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over a year ago
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"Personality is a big deal but I will be shallow and admit that looks matter a lot too. Not necessarily a tanned toned adonis but there has to be an attraction."
Agreed! Attraction is a big factor but once you get past the looks there also has to be a mental attraction too.
We wouldn't dream of swinging with someone who looked good but didn't interest us out of the bedroom.
I know some people will jump on this and ask what difference it makes but we like to be able to socialise with others before we would even consider a meet
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I don't want Ken & Barbie but there has to at least be SOME attraction... Just as someone could be the spitting image of Hugh Jackman but could either have all the personality of a door knob or be a complete cunt...
Both are deal-breakers.
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I like a good personality and sense of humour....I never pretend to be a barbie either by looks or size,I had one meet that told me I had probably been the uglyiest woman he had met.
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over a year ago
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Very interesting question!
In my opinion I believe elements of both are needed. Now depending on which one deems more important shall take priority.
I find those that are more selective with there play mates and peepers long term friendship and naughty liasions with put personality greater than looks.
On the other hand those who just wish to satisfy their desires will pick looks and possibly forfeit the personality as long as they get what they want.
Bottom line is that it is a very subjective and expansive question. It all depends on what someone deems as quality or just plain old quantity.
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In a club, to be totally honest, the attraction has been purely pgysucal, particularly if we have been joined while actively playing.
But pre-arranged meets and repeat meets will always be driven by both but primarily mental attraction. It doesn't matter how physically attractive some people are, if they are not people that I can have a laugh and joke with and have similar ideolgies and beliefs to me then I won't play. No exceptions. |
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