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By *ancubsa OP Man
over a year ago
Newport |
So, I have had a few socials and meets, on this site and others, met some awesome people and others, well lets say they weren't for me. I don't post my sexual endeavours on here as sometimes I feel discretion is more important but at the same I don't jump into bed with everyone.
However, it does bite the hell out of me with what some women on here ask you to do like... Compose a novel of what you would like to do to me or Convince me you're the best candidate.
So you sit there taking a reasonable amount of time caringly preparing an email with the hope that you will meet this beautiful woman or couple you're messaging. BUT when it's read the other side it either comes across too slutty, deviant, vanilla etc. It is so hard to judge by reading some profiles (and some really have nothing to go by) what the other person likes or their personality. Yes, some like to be totally the opposite of who they are and act out their fantasies on these sites. I would love to try a whole host of different things but I don't have to try them all on everyone I meet. I am always happy to have a social meet first and take it from there... that is where you will find the attraction everyone wants, if not, off you go! I'm not pushy or rude but am am respectful and genuine, take the time to read profiles and if someone says thanks but no thanks I am okay with it.
Some advetise that they don't want to meet single men and in the next breath asking for them... confused.com! So, do you reply or don't you?
I just get narked with a lot of rude people out there tarring everyone with the same brush and yes, I would like to have a few more meets than I am getting so what is a guy to do?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stop bleating on about it! Send out loads more messages! Wink at everyone in a twenty mile radius, get more pics on. And if that fails start it all again. I did and eventually someone caves in  |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
Lancashire |
Some put on that they dont want single gys because thats the only way to stop hundreds of emails from single guys as it automatically blocks them. What they really mean is that they will find their own single guys |
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By *ancubsa OP Man
over a year ago
Newport |
Strangely enough I didn't put on my profile that I'm looking for men because, well, i'm not! I have no issue getting close to another blokes junk in an MMF but thats about it. I am secure in my own masculinity  |
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