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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago
Longridge |
Doesn't really work like that. There is no such thing as a 'secret couples car park'.
Locations are overrun with single guys, most of which are selfish, unrespecting idiots who drive around with main beam and fog lights on, push to the front and ram fingers in like jack hammers (yes, I have seen women bleed or hurt from over zeleous fingers).
8 out if 10 guys cant even be bothered to carry condoms, the number of times I have been asked to give one of mine. They cost me money and I have to take them out, so I just watch the guy go without and have to leave frustrated.
This is why guys are reluctant to share locations with other singles as it just gets passed on and on until the place is ruined.
There used to be great times near Horwich to be had but now screwed up by 6 or 7 guys who don't have the first idea of respect and "keeping distance". Last week, a guy in a Range Rover - parked near a couple then moved his car closer 3 times, until the couple just drove off. What is to gain by parking so damn close other than to intimidate.
I have seen many guys in SUVS or vans where headlights are mounted high up, pull up to cars to illuminate occupants - Very intimidating for couples.
Two weeks ago, suggested to a guy to 'calm lights down' while entering car parks with fogs and headlights. Did he say thanks for the advice, no, he wanted to know "what my f*ckin problem was and do you want you make sonething of it". Two nights later couple in a car park, he drives in again lighting everything and everyone up and parked right next to them, who then just drove off.
As advised many times, get out with a coffee and look for quieter locations with less traffic because sharing details screws it up for everyone.
Reading posts here, people just dont understand what dogging is and until they do the research, should stay away.
It is a myth that couples sit waiting for guys. No, it is being at the right place at the right time and hope no idiot arrives and screws it up.
Nothing ruins a situation more quickly than a car arriving to notice play in progress and then stop lighting everyone up while they park up or decide the next move - if you ever enter a car park and a number of people are stood by a car - turn your lights off, park away then walk over.
It is best when arriving at a car park to switch on fog lights and headlights off as the light is lower to the ground.
When confronted with headlights, first assumption is the police and nirmally game over for further play as nerves have kicked in.
Why people cant keep distance and walk over to a car is beyond me. Moving or parking closer carries high risk of the couple feeling intimidated and leaving, usually ending that way..
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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago
Longridge |
Thanks..
I think some guys arrive assuming there are desperate women gagging for sex sat waiting in some kind of hidden world and absolutly not the case.
12-14 years ago, go out, meet 3 to 6 couples on a Saturday night, most have been driven to clubs and pre-arranged meets. You played, have a banter and a chat then met again a week later.
Guys just don't learn, they screw up a couple arriving then move on to the next then complain nothing happens.
Even hardened regular dogging couples are rare these days this means that most couples out now are new, inexperienced and testing the water, probably for the first time. They get a shock and just dont come back.
Many times I am the only one in a car park playing with a couple then seeing a car approaching and thinking to myself, please drive past, please drive past because there is a very likely chance that the guy is not respectful and guaranteed to be ruined.
Places where there are more than one car park, guys spend 3 hours shuttling between them for fear they are missing something. Most the time they have as if a couple arrives, I tend to take them and two or three well behaved guy to somewhere private.
When they do arrive to realise a couple is present they drive like lunatics and park so close they couldnt easily get open the doors.
If arriving to a couple, it is lights out and park three or four spaces away to give space and certain two or three others will fill the gap in between us.
Having taken females out and been on the receiving end, it can be damned scary or intimidating.
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"Doesn't really work like that. There is no such thing as a 'secret couples car park'.
Locations are overrun with single guys, most of which are selfish, unrespecting idiots who drive around with main beam and fog lights on, push to the front and ram fingers in like jack hammers (yes, I have seen women bleed or hurt from over zeleous fingers).
8 out if 10 guys cant even be bothered to carry condoms, the number of times I have been asked to give one of mine. They cost me money and I have to take them out, so I just watch the guy go without and have to leave frustrated.
This is why guys are reluctant to share locations with other singles as it just gets passed on and on until the place is ruined.
There used to be great times near Horwich to be had but now screwed up by 6 or 7 guys who don't have the first idea of respect and "keeping distance". Last week, a guy in a Range Rover - parked near a couple then moved his car closer 3 times, until the couple just drove off. What is to gain by parking so damn close other than to intimidate.
I have seen many guys in SUVS or vans where headlights are mounted high up, pull up to cars to illuminate occupants - Very intimidating for couples.
Two weeks ago, suggested to a guy to 'calm lights down' while entering car parks with fogs and headlights. Did he say thanks for the advice, no, he wanted to know "what my f*ckin problem was and do you want you make sonething of it". Two nights later couple in a car park, he drives in again lighting everything and everyone up and parked right next to them, who then just drove off.
As advised many times, get out with a coffee and look for quieter locations with less traffic because sharing details screws it up for everyone.
Reading posts here, people just dont understand what dogging is and until they do the research, should stay away.
It is a myth that couples sit waiting for guys. No, it is being at the right place at the right time and hope no idiot arrives and screws it up.
Nothing ruins a situation more quickly than a car arriving to notice play in progress and then stop lighting everyone up while they park up or decide the next move - if you ever enter a car park and a number of people are stood by a car - turn your lights off, park away then walk over.
It is best when arriving at a car park to switch on fog lights and headlights off as the light is lower to the ground.
When confronted with headlights, first assumption is the police and nirmally game over for further play as nerves have kicked in.
Why people cant keep distance and walk over to a car is beyond me. Moving or parking closer carries high risk of the couple feeling intimidated and leaving, usually ending that way..
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Now here's a man who has actually been dogging.
Was great years ago but the old type of dogging is all but finished.
We tend to put a post on here and arrange our own.
Had some nice meets, pre Covid.  |
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"Doesn't really work like that. There is no such thing as a 'secret couples car park'.
Locations are overrun with single guys, most of which are selfish, unrespecting idiots who drive around with main beam and fog lights on, push to the front and ram fingers in like jack hammers (yes, I have seen women bleed or hurt from over zeleous fingers).
8 out if 10 guys cant even be bothered to carry condoms, the number of times I have been asked to give one of mine. They cost me money and I have to take them out, so I just watch the guy go without and have to leave frustrated.
This is why guys are reluctant to share locations with other singles as it just gets passed on and on until the place is ruined.
There used to be great times near Horwich to be had but now screwed up by 6 or 7 guys who don't have the first idea of respect and "keeping distance". Last week, a guy in a Range Rover - parked near a couple then moved his car closer 3 times, until the couple just drove off. What is to gain by parking so damn close other than to intimidate.
I have seen many guys in SUVS or vans where headlights are mounted high up, pull up to cars to illuminate occupants - Very intimidating for couples.
Two weeks ago, suggested to a guy to 'calm lights down' while entering car parks with fogs and headlights. Did he say thanks for the advice, no, he wanted to know "what my f*ckin problem was and do you want you make sonething of it". Two nights later couple in a car park, he drives in again lighting everything and everyone up and parked right next to them, who then just drove off.
As advised many times, get out with a coffee and look for quieter locations with less traffic because sharing details screws it up for everyone.
Reading posts here, people just dont understand what dogging is and until they do the research, should stay away.
It is a myth that couples sit waiting for guys. No, it is being at the right place at the right time and hope no idiot arrives and screws it up.
Nothing ruins a situation more quickly than a car arriving to notice play in progress and then stop lighting everyone up while they park up or decide the next move - if you ever enter a car park and a number of people are stood by a car - turn your lights off, park away then walk over.
It is best when arriving at a car park to switch on fog lights and headlights off as the light is lower to the ground.
When confronted with headlights, first assumption is the police and nirmally game over for further play as nerves have kicked in.
Why people cant keep distance and walk over to a car is beyond me. Moving or parking closer carries high risk of the couple feeling intimidated and leaving, usually ending that way..
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And this is why my wife will not go dogging any more
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That looks like a beach in Lanzagrotte with the rock circle. If so, I have sure had fun there too.."
Its El Cotillo in Fuertuventura, fab place, get yourself over there. We've booked for September. |
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I'm going out today and it's a luck thing. I will park up, sit in my car and observe what's going on. I might take myself off for a walk in the woods to see if there are people playing. If I see anyone in the woods or in the car, I will watch from a reasonable distance discreetly. Only if I am asked will I go up to them |
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"Thanks Liz and Paul..
That looks like a beach in Lanzagrotte with the rock circle. If so, I have sure had fun there too..
Its El Cotillo in Fuertuventura, fab place, get yourself over there. We've booked for September. "
We love that beach in Cortillo. We go around 4 times a year (pre Covid) booked for November though! |
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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago
Longridge |
"Well said mate it’s not like it used to be no etiquette or respect for the couples who turn anymore there a lot of up there arse pricks I’m afraid "
Just an observation - the more expensive car they drive, the more ignorant and arrogant they are.. |
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