When it comes to pleasing women does it really have to be about been 6” + to hold this amazing conversation, isn’t it about what’s in the heart that matters most , that someone cares and looks after you when your ill or holds your hair back when your throwing up , does it really have to be about competition? |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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"When it comes to pleasing women does it really have to be about been 6” + to hold this amazing conversation, isn’t it about what’s in the heart that matters most , that someone cares and looks after you when your ill or holds your hair back when your throwing up , does it really have to be about competition? "
What you are talking about sounds like a relationship, not swinging. |
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"I think you’ve posted your message on the wrong site.
This is a site for casual hookups and sex. I’m not sure many on here are looking for someone to hold their hair back whilst they throw up!"
What I mean is , do we really need to be 6 foot + and an amazing conversation to meet someone ? is it such a big deal ? why can’t people thing ooh he’s lovely I would love to meet him . |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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"I think you’ve posted your message on the wrong site.
This is a site for casual hookups and sex. I’m not sure many on here are looking for someone to hold their hair back whilst they throw up!
What I mean is , do we really need to be 6 foot + and an amazing conversation to meet someone ? is it such a big deal ? why can’t people thing ooh he’s lovely I would love to meet him . "
Sounds like you are looking for a date.
But at a guess people do think that sometimes. |
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"When it comes to pleasing women does it really have to be about been 6” + to hold this amazing conversation, isn’t it about what’s in the heart that matters most , that someone cares and looks after you when your ill or holds your hair back when your throwing up , does it really have to be about competition? "
Never new it was competition mate that’s just your perspective I think |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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The cold hard facts of this site and sites like this are that it isn't for everyone.
Just the way it is we guess and nothing will change.
It isn't a competition, it simply is what it is.
We said this on another site. Just because someone walks into a busy pub it doesn’t mean anyone in there will have sex with them.
That's life. |
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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago
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Was that 6' or 6"?
Never was good with Imperial..
Think most people here are looking for fun and avoid what comes in-between.
They either like ya or they don't and best way to work that out is whether they reply or delete..
Sounds shallow but it's how it goes round here.. |
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I want fun thou but I don’t want to come across as a blunt person by saying fancy a f**k , I like to be polite all the time , I would love to meet someone from here, I know I can’t force anyone to meet , I struggle with sexual frustration & feel like I can’t talk to anyone without them thinking i’m a sleaze. |
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Attraction? Can't really see this coming from a couple, we are attracted to each other, though we sleep with couple's, it's just fun not attraction, we have both slept with people who we aren't remotely attracted to though still have lovely socials and plenty of fun with them and they have probably felt the same about us. It's swinging fun no more than that. |
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By *panddaCouple
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"I want fun thou but I don’t want to come across as a blunt person by saying fancy a f**k , I like to be polite all the time , I would love to meet someone from here, I know I can’t force anyone to meet , I struggle with sexual frustration & feel like I can’t talk to anyone without them thinking i’m a sleaze. "
We fully understand that you want sex.
Let's be honest nearly everyone on here is.
However the one thing we cannot control is if people find us attractive or not.
After all, attraction on a site like this is everything. |
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I totally understand that. I totally love it , I love it more than wanting a relationship. The situation is I have my own flat but because I’m in a supported living environment I’ve been told that we have to be careful about who we have in the building because there is other people in here, as it’s alps in the tenancy agreement, which I admit is a pain in the arse when i’m a 37 yr old guy, yes I have a slight disability so what , we are all humans with needs . |
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By *panddaCouple
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"I totally understand that. I totally love it , I love it more than wanting a relationship. The situation is I have my own flat but because I’m in a supported living environment I’ve been told that we have to be careful about who we have in the building because there is other people in here, as it’s alps in the tenancy agreement, which I admit is a pain in the arse when i’m a 37 yr old guy, yes I have a slight disability so what , we are all humans with needs . "
Agree with you totally OP, we are all equally human and have our needs.
But we have to find the way to fulfil those needs. Not every way is suitable for everyone.
A site like this doesn't take into account that you might well be a caring, nice guy. Initial attraction is almost everything.
That being said, over time we are almost always found attractive by someone else.
The art is having the patience to wait in our humble opinion.
Or try another way to fulfil your needs. |
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