Hello Op,
First things first, if it's getting to you a bit then take a break. If you find yourself returning refreshed in a few weeks or months then great, but if not then you will have removed some stress from your life.
It is very difficult for anyone to advise you as your approach and the people you approach are all unique, and the scope is too wide to cover everything.
In general terms though: Only search for people that meet what you are looking for, which according to your profile is single women between the age of 18 and 50 (although you also mention couples, which is contradictory). When you do the search tick the box that says 'I must meet their age requirements' that way you will only get search results that show people that meet what you are looking for and vice versa.
Have a look at the profile - Then read it. If at any point in reading that profile they say they are looking for something you are not then move on. For example if they say they are looking for a bald guy, then that's not you. Move on and don't offer to shave your head 
Don't send out unwanted friends requests in the hope of someone accepting it, especially if their profile says not too. It will not work out the way you intend it to.
Getting involved with the chatrooms can be quite difficult at times, as not everyone will see your messages, or you theirs. Sometimes this is because the chat moves too quickly, or it could be because the other person is engrossed in another conversation or many of them and can't pay attention in all areas. Try using the regional chat rooms and getting to know people locally in there, especially on quieter nights during the week.
Might I also suggest that using a more stand out profile pic might help, perhaps one of your smiling face pics that you have on your page?
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