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Hey been on the site for a while now and haven't had much luck
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We can't comment on how your interactions have been previously. But, it's important to have realistic expectations. Most people are not compatible with most other people, so the majority of messages will fail, once people realise they are not matched.
People can largely learn about you from your profile, so use it to sell you. There are lots of posts giving good advice on this. With the majority of people herw being single men, it's very important, so we can choose which guy is right for us.
Generic profiles that don't make it clear why we should pick you, what you bring to the table, will often be passed by, until another guy does.
Your pics aren't all cock pics 1 is usually enough for most people here - but could perhaps do with more variety of very clear pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know the feeling.
Some tips for you, put effort into your profile, any messages you send, make sure they're personal to the people you're mailing, and best tip of all, go to the socials, make contacts, get veris that you're real, things will pick up. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"Think it has something to do with my pics and profile, any help would be appreciated."
What profile? Literally says your age, that you're a man and can accommodate or travel. There's absolutely nothing there that makes you stand out from the other thousands of single guys.
Would you by a car advertised as nothing but "three years old, red and can deliver or you can collect"?.
(Bry) |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
You obv know the problem so rectify it. Your young which will go against you so need to make your profile stand out which it doesn’t. Look at your photos! Background mess is a real turn off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile advice apart, the one piece of advice i would give is, stay online, a lot. Reality is, for most of us anyway, that people check out online profiles far more than offline ones. Just set your email notification to ping you when you get a message and get on with whatever else you are doing. |
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"You obv know the problem so rectify it. Your young which will go against you so need to make your profile stand out which it doesn’t. Look at your photos! Background mess is a real turn off"
Fucking brutal  |
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"You obv know the problem so rectify it. Your young which will go against you so need to make your profile stand out which it doesn’t. Look at your photos! Background mess is a real turn off"
We’d agree with that ! |
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