We're planning to go tomorrow, Saturday.
We like what we read about it being at least 50% dance club rather than 100% sex club.
Is there a better time to go when the chance off getting in is best? We're in good shape and look younger, but in our 50s so a little bit concerned on that front.
We read it's essential to wear as little as possible in the club. Should we show up in maximum glam outfits with sexy underwear underneath? Or are casual outfits ok as long as you can show you're wearing sexy underwear underneath?
What time does it get busy?
Any other advice?
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For insomnia you can go in normal wear and dress down when in club .. for kitkat the actual less you wear the quicker you get in .. we’ve seen girls in pvc thong and bra top walk straight up to door and get in bring long coat and strip off and walk up to door . Don’t worry you won’t be out of place everyone is wearing feck all and don’t bat an eye lid .. enjoy |
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just look liker you belong there, people are not let in because they are not part of that scene and are goibg rti gawp or get lairy with their mates. It's not age related.
So dress kinky or be prepared to get naked obce in the 'changing area'
Don't act loud or look too nervous. Look chilled out but that you 'belong'
And there will be no issues getting in |
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Thanks for the replies.
Yeah I didn't know we were going this weekend, so I literally have jeans, hoodie, trainers and a warm jacket. And I'm not found to stand in a queue half naked - it's 2 degrees C in the daytime here at the moment!
I do have some sexy pvc pants that Mrs brought for me to wear but I'm really wondering if we're getting in.... |
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it's fine - you dobn't need to be half naked outside in freezibg temps...just be clear you have a change to something kinky in a bag and be prepared to show it if asked (unlikely).
What I found there were that men tended to either be naked or wearing stuff like rubber/leather shorts, mesh shirts, harnesses. The swinging scene in Germany has more of a culture of dressing in fetishwear generally than the UK. Women have a wider range of stuff they can wear just avoid frilly negligees and fluffy handcuffs
Actually you can't go too far wrong if whatever you wear is A)Fetishwear B)Black
Once past the doorman there is an area everyone uses for changing but you won't feel out of place as threres likely to be a lot of people doing the same thing
You'll have a ball |
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Yeah so exactly as said - you'd never know from the people in the queue that you were going to a fetish / sex / dance club. Everyone normally dressed and wrapped up nice and warm. I had no bother in my freshly bought black boots and jeans, and she was in trainers in jeans. We arrived at 10.30 and queued for about 10 minutes only.
It's got a quirky DIY sexy vibe, friendly staff and punters. A total labyrinth beyond the main room and not entirely techno in the other rooms which suited us!
We saw lots of fingering and one couple fucking but we were there until about 3 - so definitely not a pure sex club based on that experience. Maybe it gets more debauched later.
Overall a great night out, lots of good memories.
Thanks for the advice all. |
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Sunday has th most relaxed dress code. That's when we went.
I would say KitKat is much less than 50% sex clubs.
It's a club where you CAN have sex. I wouldn't call it a club for sex. A relatively small proportion of attendees did anything sexual, usually in specific areas. I only saw it on the balcony over th dancefloor and the darker areas underneath it.
I didn't see any swapping on my visit, just couples being a bit exhibitionist.
Compared to a swingers club, there was no changing areas, towels, showers, provided condoms etc.
Dress code was more kink theme. I had a short black skirt, fishnets, mesh top with a black bra underneath, and boots.
Last at the door said my outfit was good .
My partner just has black t shirt, black jeans, and boots. She did hesitate with him. We reassured her he was going to take his shirt off. And she let us in.
A bouncer did specifically stop him from entering the dancefloor until he took his T shirt off!
If your doing to change you have to do it at th wide area inside the door where you check in coats and bags.
If you're changing, take a picture of your outfit and show it at the door.
You have to check in your phone as soon as you enter. And you can leave other clothing too, free of change. |
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