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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How about a Club Tease situation where you turn up and Tease from a distance of 2 metres with no touching allowed xx
Feel free to expand anybody, quite literally!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apparently the Gatehouse in Bolton was doing times that were purely social, why can't Clubs do the same, but with no clothes or lingerie, whilst 2 metres apart - so erotic!! And very safe sex |
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"Apparently the Gatehouse in Bolton was doing times that were purely social, why can't Clubs do the same, but with no clothes or lingerie, whilst 2 metres apart - so erotic!! And very safe sex"
Yeah I'm thinking something similar. Regulars only. As we all know those who arnt can get a little carried away or push rules |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently the Gatehouse in Bolton was doing times that were purely social, why can't Clubs do the same, but with no clothes or lingerie, whilst 2 metres apart - so erotic!! And very safe sex
Yeah I'm thinking something similar. Regulars only. As we all know those who arnt can get a little carried away or push rules "
What do you class as regular? We go every 6 weeks roughly. That would rule us out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or my ultimate fantasy would be whilst observing safety measures by invitation to a night at a Club where 2 men from the same household could perform in front of a mixed crowd sitting 2 metres apart.
Oh the possibilities are endless if you embrace them - from 2 metres apart of course! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Amidst all this pain and angst we need to get together and put these suggestions to the Clubs themselves to see if we can help save them. I would be happy to give time to collating suggestions off the forum to do this. What does anybody think xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apparently the Gatehouse in Bolton was doing times that were purely social, why can't Clubs do the same, but with no clothes or lingerie, whilst 2 metres apart - so erotic!! And very safe sex
Yeah I'm thinking something similar. Regulars only. As we all know those who arnt can get a little carried away or push rules
What do you class as regular? We go every 6 weeks roughly. That would rule us out. "
I think it should include everybody xx |
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"Apparently the Gatehouse in Bolton was doing times that were purely social, why can't Clubs do the same, but with no clothes or lingerie, whilst 2 metres apart - so erotic!! And very safe sex
Yeah I'm thinking something similar. Regulars only. As we all know those who arnt can get a little carried away or push rules
What do you class as regular? We go every 6 weeks roughly. That would rule us out. "
Good point. So I might change that comment and say no new.faces or those who cant be vouched for |
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"Or my ultimate fantasy would be whilst observing safety measures by invitation to a night at a Club where 2 men from the same household could perform in front of a mixed crowd sitting 2 metres apart.
Oh the possibilities are endless if you embrace them - from 2 metres apart of course! "
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"Apparently the Gatehouse in Bolton was doing times that were purely social, why can't Clubs do the same, but with no clothes or lingerie, whilst 2 metres apart - so erotic!! And very safe sex
Yeah I'm thinking something similar. Regulars only. As we all know those who arnt can get a little carried away or push rules
What do you class as regular? We go every 6 weeks roughly. That would rule us out. "
Those.who dont push or just get pissed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's possible within these nights to hold fun little competitions eg, best bum, sexiest torso and still stay 2 metres apart.
At the end of the day, if restaurants etc are going to open again, Clubs should be no different with the same rules observed and perhaps more themed ticketed days/nights xx |
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More inclined towards social, rather than sexual interaction? Both carry risks but we can usually be a little further apart when not enjoying the flesh.
Staggered hours and fewer people attending at any point? Increases costs for the poor clubs  . Could it be attractive enough for punters and profitable enough for the owners?
Could the oft discussed in the forum wank clubs prevail? Solitary wanking or couples doing as they wished, potentially with some exhibitionists putting on free displays. Lots of bodily fluids to contend with.
People patitioned from each other, glass screens etc, could deliver very close distancing but no actual touching. Window cleaners needed etc.
Could become like working men's clubs, with interaction thats very different and possibly getting more frequent attendance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More inclined towards social, rather than sexual interaction? Both carry risks but we can usually be a little further apart when not enjoying the flesh.
Staggered hours and fewer people attending at any point? Increases costs for the poor clubs . Could it be attractive enough for punters and profitable enough for the owners?
Could the oft discussed in the forum wank clubs prevail? Solitary wanking or couples doing as they wished, potentially with some exhibitionists putting on free displays. Lots of bodily fluids to contend with.
People patitioned from each other, glass screens etc, could deliver very close distancing but no actual touching. Window cleaners needed etc.
Could become like working men's clubs, with interaction thats very different and possibly getting more frequent attendance.
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I agree, it could be a whole new kind of interesting xx |
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"Amidst all this pain and angst we need to get together and put these suggestions to the Clubs themselves to see if we can help save them. I would be happy to give time to collating suggestions off the forum to do this. What does anybody think xx"
There have been TONS of threads about the future of clubs. Those of us who are prepared to fight to stay open have been watching the forum comments and suggestions xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Amidst all this pain and angst we need to get together and put these suggestions to the Clubs themselves to see if we can help save them. I would be happy to give time to collating suggestions off the forum to do this. What does anybody think xx
There have been TONS of threads about the future of clubs. Those of us who are prepared to fight to stay open have been watching the forum comments and suggestions xx"
Brilliant because the Clubs are the life blood of the the Free Spirited xxx |
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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago
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The tests which show past infection are now been rolled out, when we have been shown to have had it then you arent going to catch it again so going to a club is no risk, of course others may have the infection so you could have it on your skin but surely after sex with strangers you have a shower so you arent going to take it home and spread it. Far more likely to pick up a STI at a club even with safe sex, life is a risk |
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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago
harrow |
"They have no future.. all will close and 5-10 years later new ones will open..."
Sadly, I think you are spot on ! There will be no end to social distancing until a vaccine is found and widely administered. That’s if a vaccine is found . |
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"They have no future.. all will close and 5-10 years later new ones will open...
Sadly, I think you are spot on ! There will be no end to social distancing until a vaccine is found and widely administered. That’s if a vaccine is found . "
In that case, book me on the next available flight to Cyprus and I'll go sell sunbeds on the beach  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that they have to lower the entrance fee for the men as during these times you wont spend that much to get in."
Many clubs would not surivive without that.
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Swinging clubs will struggle for a year at least while social distancing is in place some people will drop out of the scene some people will attend private parties and meets clubs will eventually get back to where they were but will take a few years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that they have to lower the entrance fee for the men as during these times you wont spend that much to get in.Many clubs would not surivive without that."
During "these times" they must and will remain closed. Likely to be the very last allowed to re-open. If there is a 5 stage plan for easing lockdown they will be about stage 17.... |
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"I think that they have to lower the entrance fee for the men as during these times you wont spend that much to get in.Many clubs would not surivive without that.
During "these times" they must and will remain closed. Likely to be the very last allowed to re-open. If there is a 5 stage plan for easing lockdown they will be about stage 17...."
ive seen some clubs say they are looking into own partner only night's with social distance watching problem with any hastily put together laws they are always countless loopholes which businesses have always exploited this will be no different |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"They have no future.. all will close and 5-10 years later new ones will open..."
Absolutely this. There are too many people saying they won't meet till it's safe . But we aren't going to get the all clear on this for years. |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"Just how do we envisage .. adapting with social distancing in our clubs.
Could maybe they be naked spas only
Anything to keep em afloat "
In fact it might be more apt to ask if fab itself will survive this ... |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Just how do we envisage .. adapting with social distancing in our clubs.
Could maybe they be naked spas only
Anything to keep em afloat
In fact it might be more apt to ask if fab itself will survive this ..."
I would be interested to know how many people have stopped paying to use the site. |
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In fact it might be more apt to ask if fab itself will survive this ...
I would be interested to know how many people have stopped paying to use the site. "
Maybe more than you think. The chat rooms are pretty busy every day. |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
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In fact it might be more apt to ask if fab itself will survive this ...
I would be interested to know how many people have stopped paying to use the site.
Maybe more than you think. The chat rooms are pretty busy every day. "
Yes but people are at home bored. Once we are back working things will change. I am certainly not renewing my membership. No point. |
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In fact it might be more apt to ask if fab itself will survive this ...
I would be interested to know how many people have stopped paying to use the site.
Maybe more than you think. The chat rooms are pretty busy every day.
Yes but people are at home bored. Once we are back working things will change. I am certainly not renewing my membership. No point. "
My inbox has never been busier lol! I'm happily chatting with people and making plans for when the restrictions are relaxed! You can have over a year's worth of site supporter membership in here, for the cost of one night as a single guy in a club, and I know which gives the best value  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a free Covid19 disco night for those that's already had it and recovered.
People should be paying double entrance fee and queuing up to shag those in there for their antibodies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The doom and gloom lot are out in force on here.
I remember all gays will be dead in 2 year's if no cure for aids is found, remember that? No didn’t think people would, be the same with this virus.
People move on that's how life works, so start looking on the bright side. |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"The doom and gloom lot are out in force on here.
I remember all gays will be dead in 2 year's if no cure for aids is found, remember that? No didn’t think people would, be the same with this virus.
People move on that's how life works, so start looking on the bright side."
I'm basing my opinion on the sheer number of people who say they aren't meeting till the virus has gone and there's a vaccine. Neither will happen this year hence my low confidence in clubs surviving . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Glory hole only clubs are the answer, made from plexiglass if you want to see and be seen. Wear a condom for extra safety."
May as well wear a glove on your left hand and have a wank then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What actual difference would there be sitting 2m or sitting beside someone for an extended period ?
Does the virus sit in a cloud round an infected person ?
I get the 2m separation if you are in a supermarket or outside because if someone sneezes or coughs you're less likely to get a direct blast but if it's slowly oozing out of someone who is asymptomatic or presymptomatic will 2m sitting in a bar/club/restaurant really make a huge difference ?
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
London |
"The doom and gloom lot are out in force on here.
I remember all gays will be dead in 2 year's if no cure for aids is found, remember that? No didn’t think people would, be the same with this virus.
People move on that's how life works, so start looking on the bright side."
Some people will not move on from this virus anytime soon.
People moved on from the HIV virus after a while, but that’s because of two main reasons.
1. HIV is preventable.
You can take Prep and or use a condom, so you can still meet people for sex and don’t get HIV if you take the necessary precautions.
2. If you do contract HIV, there are drugs available which can keep you alive so you don’t have to die prematurely.
None of the conditions above apply to this new virus ( at least not yet)
Until a vaccine or drug is found to prevent it and / or a cure is found to stop you from dying, then some people will rightly excercise some caution. And that caution will be ongoing for a few years, not just a few weeks or months.
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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago
bournemouth |
"The doom and gloom lot are out in force on here.
I remember all gays will be dead in 2 year's if no cure for aids is found, remember that? No didn’t think people would, be the same with this virus.
People move on that's how life works, so start looking on the bright side.
Some people will not move on from this virus anytime soon.
People moved on from the HIV virus after a while, but that’s because of two main reasons.
1. HIV is preventable.
You can take Prep and or use a condom, so you can still meet people for sex and don’t get HIV if you take the necessary precautions.
2. If you do contract HIV, there are drugs available which can keep you alive so you don’t have to die prematurely.
None of the conditions above apply to this new virus ( at least not yet)
Until a vaccine or drug is found to prevent it and / or a cure is found to stop you from dying, then some people will rightly excercise some caution. And that caution will be ongoing for a few years, not just a few weeks or months.
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Well that's taken panic mode to a new level, if you really think this virus is in the same league as HIV then there is little hope. |
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I'm optimistic for clubs. They are generally well run, some exceptionally well run. They want to remain in business and so will experiment and find changes that can work. Their former clientele may be slightly different to their newer ones, if the former are too afraid at first.
It's possible that new membership and entry pricing will get people in, with an alternative club offering. Those too afraid to change much from their legacy charging policies will perhaps miss out. But we have to remember that we have some really bright and committed club owners. They want us to be happy.
If there's a transitional couple of years, whilst they explore and offer new ways of us enjoying their services, before some of their older formats return - whilst perhaps keeping some elements of what they'll try out post virus, it could be a great success. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They have no future.. all will close and 5-10 years later new ones will open...
Absolutely this. There are too many people saying they won't meet till it's safe . But we aren't going to get the all clear on this for years. "
We agree . Very sad situation |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
London |
"It kills much quicker and easier to catch
It kills a tiny percent of people who get it.what percent did/does aids kill ?"
This virus is not in the same league as aids. This is worse.
And that’s why some people have moved on from aids, but sadly will not move on from this one in a hurry. |
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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago
bournemouth |
"It kills much quicker and easier to catch
It kills a tiny percent of people who get it.what percent did/does aids kill ?
This virus is not in the same league as aids. This is worse.
And that’s why some people have moved on from aids, but sadly will not move on from this one in a hurry. "
Well if it was a choice of the tiny risk of dying with covid19 or living with HIV/aids every day of my life it would take me a nano second to decide. |
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We too are optimistic for clubs to return to normal once this is over
And can't see the difference of having a social night at a club to having a night out in a bar so hopefully some restrictions will be lifted this year |
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"I think that they have to lower the entrance fee for the men as during these times you wont spend that much to get in."
We personally can't see the need to drop single guy prices as couples and single fem only nights are always busier and as there are 50 single guys to every 1 single fem it would just encourage more single guys to attend making it an uncomfortable cockfest where couples n single fems not looking for guys would have to endure a night of cock zombies following there every move
Prices should remain the same couples tend to book hotel close to club so can both drink so spend as much as the single guy who drives n doesn't drink cause it might affect performance |
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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago
harrow |
"We too are optimistic for clubs to return to normal once this is over
And can't see the difference of having a social night at a club to having a night out in a bar so hopefully some restrictions will be lifted this year"
Once this is 'over' where is the virus going?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are concerts pencilled in for the autumn...some of those free for NHS worker ones so there must be so.w hope for mass gatherings laws to be relaxed by end of summer... fingers crossed |
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By *eilde HoarWoman
over a year ago
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I've been giving this a lot of thought and personally think we have more chance of a quick reliable blood spot test kit coming before a vaccine, maybe all patrons would take the 10 min result test before entry to play...
Just a ponder  |
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"We too are optimistic for clubs to return to normal once this is over
And can't see the difference of having a social night at a club to having a night out in a bar so hopefully some restrictions will be lifted this year
Once this is 'over' where is the virus going?!"
Same place as other virus we will get immune to it or a vaccine will be given to reduce its effects like the flu jab
Remember some of us have had to carry on working during all this should we of just stopped going to work an let the country fall into ruins  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We too are optimistic for clubs to return to normal once this is over
And can't see the difference of having a social night at a club to having a night out in a bar so hopefully some restrictions will be lifted this year
Once this is 'over' where is the virus going?!
Same place as other virus we will get immune to it or a vaccine will be given to reduce its effects like the flu jab
Remember some of us have had to carry on working during all this should we of just stopped going to work an let the country fall into ruins "
The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho
What make you think covid19 will be any different? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho
What make you think covid19 will be any different?"
Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it will be more like..... what's the first rule of swing club lol, and it will be like prohibition in the 30s and it will be all discussed underground and in secret pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho
What make you think covid19 will be any different?
Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year."
The ONS are now saying 75% of people who died have had the flu vaccine, scientists are looking into it because the jab is a strain of covid virus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho
What make you think covid19 will be any different?
Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year.The ONS are now saying 75% of people who died have had the flu vaccine, scientists are looking into it because the jab is a strain of covid virus. "
OMG of course 75% of the people that died of covid19 have had the flu jab.
Because over 65s and people with underlying health problems get the flu jab every year for free.
You couldn't make it up if you tried.
Excuse me while I go find a wall to bang my head against. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho
What make you think covid19 will be any different?
Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year."
Of course it saves thousands a year, but there are also thousands that die despite having had the vaccine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho
What make you think covid19 will be any different?
Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year.
Of course it saves thousands a year, but there are also thousands that die despite having had the vaccine "
A hell of a lot more would die of flu without the jab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho
What make you think covid19 will be any different?
Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year.
Of course it saves thousands a year, but there are also thousands that die despite having had the vaccine
A hell of a lot more would die of flu without the jab."
Indeed
But thousands still die every year despite the vaccine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho
What make you think covid19 will be any different?
Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year.
Of course it saves thousands a year, but there are also thousands that die despite having had the vaccine
A hell of a lot more would die of flu without the jab.
Indeed
But thousands still die every year despite the vaccine"
Sorry I am failing to see what point you were making initially. |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho
What make you think covid19 will be any different?
Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year.The ONS are now saying 75% of people who died have had the flu vaccine, scientists are looking into it because the jab is a strain of covid virus.
OMG of course 75% of the people that died of covid19 have had the flu jab.
Because over 65s and people with underlying health problems get the flu jab every year for free.
You couldn't make it up if you tried.
Excuse me while I go find a wall to bang my head against. "
Indeed, this makes for a wall-head-banging moment. |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho
What make you think covid19 will be any different?
Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year.
Of course it saves thousands a year, but there are also thousands that die despite having had the vaccine
A hell of a lot more would die of flu without the jab.
Indeed
But thousands still die every year despite the vaccine"
The point is a lot more would have died if a vaccine was not available.
Not sure why you are having difficulty understanding this. |
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