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over a year ago
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"Hello I am here which I am looking for Single or married Ladies for fun around Essex or Kent area , I will travel , From Eric , Basildon in Essex "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well not many here I say , Maybe I too old  "
No dude, age doesn't matter in this case,people here are just not interested in new folks it is more like club here or a closed community. I've lot more success and fun in a pub or somewhere,I get easy in contact with the people,not here,you can write as much well mannered messages as you want 99% will be deleted without watching your profile or reading what you say. Is like a pub where you say friendly Hello and the guests call for security to kick you out
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well not many here I say , Maybe I too old
No dude, age doesn't matter in this case,people here are just not interested in new folks it is more like club here or a closed community. I've lot more success and fun in a pub or somewhere,I get easy in contact with the people,not here,you can write as much well mannered messages as you want 99% will be deleted without watching your profile or reading what you say. Is like a pub where you say friendly Hello and the guests call for security to kick you out
Have a good new year "
Or people don’t like your crop tops lol |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Well not many here I say , Maybe I too old
No dude, age doesn't matter in this case,people here are just not interested in new folks it is more like club here or a closed community. I've lot more success and fun in a pub or somewhere,I get easy in contact with the people,not here,you can write as much well mannered messages as you want 99% will be deleted without watching your profile or reading what you say. Is like a pub where you say friendly Hello and the guests call for security to kick you out
Have a good new year "
Perhaps you need to leave your sense of entitlement at the front door... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well not many here I say , Maybe I too old
No dude, age doesn't matter in this case,people here are just not interested in new folks it is more like club here or a closed community. I've lot more success and fun in a pub or somewhere,I get easy in contact with the people,not here,you can write as much well mannered messages as you want 99% will be deleted without watching your profile or reading what you say. Is like a pub where you say friendly Hello and the guests call for security to kick you out
Have a good new year
Perhaps you need to leave your sense of entitlement at the front door..."
Thanks for your reply. Be sure I started here with absolute no entitlement. But I'm not the first and of course not the latest who discovered the lovely behaviour here - see the reviews or postings to this topic here ... I think that could not be all nagging fools who do not recognize the qualities here......No? |
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Well thank you for comments on here , I thought I was too old at the age 61 year old and DEAF hear and hearing stopping people's reply to me I try hard to get a nice lady for fun . I have to start going in the pub and have a pint lol , It a same I cannot add photos on the forum posts , That may help to meet quickly  |
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"Well not many here I say , Maybe I too old
No dude, age doesn't matter in this case,people here are just not interested in new folks it is more like club here or a closed community. I've lot more success and fun in a pub or somewhere,I get easy in contact with the people,not here,you can write as much well mannered messages as you want 99% will be deleted without watching your profile or reading what you say. Is like a pub where you say friendly Hello and the guests call for security to kick you out
Have a good new year "
Never heard so much bull.... profiles are a good way to start nothing on it just shows the lazy meet you would get and men who come on here bc they have been told wemon fall at their feet and are dying to just pleasure them .... are sadly the most ones who complain they not getting any attention... and don't get me started on the ones who can't read a ladies profile and respect what she wants x |
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"Well thank you for comments on here , I thought I was too old at the age 61 year old and DEAF hear and hearing stopping people's reply to me I try hard to get a nice lady for fun . I have to start going in the pub and have a pint lol , It a same I cannot add photos on the forum posts , That may help to meet quickly "
You have been here over 3 yrs ... think you should know how this works x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well not many here I say , Maybe I too old
No dude, age doesn't matter in this case,people here are just not interested in new folks it is more like club here or a closed community. I've lot more success and fun in a pub or somewhere,I get easy in contact with the people,not here,you can write as much well mannered messages as you want 99% will be deleted without watching your profile or reading what you say. Is like a pub where you say friendly Hello and the guests call for security to kick you out
Have a good new year
Never heard so much bull.... profiles are a good way to start nothing on it just shows the lazy meet you would get and men who come on here bc they have been told wemon fall at their feet and are dying to just pleasure them .... are sadly the most ones who complain they not getting any attention... and don't get me started on the ones who can't read a ladies profile and respect what she wants x "
You're out of luck when it comes to thinking...no?
I do not complain about meeting, here you do not even get an answer. The majority of women here have no manners and are totally interested in nothing except feeding their ego. |
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"Well not many here I say , Maybe I too old
No dude, age doesn't matter in this case,people here are just not interested in new folks it is more like club here or a closed community. I've lot more success and fun in a pub or somewhere,I get easy in contact with the people,not here,you can write as much well mannered messages as you want 99% will be deleted without watching your profile or reading what you say. Is like a pub where you say friendly Hello and the guests call for security to kick you out
Have a good new year
Never heard so much bull.... profiles are a good way to start nothing on it just shows the lazy meet you would get and men who come on here bc they have been told wemon fall at their feet and are dying to just pleasure them .... are sadly the most ones who complain they not getting any attention... and don't get me started on the ones who can't read a ladies profile and respect what she wants x
You're out of luck when it comes to thinking...no?
I do not complain about meeting, here you do not even get an answer. The majority of women here have no manners and are totally interested in nothing except feeding their ego."
89% of the messages I get are.... hi how are you..... says on my profile I dont answer them.... So I don't x |
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"Well not many here I say , Maybe I too old
No dude, age doesn't matter in this case,people here are just not interested in new folks it is more like club here or a closed community. I've lot more success and fun in a pub or somewhere,I get easy in contact with the people,not here,you can write as much well mannered messages as you want 99% will be deleted without watching your profile or reading what you say. Is like a pub where you say friendly Hello and the guests call for security to kick you out
Have a good new year "
I have to disagree with part of your post, sorry.
In my first 2 months as a newbie I had more than 20 meets.
I'm not young by any stretch, nor do I have any of the qualities seen on mens hot pics.
Being old, being young, being a newbie, these things have little to do with your success here.
Attitude however........
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well not many here I say , Maybe I too old
No dude, age doesn't matter in this case,people here are just not interested in new folks it is more like club here or a closed community. I've lot more success and fun in a pub or somewhere,I get easy in contact with the people,not here,you can write as much well mannered messages as you want 99% will be deleted without watching your profile or reading what you say. Is like a pub where you say friendly Hello and the guests call for security to kick you out
Have a good new year "
If you messaged every woman on the planet that you fancied, don't you think a 1% reply rate would be pretty good?!? We can't be attractive to everyone now, can we?!
Being a newbie doesn't affect your reply rate nor your meet success... Just ask my last playmate, he had been on for about 6 weeks... Or my FWB of over 2 years... He had been on here for 4 weeks.
Good luck OP, I hope you persevere and find what you are looking for. Just remember to keep a smile on your face, your attitude in check and try not to take it all too seriously, or personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well not many here I say , Maybe I too old
No dude, age doesn't matter in this case,people here are just not interested in new folks it is more like club here or a closed community. I've lot more success and fun in a pub or somewhere,I get easy in contact with the people,not here,you can write as much well mannered messages as you want 99% will be deleted without watching your profile or reading what you say. Is like a pub where you say friendly Hello and the guests call for security to kick you out
Have a good new year
If you messaged every woman on the planet that you fancied, don't you think a 1% reply rate would be pretty good?!? We can't be attractive to everyone now, can we?!
Being a newbie doesn't affect your reply rate nor your meet success... Just ask my last playmate, he had been on for about 6 weeks... Or my FWB of over 2 years... He had been on here for 4 weeks.
Good luck OP, I hope you persevere and find what you are looking for. Just remember to keep a smile on your face, your attitude in check and try not to take it all too seriously, or personally "
Thanks for your answer even if you missed the point. Also for you once again, I am not about meetings, to which it can not come because no one reads what you write no matter how friendly and charming the message was. And of course I meet nice people in pubs clubs and in everyday life where my experiences are completely different ... so I'm just wondering what that should be here. No matter I will shut down my profile here once, with the people at the moment I really do not want a meeting.Have all a good New Year ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello I am here which I am looking for Single or married Ladies for fun around Essex or Kent area , I will travel , From Eric , Basildon in Essex "
I agree with Ariel13, just go with the flow, take the 99 rejections and try to deduce what might've caused the rejections and learn from them. Then make the most of the single reply and just be yourself with it, take your time, don't pester anyone for an instant leg over, exchange a bit of banter and even if it comes to her not wanting to proceed any further, accept it and be courteous for chatting with you for that period of time.
Plus you're white so it's a walk in the park (just joking)
But seriously most women are deterred by pessimists.
Keep being attentive and courteous you'll get some eventually fella.
Good luck & happy new year everyone ;D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No....easier, I lay down my profile, and go as usual out in the evening, where it is much easier to get in touch, and more successful. Then I'll look again later, and delete my account if this is the standard. I'm not the first and not the last what goes after his first month membership what will makes the admin happy ... I'm sure. Here is nobody interested in new people ,except in single ladies, as said ,on end of the day is this here like a Club, a closed community. Cheers and a good new 2019 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's not a walk in the park for anyone. Just because it's a site people use to meet for sex means you'll automatically find someone for sex.
I'm a single female, I've always had to graft to get meets. I message first etc. It's not laid out on a platter for me just because I'm a woman.
It's more to do with attitude. Don't have any expectations. Message people, attend clubs, socials etc. It will happen. Might not be immediately but then when does it on any site dating or hook up?
Pity, self loathing and assuming women are stuck up just because you aren't of their taste are massively unattractive qualities and instant turn offs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well not many here I say , Maybe I too old
No dude, age doesn't matter in this case,people here are just not interested in new folks it is more like club here or a closed community. I've lot more success and fun in a pub or somewhere,I get easy in contact with the people,not here,you can write as much well mannered messages as you want 99% will be deleted without watching your profile or reading what you say. Is like a pub where you say friendly Hello and the guests call for security to kick you out
Have a good new year
If you messaged every woman on the planet that you fancied, don't you think a 1% reply rate would be pretty good?!? We can't be attractive to everyone now, can we?!
Being a newbie doesn't affect your reply rate nor your meet success... Just ask my last playmate, he had been on for about 6 weeks... Or my FWB of over 2 years... He had been on here for 4 weeks.
Good luck OP, I hope you persevere and find what you are looking for. Just remember to keep a smile on your face, your attitude in check and try not to take it all too seriously, or personally
Thanks for your answer even if you missed the point. Also for you once again, I am not about meetings, to which it can not come because no one reads what you write no matter how friendly and charming the message was. And of course I meet nice people in pubs clubs and in everyday life where my experiences are completely different ... so I'm just wondering what that should be here. No matter I will shut down my profile here once, with the people at the moment I really do not want a meeting.Have all a good New Year ... "
My post wasn't to you. I was just using your post to make a point to the OP and so did not miss your point at all... I ignored it. Good luck at the pub tho! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well not many here I say , Maybe I too old
No dude, age doesn't matter in this case,people here are just not interested in new folks it is more like club here or a closed community. I've lot more success and fun in a pub or somewhere,I get easy in contact with the people,not here,you can write as much well mannered messages as you want 99% will be deleted without watching your profile or reading what you say. Is like a pub where you say friendly Hello and the guests call for security to kick you out
Have a good new year
If you messaged every woman on the planet that you fancied, don't you think a 1% reply rate would be pretty good?!? We can't be attractive to everyone now, can we?!
Being a newbie doesn't affect your reply rate nor your meet success... Just ask my last playmate, he had been on for about 6 weeks... Or my FWB of over 2 years... He had been on here for 4 weeks.
Good luck OP, I hope you persevere and find what you are looking for. Just remember to keep a smile on your face, your attitude in check and try not to take it all too seriously, or personally
Thanks for your answer even if you missed the point. Also for you once again, I am not about meetings, to which it can not come because no one reads what you write no matter how friendly and charming the message was. And of course I meet nice people in pubs clubs and in everyday life where my experiences are completely different ... so I'm just wondering what that should be here. No matter I will shut down my profile here once, with the people at the moment I really do not want a meeting.Have all a good New Year ...
My post wasn't to you. I was just using your post to make a point to the OP and so did not miss your point at all... I ignored it. Good luck at the pub tho! "
Nice to c you're looking for people from 99 to 99 I hope you find what you looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well not many here I say , Maybe I too old
No dude, age doesn't matter in this case,people here are just not interested in new folks it is more like club here or a closed community. I've lot more success and fun in a pub or somewhere,I get easy in contact with the people,not here,you can write as much well mannered messages as you want 99% will be deleted without watching your profile or reading what you say. Is like a pub where you say friendly Hello and the guests call for security to kick you out
Have a good new year
If you messaged every woman on the planet that you fancied, don't you think a 1% reply rate would be pretty good?!? We can't be attractive to everyone now, can we?!
Being a newbie doesn't affect your reply rate nor your meet success... Just ask my last playmate, he had been on for about 6 weeks... Or my FWB of over 2 years... He had been on here for 4 weeks.
Good luck OP, I hope you persevere and find what you are looking for. Just remember to keep a smile on your face, your attitude in check and try not to take it all too seriously, or personally
Thanks for your answer even if you missed the point. Also for you once again, I am not about meetings, to which it can not come because no one reads what you write no matter how friendly and charming the message was. And of course I meet nice people in pubs clubs and in everyday life where my experiences are completely different ... so I'm just wondering what that should be here. No matter I will shut down my profile here once, with the people at the moment I really do not want a meeting.Have all a good New Year ...
My post wasn't to you. I was just using your post to make a point to the OP and so did not miss your point at all... I ignored it. Good luck at the pub tho!
Nice to c you're looking for people from 99 to 99 I hope you find what you looking for "
I think you missed my point there, eh?! |
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