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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So during the lockdown has anyone found any new skills they didn't know they had, what have you learned about yourself, maybe you’ve realised your a lot more strong headed than you thought you was, or yes I am actually a light weight and last glass of wine was not a good idea |
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I feel a bit of a fraud because I haven't learned anything about myself, I haven't struggled and apart from having to pay over the odds for 100% peanut butter because the queue outside Aldi is too long and I don't want to join it, haven't really been inconvenienced. I almost feel that I need to invent some angst  |
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over a year ago
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Ive learned that people can turn a thread about anything at all including dog poop and VE day into a thread about the virus or politics
On a more serious note I learned that I am mentally alot stronger than I thought I was , I used to make any old plans every weekend because I was afraid to be alone too much with my own thoughts ... ive now been home entirely alone for 2 months and instead of it scaring the crap out of me I havent only survived Ive become incredibly comfortable with my own company |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ive learned that people can turn a thread about anything at all including dog poop and VE day into a thread about the virus or politics
On a more serious note I learned that I am mentally alot stronger than I thought I was , I used to make any old plans every weekend because I was afraid to be alone too much with my own thoughts ... ive now been home entirely alone for 2 months and instead of it scaring the crap out of me I havent only survived Ive become incredibly comfortable with my own company"
Awww wow well I’m very happy for you, I’ve learned the same I’ve just moved into my own place and I’ve learned that I can be a grown up I can que in Tesco and the lady in the post office is extremely scary |
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By *asyukMan
over a year ago
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I had planned to.
As it turns out I have been flat out with work. That is down to the fact that other people are more available for discussions.
I have managed to find more time to read and watch some webinars and and feed my inner nerd for the industry I work in.
I've not been alone though. I think that would be much harder... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive learned that people can turn a thread about anything at all including dog poop and VE day into a thread about the virus or politics
On a more serious note I learned that I am mentally alot stronger than I thought I was , I used to make any old plans every weekend because I was afraid to be alone too much with my own thoughts ... ive now been home entirely alone for 2 months and instead of it scaring the crap out of me I havent only survived Ive become incredibly comfortable with my own company
Awww wow well I’m very happy for you, I’ve learned the same I’ve just moved into my own place and I’ve learned that I can be a grown up I can que in Tesco and the lady in the post office is extremely scary "
Thanks  i bet she isnt really that scary... probably just stressed t the max by the current situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I offered a free vehicle 'get you going service' to the local area so as to give something back to the community.
Then I learnt that included repairing a lawnmower for a local church and my conciense not letting me charge them for the rebuild parts.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ive learned that people can turn a thread about anything at all including dog poop and VE day into a thread about the virus or politics
On a more serious note I learned that I am mentally alot stronger than I thought I was , I used to make any old plans every weekend because I was afraid to be alone too much with my own thoughts ... ive now been home entirely alone for 2 months and instead of it scaring the crap out of me I havent only survived Ive become incredibly comfortable with my own company
Awww wow well I’m very happy for you, I’ve learned the same I’ve just moved into my own place and I’ve learned that I can be a grown up I can que in Tesco and the lady in the post office is extremely scary
Thanks i bet she isnt really that scary... probably just stressed t the max by the current situation "
Oh no she is a million percent very scary your pictures are stunning xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I offered a free vehicle 'get you going service' to the local area so as to give something back to the community.
Then I learnt that included repairing a lawnmower for a local church and my conciense not letting me charge them for the rebuild parts. "
That’s amazing you must have felt great that’s your good deed |
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Gosh I have learned LOADS!!!!!
I have realised that I worked waaaay too hard and too many hours, probably putting myself into an early grave. I have stepped back now to analyse this and I definitely won't be working 90 hour weeks post Covid.
I can grow stuff and not kill it if I remember to water it.
I REALLY like my own company
SO many people really do care about us and the club..the messages have been lovely, thank you xx
Some people have really surprised me...not in a good way.
That the club is so much more than a swinging/BDSM club to lots of people; it is their haven to express themselves as they really are and I get told this daily
I have learned who our supporters and friends really are!!! I have been more surprised by this than anything!!
That having good accounts has actually made a big difference when the shit hit the fan...it won't make much difference if we're still closed next year though 
That sleep really is essential! Wow, how I like 7-8 hours nowadays!
Yes, you really can have too much sex. My vagina is broken
My hair grows REALLY quickly! 
That a Doxy wand really is the best wand compared to Hitachi and Lelo
xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think in a whole as much as this virus has ruined lives, and completely torn families apart, we as a nation have come together and helped our fellow man and lady when they do desperately need it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I offered a free vehicle 'get you going service' to the local area so as to give something back to the community.
Then I learnt that included repairing a lawnmower for a local church and my conciense not letting me charge them for the rebuild parts.
That’s amazing you must have felt great that’s your good deed "
I did feel good about it until I got the text this morning asking if I could also fix their Rotovator 
I'm not even religious ffs. 
Still every little deed that helps anyone counts at this moment and it's a more productive way of spending time than insanely arguing on threads about tax and N.I. contributions that people didn't pay but now E pe t the benefit of. (Turned it political for Girlinlingerie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I offered a free vehicle 'get you going service' to the local area so as to give something back to the community.
Then I learnt that included repairing a lawnmower for a local church and my conciense not letting me charge them for the rebuild parts.
That’s amazing you must have felt great that’s your good deed
I did feel good about it until I got the text this morning asking if I could also fix their Rotovator
I'm not even religious ffs.
Still every little deed that helps anyone counts at this moment and it's a more productive way of spending time than insanely arguing on threads about tax and N.I. contributions that people didn't pay but now E pe t the benefit of. (Turned it political for Girlinlingerie "
I’m still working a 60 hour week, if i want to be unproductive and get involved in a online debate on a bank holiday which is my time off to with what i wish i don’t really see what business that is of anyone elses ... same as its not my business that you appear to have read the unproductive thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gosh I have learned LOADS!!!!!
I have realised that I worked waaaay too hard and too many hours, probably putting myself into an early grave. I have stepped back now to analyse this and I definitely won't be working 90 hour weeks post Covid.
I can grow stuff and not kill it if I remember to water it.
I REALLY like my own company
SO many people really do care about us and the club..the messages have been lovely, thank you xx
Some people have really surprised me...not in a good way.
That the club is so much more than a swinging/BDSM club to lots of people; it is their haven to express themselves as they really are and I get told this daily
I have learned who our supporters and friends really are!!! I have been more surprised by this than anything!!
That having good accounts has actually made a big difference when the shit hit the fan...it won't make much difference if we're still closed next year though
That sleep really is essential! Wow, how I like 7-8 hours nowadays!
Yes, you really can have too much sex. My vagina is broken
My hair grows REALLY quickly!
That a Doxy wand really is the best wand compared to Hitachi and Lelo
xxx"
Townhouse is more to me than a place to hook up, it's a place to socialise and enjoy life on my good days and my bad days, when I just sit and drink coffee on the sofa in TH bar on a MILF Monday watching people interact and have a good time.
The honest truth is, it's the place I miss most during lockdown and that is the truth and not just blowing smoke up ya ass.
Oh and yeah, I've been telling people for years that Doxy's are the best wands |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I offered a free vehicle 'get you going service' to the local area so as to give something back to the community.
Then I learnt that included repairing a lawnmower for a local church and my conciense not letting me charge them for the rebuild parts.
That’s amazing you must have felt great that’s your good deed
I did feel good about it until I got the text this morning asking if I could also fix their Rotovator
I'm not even religious ffs.
Still every little deed that helps anyone counts at this moment and it's a more productive way of spending time than insanely arguing on threads about tax and N.I. contributions that people didn't pay but now E pe t the benefit of. (Turned it political for Girlinlingerie
I’m still working a 60 hour week, if i want to be unproductive and get involved in a online debate on a bank holiday which is my time off to with what i wish i don’t really see what business that is of anyone elses ... same as its not my business that you appear to have read the unproductive thread "
It was meant as a lighthearted joke, it wasn't meant to be negative. I happen to agree with most of your arguments if that means anything.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I offered a free vehicle 'get you going service' to the local area so as to give something back to the community.
Then I learnt that included repairing a lawnmower for a local church and my conciense not letting me charge them for the rebuild parts.
That’s amazing you must have felt great that’s your good deed
I did feel good about it until I got the text this morning asking if I could also fix their Rotovator
I'm not even religious ffs.
Still every little deed that helps anyone counts at this moment and it's a more productive way of spending time than insanely arguing on threads about tax and N.I. contributions that people didn't pay but now E pe t the benefit of. (Turned it political for Girlinlingerie
I’m still working a 60 hour week, if i want to be unproductive and get involved in a online debate on a bank holiday which is my time off to with what i wish i don’t really see what business that is of anyone elses ... same as its not my business that you appear to have read the unproductive thread
It was meant as a lighthearted joke, it wasn't meant to be negative. I happen to agree with most of your arguments if that means anything. "
Well apologies for misinterpreting , |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I offered a free vehicle 'get you going service' to the local area so as to give something back to the community.
Then I learnt that included repairing a lawnmower for a local church and my conciense not letting me charge them for the rebuild parts.
That’s amazing you must have felt great that’s your good deed
I did feel good about it until I got the text this morning asking if I could also fix their Rotovator
I'm not even religious ffs.
Still every little deed that helps anyone counts at this moment and it's a more productive way of spending time than insanely arguing on threads about tax and N.I. contributions that people didn't pay but now E pe t the benefit of. (Turned it political for Girlinlingerie
I’m still working a 60 hour week, if i want to be unproductive and get involved in a online debate on a bank holiday which is my time off to with what i wish i don’t really see what business that is of anyone elses ... same as its not my business that you appear to have read the unproductive thread
It was meant as a lighthearted joke, it wasn't meant to be negative. I happen to agree with most of your arguments if that means anything.
Well apologies for misinterpreting , "
Nice amicable end to what was suppose to be a little enlightening thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Built a curved fire pit. Only cost concrete. Rest got free.
Got free wood delivered.. Made 2 planters 5ft long 3ft high.. And still standing
Dismantled a tin shed and made a wood store.
Only me n my 15 Yr daughter.
Boom... We rocked |
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"Gosh I have learned LOADS!!!!!
I have realised that I worked waaaay too hard and too many hours, probably putting myself into an early grave. I have stepped back now to analyse this and I definitely won't be working 90 hour weeks post Covid.
I can grow stuff and not kill it if I remember to water it.
I REALLY like my own company
SO many people really do care about us and the club..the messages have been lovely, thank you xx
Some people have really surprised me...not in a good way.
That the club is so much more than a swinging/BDSM club to lots of people; it is their haven to express themselves as they really are and I get told this daily
I have learned who our supporters and friends really are!!! I have been more surprised by this than anything!!
That having good accounts has actually made a big difference when the shit hit the fan...it won't make much difference if we're still closed next year though
That sleep really is essential! Wow, how I like 7-8 hours nowadays!
Yes, you really can have too much sex. My vagina is broken
My hair grows REALLY quickly!
That a Doxy wand really is the best wand compared to Hitachi and Lelo
xxx
Townhouse is more to me than a place to hook up, it's a place to socialise and enjoy life on my good days and my bad days, when I just sit and drink coffee on the sofa in TH bar on a MILF Monday watching people interact and have a good time.
The honest truth is, it's the place I miss most during lockdown and that is the truth and not just blowing smoke up ya ass.
Oh and yeah, I've been telling people for years that Doxy's are the best wands"
Awww it's comments like this that are spurring us on! Mwah xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Built a curved fire pit. Only cost concrete. Rest got free.
Got free wood delivered.. Made 2 planters 5ft long 3ft high.. And still standing
Dismantled a tin shed and made a wood store.
Only me n my 15 Yr daughter.
Boom... We rocked"
Ive seen people building pretty impressive stuff out of free pallets ... i have zero diy skills  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive learned that people can turn a thread about anything at all including dog poop and VE day into a thread about the virus or politics
On a more serious note I learned that I am mentally alot stronger than I thought I was , I used to make any old plans every weekend because I was afraid to be alone too much with my own thoughts ... ive now been home entirely alone for 2 months and instead of it scaring the crap out of me I havent only survived Ive become incredibly comfortable with my own company"
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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago
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I have learnt that the things I thought were major problems and would run around trying to solve are actually not major at all . just trivial really especially compared to what some are experiencing
Have also learnt to keep an eye on hubby when he cuts the garden hedge. Looks like Hiroshima after the bomb |
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I've learnt that I give myself to much to others and need to step back and start thinking of myself and start living a life for myself especially being 56 this year.
So once life can start getting back to normal I'm looking to move away to the seaside and start enjoying the rest of my life x Storm x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was literally only thinking of this yesterday... so here is my thoughts:
I actually like my husband and kid- they’re both awesome people.
I appreciate the area that I live in and our home so much.
I’m grateful for selfless people eg: the NHS and key workers. I wish I was that brave.
I can bake
And make great cocktails
I can grow vegetables from seed (but need to learn how to get rid of slugs)
I’ve not forgotten my Spanish
I hate Arnie Presses
Shaving isn’t as good as waxing but I ain’t doing that myself so it will have to do!
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I've learned I don't need sex. I can make a shit dinner out of crap in the fridge.
I can stay awake for 72 hours. My butt isn't as sexy as I thought it was. The goverment think I'm a pleb and a cow.
I miss the 70's. The sky looks better without aeroplanes. Donald Trump is actually clever he just says stupid things.
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By *estivalMan
over a year ago
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ive learnt the majority of peeps in my town are even bigger fucking idiots than i thought possible.area just down road from me has worst numbers in hertfordshire now there banging on its because its a deprived area. while ignoring the fact if u dtive past iy looks just like a normal day no social distancing different households meeting at the park with there kids.the smack dealer in the nxt block to me is out and about all day long so fuck knows how many peeps he coming into contact with.but hey blame it on living in a deprived area instead of there own stupidity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've learnt how to be a dentist and just pulled my own tooth out
Something I would never even have thought of doing had the dentist been available. But I'm quids in! "
Ouch |
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