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Do couples and females get bombarded with messages
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been on the scene for about five years and can honestly say we rarely received messages from anyone other than people we're good friends with.
Site seems very quiet lately xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure it varies....periodically, how active you are on site (posting in forums, updating status etc), what area you are in, what demographic you fit into, whether you are new etc.....lots of reasons.
Worse case I saw was a fairly new, 29 year old (I thought stunning) blonde from Gloucester.
She ended up staying the night at mine. We checked her profile at 11.15 at night....deleted all of her messages and went to bed.
At 8.45 the next morning...following breakfast and a bit of fun she logged on to her account.....over 450 messages.
Impossible to read them all, let alone reply....so another mass delete!
I still don't know how the hell my message even got through...let alone git noticed and replied to!
All further contact was then through kik.
Sadly she is now back with her (then) ex and no longer playing......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh God I think I'll move to the UK
. Couples and ladies in Ireland seem to have the control I'd say it takes 30 to 40 mails from a single male just to get a negative reply. Meetings unless you're well verified even harder |
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We get very few messages and that's because we are outside of many people's age range, we have message filters set to exclude certain groups and we're both straight. We're quite happy with how things are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most unread messages we have had was on our old profile 13 but only as we was holding a party and most couldn't read meets post properly or profile but get looked at lots |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recently deleted 2000 unread messages these were accrued over about 10 days and the most 'looked at me' in one day was about 1500. I'll not moan about it though. wish I could read and respond to them all but it's just not possible. Kinda narks me off when I get shitty messages because I've not read or I've deleted messages sent. Can't really win! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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4 people looked at me today and i honestly havent recieved any messages in the past 2 days so ive given up trying and just have a bit of craic in forums... love you all long time  |
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I have every filter on possible (except hiding my profile) so don't get the flood gates opening effect, but did used to hence why I use all the filters
My experience is showing as online increases the amount of messages sent, many seem to have the opinion if you're showing as online you must want a meet(right this second!)
So, the time it's taken to write this message there'll be a free new messages of the 'hi' variety
Like many, I tend to look at profiles before looking at messages, if the profile doesn't interest me then I don't bother with the message |
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
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We seem to get the odd message from men. Not what we are looking for but are polite and depending on what is said we may or may not chat. We would really like to see some ladies in our inbox
Mrs Two  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't get bombarded as a couple but we do get a lot of mail directed at either just myself or my man, hardly ever addressed as a couple. When I used to have a single female profile now that's when I got bombarded
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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250 right now, i've got filters off though because i'm arranging a social.
deleted loads last night but it soon fills up again, doesn't help when guys notice i've deleted their messages and send another mentioning that.
also, my filters are on, but anyone can message BUT they get a warning saying i am not looking for their age but they stil chance it anyway, no need for it. |
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