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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So both of us basically want to have an affair each.
Either half a cpl each or 2 diffrent people.
Somthing on going more that just sex
With the full knowledge of everyone involved so the best naughtyest bits of an affair but not the cheating.
We would welcome messages from intrested people
And from anyone who has done this or similat and made it work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps you'll have better luck saying your both searching for really close friends with benefits than saying an affair.
An affair implies keeping it secret from the other party, which obliviously you're not doing, so that may be putting people off |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It sounds like a polygamous relationship is what you seek."
Basicly yes
But that as a concept seems more taboo in swinging scene that the idea of an in the open affair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has prompted quite a discussion between us and a few close non swinging friends, they would never do anything remotely close to swinging let alone a poly relationship but even they understand the appeal.
We had this suggested to us a few years ago after we becane close friends with a couple from here. At the time we were very new to swinging and decided it wasnt for us but now, a few years on its something we could potentially look into |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This has prompted quite a discussion between us and a few close non swinging friends, they would never do anything remotely close to swinging let alone a poly relationship but even they understand the appeal.
We had this suggested to us a few years ago after we becane close friends with a couple from here. At the time we were very new to swinging and decided it wasnt for us but now, a few years on its something we could potentially look into"
Thankyou for a lovely responce
We have messaged you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it sounds like fun. All the fun with hiding anything. And both having fun. Wish I could find a OH that would be up for this. Good luck I say. "
Thankyou |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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I think you have to be very careful.. feelings could develop and then it may bring a whole lot of heartache. I've been the other woman for many years. My heart breaks every time he leaves me. I wouldn't wish the lows on anyone.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think you have to be very careful.. feelings could develop and then it may bring a whole lot of heartache. I've been the other woman for many years. My heart breaks every time he leaves me. I wouldn't wish the lows on anyone.
Good luck"
Its kind of what we both want
Another man / woman
You coukd call it polyamory i supose |
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"Think we might be a bit far"
I think it's a great idea/scenario...
Just a pity I'm too far also... I'm as far as PlayfulCouple86
Though should they be interested in having an 'affair' (friend with benefits) I'd be more than happy to lend a helping hand x |
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