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over a year ago
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In same situ - and not embarrassed to say I’ve paid for it. Have absolutely no guilt whatsoever as marriage is dead.
Best sex ever, I’ve done everything possible, things the wife would never do.
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over a year ago
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"In same situ - and not embarrassed to say I’ve paid for it. Have absolutely no guilt whatsoever as marriage is dead.
Best sex ever, I’ve done everything possible, things the wife would never do.
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And you got her pregnant. Congrats!  |
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over a year ago
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"Should I look elsewhere it’s been three years now and counting."
Sex is a vital part of any relationship in my eyes.
Unless there's an underlying condition etc where she can't I'd explain that to her.
If she's just not attracted to you like that anymore you decide the next step! |
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"Should I look elsewhere it’s been three years now and counting.
Sex is a vital part of any relationship in my eyes.
Unless there's an underlying condition etc where she can't I'd explain that to her.
If she's just not attracted to you like that anymore you decide the next step! "
Explain what to her?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Should I look elsewhere it’s been three years now and counting.
Sex is a vital part of any relationship in my eyes.
Unless there's an underlying condition etc where she can't I'd explain that to her.
If she's just not attracted to you like that anymore you decide the next step!
Explain what to her?
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That sex is a vital piece of a relationship and that he's obviously not happy not getting any  |
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That sex is a vital piece of a relationship and that he's obviously not happy not getting any "
Doesn't work, if has been 3 years it is not likely happen.
I have been I same situation for 12 years have had the sex is essential part of relationship.
Argument back was I don't need sex to show you I love you.
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Have you talked this through in a open and adult way with her? Do you have that level of openness to talk freely and from the heart in your relationship. Are you able to be yourself in general in your relationship? Apart from the sex is your relationship good and do you want to be in it?
Sometimes one half of the relationship isn't into sex. However that doesn't necessarily mean they are opposed to their other half fulfilling their fantasies. We all are individuals too in a relationship and sometimes desire different things. Their are plenty of people on fab who play with their partners blessings. Who wouldn't want the one they love not to be able to be themselves and enjoy what there is out there to offer? |
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Communication is key trying sitting down with her and expressing your true feelings and perhaps you could f8nd a way to fix your relationship or you may find that you are both looking for a way out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I lived for 6 years without sex. My then husband wasn’t open to talking about why he didn’t want it. I tried and tried. I suggested everything I possibly could. In the end I decided I couldn’t stay in a relationship where I wasn’t respected and there was no communication. I left and got divorced before I did anything else though.
Best thing I’ve ever done. I’ve experimented and done all sorts of things since. At the end of the day, life is too short to be miserable. |
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"Many women suffer with menopause which can effect their sex drive… "
Depends how old is other half in this situation. Sometimes women’s like to have some kind of lust without involving sex in it.kisses,hugs, holding hands, if you take this away from healthy relationship where is no sex life, there’s nothing left to fight for. |
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