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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hardly ever see social meets in Liverpool. Would anyone be interested, because if so we could make it a monthly thing! Could be a laugh! Views and opinions please! "
This gets mentioned quite often on the forums, but that's normally as far as it gets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hardly ever see social meets in Liverpool. Would anyone be interested, because if so we could make it a monthly thing! Could be a laugh! Views and opinions please! "
Hmmm 3 weeks ago and not a peep since!
We've learned if you want to get exactly the meeting you want then you have to arrange it yourself and not rely on others.
Arrange it and people will come.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hardly ever see social meets in Liverpool. Would anyone be interested, because if so we could make it a monthly thing! Could be a laugh! Views and opinions please!
Hmmm 3 weeks ago and not a peep since!
We've learned if you want to get exactly the meeting you want then you have to arrange it yourself and not rely on others.
Arrange it and people will come.
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Does that mean you'll be arranging one then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about Friday 11th April?"
probably best to give at least 3 weeks notice,, post it on your profile, and in the meets section, as well as here, just so it gets the most coverage.
have you a venue organised?
make sure they know the craic, and attendees know what kind of a social it is (meet n greet or play, as it were)
and look forward to sitting there alone, or with just a couple of other people around, as thats what usually happens.
people are all talk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd come to this.. But would it not be better in the townhouse on the wirral? Atleast if people didn't show up, it wouldn't be a complete waste of time? "
problem with club socials is clubs are always busy and some just dont want to pay to be able to go and have a drink with like minded people |
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"I'd come to this.. But would it not be better in the townhouse on the wirral? Atleast if people didn't show up, it wouldn't be a complete waste of time?
problem with club socials is clubs are always busy and some just dont want to pay to be able to go and have a drink with like minded people"
Ahh I didn't think of that! Ok I withdraw my idea, but I'd still be up for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if there is genuine interest how about we arrange a meet for Friday 11th or 18th April at the Lady of Mann and I shall do the honors in respect of posting it as an event? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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stud, if you want to organise one, make sure the pub in question is happy for it, as if its busy, they may not be too happy if a load of swingers descend on their place unannounced lol.
you may also like to see if they have a separate room for everyone to be in, so they dont start chatting to 'nilla's about shagging around, and end up getting everyone booted out lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"True Venus, I take it you've booked one in Liverpool before. I'd appreciate your knowledge on such events or perhaps you could organise it?"
no, not in liverpool.
have looked into organising a few down this way, but some dont like the way we would have done things, yet aarent bothered about doing it themselves.
makes me giggle tbh.
there is nothing wrong with you wanting to sort it, bud, just, as i say, warn the pub beforehand, and maybe find one with a separate room. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh okay, with you posting in here I'd thought you were local ha ha. Thanks for the advice though. I'll get looking at a venue of choice then. It would be interesting if anyone on here has a venue in mind also |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh okay, with you posting in here I'd thought you were local ha ha. Thanks for the advice though. I'll get looking at a venue of choice then. It would be interesting if anyone on here has a venue in mind also "
Also, if a social is not being held in a swingers club, normaly best to not post the name of the pub you intend meeting in on the forums, the forums can be read by non members of fab, so you could end up with people you'd rather not have there attending just to make life awkward |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh okay, with you posting in here I'd thought you were local ha ha. Thanks for the advice though. I'll get looking at a venue of choice then. It would be interesting if anyone on here has a venue in mind also
Also, if a social is not being held in a swingers club, normaly best to not post the name of the pub you intend meeting in on the forums, the forums can be read by non members of fab, so you could end up with people you'd rather not have there attending just to make life awkward "
In fact, here's a quote from the forum rules
"Locations
Please don't post exact locations of dogging sites or socials in the forum. You can ask people to mail you privately for more information. " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've learned if you want to get exactly the meeting you want then you have to arrange it yourself and not rely on others.
Arrange it and people will come.
Does that mean you'll be arranging one then "
ha ha! What and end up sitting on our own in the Big house wearing a white carnation like Mr Mrs Billy Nomates when no fekker turns up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I arranged a Liverpool Social on this site about 4yrs ago & it was tricky as the City Centre hasn't got many venues with complete separated Private Room(s).
I did get one but the venue is a great part of the city closed at 11pm.
Yet, they were fine with the Social being for Swingers.
I'd arrange one when the University Exams are happening as venues would be desperate for trade.
Unfortunately, Uni of Liverpool & John Moores Uni DON'T have end of term exams happening at the same time unlike when I was a Uni.
This is possibly, so trade doesn't lose out.
That's a shame.
Looking at the exam schedules, I would have gone with Saturday 10th May 2014 but should Liverpool have a change of winning the League - the final match is the following day at Anfield.
Therefore, a Social would need to take place BEFORE the World Cup as Liverpool City Centre will be rammed for games especially the Italy vs. England match.
I'd go with Saturday 31st May 2014, yet that day will be the final weekend celebration of University of Liverpool Students... meaning town will be rather wild & end of the month meaning people have got paid.
Am NOT arranging this as I've done more than enough sort Socials on this site & another well-known Swinging Site back in the day.
Am just suggesting using my previous expreince as an arranger along with years of working in Bar's & Nightclubs in Liverpool City Centre.
Hope this information is useful to whoever is the possible organizer(s) of a 2014 Liverpool Social.
p.s: Don't set a date for July or August as those months are hectic for Weddings/Music Festivals/Holidays/Moving House/Home Improvements. |
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Great idea count me in. Any of the big pubs in town are ok eg... The big house, the grapes, smokey mo's etc etc. all of which are quieter during the day or mon to thurs evenings. someone mentioned how would we all know each other. I have a suggestion..... Where a ring on the little finger of your right hand, when people see it they say "your ring is fab". Hey presto. Introduction made. Let the fun begin  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So whats the dress code at these socials?
We don't wanna walk into the middle of a Roy and Haley Cropper look alike competition at the Penny Farting showing our rings to everyone. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
some people will like what I am about to say... most of the people are going to hate it...
Call this the "pep talk" post....
this is the classic "well nothing happends in my town" thread.... followed by "well we would go".... followed by nothing!
all indians... no chiefs!!!!
what you have found out is that if everyone waits on someone else to do something.... invariably nothing gets done!!
so rather than bemoaning the fact that nothing happens... someone get off their backsides and actually organise something!
because sometimes the followers just need a leader.....
every person in this thread who has said "well i would go" can actually do something about it.... they are in a position and have the power to change the situation.....
it only takes one..... be that one!!!
talk to other organisers of events up and down the country, people who have done that will know the perils and pitfalls and will always be happy to help and advise
if sheffield can do it, and manchester can do it, and newcastle can do it, and north wales has done it, and york does it... there is no reason you cant!!!! and it all those places it only took one person to bite the bullet and organise something.......
there.... go and actually do something!!! |
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By *onner555 OP Man
over a year ago
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Jesus, completely forgot to keep an eye on this. Glad to see people are keen. As I'm sure you've probably cottoned on, I'm not the most organized of people but I'm very up for trying to get something going with a bit of help. Suggestions such as the big house/the grapes sound pretty good to me for a start like. Also as does the bank holiday weekend as that gives people enough time and obviously most people will be free.
Yay/nay |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So whats the dress code at these socials?
We don't wanna walk into the middle of a Roy and Haley Cropper look alike competition at the Penny Farting showing our rings to everyone. "
PMSFL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are holidaying in Liverpool for a week the end of July, staying in the new Titanic hotel in James Street, just the two of us but it has two double beds in Would love to meet up with like minded people when we there for a drink and a laugh, let us know if you be interested. .
Ruby n Clyde xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are holidaying in Liverpool for a week the end of July, staying in the new Titanic hotel in James Street, just the two of us but it has two double beds in Would love to meet up with like minded people when we there for a drink and a laugh, let us know if you be interested. .
Ruby n Clyde xx"
Note to myself- book work trip to Liverpool last week of July
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems this is getting lot's of attention yet nobody has come forward as...
The Organizer / Party Host.
Am, not doing it as I've arranged more than enough of these Socials with lot's of people be very critical in a...
'You should have done it like this' attitude.
I'll attend but that's it as a guest.
So, who wants the pressure then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems this is getting lot's of attention yet nobody has come forward as...
The Organizer / Party Host.
Am, not doing it as I've arranged more than enough of these Socials with lot's of people be very critical in a...
'You should have done it like this' attitude.
I'll attend but that's it as a guest.
So, who wants the pressure then "
The above is 3 days old... anybody willing to take charge & arrange this event?
Remember, you'll be dealing with negativity & stress for no real reward YET I'll enjoy myself.
I've done 4 Socials in Liverpool, previously so my time has ended.
Let's see.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems this is getting lot's of attention yet nobody has come forward as...
The Organizer / Party Host.
Am, not doing it as I've arranged more than enough of these Socials with lot's of people be very critical in a...
'You should have done it like this' attitude.
I'll attend but that's it as a guest.
So, who wants the pressure then
The above is 3 days old... anybody willing to take charge & arrange this event?
Remember, you'll be dealing with negativity & stress for no real reward YET I'll enjoy myself.
I've done 4 Socials in Liverpool, previously so my time has ended.
Let's see.... "
of course not.
everyone has an opinion how they should be run, but no one will take on the baton and sort it.
same everywhere.
we arent in liverpool, so its not really an option for us to arrange one, but we would probably attend, if the dates were ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not knowing Liverpool well enough, I won't take up the challenge for a Liverpool Social, but I'm thinking about maybe doing a Widnes one, seeing as that's not too far from Liverpool
I'll have a look around for venues etc and then start a post to see if there's any interest. |
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