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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm sure that this topic has been debated many times, its just that i find it sooooooooo frustrating when i take the time to send an original, personal mail thats not rude or offensive with a face pic enclosed only to see it read and deleted without even a " no ty ".
most of my mails lately have been to wish ppl a happy Xmas.... nothing else.
i'm sure ppl wouldnt act like they do on here in real life
is it to much to ask for a bit of common decency ?
or am i an old fashioned dreamer ??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure that this topic has been debated many times, its just that i find it sooooooooo frustrating when i take the time to send an original, personal mail thats not rude or offensive with a face pic enclosed only to see it read and deleted without even a " no ty ".
most of my mails lately have been to wish ppl a happy Xmas.... nothing else.
i'm sure ppl wouldnt act like they do on here in real life
is it to much to ask for a bit of common decency ?
or am i an old fashioned dreamer ??
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i'm a single male on here so i know how you feel.
best thing you can do is dont let it get to you, just ignore them and carry on as normal.
if your polite and respectful you will get replies sooner or later
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"I'm sure that this topic has been debated many times, its just that i find it sooooooooo frustrating when i take the time to send an original, personal mail thats not rude or offensive with a face pic enclosed only to see it read and deleted without even a " no ty ".
most of my mails lately have been to wish ppl a happy Xmas.... nothing else.
i'm sure ppl wouldnt act like they do on here in real life
is it to much to ask for a bit of common decency ?
or am i an old fashioned dreamer ??
"
I myself used to get quite frustrated with this, but if you think about it logically (and after chatting to a number of women on here), women recieve an incredible amount of mail on the site. Even a 'thanks but no thanks' reply to all of them can take a lot of time. It's not just a case of decency versus rudeness.
Maybe an auto reply button added to the email page would make it simpler?
Plus, many guys would feel rejected by a 'thanks but no thanks' email too! 
Like the previous guy said, patience is the key.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hi,
also when ive sent a 'no thank u' message, i get constant replies to 'change my mind' so im afraid this has put me off sending the inital no thanks email!
like everyone else has said, continue to be polite, you will get responses in the end
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks for the advice all.
i'm slowly getting used to it now.
i have to admit that i have had some wonderful replies to my mails that have made me more positive.
so as they say "onwards and upwards"
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