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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As it says... wanted to start a new topic for anyone in the younger generation to chat!
So if you're over 30 then please leave us kids alone! :P
So i'll start the convo with an open question to everyone. How are you all finding the site and had many meets? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As it says... wanted to start a new topic for anyone in the younger generation to chat!
So if you're over 30 then please leave us kids alone! :P
So i'll start the convo with an open question to everyone. How are you all finding the site and had many meets?"
well considering my partner is over that age that counts us out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is the exact reason why people like me and my partner struggle to get meets, because people think that we are this immature.. and because people think we are "kids"... well done... you have just re-enforced the stereotype... and i know i posted before but that was the other half of the couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly the OP described your age group as kids
Secondly to the vast percentage of people on the site you are young enough to be our kids
Thirdly this thread was set up just for kids to use - very grown up
Maybe you should ask for a seperate chat room so grumpy old people don't get in the way
Funnily enough I can remember what it was like to be your age and yes I also thought I was cool and knew it all and life had taught me everything about sexuality and having fun - I was wrong and in twenty years time you'll realise you were too
In the meantime happy hunting and good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Firstly the OP described your age group as kids
Secondly to the vast percentage of people on the site you are young enough to be our kids
Thirdly this thread was set up just for kids to use - very grown up
Maybe you should ask for a seperate chat room so grumpy old people don't get in the way
Funnily enough I can remember what it was like to be your age and yes I also thought I was cool and knew it all and life had taught me everything about sexuality and having fun - I was wrong and in twenty years time you'll realise you were too
In the meantime happy hunting and good luck "
yeah i know it was the OP who described us as kids and i think its childish for the OP to create a post like that and thats what i was saying, i think you got the wrong end of the stick.
yes i understand that i am young enough to be alot of peoples kids.. but im not their kids and also i dont think i know everything there is to know, sexually or otherwise.. you can always learn more and i'm the first to admit i know a very small amount compared to some.. but perhaps you should eat a slice of humble pie and realise that just because you are older doesn't mean you know more.. I have taught my partner many things.. sexual and non just the same way he has taught me things too, its just about being open to learning and sharing the experience.
and i don't want a separate chat, i like talking to people of all ages as long as they are happy to talk to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We need a question answered. Why do so many younger people resort to swinging sites and clubs? We understand the reason many older persons embrace the life style certainly if they have been together a few years.
We personally would not meet young people but make no comment on those who do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We need a question answered. Why do so many younger people resort to swinging sites and clubs? We understand the reason many older persons embrace the life style certainly if they have been together a few years.
We personally would not meet young people but make no comment on those who do. "
I don't see it as resorting to, its a fun extension of our sex life, i enjoy the company of women as well as the company of men, so its alot to do with me being greedy and wanting to experience the company of women.
But also its about a social side, we hate going to the usual saturday night chav hole clubs where there is loads of police and loads of fights about, the clubs on the scene are safe and you can have a nice dance undisturbed you can have a decent conversation with people and you don't have to play if you don't want to.
what is the difference between a younger person and an older person choosing to become a part of the scene? for younger people you said resort but for older people you said embrace why is that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well that settles it. I'm going to start a thread for single males over 45 who can still get it up, and have a bloody good time in the process. Just you watch me.
Now where did I put my reading glasses?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow, never thought that a simple age preference would start such a huge debate. How is creating a place for that age range to post in immature?
As a few of the comments have said, I also enjoy talking to all ages size and shapes which is pretty important to me as it's a big part of my work. But when it comes to sexuality - as with everyone - we all have our preferences! Which is why sites like this exist, is it not?
I'm finding it really hard to understand why i've been victimised for a harmless comment and the "kids" remark should be seen as nothing more than a light hearted joke!
As for feeling the love @Bifem... i have a pretty active social and sexual life. It's not about the "younger generation resorting" to sites like this, it's just another extension and use of the free time spent at home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't need you to tell me that kids are not allowed on these sites.
For goodness sake, I and many others call 18-25 yo kids. Its not insulting and it doesn't suggest we are kiddly fidlers.
Read the posts before you put such comments.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i call anyone the same age as my kids .......kids, dont think the guy ment any harm he just wanted a chat with people the same age as himself and as usual for this site he got mobbed with people making negative comments when everyone could have just moved on and ignored it leaving the age group he asked for to comment, give the guy a break he's young and doesnt deserve the shiyte he's been given xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whilst I agree some posters may seem a little harsh, posting on an OPEN forum, basically telling the majority of forumites to fuck off is hardly a sign of maturity and the way to go is it?!!
Just a thought! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i believe he wanted the views of people in the under 30 catagory, which can be the same as starting a forum question asking for everyone who squirts to write in a forum about their experiences, no offence to non squirters but im sure they wouldnt feel put out by this thread, why cant someone show an interest in an age group without everyone seeing it as an insult to someone else, he didnt want to hear from over 30's why should he have to?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is the exact reason why people like me and my partner struggle to get meets, because people think that we are this immature.. and because people think we are "kids"... well done... you have just re-enforced the stereotype... and i know i posted before but that was the other half of the couple."
Couldn't agree more we have exactly the same issues! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually think its great that there are younger people out there..and this thread has shown that its not just the younger single guys..
I would have been on sites like this if they had been around in my day (oh I feel old now lol )
I think that there is no difference to the young wanting to embrace this lifestyle than the old...
Good luck to you and I have never quite understood the "young enough to be your kids bit" but then.. well I am just a girl that likes sex and goes for older as well as younger
Cali x |
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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago
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Hi never mind the usual let's try and have an argument in the forum to make us feel good....
We love the site been here a few year now had some great experiences with peeps . We love going to chameleons too. It's hard work juggling a young family a mortgage and 2 careers around swinging and our sex life but when
We get the chance to meet or go to a club we
Love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP are we allowed here? I mean Boho is the age you like and I'm outside of it.
Possibly overly simplistic but shows the flaw in pigeonholing people?"
its the biggest problem we have too.. Mark is usually within peoples age limits but i am usually outside. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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whats the flippin problem ????? why is everyone making this into something huge ffs its obvious he wants to hear from the part of the couple thats 30 or under its not rocket science lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm seriously wishing i could just tag this thread with and sign reading "please vent your personal frustration here".
To whoever it was bitching about this forum being and open one. Yes i agree, it is an OPEN forum, however there is also a reason why the first part when you start a new thread says: TOPIC!
This is to allow the users to select the subject of discussion so that every single thread isn't an open discussion about anything you want... (that's generally what the CHAT room is for!)
I'm sorry that this particular TOPIC offends you. But quite frankly. GO FUCK YOURSELF!!
I've had enough of the petty, immature and small minded attitudes that the majority of the "serious" users on this site have.
Yes i'm had a few good conversations and for those of you i have spoken to, i've really enjoyed meeting and have been lovely.
So with all due respect, i won't be posting on this thread again and i'd appreciate it if you take your negative attitudes elsewhere.
To anybody that has something nice to say, please feel free to contact me. I do enjoy a good conversation.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We need a question answered. Why do so many younger people resort to swinging sites and clubs? We understand the reason many older persons embrace the life style certainly if they have been together a few years.
We personally would not meet young people but make no comment on those who do. "
As someone who started swinging in their mid 20s, I'm not sure I like the word "resort." I've never resorted to anything but I have chosen to pursue a certain lifestyle because it suited me at the time. |
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