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over a year ago
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Definitely! Get so many people putting in their profiles "message to find out more!" and even when I construct a decent message it just gets deleted straightaway normally! So demotivating... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely! Get so many people putting in their profiles "message to find out more!" and even when I construct a decent message it just gets deleted straightaway normally! So demotivating..."
well the owners of this site decided that no response is a no thanks, so you either accept that or find another site 
Just because you are on a swingers site doesn't mean it is going to be easy nor is sex guaranteed.
We send 4 maybe 5 messages a month, of we dont get a response.... we get on with life. If we do then we arrange to meet.
Even if the chemistry isn't there or they (or we) decide we are not for them, (they for us) no time is wasted. We tried something it didn't work so we get on with life.
I must have missed the introduction page that explained this was instashag or having a profile on here was a contract to respond to every single person that sends a private message.
I'll try harder and next time I or she sends a message that is not responded to I will make a point of biatching about it on the forums  |
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I'm one of those genuine and honest members and have to say that I have had more than my fair share of timewasters.
As already mentioned it's always frustrating that no matter how polite and respectful you are with the messages you get a curt impolite response.
Also, another gripe is that when a profile states in detail what the person or couple are looking for and I know that I fit the bill to the nth degree they still turn around and say that I am miles off what they are looking for.
Am I alone in this?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know I fit the bill"
So you know you are exactly what some stranger is looking for & whether they like your profile or not, they should have sex with you 
Seriously  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could fit my bill but if I don't fancy you regardless of how fit you are or how great your cock is or how amazing you claim to be in bed then I won't be interested!
Sexual attraction is of upmost importance to me as a woman and I'm very sensual so if I don't even want to kiss you then spitting your dummy out cos you can't get your way isn't going to change my mind................doesn't matter who you are.
Plus I tend to not reply to people I don't want to talk to because once you've replied some people are hard to get rid of and can't necessarily block someone you've been talking too.
It is hard when you get so many messages a day on here though and have to route out the ones that look hopeful but no one said it would be easy, it's an optional extra to my everyday life and can't let it take over and get angered or upset by it!
I'm happy with who I am, choose wisely and have met people and not played as there wasn't the attraction I expected but know like me that a lot of people on here won't just sleep with anyone and everyone....you have to have standards.......quality over quantity all the way!
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We read the messages, if we like to we reply, time permitting. If you aren't for us we delete, we don't block single men as we feel we could miss out on an opportunity of something that might be of interest.
For us its about the whole package not the little package.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many honest and genuine members get annoyed by all the time wasters and other members judging a book by its cover?"
I'm sorry, but in the limited world of on line communication, what else do people have to judge by but the cover? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were here from the start deleted are profile. Now back again and there are more time wasters and fakes on here.but we take are time and get what we want in the end ( bad boy) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""I know I fit the bill"
So you know you are exactly what some stranger is looking for & whether they like your profile or not, they should have sex with you
Seriously "
Unfortunately some people do think like that... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must admit that I did spend a lot of time with my better half working on our profile.
My biggest issue is dishonesty like bi-curious but you can see from the user photos its more than that.. Another example being M (48) F (48) - or other words 60's. And my favorite yet is still when we say "No Single Guys if we want one we will find you" to end up with 40 pms a day from single blokes.
What I wish people would do is read the profile before opening their mouth to insert both feet!
Sorry rant over. For the rest then I've had some brilliant witty responses  |
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Just because you fit what is in my profile, doesn't mean you fit what I'm looking for.
There are a couple of things that I've deliberately left out of my profile, if you don't have those, it isn't going to happen. |
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