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By *ntcov OP Man
over a year ago
Church Gresley / Swadlincote |
I dont like to offend people but on occasion Im just not interested in meeting the person/people in the pic when it finally arrives, I have to like what I see...how do you let people down nicely in a situation like that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont like to offend people but on occasion Im just not interested in meeting the person/people in the pic when it finally arrives, I have to like what I see...how do you let people down nicely in a situation like that?"
Just be honest with them. Thank you for your message but not what Im looking for. Hope you have fun. Then block. Some people dont deal well with rejection and it saves them messaging again. |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
Bury/Bolton |
We usually say "thanks but no thanks" then block when they are a definite no, if we can't tell or in the borderline cases we just tell them, it's hard to tell from the pic, but if they are in the club next time we're in to say hi and see how it goes.
This has always let them take themselves out of the game because they never show and technically we haven't flat out rejected them, so no grief or questions. |
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I have had quite a lot of abuse lately from guys that hold back from sending their picture, then they're offended that I don't want to meet them, then when they finally send a picture, I'm just not my attracted.
I find it difficult to say I'm not interested, when I've said I just can't meet them, I get asked so many uncomfortable questions, then I block them, they bloody create another profile and carry on harassing me. It's only happened a couple of times, but it's annoying |
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