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over a year ago
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Hey there everyone just wanna ask your thoughts about this. If you are in a relationship but not told the s/o about your swinging and you meet someone/couple but just watch would the be considered cheating?  |
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"Hey there everyone just wanna ask your thoughts about this. If you are in a relationship but not told the s/o about your swinging and you meet someone/couple but just watch would the be considered cheating? "
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"Hey there everyone just wanna ask your thoughts about this. If you are in a relationship but not told the s/o about your swinging and you meet someone/couple but just watch would the be considered cheating?
Are you really asking that question "
Yh haha. Im curious to know where people draw the line of whats considered cheating |
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"Hey there everyone just wanna ask your thoughts about this. If you are in a relationship but not told the s/o about your swinging and you meet someone/couple but just watch would the be considered cheating?
Are you really asking that question
Yh haha. Im curious to know where people draw the line of whats considered cheating"
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over a year ago
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"So you are in a relationship and doing something behind their back for your own sexual gratification.
Hmmm.....
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Not at all. I would never mak someone go through that feeling. I've had a ex cheat on me so I'd never do that. I just thought where do people cross the line on this topic |
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"So you are in a relationship and doing something behind their back for your own sexual gratification.
Hmmm.....
Not at all. I would never mak someone go through that feeling. I've had a ex cheat on me so I'd never do that. I just thought where do people cross the line on this topic"
Why are you watching? Is it something you want to do as a bit of a turn on?
We would consider watching for our own sexual fun.
However if you are watching and having that fun, we feel it is no different than participating physically. You are getting your sexual kicks from watching but not telling your other half after all.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So you are in a relationship and doing something behind their back for your own sexual gratification.
Hmmm.....
Not at all. I would never mak someone go through that feeling. I've had a ex cheat on me so I'd never do that. I just thought where do people cross the line on this topic
Why are you watching? Is it something you want to do as a bit of a turn on?
We would consider watching for our own sexual fun.
However if you are watching and having that fun, we feel it is no different than participating physically. You are getting your sexual kicks from watching but not telling your other half after all.
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Don't have another half so not really an issue for me. I'm always transparent with a partner so I never hide anything.
Yh I do get turned on from watching. Hearing a girl moan is something that turns me on alot but I've seen lots of couples on here as well so just thought I'd ask as I wondered if they actually tell their partners
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The main question you should ask yourself is would your partner be hurt by the knowlage of your activities? If you honestly believe so (which I suspect is the case) that's totally a matter of your ethics on the course of action you take. But you need to accept the consequences are on your shoulders should it go wrong. Not project it on to your partner or blame members of FAB.
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