Hi, this is something that I’ve been asked to help orchestrate for a while now but wasn’t sure how I could go about wording it and making it something that will be productive.
My whole life i have come across many straight men who have either wanted to explore sexual things with me or atleast have a non judgemental conversation about potential same sex (or sex outside Hetro normz) experiences. I have now become a bit of an advocate for straight men to be able to, at very least talk about different experiences, thoughts or feelings they may have, but for a life time have not felt we’re able to express or even entertain the thought without fear of judgement, shame or being “outed”. I DO NOT believe that anyone has a right to dictate another persons sexuality (let’s start there) and I don’t believe that wanting to have certain sexual experiences outside the Hetro normative boundaries can really dictate where YOU chose to fit on society’s sexual spectrum.
With this said, I KNOW there are MANY who feel alone and therefore keep very quiet about things like this (which is not healthy).
I have been asked if I could help set up a group chat that can be a safe space for those who want a space express and communicate these thoughts, feelings, urges with other straight men who may feel the same way and can relate. It would be something that will regulated so that it remains a safe and non judgemental space and also will allow people to exercise discretion so there is no fear of being unintentionally outed etc.
If you think you would like to be a part of this or would like more info,
Or just want a casj chat with me (promise I’m nice  ) just drop me a message and can go from there.
Please no hate messages, really hope this gets a positive response and can help someone in some way or another x
Ps. I personally don’t believe in sexuality myself and prefer to be sexual open minded and optimistic (of course whilst maintaining personal boundaries) - and just an FYI for anyone who might still be reading/ cares… I’m hoping to one day study to be a trained Sex Psychotherapist, so happy to hear from anyone in this or similar fields or anyone who may know of any great colleges/ courses. |
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