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Will you feel comfortable meeting after lockdown or will it change the way we go about things ,we are all saying ,,,can't wait for lockdown to be lifted then we are going to have 1 massive party and fuck the days away ,but in reality,,will we |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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I don't think "we are all saying" anything of the sort. Some seem to be planning to immediately return to meeting once lockdown meaures are decreased, but many have stated quite clearly that they won't be. As with all things there will be different opinions & approaches.
Personally I don't think I will be meeting for a long time. |
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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago
Clevedon |
Same here. Thinking we won't be doing much, we had got a lot quieter on here, not really sure if we will carry on or as they say sail into the sunset together. Would be easy choice for us both, this was just a bit of fun, not a need. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had been planning meeting someone when lockdown rules say it's possible, but as time has gone on I've realised it's just not worth it.
My life is more important than a fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am definitely going to see my partner as soon as the lockdown is relaxed. We used to spend every weekend together before this madness began...
Other meets- probably not straight away, and only the ones that were already regular before the lockdown.
Clubs- in due course. |
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"Will you feel comfortable meeting after lockdown or will it change the way we go about things ,we are all saying ,,,can't wait for lockdown to be lifted then we are going to have 1 massive party and fuck the days away ,but in reality,,will we "
I'm sadly going to have to wait a while as I just do club meets... but day they reopen I will be in them. May have to arrange a private group session if clubs stay shut for ages
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It depends on evidence about risk. Different types of meet will present different risks. For example, if you were going to have another meet with someone you had regularly met before in hotels, i would assess that as low risk, taking into account all factors such as hotel availability, social distancing guidance and the immunity status of those involved. On the other hand, clubs will be off the scale of risk assessment for a very considerable time. However, i think that in reality it will be a long time before ordinary people go back to pre-virus conduct! |
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It's certainly going to be different, but then you also have the people meeting as we speak and I think by them doing that it will only prolong this lockdown , but yes 1-1 Meets and becoming a regular might be the way in the future |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will you feel comfortable meeting after lockdown or will it change the way we go about things ,we are all saying ,,,can't wait for lockdown to be lifted then we are going to have 1 massive party and fuck the days away ,but in reality,,will we "
Think people will meet, but maybe with the ones they've known a while and met before on a regular basis.... If it doesn't bother some, then good luck to them, it's their life x |
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"Social distancing will still be in place for quite a while. "
If some rhetoric is to be followed then social distancing must remain forever
The rhetoric goes if you do not social distance you will spread cov-Sars2
And by doing so you will risk lives
Fair point totally agree
However exactly the same point DOES apply and DID apply to the other viruses in the world but specifically the influenza ones
If the rhetoric is
Maintain social distancing save lives save the NHS
It MUST by logical default be EQUALLY necessary and applied to influenza
It is an ABSOLUTE FACT that assuming SARS has gone not maintaining social distancing WILL cause more deaths AND put severe pressure upon world health systems
Of course after this thing has blown over no one will care again
I think we will discover most of the lines drawn are arbitrary
We wont care about needless deaths in other countries or needless deaths of homeless
I am genuinely curious when it will be socially acceptable for me to search for a life companion
I'm very very much for the lockdown
However I dont like the absolutist critical no give mantra
I hope for and would aim for most people most of the time
Which after about 4 months a couple of waves a couple of locdowns I expect for a couple or 5 years
I feel we will have to live with this live with another cause of death amongst many and take reasonable responsibility for protecting our health as well as others but not to the permanent loss of our humanity
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Social distancing will still be in place for quite a while.
If some rhetoric is to be followed then social distancing must remain forever
The rhetoric goes if you do not social distance you will spread cov-Sars2
And by doing so you will risk lives
Fair point totally agree
However exactly the same point DOES apply and DID apply to the other viruses in the world but specifically the influenza ones
If the rhetoric is
Maintain social distancing save lives save the NHS
It MUST by logical default be EQUALLY necessary and applied to influenza
It is an ABSOLUTE FACT that assuming SARS has gone not maintaining social distancing WILL cause more deaths AND put severe pressure upon world health systems
Of course after this thing has blown over no one will care again
I think we will discover most of the lines drawn are arbitrary
We wont care about needless deaths in other countries or needless deaths of homeless
I am genuinely curious when it will be socially acceptable for me to search for a life companion
I'm very very much for the lockdown
However I dont like the absolutist critical no give mantra
I hope for and would aim for most people most of the time
Which after about 4 months a couple of waves a couple of locdowns I expect for a couple or 5 years
I feel we will have to live with this live with another cause of death amongst many and take reasonable responsibility for protecting our health as well as others but not to the permanent loss of our humanity
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The difference is with influenza is that there is a best guess vaccine for the masses, of sorts and there isn’t anything for this virus.
For me this virus isn’t that different to anything else - I’m scared of germs so keep my distance wherever and whenever I hear of anything remotely germ like.
It terms of getting back out and pursuing relationships of whatever sort, I feel the risk will just be there for us to live with. |
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Interesting read
Different people
Different views ,I've had a test done this morning, I'll receive answer by txt before end of day ,I have no symptoms, but who really knows what's living or ticking in your body ,like a post from above said it's going to be a way of life and will always be around
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Random testing only has very limited use in my view, if you test positive then you've probably been infectious for a while so infected others, if it's negative then you could easily get infected hours afterwards then infect others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't see a massive party immediately after lockdown as it will likely be getting phased out and a lot will be only too conscious of the dangers of the possible "second peak" what it will mean and will have precautions in their heads.
Though it WILL probably happen and go into overdrive at some point in the future, either when case numbers have dwindled away to very little to none OR vaccination is ongoing, whichever comes first.
If it's the latter, then there may well be parties where attendees have to show some kind of the much touted "immunity pass" either through having had the disease or being vaccinated and if so then this sort of event would probably where those on the guest list go shagging bananas to make up for lost time tbf... 
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
I'm not going to rely on the government to dictate to me when I can or can't meet someone or have sex.
I'll make that choice myself based on perception of risk and ability to mitigate it. Common sense in other words. |
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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago
kilmarnock |
"Same here. Thinking we won't be doing much, we had got a lot quieter on here, not really sure if we will carry on or as they say sail into the sunset together. Would be easy choice for us both, this was just a bit of fun, not a need. "
been thinking same thing. Hollie
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We've both worked throughout this is high risk areas and have abided by all of the lockdown rules as expected. When the rules are lifted and we are permitted contact with others we will absolutely be open to meets.
Our view is that we all have to learn to live with this virus as best as we can. We are all adults and provided we are abiding by the laws we should all be able to take responsibility for our own actions.
By that we mean only meeting if you have no symptoms and nobody in your household has symptoms. We fully understand people can be asymptomatic but the only way to avoid that completely is to not come in to contact with anyone ever and there has to be a balance between living and existing. |
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Great views on it to be fair, but will it come to a point where we will be checking temputures first,and if the party has already started when you get there what chance of you got checking temputures, 90% will be overheating anyway
Condoms end thermo
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