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Why is it so hard to arrange a meet
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"your not doing anything wrong, it's just that on this site people/so called swingers dont want single or old men unless they are either BI or Gay"
What do you mean by the 'so called swingers' bit. How does that relate to not playing with singles or old men? |
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"your not doing anything wrong, it's just that on this site people/so called swingers dont want single or old men unless they are either BI or Gay"
Hm... How old is old? I like men around my age and they have to be straight, but they should also have good reading comprehension as a minimum.  |
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over a year ago
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So you think the grammar in the reply is a factor and also the context of the first ad ie should you be up front and dirty if that what ure about or on the first reply hold back and be conservative |
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"Wot am i doing so wrong please advice would help x"
Can you chat to and take a girl home in real life situations like pubs clubs and other social situations ?
If you can it's a good start but now your on fab the odds are stacked because of the huge ratio of men to women. |
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"Wot am i doing so wrong please advice would help x"
The fact that you are a single male with a profile photo of a woman would put some people off.
Why do you feel the need to put a photo like that on as your profile pic?? |
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By *play4uCouple
over a year ago
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"Wot am i doing so wrong please advice would help x
The fact that you are a single male with a profile photo of a woman would put some people off.
Why do you feel the need to put a photo like that on as your profile pic??"
We have to agree....we would never entertain even replying to messages from a guy who feels he should have a women in his profile picture, doesn't matter what she is doing, we would be concerned as to whether she even knew she was being used in that way.
Genuine nice guys, with a nice face pic as their profile pic, will at least always get a reply, even if its a thanks but no. Cock pics and previous conquests impress no one.
Unfortunately single guys are ten a penny on these sites. You need to make an effort to stand out from the crowd, if you have to hide or at least can't send a face pic with your opening message, then why would a couple ask you to join them.
There are loads of lovely people in this site, some real genuine swingers, but remember swinging is about sexual fun, not about cheating on a partner who isn't putting out at home. This does make it hard for genuine single nice guys. But if your profile is well written and pics not the normal crude images. Then at least your starting well.
Plus you should remember, everyone has preferences, you might just not be for the couples your messaging.
Good luck though, its a minefield. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If we wanted a single straight guy, then we wouldnt need a swingers site.
Go to any pub on a friday night, and the mrs could pick from any of the dozens of straight guys staring at her tits and trying to buy her a drink.
But we arent. We want a dirty little bisexual sub. We dont find many of those in the average nightclub, so enter fab where we can pick from dozens of models.
We are all here because we are looking for something specific. And most of us havent come to fab to find the average guy.
Trust me, theres nothing wrong with you or your profile. Its just that its a couples market on here, and the economics of the site means single guys get passed by.
Keep at it, dont be a dick and read the profile information, and im sure you will eventually meet the perfect couple next door who are looking for exactly what you offer.
Cant hurry lust!
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"your not doing anything wrong, it's just that on this site people/so called swingers dont want single or old men unless they are either BI or Gay"
That's rubbish |
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"Wot am i doing so wrong please advice would help x
The fact that you are a single male with a profile photo of a woman would put some people off.
Why do you feel the need to put a photo like that on as your profile pic??
We have to agree....we would never entertain even replying to messages from a guy who feels he should have a women in his profile picture, doesn't matter what she is doing, we would be concerned as to whether she even knew she was being used in that way.
Genuine nice guys, with a nice face pic as their profile pic, will at least always get a reply, even if its a thanks but no. Cock pics and previous conquests impress no one.
Unfortunately single guys are ten a penny on these sites. You need to make an effort to stand out from the crowd, if you have to hide or at least can't send a face pic with your opening message, then why would a couple ask you to join them.
There are loads of lovely people in this site, some real genuine swingers, but remember swinging is about sexual fun, not about cheating on a partner who isn't putting out at home. This does make it hard for genuine single nice guys. But if your profile is well written and pics not the normal crude images. Then at least your starting well.
Plus you should remember, everyone has preferences, you might just not be for the couples your messaging.
Good luck though, its a minefield. "
Thank you for the tips
I would like to add i aint single but the other half dont swing but is happy for me to |
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