 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together. "
In your opinion, what makes some married men arseholes and some ok? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together. "
So you have your wife's consent? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together.
So you have your wife's consent?"
Good question!
Now in our humble opinion, the decent married men on here are the ones who have their wife's consent.
Just our opinion mind... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
" I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together. "
I'm of the opinion that if you are cheating on your wife then you are an arsehole. I don't see what makes you any different. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
" I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together.
I'm of the opinion that if you are cheating on your wife then you are an arsehole. I don't see what makes you any different."
Agreed. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
A couple I met had a problem with one guy who wouldn't leave them alone turning up at theirs even after they'd said they didn't want to know. No means no but he'd turn up and just watch their house etc that's an arsehole |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"A couple I met had a problem with one guy who wouldn't leave them alone turning up at theirs even after they'd said they didn't want to know. No means no but he'd turn up and just watch their house etc that's an arsehole"
Got you.
So that makes you one of the good guys?? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
I did have her permission to find sex elsewhere but when I did she couldn't handle it so I stopped for years. I don't want to hurt her but I don't know what else to do I'm not hiring escorts or going to bars and staying out all night like I told someone else hate me if you want but give me a better idea I can't stay celibate anymore and I'm not going to leave her she's a good wife in every other way I just need the physical side as well |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I did have her permission to find sex elsewhere but when I did she couldn't handle it so I stopped for years. I don't want to hurt her but I don't know what else to do I'm not hiring escorts or going to bars and staying out all night like I told someone else hate me if you want but give me a better idea I can't stay celibate anymore and I'm not going to leave her she's a good wife in every other way I just need the physical side as well"
Don't stress about it, or listen to what people think of you;
Do what suits you.
There are plenty on here playing away; ( loads of the women)
Either find ones who don't care one way or the other;
Or do what the rest do, and lie.
You have no need to justify yourself to anyone on here. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I did have her permission to find sex elsewhere but when I did she couldn't handle it so I stopped for years. I don't want to hurt her but I don't know what else to do I'm not hiring escorts or going to bars and staying out all night like I told someone else hate me if you want but give me a better idea I can't stay celibate anymore and I'm not going to leave her she's a good wife in every other way I just need the physical side as well
Don't stress about it, or listen to what people think of you;
Do what suits you.
There are plenty on here playing away; ( loads of the women)
Either find ones who don't care one way or the other;
Or do what the rest do, and lie.
You have no need to justify yourself to anyone on here."
thanks mate shame this doesn't have a like button I appreciate your comment |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I did have her permission to find sex elsewhere but when I did she couldn't handle it so I stopped for years. I don't want to hurt her but I don't know what else to do I'm not hiring escorts or going to bars and staying out all night like I told someone else hate me if you want but give me a better idea I can't stay celibate anymore and I'm not going to leave her she's a good wife in every other way I just need the physical side as well"
You may love her but honestly if there isn't a physical connection between you and her anymore maybe she doesent feel the same? It's the sort of conversation you might want to have with her and not the people of fab
Hope this helps |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together. "
We dont give a shite who's married and who's not.
We're here for fun, not to pontificate on the rights and wrongs of monogamy or to express opinions about others being right or wrong in choices that dont have anything to do with us- especially in a self-righteous tiresome way.
I'm guessing if it was a 25yr old stunning bisexual blonde woman plaving lone fun most of the site wouldn't give a shite either.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I did have her permission to find sex elsewhere but when I did she couldn't handle it so I stopped for years. I don't want to hurt her but I don't know what else to do I'm not hiring escorts or going to bars and staying out all night like I told someone else hate me if you want but give me a better idea I can't stay celibate anymore and I'm not going to leave her she's a good wife in every other way I just need the physical side as well
You may love her but honestly if there isn't a physical connection between you and her anymore maybe she doesent feel the same? It's the sort of conversation you might want to have with her and not the people of fab
Hope this helps"
thanks it was an honest question I just didn't expect the responses and to have to justify myself.. maybe a little naive but I can't delete the thread |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I did have her permission to find sex elsewhere but when I did she couldn't handle it so I stopped for years. I don't want to hurt her but I don't know what else to do I'm not hiring escorts or going to bars and staying out all night like I told someone else hate me if you want but give me a better idea I can't stay celibate anymore and I'm not going to leave her she's a good wife in every other way I just need the physical side as well
You may love her but honestly if there isn't a physical connection between you and her anymore maybe she doesent feel the same? It's the sort of conversation you might want to have with her and not the people of fab
Hope this helpsthanks it was an honest question I just didn't expect the responses and to have to justify myself.. maybe a little naive but I can't delete the thread "
In more civilized nations, extra marital "affairs" are commonplace and part of the fabric of life; and it's the norm for both women and men to satisfy sexual needs outside of their marriage .
It's just the puritanical British prudish attitude to sex that generates this nonsense. Hypocrites.
It's all The fault of the fucking puritans and Oliver Cromwell. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I did have her permission to find sex elsewhere but when I did she couldn't handle it so I stopped for years. I don't want to hurt her but I don't know what else to do I'm not hiring escorts or going to bars and staying out all night like I told someone else hate me if you want but give me a better idea I can't stay celibate anymore and I'm not going to leave her she's a good wife in every other way I just need the physical side as well
You may love her but honestly if there isn't a physical connection between you and her anymore maybe she doesent feel the same? It's the sort of conversation you might want to have with her and not the people of fab
Hope this helpsthanks it was an honest question I just didn't expect the responses and to have to justify myself.. maybe a little naive but I can't delete the thread "
Just because you are given opinions it does not mean anyone is asking you to justify yourself.
The only people you need to justify yourself to are yourself and your wife
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I did have her permission to find sex elsewhere but when I did she couldn't handle it so I stopped for years. I don't want to hurt her but I don't know what else to do I'm not hiring escorts or going to bars and staying out all night like I told someone else hate me if you want but give me a better idea I can't stay celibate anymore and I'm not going to leave her she's a good wife in every other way I just need the physical side as well
You may love her but honestly if there isn't a physical connection between you and her anymore maybe she doesent feel the same? It's the sort of conversation you might want to have with her and not the people of fab
Hope this helpsthanks it was an honest question I just didn't expect the responses and to have to justify myself.. maybe a little naive but I can't delete the thread
In more civilized nations, extra marital "affairs" are commonplace and part of the fabric of life; and it's the norm for both women and men to satisfy sexual needs outside of their marriage .
It's just the puritanical British prudish attitude to sex that generates this nonsense. Hypocrites.
It's all The fault of the fucking puritans and Oliver Cromwell. "
We are not debating the fact of gaining sexual satisfaction outside of marriage, we are only discussing the honesty part between life partners.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but
don't lump us all together.
We dont give a shite who's married and who's not.
We're here for fun, not to pontificate on the rights and wrongs of monogamy or to express opinions about others being right or wrong in choices that dont have anything to do with us- especially in a self-righteous tiresome way.
I'm guessing if it was a 25yr old stunning bisexual blonde woman plaving lone fun most of the site wouldn't give a shite either.
"
Spot on  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We're happy to meet married guys. Less chance of being asshoes. It's only sex. And please don't forget we are on a sex site.
I had an ex who picked up attached guys and ruined their marriages on purpose. That's a female asshole.
Happy fabbing folks. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together. "
I could not give a fook about your marital status.
What I don't understand is this "lump us all together" business. Who is lumping you together and together with whom? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together.
I could not give a fook about your marital status.
What I don't understand is this "lump us all together" business. Who is lumping you together and together with whom?"
maybe I was wrong about the lumping together bit but the one meet I did have said no because they'd had a bad experience with a married bloke that basically stalked the wife till he was warned off .. my bad |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together.
I could not give a fook about your marital status.
What I don't understand is this "lump us all together" business. Who is lumping you together and together with whom?maybe I was wrong about the lumping together bit but the one meet I did have said no because they'd had a bad experience with a married bloke that basically stalked the wife till he was warned off .. my bad "
So "many" equates to "one couple."
A section of the site will not meet married people. They see it as dishonest and cheating. I understand that, as I am sure you do.
A section of the site do not give a fook or even prefer it.
I fall under the "do not give a fook" section - until someone tries to justify it. Then they are out. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together.
I could not give a fook about your marital status.
What I don't understand is this "lump us all together" business. Who is lumping you together and together with whom?maybe I was wrong about the lumping together bit but the one meet I did have said no because they'd had a bad experience with a married bloke that basically stalked the wife till he was warned off .. my bad
So "many" equates to "one couple."
A section of the site will not meet married people. They see it as dishonest and cheating. I understand that, as I am sure you do.
A section of the site do not give a fook or even prefer it.
I fall under the "do not give a fook" section - until someone tries to justify it. Then they are out."
no "many" equates to all the profiles I've read within fifty miles of my local area a LOT of them say no married or taken and I do understand what you say, the one meet I did have didn't have that on their profile so I was disappointed as they'd seen my pics and invited me round but binned me because I am married, like I said to them at the time it was their profile their rules and I had to respect that |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
The reason a lot of people don't want to meet someone who is married is because they don't want any drama. I can't think of anything worse than an angry wife tracking me down after I fucked her husband.
If you are playing with her knowledge and consent that does change things. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together.
I could not give a fook about your marital status.
What I don't understand is this "lump us all together" business. Who is lumping you together and together with whom?maybe I was wrong about the lumping together bit but the one meet I did have said no because they'd had a bad experience with a married bloke that basically stalked the wife till he was warned off .. my bad
So "many" equates to "one couple."
A section of the site will not meet married people. They see it as dishonest and cheating. I understand that, as I am sure you do.
A section of the site do not give a fook or even prefer it.
I fall under the "do not give a fook" section - until someone tries to justify it. Then they are out.no "many" equates to all the profiles I've read within fifty miles of my local area a LOT of them say no married or taken and I do understand what you say, the one meet I did have didn't have that on their profile so I was disappointed as they'd seen my pics and invited me round but binned me because I am married, like I said to them at the time it was their profile their rules and I had to respect that"
Just as I said. Some people will not meet cheaters. That is understandable and fine.
Some will but do not want it forced it down their neck. You have marital issues. So? Why would that interest me?
Sorry to sound harsh. You will just have to look harder to find people who do not worry about it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"The reason a lot of people don't want to meet someone who is married is because they don't want any drama. I can't think of anything worse than an angry wife tracking me down after I fucked her husband.
If you are playing with her knowledge and consent that does change things."
she does know I see other women just not the details who where or when I told her years ago that I would find sex elsewhere and she said go for it so I did and when she found out she wasn't happy but she's still here so I don't say anything now so there's no drama |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together.
I could not give a fook about your marital status.
What I don't understand is this "lump us all together" business. Who is lumping you together and together with whom?maybe I was wrong about the lumping together bit but the one meet I did have said no because they'd had a bad experience with a married bloke that basically stalked the wife till he was warned off .. my bad
So "many" equates to "one couple."
A section of the site will not meet married people. They see it as dishonest and cheating. I understand that, as I am sure you do.
A section of the site do not give a fook or even prefer it.
I fall under the "do not give a fook" section - until someone tries to justify it. Then they are out.no "many" equates to all the profiles I've read within fifty miles of my local area a LOT of them say no married or taken and I do understand what you say, the one meet I did have didn't have that on their profile so I was disappointed as they'd seen my pics and invited me round but binned me because I am married, like I said to them at the time it was their profile their rules and I had to respect that
Just as I said. Some people will not meet cheaters. That is understandable and fine.
Some will but do not want it forced it down their neck. You have marital issues. So? Why would that interest me?
Sorry to sound harsh. You will just have to look harder to find people who do not worry about it."
not harsh at all just honest like I'm trying to be. Happy fabbing |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together.
I could not give a fook about your marital status.
What I don't understand is this "lump us all together" business. Who is lumping you together and together with whom?maybe I was wrong about the lumping together bit but the one meet I did have said no because they'd had a bad experience with a married bloke that basically stalked the wife till he was warned off .. my bad
So "many" equates to "one couple."
A section of the site will not meet married people. They see it as dishonest and cheating. I understand that, as I am sure you do.
A section of the site do not give a fook or even prefer it.
I fall under the "do not give a fook" section - until someone tries to justify it. Then they are out.no "many" equates to all the profiles I've read within fifty miles of my local area a LOT of them say no married or taken and I do understand what you say, the one meet I did have didn't have that on their profile so I was disappointed as they'd seen my pics and invited me round but binned me because I am married, like I said to them at the time it was their profile their rules and I had to respect that
Just as I said. Some people will not meet cheaters. That is understandable and fine.
Some will but do not want it forced it down their neck. You have marital issues. So? Why would that interest me?
Sorry to sound harsh. You will just have to look harder to find people who do not worry about it.not harsh at all just honest like I'm trying to be. Happy fabbing"
The answer to your original question is because many people see swinging with a married person as wrong. That may or may not be right but that is the way it is.
And please do not play the "honest" card. That really never works. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together.
I could not give a fook about your marital status.
What I don't understand is this "lump us all together" business. Who is lumping you together and together with whom?maybe I was wrong about the lumping together bit but the one meet I did have said no because they'd had a bad experience with a married bloke that basically stalked the wife till he was warned off .. my bad
So "many" equates to "one couple."
A section of the site will not meet married people. They see it as dishonest and cheating. I understand that, as I am sure you do.
A section of the site do not give a fook or even prefer it.
I fall under the "do not give a fook" section - until someone tries to justify it. Then they are out.no "many" equates to all the profiles I've read within fifty miles of my local area a LOT of them say no married or taken and I do understand what you say, the one meet I did have didn't have that on their profile so I was disappointed as they'd seen my pics and invited me round but binned me because I am married, like I said to them at the time it was their profile their rules and I had to respect that
Just as I said. Some people will not meet cheaters. That is understandable and fine.
Some will but do not want it forced it down their neck. You have marital issues. So? Why would that interest me?
Sorry to sound harsh. You will just have to look harder to find people who do not worry about it.not harsh at all just honest like I'm trying to be. Happy fabbing
The answer to your original question is because many people see swinging with a married person as wrong. That may or may not be right but that is the way it is.
And please do not play the "honest" card. That really never works."
yes I know that's the way it is and I accept that, my original question was just a bit of frustrated spleen venting "the honest card" I've never heard of that one, you're over thinking it I mean what I say and I say what I mean . No hidden agendas no bull no reading between the lines I'm not trying to work anything |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together.
I could not give a fook about your marital status.
What I don't understand is this "lump us all together" business. Who is lumping you together and together with whom?maybe I was wrong about the lumping together bit but the one meet I did have said no because they'd had a bad experience with a married bloke that basically stalked the wife till he was warned off .. my bad
So "many" equates to "one couple."
A section of the site will not meet married people. They see it as dishonest and cheating. I understand that, as I am sure you do.
A section of the site do not give a fook or even prefer it.
I fall under the "do not give a fook" section - until someone tries to justify it. Then they are out.no "many" equates to all the profiles I've read within fifty miles of my local area a LOT of them say no married or taken and I do understand what you say, the one meet I did have didn't have that on their profile so I was disappointed as they'd seen my pics and invited me round but binned me because I am married, like I said to them at the time it was their profile their rules and I had to respect that
Just as I said. Some people will not meet cheaters. That is understandable and fine.
Some will but do not want it forced it down their neck. You have marital issues. So? Why would that interest me?
Sorry to sound harsh. You will just have to look harder to find people who do not worry about it.not harsh at all just honest like I'm trying to be. Happy fabbing
The answer to your original question is because many people see swinging with a married person as wrong. That may or may not be right but that is the way it is.
And please do not play the "honest" card. That really never works. yes I know that's the way it is and I accept that, my original question was just a bit of frustrated spleen venting "the honest card" I've never heard of that one, you're over thinking it I mean what I say and I say what I mean . No hidden agendas no bull no reading between the lines I'm not trying to work anything "
There are degrees of honesty.
If we were interested in meeting you, would you be happy for us to speak with your wife over the telephone first, to check that she is OK with it?
I suspect the answer is no.
While it would not bother us, it would bother many.
The "honest" claim is a bit crap. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We choose not to play with attached so being honest about your needs allows everyone to know what the score is.
Dan Savage (best sex advice columnist in the world) does occasionally advocates 'honest' cheating when the alternative of cheating leads to more dire consequences.
Be honest and be safe. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Why do so many on here say no married taken men etc I've been married 33 years and love her to bits but she hasn't been interested in sex for over 15 am I supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life or leave the woman i love. I understand some married men are arseholes and people have had bad experiences with some but don't lump us all together.
I could not give a fook about your marital status.
What I don't understand is this "lump us all together" business. Who is lumping you together and together with whom?maybe I was wrong about the lumping together bit but the one meet I did have said no because they'd had a bad experience with a married bloke that basically stalked the wife till he was warned off .. my bad
So "many" equates to "one couple."
A section of the site will not meet married people. They see it as dishonest and cheating. I understand that, as I am sure you do.
A section of the site do not give a fook or even prefer it.
I fall under the "do not give a fook" section - until someone tries to justify it. Then they are out.no "many" equates to all the profiles I've read within fifty miles of my local area a LOT of them say no married or taken and I do understand what you say, the one meet I did have didn't have that on their profile so I was disappointed as they'd seen my pics and invited me round but binned me because I am married, like I said to them at the time it was their profile their rules and I had to respect that
Just as I said. Some people will not meet cheaters. That is understandable and fine.
Some will but do not want it forced it down their neck. You have marital issues. So? Why would that interest me?
Sorry to sound harsh. You will just have to look harder to find people who do not worry about it.not harsh at all just honest like I'm trying to be. Happy fabbing
The answer to your original question is because many people see swinging with a married person as wrong. That may or may not be right but that is the way it is.
And please do not play the "honest" card. That really never works. yes I know that's the way it is and I accept that, my original question was just a bit of frustrated spleen venting "the honest card" I've never heard of that one, you're over thinking it I mean what I say and I say what I mean . No hidden agendas no bull no reading between the lines I'm not trying to work anything
There are degrees of honesty.
If we were interested in meeting you, would you be happy for us to speak with your wife over the telephone first, to check that she is OK with it?
I suspect the answer is no.
While it would not bother us, it would bother many.
The "honest" claim is a bit crap."
ill give you that one I never thought of it that way as ive already explained she knows what i do just not who where or when as while she says go for it the reality when she knows (and I have told her in the past) is different but seeing as you live hundreds of miles away and are "not at all interested in single straight males" I think the chances of us getting together is on the thin side of slim however as I don't know which of you I'm talking to I'd just like to say the woman on your profile is very nice |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"We choose not to play with attached so being honest about your needs allows everyone to know what the score is.
Dan Savage (best sex advice columnist in the world) does occasionally advocates 'honest' cheating when the alternative of cheating leads to more dire consequences.
Be honest and be safe. "
that's all I'm trying to do thanks that's an excellent quote |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
