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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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desperation when lock down ends ...so im asking this question due to the amount of message saying i wont be so selective in who i meet when this is over as ill be so called desperate ??? ...... seeing it in the forums too guys saying they will be well in when this finishes.
so my question is to all women men couples will you lower your standards because your desperate or will you carry on as you did before ? .
for me / us it will be as before nothing will change in how we pick people infact there will be less to pick from due to the amount of guys added to blocklist who asked to meet during lockdown including some ive met before...
this is not a guy bashing post ive base it on how i meet and i only meet guys... so desperation or as normal ?? |
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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago
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so my question is to all women men couples will you lower your standards because your desperate or will you carry on as you did before ? .
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Absolutely will not lower our standards.   |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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From what you read there's going to be gangbangs galore, but with single guys being hand picked and with over a 50% not turning up rate in the past it looks like the hand picked process will be relaxed. Can see a free for all until the thirst is quenched and then standards may then play a part. Can you imagine it in the clubs, barely an hello and you're dragged into a room or maybe on the spot just going for it.
Jest I jest.
Oh! The question. No, op, we'll remain the same picky selves. |
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People might finally be able to get the gangbangs that never happen if they arrange them on here.
Seriously though most women probably have at least one regular who they meet, i know i already get past meets offering to meet (before the lockdown) again and i haven't been meeting for over a year now. |
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I'm thinking the "desperate" may not be the correct word to use here.
We all agree there are time we are so horny that unusual things turn us on.
Maybe people will meet other that they wound not normlay after the lock down?
Rather than saying you will be desperate to meet someone.
You may meet someone that you would normally not be interisted in.
Just a thought.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are people gonna be that desperate really....no I shall keep the same things I look for in a potential meet the same but I bet the clubs n stuff will be better than ever cos people just wanna interact ...wether it be chatting or more ...some good vibes cumming |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm thinking the "desperate" may not be the correct word to use here.
We all agree there are time we are so horny that unusual things turn us on.
Maybe people will meet other that they wound not normlay after the lock down?
Rather than saying you will be desperate to meet someone.
You may meet someone that you would normally not be interisted in.
Just a thought. "
if i was not interested before why would i change my mind ?? so no i wont .. ill stick to how ive always picked and desperation is not my word its what the guys are telling me /and what said in the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've no intention of lowering my standards at all. "
Exactly this.
I've been here on n off for around 9 years. I did go through a stage my horn went through the roof and I needed to scratch an itch. It probably lasted a year, two at the most, and during that stage there was a slight slippage of standards. Since then, I'm back to the "would rather use the wand" than settle. So my meets are far and few between (as well as a temporary break in 2018 when I met someone  ).
I would dearly love to have a new partner in crime, but it takes time (and trust). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, def not going to drop them standard's.... My first meets won't be with someone new, will be with someone I've met before to clear the horn goggles first lol  |
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"desperation when lock down ends ...so im asking this question due to the amount of message saying i wont be so selective in who i meet when this is over as ill be so called desperate ??? ...... seeing it in the forums too guys saying they will be well in when this finishes.
so my question is to all women men couples will you lower your standards because your desperate or will you carry on as you did before ? .
for me / us it will be as before nothing will change in how we pick people infact there will be less to pick from due to the amount of guys added to blocklist who asked to meet during lockdown including some ive met before...
this is not a guy bashing post ive base it on how i meet and i only meet guys... so desperation or as normal ?? "
I don't understand why a guy would message a woman saying you won't be selective when it's safe to meet,
Women hold the ace card and with the amount of horny men post apocalypse the women can surely be even more choosy not less. |
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I think using the term
Lowering standards could be seen as a little demeaning or putting people into a hierarchy
Generally it is suggested on fab that another is just
"Not your type " or "preference "
Not that the person is a low standard and you are above them in standard (see countless threads on leagues)
I would however perhaps add or note
Standards do exist
People with high or low standards of hygiene I think we could agree there that standards exist
However perhaps the op also could have meant would you consider broadening your range of preferences
For example I would not suggest hair colour is a standard high or low you may prefer blonds however with the horn dark hair may now be in the frame , same with height or locality
I'd suggest there are a number of "widening" options that would not mean a decent of the insulting term standards
I absolutely know I am only the preference of a very small minority of ladies .for those who are not attracted to me am I of a lower standard than your preference?
As it happens after all this my criteria for the ideal lady has narrowed but absolutely those who do not tempt me are of no lower standard , just different and not to my preference
Obviously I'm fully aware that lowering standards is just a metaphor  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think using the term
Lowering standards could be seen as a little demeaning or putting people into a hierarchy
Generally it is suggested on fab that another is just
"Not your type " or "preference "
Not that the person is a low standard and you are above them in standard (see countless threads on leagues)
I would however perhaps add or note
Standards do exist
People with high or low standards of hygiene I think we could agree there that standards exist
However perhaps the op also could have meant would you consider broadening your range of preferences
For example I would not suggest hair colour is a standard high or low you may prefer blonds however with the horn dark hair may now be in the frame , same with height or locality
I'd suggest there are a number of "widening" options that would not mean a decent of the insulting term standards
I absolutely know I am only the preference of a very small minority of ladies .for those who are not attracted to me am I of a lower standard than your preference?
As it happens after all this my criteria for the ideal lady has narrowed but absolutely those who do not tempt me are of no lower standard , just different and not to my preference
Obviously I'm fully aware that lowering standards is just a metaphor "
You make valid points but yes it is just terminology. |
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"desperation when lock down ends ...so im asking this question due to the amount of message saying i wont be so selective in who i meet when this is over as ill be so called desperate ??? ...... seeing it in the forums too guys saying they will be well in when this finishes.
so my question is to all women men couples will you lower your standards because your desperate or will you carry on as you did before ? .
for me / us it will be as before nothing will change in how we pick people infact there will be less to pick from due to the amount of guys added to blocklist who asked to meet during lockdown including some ive met before...
this is not a guy bashing post ive base it on how i meet and i only meet guys... so desperation or as normal ?? "
We never had any standards to start with ! lol |
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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago
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Why would anyone lower the standard of choice? If anything it should be raised as so many more desperate peeps are going to be out and about and therefore more to wade through to get the right one! |
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I think a lot of people will be reconnecting with fwb and fb before thinking about starting anything with anybody new, but I do understand what you mean and can see the request messages going mad as they try their luck  |
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Catching up with my friends and celebrating the birthdays that have happened during lockdown are my priorities.
Swinging meets will have even less priority than before and I'll be more selective than previously as I'll continue to be risk aware |
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"desperation when lock down ends ...so im asking this question due to the amount of message saying i wont be so selective in who i meet when this is over as ill be so called desperate ??? ...... seeing it in the forums too guys saying they will be well in when this finishes.
so my question is to all women men couples will you lower your standards because your desperate or will you carry on as you did before ? .
for me / us it will be as before nothing will change in how we pick people infact there will be less to pick from due to the amount of guys added to blocklist who asked to meet during lockdown including some ive met before...
this is not a guy bashing post ive base it on how i meet and i only meet guys... so desperation or as normal ??
We never had any standards to start with ! lol "
Oh I bet you do !!! |
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"desperation when lock down ends ...so im asking this question due to the amount of message saying i wont be so selective in who i meet when this is over as ill be so called desperate ??? ...... seeing it in the forums too guys saying they will be well in when this finishes.
so my question is to all women men couples will you lower your standards because your desperate or will you carry on as you did before ? .
for me / us it will be as before nothing will change in how we pick people infact there will be less to pick from due to the amount of guys added to blocklist who asked to meet during lockdown including some ive met before...
this is not a guy bashing post ive base it on how i meet and i only meet guys... so desperation or as normal ?? "
Will stay the same. I have guys I already know and have met that I will meet first x |
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Tiny violins at the ready hehe ...
I don't get a sniff either way so back to the status quo when this is all over.
Course I get the relative excitement for this to all pass/lockdown to end, but in my mind you can't just go around sleeping with anyone for the sake of it.
That sounds overly mechanical/robotic rather than enjoyable!
Good luck to you all on the other side of this though. My luck my change?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"desperation when lock down ends ...so im asking this question due to the amount of message saying i wont be so selective in who i meet when this is over as ill be so called desperate ??? ...... seeing it in the forums too guys saying they will be well in when this finishes.
so my question is to all women men couples will you lower your standards because your desperate or will you carry on as you did before ? .
for me / us it will be as before nothing will change in how we pick people infact there will be less to pick from due to the amount of guys added to blocklist who asked to meet during lockdown including some ive met before...
this is not a guy bashing post ive base it on how i meet and i only meet guys... so desperation or as normal ?? "
I have no standards - I was always desperate |
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