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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I lived away in Northern Ireland for a few years due to a D/s relationship. It didn’t work out how I wished in the end and I returned home to my flat just outside Glasgow. A friend was renting my flat and due to the financial implications of changing job and moving home she has stayed with me in my flat since September 2017. Other than about a year in 2002/2003 and the few years in Northern Ireland, I have always lived on my own. I like my space and like to be able to enjoy the company of women when I choose. There has never been anything sexual between my flatmate and I, nor do I want there to be, she is a friend.
I will be asking her to move out before summer 2019 as I am comfortable financially again and not having my own privacy and space is now becoming an issue for my happiness/relaxation/quality time. At times I enjoy the company of a flatmate but miss being able to be naked in my flat, as I almost always would have been when living by myself.
This got me thinking of what would be an ideal scenario to allow myself to have company, be naked often, yet not be tied by a relationship.
With this in mind I want to hear from bisexual submissive/switch women who want to be in a situation where they can live with people who become great friends, sex and kink when they desire, no stress of a traditional suffocating monogamous relationship, allowed to see other people when communicated and agreed and who really want to live a completely alternative lifestyle to what society expects.
This is not something that is going to happen by a click of the fingers nor is it something that has a timescale. I initially want to hear from bi sub/switch females who have an interest in this lifestyle and then after a lot of conversation and socialising we can see if there is compatibility and possibility to move forward.
It might well be that age old human traits are why more people don’t follow this path or we might find that people just don’t take such chances/risks in life.
I am asking for nothing more than conversation at present. A friendship full of open communication needs to be built before anything else.
I also kindly ask that if women are interested then only reply if you don’t want to have children anytime soon and love to travel the world/have a desire to do so.
The finer details of compatibility will require patience, open conversation and a non-judgemental attitude.
I don’t enjoy this site at all but come on as I seek far more sexually than what the majority of monogamous relationships can provide, I have thought long and hard about this lifestyle.
Only reply if you can do the same and any questions you would like to ask please do through private messaging. I will reply to all.
Thank you for reading my exciting proposal.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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****UPDATE - 05.01.2019****
I lived away in Northern Ireland for a few years due to a D/s relationship. It didn’t work out how I wished in the end and I returned home to my flat just outside Glasgow. I live with a flatmate at present but I will be living on my own again in the not too distant future as I am comfortable financially again and not having my own privacy and space is now becoming an issue for my happiness/relaxation/quality time. At times I enjoy the company of a flatmate but miss being able to be naked in my flat, as I almost always would have been when living by myself.
This got me thinking of what would be an ideal scenario to allow myself to have company, be naked often, yet not be tied by a relationship.
With this in mind I want to hear from bisexual submissive/switch women who want to be in a situation where they can live with people who become great friends, sex and kink when they desire, no stress of a traditional suffocating monogamous relationship, allowed to see other people when communicated and agreed and who really want to live a completely alternative lifestyle to what society expects.
This is not something that is going to happen by a click of the fingers nor is it something that has a timescale. I initially want to hear from bi sub/switch females who have an interest in this lifestyle and then after a lot of conversation and socialising we can see if there is compatibility and possibility to move forward.
It might well be that age old human traits are why more people don’t follow this path or we might find that people just don’t take such chances/risks in life.
I am asking for nothing more than conversation at present. A friendship full of open communication needs to be built before anything else.
I also kindly ask that if women are interested then only reply if you don’t want to have children anytime soon and love to travel the world/have a desire to do so.
The finer details of compatibility will require patience, open conversation and a non-judgemental attitude.
I don’t enjoy this site at all but come on as I seek far more sexually than what the majority of monogamous relationships can provide, I have thought long and hard about this lifestyle.
Only reply if you can do the same and any questions you would like to ask please do through private messaging. I will reply to all.
Thank you for reading my exciting proposal.
P.S. I am 45 not 40 - user error when signing up! |
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