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By *awksBoy OP Man
over a year ago
Colchester |
I've always been interested in the psychological side of the lifestyle, and it fascinates me how couples especially decide to enter to join in as it were. I can get single individuals - you have a bit more freedom as a single gent or lady - but being in a relationship is a bit different as somewhere along the line the question must have been asked.
So my question really is, "how and where did you have the conversation with your partner about becoming swingers". "How did you persuade your partner to go to a club or become a hot-wife, or just meeting people occasionally for socials. Was it a fantasy, a fascination with it or just pure curiosity."
Of course, I do understand some of you met in clubs and through swinging in the first place, but to me its fascinating to find out whether it was after a night of frantic love-making, or talking about fantasies, or just over a cup of Coffee at Starbucks! |
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over a year ago
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"I've always been interested in the psychological side of the lifestyle, and it fascinates me how couples especially decide to enter to join in as it were. I can get single individuals - you have a bit more freedom as a single gent or lady - but being in a relationship is a bit different as somewhere along the line the question must have been asked.
So my question really is, "how and where did you have the conversation with your partner about becoming swingers". "How did you persuade your partner to go to a club or become a hot-wife, or just meeting people occasionally for socials. Was it a fantasy, a fascination with it or just pure curiosity."
Of course, I do understand some of you met in clubs and through swinging in the first place, but to me its fascinating to find out whether it was after a night of frantic love-making, or talking about fantasies, or just over a cup of Coffee at Starbucks!"
Before we met we’d both been on the scene alone/with others. We told each other - and we’re both happy to go on the scene together in our relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always been able to sleep with women, my husband has always known I'm bisexual so he's always been fine with me having casual f/f sex.
But I started meeting couples and men after he came to me and said he found he idea of me being with another man a turn on.
He's not a cuck, he doesn't want to see it and it isn't a humiliation thing. He just likes me to tell him the details later when we have 'reclaim sex'.
Though my husband isn't into the idea of him seeing other people so he's not a swinger himself. That's why I'm here as a single female. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife suggested an open marriage. After a lot of hard work she’s regained the confidence she had lost through a series of events prior to us meeting.
One thing for her from a long time back was BDSM. It does absolutely nothing for me but it’s her preference; so she got a Dom and I got Fab. |
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(Lou) it was always a fantasy of mine to explore being with another woman, when I got with Ray he asked me about my fantasies so I told him, he told me about his experiences with an ex (clubs, meets etc) and said if I ever wanted to take it further he would support me. I made sure I thought it through and asked him loads of questions before I told him I would like to take it further and here we are a few meets later waiting for lockdown to be over  |
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Very interesting thread. Very early on we were in a park in Glasgow laying in the sun and we started talking about me (Shelly) being with a woman, which I had been, that was the seed planted in both of us, soon after we joined fab and the rest is history. X |
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
louth, Ireland |
We had spoken for years about mrs bi curiosity, we joined a Facebook group chat and mr got told about this site. After a bit of chat we joined to see what it's all about, we progressed from there and added more to our fun |
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Years ago after talking about a ffm fantasy for quite some time I arranged a meet with a woman I met online. I told him about ut once it was arranged. We had a fantastic night, he came 7 times that night! So we did it again and again with the same woman. Then for one reason and another that came to an end. Then we were on holiday in the beach and he said "do you think you'll ever kiss a woman again" and so the conversation evolved, I did a bit of research and here we are! And what fun we're having  |
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We had talked about our fantasies of having sex with other people for a long time and one day having a chat about how to make our life more exciting decided to look into actually doing it. We discovered Fab and slowly entered the lifestyle.
I find it really interesting how different couples go about it though. I think its about finding a way for it to work in your relationship x |
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I had for quite a while been thinking about being with another woman and it was always being bigged up by a pal who is bi so mentioned it to the hubby and he was all for it. We thought that the best way to go about it was at a club and everything just progressed from there |
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Emm always liked the idea of outdoors fun where we might get caught, that moved to taking photo's & posting them on an old site (www)after which she did a couple of tfp photo shoots for payto view web sites. All that lead to trying dogging-which really wasn't for us - & in tern lead to arranged meets, very soft at first - so a very gradual journey -which is still ongoing, the more you do & are exposed to, the more we think we might try. |
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Lou enjoying her bi side doesn't really do much for me but the confidence to do it turns me on
Last time she was with a woman in a club i could tell she felt relaxed so nipped out as they had a buffet on
Pork pie was lovely 
Ray |
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