney lefty conspiracy theorist, they're eroding our liberties bunch probably won't like... But maybe, just maybe look at the bigger picture. Do you think this has been brought in to stop you bumping ugly with the genitals of your choosing? Or could it be in response to the number of idiots hosting large scale parties in private dwellings? Up until now the only deterrent was the police asking them to leave. Now these idiots can at least be fined and if needed further criminal proceedings taken. Why is this a problem...because it takes up resources such as the police and occasionally the nhs when someone needs attention after to much drink or other substance misuse. Do you really think special branch are deploying a crack team to monitor you.. or your local copper really gives a f*ck if you decide to meet someone else.. not a chance. Stop reading trash news, turning it into some sort of over blown theory.. and grow the f*ck up.. And apologise for the rant but sick of hearing people whine how hard done by they are. We have a system that's paying for people not to have to go to work, that allows freedom of opinion and expression, is tolerant and accepting of peoples sexual choice. Take a trip to China, Pakistan, Russia.. and tell them how crap life in the uk is. And breathe....." I get what you're saying, but why not have the law state your are not allowed 2 or more people to stay overnight? Or like Holland, I believe, pick a single partner you can visit. It's just another example of piss poor thinking with unintended consequence | |||
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"Here's a bit of a reality check and something half the looney lefty conspiracy theorist, they're eroding our liberties bunch probably won't like... But maybe, just maybe look at the bigger picture. Do you think this has been brought in to stop you bumping ugly with the genitals of your choosing? Or could it be in response to the number of idiots hosting large scale parties in private dwellings? Up until now the only deterrent was the police asking them to leave. Now these idiots can at least be fined and if needed further criminal proceedings taken. Why is this a problem...because it takes up resources such as the police and occasionally the nhs when someone needs attention after to much drink or other substance misuse. Do you really think special branch are deploying a crack team to monitor you.. or your local copper really gives a f*ck if you decide to meet someone else.. not a chance. Stop reading trash news, turning it into some sort of over blown theory.. and grow the f*ck up.. And apologise for the rant but sick of hearing people whine how hard done by they are. We have a system that's paying for people not to have to go to work, that allows freedom of opinion and expression, is tolerant and accepting of peoples sexual choice. Take a trip to China, Pakistan, Russia.. and tell them how crap life in the uk is. And breathe..... So how do you propose they police it then? Spy cams in every home? More snitching from neighbours who do it out of spite or without knowing the true circumstances? Tuning into people's smart speakers etc? Do you not see how intrusive this really is??
You seem to be missing the point.. they wont police it..
They have sh*t all interest in you meeting someone in your home for sex.
They do however have an interesting in breaking up large scale house parties that get out of hand.. cause neighbours to complain and call the police.
Trust me they ain't monitoring alexa for the sounds of you crying out the lords name.
It's all about perspective... not everything is done to keep you down..
Now off you pop to North Korea and tell them of your troubles.
No need for rudeness. I want talking about parties, I was referring to 1 person visiting and breaking rules. North Korea has nothing to do with my post. *wasn't, not want.
And if you read the post I was talking about 1 person meeting another.. the entire rant was about how the police and the government have absolutely no interest in one person meeting another..
They know its happening frequently.. every minute of everyday...
Hence why I'm trying to explain you won't be receiving a knock at the door if you decide to meet someone.
And sorry you perceive it to be rude.. and my apologies to North Korea.. kim has enough on his plate.
Seems you have a thing about Kim and North Korea. I hope your neighbours aren't seeing your status update. Enjoy your day.
I have a pen pal who lives in North Korea, I asked what it was like living there? He answered 'cant complain ' " | |||
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"the new law (making sex with anyone who does not live in your household) illegal, comes into force as part of the new covid-19 legislation. People shagging outside of their own household (so anyone not living together), could be prosecuted and get a criminal record. That basically fucks every dating app & website. Mary Whitehouse will be jumping for joy." I don't think it specifically mentions sex... simply it mentions your not supposed to be in anyone else's house except for specific reasons. | |||
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"Here's a bit of a reality check and something half the looney lefty conspiracy theorist, they're eroding our liberties bunch probably won't like... But maybe, just maybe look at the bigger picture. Do you think this has been brought in to stop you bumping ugly with the genitals of your choosing? Or could it be in response to the number of idiots hosting large scale parties in private dwellings? Up until now the only deterrent was the police asking them to leave. Now these idiots can at least be fined and if needed further criminal proceedings taken. Why is this a problem...because it takes up resources such as the police and occasionally the nhs when someone needs attention after to much drink or other substance misuse. Do you really think special branch are deploying a crack team to monitor you.. or your local copper really gives a f*ck if you decide to meet someone else.. not a chance. Stop reading trash news, turning it into some sort of over blown theory.. and grow the f*ck up.. And apologise for the rant but sick of hearing people whine how hard done by they are. We have a system that's paying for people not to have to go to work, that allows freedom of opinion and expression, is tolerant and accepting of peoples sexual choice. Take a trip to China, Pakistan, Russia.. and tell them how crap life in the uk is. And breathe....." | |||
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"Here's a bit of a reality check and something half the looney lefty conspiracy theorist, they're eroding our liberties bunch probably won't like... But maybe, just maybe look at the bigger picture. Do you think this has been brought in to stop you bumping ugly with the genitals of your choosing? Or could it be in response to the number of idiots hosting large scale parties in private dwellings? Up until now the only deterrent was the police asking them to leave. Now these idiots can at least be fined and if needed further criminal proceedings taken. Why is this a problem...because it takes up resources such as the police and occasionally the nhs when someone needs attention after to much drink or other substance misuse. Do you really think special branch are deploying a crack team to monitor you.. or your local copper really gives a f*ck if you decide to meet someone else.. not a chance. Stop reading trash news, turning it into some sort of over blown theory.. and grow the f*ck up.. And apologise for the rant but sick of hearing people whine how hard done by they are. We have a system that's paying for people not to have to go to work, that allows freedom of opinion and expression, is tolerant and accepting of peoples sexual choice. Take a trip to China, Pakistan, Russia.. and tell them how crap life in the uk is. And breathe..... I get what you're saying, but why not have the law state your are not allowed 2 or more people to stay overnight? Or like Holland, I believe, pick a single partner you can visit. It's just another example of piss poor thinking with unintended consequence" Certainly agree to an extent but I think it's been more to do with timing. It becomes at what point do you draw the line. Policy wise it makes more sense to blanket ban everything and allow discretion to be taken than blur the lines further saying it's fine to have 1 / 2 / 3 people.. it just sends mixed messages. We personally have no issue, our neighbours frequently nip over the road and spend time with others across the street. For us, they're adults and able to make choices that are right for them. We know friends who meet frequently in houses and gardens.. again their choice. They don't make a song and dance about it and on the whole we would say they go about it sensibly. We spent time with family in the garden before it was allowed.. again we're all adults and can make the right choices. Hopefully further relaxation will follow and something near enormity will arrive. | |||
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"It’s a sensationalised headline- it’s just continuing the same social distancing measures that were already in place. " Yes,but swingers were waiting for the lockdown to be over to get on with house parties and sexy fun with others. This Law puts a break into all their saucy plans . | |||
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"It's the Law now ,so we can't do nothing but follow it . Our jobs will be at risk if we get a criminal record and that too for having sex with someone else . Imagine mentioning that in every pre DBS forms . " I was just thinking the same, gutted. | |||
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"It's the Law now ,so we can't do nothing but follow it . Our jobs will be at risk if we get a criminal record and that too for having sex with someone else . Imagine mentioning that in every pre DBS forms . " Who the hell is finding out !!! I’m sure the police have got better things to Do ... they can’t be arsed giving out fines ... I’m sure they won’t be standing at someone’s bedroom door !!! | |||
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"It's the Law now ,so we can't do nothing but follow it . Our jobs will be at risk if we get a criminal record and that too for having sex with someone else . Imagine mentioning that in every pre DBS forms . Who the hell is finding out !!! I’m sure the police have got better things to Do ... they can’t be arsed giving out fines ... I’m sure they won’t be standing at someone’s bedroom door !!!" Although chances are slim , but even 0.01% is a risk . | |||
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"It's the Law now ,so we can't do nothing but follow it . Our jobs will be at risk if we get a criminal record and that too for having sex with someone else . Imagine mentioning that in every pre DBS forms . Who the hell is finding out !!! I’m sure the police have got better things to Do ... they can’t be arsed giving out fines ... I’m sure they won’t be standing at someone’s bedroom door !!!" Neighbours grassing, perhaps? | |||
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"It’s a sensationalised headline- it’s just continuing the same social distancing measures that were already in place. Yes,but swingers were waiting for the lockdown to be over to get on with house parties and sexy fun with others. This Law puts a break into all their saucy plans ." Oh absolutely, we can’t wait to get back to it, however it doesn’t indicate that swinging is doomed forever/ we just need to hang on in there a little while longer | |||
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"It's the Law now ,so we can't do nothing but follow it . Our jobs will be at risk if we get a criminal record and that too for having sex with someone else . Imagine mentioning that in every pre DBS forms . Who the hell is finding out !!! I’m sure the police have got better things to Do ... they can’t be arsed giving out fines ... I’m sure they won’t be standing at someone’s bedroom door !!! Neighbours grassing, perhaps?" Neighbors ????? Hope to think mine have got better things to do !! | |||
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"It's the Law now ,so we can't do nothing but follow it . Our jobs will be at risk if we get a criminal record and that too for having sex with someone else . Imagine mentioning that in every pre DBS forms . Who the hell is finding out !!! I’m sure the police have got better things to Do ... they can’t be arsed giving out fines ... I’m sure they won’t be standing at someone’s bedroom door !!!" Depending on what paper or media outlet you read, on the whole, it's been said by Police, they don't have the manpower to control these new measures. | |||
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"It's the Law now ,so we can't do nothing but follow it . Our jobs will be at risk if we get a criminal record and that too for having sex with someone else . Imagine mentioning that in every pre DBS forms . Who the hell is finding out !!! I’m sure the police have got better things to Do ... they can’t be arsed giving out fines ... I’m sure they won’t be standing at someone’s bedroom door !!! Neighbours grassing, perhaps? Neighbors ????? Hope to think mine have got better things to do !!" Tbh, I’ve seen so many posts on other forums I’m in that are asking the question “should I call the police because my neighbour has a friend in their garden” so it wouldn’t surprise me with *some* neighbours that are that way inclined... | |||
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We all still fit and healthy !!!! | |||
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"It's the Law now ,so we can't do nothing but follow it . Our jobs will be at risk if we get a criminal record and that too for having sex with someone else . Imagine mentioning that in every pre DBS forms . Who the hell is finding out !!! I’m sure the police have got better things to Do ... they can’t be arsed giving out fines ... I’m sure they won’t be standing at someone’s bedroom door !!! Neighbours grassing, perhaps? Neighbors ????? Hope to think mine have got better things to do !! Tbh, I’ve seen so many posts on other forums I’m in that are asking the question “should I call the police because my neighbour has a friend in their garden” so it wouldn’t surprise me with *some* neighbours that are that way inclined..." Christ I’ve got better things to do !!! | |||
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" Oh absolutely, we can’t wait to get back to it, however it doesn’t indicate that swinging is doomed forever/ we just need to hang on in there a little while longer "Not forever offcourse ,it's just a temporary measure under the New Corona Regulations Act . As we all have respected the Lockdown concerning our health and of others then we have to wait for little longer. | |||
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"Well I’ve been a rebel and gone back to England twice in last two weeks to see my grandchildren ....!not seen them in 3 months and suppose surprise the police were not waiting for me
We all still fit and healthy !!!!"So you were waiting for something to happen ,I guess . So just because nothing happened you are willing to risk everything ,just to get laid ? You can't be serious ! | |||
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"Well I’ve been a rebel and gone back to England twice in last two weeks to see my grandchildren ....!not seen them in 3 months and suppose surprise the police were not waiting for me
We all still fit and healthy !!!!
So you were waiting for something to happen ,I guess .
So just because nothing happened you are willing to risk everything ,just to get laid ?
You can't be serious ! "Ha ha ha didn’t say I was being laid as you put it ... I’ve been to see my grandchildren !!! | |||
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"It's the Law now ,so we can't do nothing but follow it . Our jobs will be at risk if we get a criminal record and that too for having sex with someone else . Imagine mentioning that in every pre DBS forms . Who the hell is finding out !!! I’m sure the police have got better things to Do ... they can’t be arsed giving out fines ... I’m sure they won’t be standing at someone’s bedroom door !!! Neighbours grassing, perhaps? Neighbors ????? Hope to think mine have got better things to do !! Tbh, I’ve seen so many posts on other forums I’m in that are asking the question “should I call the police because my neighbour has a friend in their garden” so it wouldn’t surprise me with *some* neighbours that are that way inclined..." They are. My lodger delivers for parcel force and does pest control. One neighbour jumping to conclusions that he was out for a jolly every day and spreading rumours to other people about him. He then complained to other neighbours that he had seen a large rat at our house and three adjacent houses at the same time. It was Bella, one of our cats. So this is just one example of a person making assumptions, if he'd have phoned me and asked I could have told him. No need for spreading misinformation at all. | |||
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"It's the Law now ,so we can't do nothing but follow it . Our jobs will be at risk if we get a criminal record and that too for having sex with someone else . Imagine mentioning that in every pre DBS forms . Who the hell is finding out !!! I’m sure the police have got better things to Do ... they can’t be arsed giving out fines ... I’m sure they won’t be standing at someone’s bedroom door !!! Neighbours grassing, perhaps? Neighbors ????? Hope to think mine have got better things to do !! Tbh, I’ve seen so many posts on other forums I’m in that are asking the question “should I call the police because my neighbour has a friend in their garden” so it wouldn’t surprise me with *some* neighbours that are that way inclined... They are. My lodger delivers for parcel force and does pest control. One neighbour jumping to conclusions that he was out for a jolly every day and spreading rumours to other people about him. He then complained to other neighbours that he had seen a large rat at our house and three adjacent houses at the same time. It was Bella, one of our cats. So this is just one example of a person making assumptions, if he'd have phoned me and asked I could have told him. No need for spreading misinformation at all. "Yep people willing to snitch for any reason!!! Mmmmm seem to remember Germany being like this back in the day ... I’m just too busy out working to bother about my neighbors and what they up to .... that’s their business .,. | |||
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"Well I’ve been a rebel and gone back to England twice in last two weeks to see my grandchildren ....!not seen them in 3 months and suppose surprise the police were not waiting for me
We all still fit and healthy !!!!
So you were waiting for something to happen ,I guess .
So just because nothing happened you are willing to risk everything ,just to get laid ?
You can't be serious !
Ha ha ha didn’t say I was being laid as you put it ... I’ve been to see my grandchildren !!!"What I meant is you think police won't catch you . My ( Priya) point was if the police would have caught you, they would have reprimanded you for sure as seeing your grand kids is not a reasonable ground to travel . | |||
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" I get what you're saying, but why not have the law state your are not allowed 2 or more people to stay overnight? Or like Holland, I believe, pick a single partner you can visit. It's just another example of piss poor thinking with unintended consequence" This...exactly!!! | |||
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"Just imagine a police state where people report their neinghbours for real or imagined breaches of some legislation that neither makes sense or is fair. Imagine a time when the state is monitoring who we meet and when and what for, and using neighbours to report people who break the rules. hmm Germany in the 30s, Russia or other communist states in the 50 - 60's the UK in 2020 ! I know what the intention is … but this is silly pointless and a PR disaster to top all PR disasters, when will they actually do something that makes sense ! kids can go to school with loads of other kids and teachers, but people are reporting neighbours for seeing their grandkids !! REALLY !!!!!!!!" Spot on, As a hypothetical exercise obviously
Imagine a fwb situation, both single, lady has kids, gentleman has visited once a fortnight and stayed overnight. Other than that they've seen nobody.
Why is this more risky than the crowds from all over the country we've seen at beaches and beauty spots?
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"Well I’ve been a rebel and gone back to England twice in last two weeks to see my grandchildren ....!not seen them in 3 months and suppose surprise the police were not waiting for me
We all still fit and healthy !!!!
So you were waiting for something to happen ,I guess .
So just because nothing happened you are willing to risk everything ,just to get laid ?
You can't be serious !
Ha ha ha didn’t say I was being laid as you put it ... I’ve been to see my grandchildren !!!
What I meant is you think police won't catch you . My ( Priya) point was if the police would have caught you, they would have reprimanded you for sure as seeing your grand kids is not a reasonable ground to travel .
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"Just imagine a police state where people report their neinghbours for real or imagined breaches of some legislation that neither makes sense or is fair. Imagine a time when the state is monitoring who we meet and when and what for, and using neighbours to report people who break the rules. hmm Germany in the 30s, Russia or other communist states in the 50 - 60's the UK in 2020 ! I know what the intention is … but this is silly pointless and a PR disaster to top all PR disasters, when will they actually do something that makes sense ! kids can go to school with loads of other kids and teachers, but people are reporting neighbours for seeing their grandkids !! REALLY !!!!!!!!" My point exactly ..., Nazi Germany !!! Some people really need to get a grip on reality !!! | |||
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"Just imagine a police state where people report their neinghbours for real or imagined breaches of some legislation that neither makes sense or is fair. Imagine a time when the state is monitoring who we meet and when and what for, and using neighbours to report people who break the rules. hmm Germany in the 30s, Russia or other communist states in the 50 - 60's the UK in 2020 ! I know what the intention is … but this is silly pointless and a PR disaster to top all PR disasters, when will they actually do something that makes sense ! kids can go to school with loads of other kids and teachers, but people are reporting neighbours for seeing their grandkids !! REALLY !!!!!!!! Spot on, As a hypothetical exercise obviously
Imagine a fwb situation, both single, lady has kids, gentleman has visited once a fortnight and stayed overnight. Other than that they've seen nobody.
Why is this more risky than the crowds from all over the country we've seen at beaches and beauty spots?
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"We're walking into a police state and our civil liberties are being eroded using covid as a reason. Yes we need to take caution but we are all adults. " Agreed. | |||
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"We're walking into a police state and our civil liberties are being eroded using covid as a reason. Yes we need to take caution but we are all adults. " What caution can you take? Can you completely be satisfied that someone is not a carrier of Covid? Adults we may be. But again. How would you know someone else isn't a carrier? | |||
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"We're walking into a police state and our civil liberties are being eroded using covid as a reason. Yes we need to take caution but we are all adults. " Yeah when a government wants to erode your civil liberties they don't tend to take some away then slowly release them back to you in a controlled measure having taken advice from the scientific community responsible for the research of disease and virus transmissions.. A government slow takes them away one by one without you knowing, gains maximum compliance through extreme punishments.. not asking the police to advise you not to have a picnic with 20 of your mates. Some people really have no concept of a police state or how lucky they are to live in a country which actually allows freedom. You're on a swingers site.. even in some western countries this kind of activity is banned. Again.. get a grip. | |||
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"Best just fucking outdoors then but not in the garden? " get a tent | |||
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"We're walking into a police state and our civil liberties are being eroded using covid as a reason. Yes we need to take caution but we are all adults. " | |||
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"We're walking into a police state and our civil liberties are being eroded using covid as a reason. Yes we need to take caution but we are all adults. Yeah when a government wants to erode your civil liberties they don't tend to take some away then slowly release them back to you in a controlled measure having taken advice from the scientific community responsible for the research of disease and virus transmissions.. A government slow takes them away one by one without you knowing, gains maximum compliance through extreme punishments.. not asking the police to advise you not to have a picnic with 20 of your mates. Some people really have no concept of a police state or how lucky they are to live in a country which actually allows freedom. You're on a swingers site.. even in some western countries this kind of activity is banned. Again.. get a grip." Well said .... some people are just sleep walking into it all | |||
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"It actually says if you read it that people cant stay overnight.... Perfect. She has to go home after. "Sorry, I'd love you to stay the night but the government says no" "Lol made me giggle | |||
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"Good news is that , all these are temporary measures until we are free of this deadly pandemic. We just have to hold our inhibitions for a while ,after that the world is ours. " So I take it you not having sex? I mean you said "we" like you've not had sex or adult contact /physical contact since lock down started? My personal opinion is that couples don't know how it is for singles right now, so waving your fingers at single people for voicing their frustration of not being able to have a cuddle or sex doesn't hold alot of weight.... We not bad people for being frustrated, we human and miss the contact, saying we miss it doesnt mean we going to go out and shag half the street now, but I'd definitely not say no to one safe FWB for the duration of this lock down, single people also have kids so moving a FB in is also not a viable option most. My FB coming to my house is still probably more safe than sending my kids to school So no, your good news really means nothing to those singles that have not even had a cuddle or any form of tactile contact with anyone for weeks. I mean this in the nicest most least attacking way possible way | |||
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"Just imagine a police state where people report their neinghbours for real or imagined breaches of some legislation that neither makes sense or is fair. Imagine a time when the state is monitoring who we meet and when and what for, and using neighbours to report people who break the rules. hmm Germany in the 30s, Russia or other communist states in the 50 - 60's the UK in 2020 ! I know what the intention is … but this is silly pointless and a PR disaster to top all PR disasters, when will they actually do something that makes sense ! kids can go to school with loads of other kids and teachers, but people are reporting neighbours for seeing their grandkids !! REALLY !!!!!!!! My point exactly ..., Nazi Germany !!! Some people really need to get a grip on reality !!!" I call Godwins Law | |||
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"Just imagine a police state where people report their neinghbours for real or imagined breaches of some legislation that neither makes sense or is fair. Imagine a time when the state is monitoring who we meet and when and what for, and using neighbours to report people who break the rules. hmm Germany in the 30s, Russia or other communist states in the 50 - 60's the UK in 2020 ! I know what the intention is … but this is silly pointless and a PR disaster to top all PR disasters, when will they actually do something that makes sense ! kids can go to school with loads of other kids and teachers, but people are reporting neighbours for seeing their grandkids !! REALLY !!!!!!!! My point exactly ..., Nazi Germany !!! Some people really need to get a grip on reality !!! I call Godwins Law "What's that? | |||
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"It actually says if you read it that people cant stay overnight.... Perfect. She has to go home after. "Sorry, I'd love you to stay the night but the government says no"
Lol made me giggle "Whats the definition of overnight? Can you leave 23:45 then come back at 0:15 the following morning? Or just arrange to meet in the early hours of the morning? | |||
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"Just imagine a police state where people report their neinghbours for real or imagined breaches of some legislation that neither makes sense or is fair. Imagine a time when the state is monitoring who we meet and when and what for, and using neighbours to report people who break the rules. hmm Germany in the 30s, Russia or other communist states in the 50 - 60's the UK in 2020 ! I know what the intention is … but this is silly pointless and a PR disaster to top all PR disasters, when will they actually do something that makes sense ! kids can go to school with loads of other kids and teachers, but people are reporting neighbours for seeing their grandkids !! REALLY !!!!!!!! My point exactly ..., Nazi Germany !!! Some people really need to get a grip on reality !!! I call Godwins Law
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"I really don't see the point of this being enshrined in law and I really don't see how the police are supposed to enforce it" It will be self policed by snitching neighbours no doubt. | |||
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"I really don't see the point of this being enshrined in law and I really don't see how the police are supposed to enforce it It will be self policed by snitching neighbours no doubt. " I hope not, I really don't want to get to the point where neighbours grassing each other up becomes normal. Besides, they would need to produce evidence that the people in question were having a private gathering and were not meeting for essential reasons.... | |||
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"I really don't see the point of this being enshrined in law and I really don't see how the police are supposed to enforce it It will be self policed by snitching neighbours no doubt. I hope not, I really don't want to get to the point where neighbours grassing each other up becomes normal. Besides, they would need to produce evidence that the people in question were having a private gathering and were not meeting for essential reasons...." It's becoming the norm already. We've experienced it ourselves when going out for legitimate reasons, work. One nosy neighbour decided to take it upon himself to spread rumours to others about us being out every day. (Parcel force and pest control jobs) but hey, that's fine we can stay in, parcels won't get delivered and people can be over-run with rats and mice lol. | |||
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"It actually says if you read it that people cant stay overnight.... Still ridiculous when other countries are taking into account the mental and physical wellbeing that sexual or just physical contact with another has x" exactly. this government is utterly useless | |||
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"Here's a bit of a reality check and something half the looney lefty conspiracy theorist, they're eroding our liberties bunch probably won't like... But maybe, just maybe look at the bigger picture. Do you think this has been brought in to stop you bumping ugly with the genitals of your choosing? Or could it be in response to the number of idiots hosting large scale parties in private dwellings? Up until now the only deterrent was the police asking them to leave. Now these idiots can at least be fined and if needed further criminal proceedings taken. Why is this a problem...because it takes up resources such as the police and occasionally the nhs when someone needs attention after to much drink or other substance misuse. Do you really think special branch are deploying a crack team to monitor you.. or your local copper really gives a f*ck if you decide to meet someone else.. not a chance. Stop reading trash news, turning it into some sort of over blown theory.. and grow the f*ck up.. And apologise for the rant but sick of hearing people whine how hard done by they are. We have a system that's paying for people not to have to go to work, that allows freedom of opinion and expression, is tolerant and accepting of peoples sexual choice. Take a trip to China, Pakistan, Russia.. and tell them how crap life in the uk is. And breathe..... So how do you propose they police it then? Spy cams in every home? More snitching from neighbours who do it out of spite or without knowing the true circumstances? Tuning into people's smart speakers etc? Do you not see how intrusive this really is??
You seem to be missing the point.. they wont police it..
They have sh*t all interest in you meeting someone in your home for sex.
They do however have an interesting in breaking up large scale house parties that get out of hand.. cause neighbours to complain and call the police.
Trust me they ain't monitoring alexa for the sounds of you crying out the lords name.
It's all about perspective... not everything is done to keep you down..
Now off you pop to North Korea and tell them of your troubles.
No need for rudeness. I want talking about parties, I was referring to 1 person visiting and breaking rules. North Korea has nothing to do with my post. "But just maybe that 1 person you meet is asymptomatic or you are and infection goes up again pretty simple to work out | |||
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"Good news is that , all these are temporary measures until we are free of this deadly pandemic. We just have to hold our inhibitions for a while ,after that the world is ours. So I take it you not having sex? I mean you said "we" like you've not had sex or adult contact /physical contact since lock down started? My personal opinion is that couples don't know how it is for singles right now, so waving your fingers at single people for voicing their frustration of not being able to have a cuddle or sex doesn't hold alot of weight.... We not bad people for being frustrated, we human and miss the contact, saying we miss it doesnt mean we going to go out and shag half the street now, but I'd definitely not say no to one safe FWB for the duration of this lock down, single people also have kids so moving a FB in is also not a viable option most. My FB coming to my house is still probably more safe than sending my kids to school So no, your good news really means nothing to those singles that have not even had a cuddle or any form of tactile contact with anyone for weeks. I mean this in the nicest most least attacking way possible way "The WE as in WE SWINGERS. Theres a kind of solidarity here in my post. Anyway ,don't expect you to comprehend fully as can see from your post is you are angered by the govt decision. Yes not just fuckbuddies but even normal people who are in relationships but staying apart can't meet for sex . And nobody is laughing on your wounds at all, but we are facing a situation here. There are hospitals in England which have literally closed their admissions as they can't take anymore . Right now people with symptoms are been asked to stay home and not to visit GP or a hospital. This is very little price people will be paying to keep everyone safe . This won't be for a lifetime . Today Bournemouth beach was full of people not wearing masks. It's ridiculous. | |||
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"Here's a bit of a reality check and something half the looney lefty conspiracy theorist, they're eroding our liberties bunch probably won't like... But maybe, just maybe look at the bigger picture. Do you think this has been brought in to stop you bumping ugly with the genitals of your choosing? Or could it be in response to the number of idiots hosting large scale parties in private dwellings? Up until now the only deterrent was the police asking them to leave. Now these idiots can at least be fined and if needed further criminal proceedings taken. Why is this a problem...because it takes up resources such as the police and occasionally the nhs when someone needs attention after to much drink or other substance misuse. Do you really think special branch are deploying a crack team to monitor you.. or your local copper really gives a f*ck if you decide to meet someone else.. not a chance. Stop reading trash news, turning it into some sort of over blown theory.. and grow the f*ck up.. And apologise for the rant but sick of hearing people whine how hard done by they are. We have a system that's paying for people not to have to go to work, that allows freedom of opinion and expression, is tolerant and accepting of peoples sexual choice. Take a trip to China, Pakistan, Russia.. and tell them how crap life in the uk is. And breathe..... So how do you propose they police it then? Spy cams in every home? More snitching from neighbours who do it out of spite or without knowing the true circumstances? Tuning into people's smart speakers etc? Do you not see how intrusive this really is??
You seem to be missing the point.. they wont police it..
They have sh*t all interest in you meeting someone in your home for sex.
They do however have an interesting in breaking up large scale house parties that get out of hand.. cause neighbours to complain and call the police.
Trust me they ain't monitoring alexa for the sounds of you crying out the lords name.
It's all about perspective... not everything is done to keep you down..
Now off you pop to North Korea and tell them of your troubles.
No need for rudeness. I want talking about parties, I was referring to 1 person visiting and breaking rules. North Korea has nothing to do with my post.
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" More at risk of catching something at the supermarket. " That's why they have 2m distancing in the supermarket, wearing masks, hand sanitisers. There are guidelines on how many people they can allow in the store at one time. They have to count the customers too. You are not at risk in super market but may be from having sex with another person. | |||
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" More at risk of catching something at the supermarket. That's why they have 2m distancing in the supermarket, wearing masks, hand sanitisers. There are guidelines on how many people they can allow in the store at one time. They have to count the customers too. You are not at risk in super market but may be from having sex with another person." The way this shit is going now this should be our risk to take hell even government make up their own rules to suit what they do I've had to risk my life every day to make profit to a company who has had sale after sale taking advantage of you lot stuck at home being paid and nothing to spend it on oh but now its all being returned for a refund I'm fuming selfish ppl and now I'm told I cant have sex bc i dont want a partner.... nah they know where they can shove that | |||
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" More at risk of catching something at the supermarket. That's why they have 2m distancing in the supermarket, wearing masks, hand sanitisers. There are guidelines on how many people they can allow in the store at one time. They have to count the customers too. You are not at risk in super market but may be from having sex with another person." You didn't see my local Asda last week. I walked out. | |||
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"Of course they’re not interested they don’t need to be. The Facebook police are on hand to reprimand and slander anyone they see fit. Sprinkle on a little bit of media fear mongering and you get the state of hysteria we have right now! Everyone has an opinion on what should of should be happening and they’re intent on letting everyone know about it! First brexit, then the elections now covid! The media certainly knows how to keep this country divided. " | |||
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