Hey beautiful people
My partner has approached me with her desire to be “collared” - She really wants a Dom/Sub relationship which in all fairness suits our personalities fairly well.
I am not experienced in the ways of BDSM at all and even though I have quite a lot of info regarding what she wants daily living and sexually from BDSM checklists and instructions for contracts I would love to talk to other couples with this kind of arrangement
As is with everything I do I love to be educated and be great at what I do.
Be great if there were people local to myself to show me the ropes! Excuse the pun! Haha
Thanks guys
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Collaring a submissive is a big step, and also a very big responsibility.
If you are inexperienced in the D/s scene then I would suggest taking it slowly - rushing could damage both your relationship and those involved.
You need to spend a good chunk of time talking to each other, discussing and agreeing what the boundaries of the D/s dynamic are between you, and then carry on talking to check in on whether it is working for you both, and what changes you might need to make to keep it working.
The input of both partners is key - it's not just a case of the Dominant saying "do this, do that".
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It’s a very very big step.
When James collard me it felt natural and he hand made it for me.
Honestly with or without the collar the connection, trust has to be there.
When he does put the collar on me or a couple times I have surprise him with it already on. OMFG feels amazing to see that look in his eyes.
Do read up, ultimately though it’s about what it means to both of you alone |
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There is a difference to being collared and people who wear them for sex although they often get used for that!. I have to say the whole getting collared thing is a bit annoying as I have collars for my subs and like to use them for servitude training and sometimes they think I am wanting to collar them |
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