I don't think nobody likes single males but I understand why most are looked at in a negative way, ,alot of single guys are simply nobs, pushy and very disrespectful who simply can't take a no, this Is something I experienced when a couple invited me to a party and these guys carried on like a pack of hyenas following us wherever we went , and this was the couples first party experience ....to the single guys who fall in that bracket im extremely glad no luck is coming your way and as long as you don't consider your ways I wish you the worst of luck. ...and to the good guys, lets do this. |
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By *emptd2Man
over a year ago
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"Been on this site a while and not had much much
Please help"
They do, you just have to jump through a bunch of hoops unfortunate due to the improper actions of others.
Also we outnumber the females & couples so they can afford to be choosy.
Don't take it personally just like your wounds and move on. Socials for examples are a great way to meet new people. And build not only your own confidence but others in you as a trusted single male.  |
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Having just started our search for single males, I can understand why you might think people dislike single men.
So far we've had:
Endless cock shots;
One line messages;
Profiles that don't say anything about the person;
Messages that don't say anything about the person;
Messages from people who clearly haven't read our profile;
Messages from bi-guys (which ties in to the line above this);
Messages from bi-guys pretending to be straight;
Abusive messages;
One case of "Hi mate, loan us ur missus lol";
And one message threatening Gavin with violence.
The above are all reasons single men fail on here (and I'm sure there are lots more that we've yet to recieve...)
For decent single men, this makes it difficult at the least. But then you get a lot of decent men on here, but they really, REALLY, have to sell themselves to get through.
When you're bombarded by messages, you look for the one or two that really stand out, that pique your interest, and then they have to hold your interest. It's not easy, but it is possible.
Search the forums for advice/help requests from single men. There a lots of threads covering the subject very well indeed.
Good luck,
Stacey x |
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over a year ago
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There are plenty of single males who do very well on the site,helped by their positive attitude.
Stating that no one likes single guys is certainly not a positive attitude and won't do yourself any favours.
As for jumping through hoops?
What's that about? |
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