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Question for solo men - how often do you meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 27 weeks ago
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I signed up a little while ago, been properly active for a few weeks now. Still haven't had a single meet arranged.
In my broader dating life, I've always been very fortunate so this is unusual to me.
I understand supply & demand, and I know that I'm the high supply on a site like this, but what should my expectations be?
How long did it take you to get your first meeting arranged and how often to do end up meeting new people?
Just want to get an idea before I re-evaluate if it's me doing something horribly wrong.. |
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By *I TwoCouple 27 weeks ago
PDI 12-26th Nov 24 |
Single guys don't have an easy time here.
Your profile seems very detailed and honest but you've been very specific in what you want, that's excellent but also reduces your prospective matches significantly.
No doubt you'll find someone but it certainly isn't going to be in days, weeks or something even months unless you're very lucky.
Single guys seem to spend all their free time on the forums and endlessly sending messages that probably don't get any replies just to try to chat to people much less meet.
Stick at it but don't expect people to come knocking.
Smoking and no condoms would rule out most people we know on the site straight away. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 27 weeks ago
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Yeah. I thought that was the case.
I know what I want and I'm a far cry from desperate. I don't intend to sound arrogant, but if I want a vanilla night with a woman, I can go out for the night and find someone with relative ease. I'm here for the spicier flavours y'know?
But also, I don't want those specifics on my profile to come off as too abrasive and make me seem unapproachable. Does it?
Really appreciate the reply 
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By (user no longer on site) OP 27 weeks ago
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Also, has the preference against smokers always been a thing in the swinging scene? Or is it a newer thing?
It's never been a hindrance in my life before and the majority of my "situationships" have been with non-smokers.. |
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By *I TwoCouple 27 weeks ago
PDI 12-26th Nov 24 |
"Yeah. I thought that was the case.
I know what I want and I'm a far cry from desperate. I don't intend to sound arrogant, but if I want a vanilla night with a woman, I can go out for the night and find someone with relative ease. I'm here for the spicier flavours y'know?
But also, I don't want those specifics on my profile to come off as too abrasive and make me seem unapproachable. Does it?
Really appreciate the reply
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Theres absolutely nothing wrong with your profile
You just need to be realistic about the time scale and effort you need to put in to find the people you want
Read the forums, interact and message those you find with similar interests.
Not smoking isn't a thing in swinging but a lot of people have will not meet smokers on their profiles, just another thing that limits your options but better to be honest as you have than to lie about it obviously. |
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I think it's hard for men in general due to how many are on fab.
But, as mentioned the smoking, not wanting to use condoms and the love of anal mean you'll be ruled out by many too op.
We can't be for everyone, you've been honest and open on your profile though, so people are aware.
Socials are definitely great ways to meet other people too, rather than just relying on fab for meets. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 27 weeks ago
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Yeah, I think that's true for all online dating etc..
I'm not fussed about limiting my options. I'm only here for limited things and I have a few fwbs already and I'm pretty well catered for..
I came to fab for the more hard to find fantasies like creampie gangbangs and MMF threesomes with DP (which imo is the only real benefit of an MMF).
Thanks for the perspective though ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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This isn’t the best app/Site .
Think I have met 3 single ladies on here and one attached .
My profile is straight Yet you get guys checking you out more than women lol .
Badoo is far better , but I also go to Thailand and travel all over Thailand. There apps are great , you can meet girls every night . And I’m not talking about the sex trade . I mean genuine girls . Stunners . And I’m 3 stone overweight ! . Here I have no chance of that quality lol |
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