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Love bareback but give the need for safety it’s a very rare occurrence with anyone other than hubby - and one close couple we know..........
If safety wasn’t an issue I’d love to be filled by all our playmates  |
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over a year ago
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Prefer the natural feel of bearback. But have never had an issue with putting on a condom either, not sure why it's an issue as it's just as much fun either way.
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Everyone prefers bareback mmmmm...now doing it that's a separate question. For me personally I only ever give it serious consideration on the occasions when I'm able to see a local lady (FWB) or couple on a pretty regular basis and that's rare. |
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over a year ago
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Always play safe except for my partner then bare back with him. But nothing is safe as one said we all love giving oral. Knew someone always played safe and they still caught sti. Nothing guaranteed but do your best to stay safe |
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"Does everyone stating 'safe' realise that STIs can be transmitted by oral, too? Are people using condoms or dental dams for oral?"
of course we realise.. but oral is a much lower risk of transmission. I've been swinging for 23 ( almost 24 years) I've done oral without that entire time and trust me I've had more than my fair share of cock... I've had less than 15 people bareback in that time. As apart from one exception it's been just 121 partners.
I have regular tests.. I keep up to date with latest updates from the screening service but choose not to use condoms for oral. There as I said is a risk but it's much much lower than bareback sex |
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"Everyone prefers bareback mmmmm...now doing it that's a separate question. For me personally I only ever give it serious consideration on the occasions when I'm able to see a local lady (FWB) or couple on a pretty regular basis and that's rare."
I don't prefer it! |
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"Does everyone stating 'safe' realise that STIs can be transmitted by oral, too? Are people using condoms or dental dams for oral? of course we realise.. but oral is a much lower risk of transmission. I've been swinging for 23 ( almost 24 years) I've done oral without that entire time and trust me I've had more than my fair share of cock... I've had less than 15 people bareback in that time. As apart from one exception it's been just 121 partners.
I have regular tests.. I keep up to date with latest updates from the screening service but choose not to use condoms for oral. There as I said is a risk but it's much much lower than bareback sex"
You understand then, and I'm sure many do, but not all. I agree it's a much lower risk, but still a matter of risk assessment. Your long experience is very reassuring  |
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"Does everyone stating 'safe' realise that STIs can be transmitted by oral, too? Are people using condoms or dental dams for oral? of course we realise.. but oral is a much lower risk of transmission. I've been swinging for 23 ( almost 24 years) I've done oral without that entire time and trust me I've had more than my fair share of cock... I've had less than 15 people bareback in that time. As apart from one exception it's been just 121 partners.
I have regular tests.. I keep up to date with latest updates from the screening service but choose not to use condoms for oral. There as I said is a risk but it's much much lower than bareback sex
You understand then, and I'm sure many do, but not all. I agree it's a much lower risk, but still a matter of risk assessment. Your long experience is very reassuring "
what many dont seem to realise is that you still need testing if you use condoms x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think if we lived in an ideal disease free society then would always be bare back preferred.
But unfortunately the world not that ideal place.
Stay safe everyone "
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I prefer it, not actually because it feels better, but because you don't need to interrupt the flow. It's nice to be able to tease a ready and desperate vulva with a hard cock and gradually start to penetrate without having to pause... 'hang on'...reach for the packet, sit up to roll one on... 'now, where were we?'...
Then there's the complete waste of cumming in a condom... |
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"I prefer it, not actually because it feels better, but because you don't need to interrupt the flow. It's nice to be able to tease a ready and desperate vulva with a hard cock and gradually start to penetrate without having to pause... 'hang on'...reach for the packet, sit up to roll one on... 'now, where were we?'...
Then there's the complete waste of cumming in a condom..."
I dont find it interrupts the flow... make it part of it. And the reason I take cum on my face is so not to waste it in a condom |
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"Does everyone stating 'safe' realise that STIs can be transmitted by oral, too? Are people using condoms or dental dams for oral? of course we realise.. but oral is a much lower risk of transmission. I've been swinging for 23 ( almost 24 years) I've done oral without that entire time and trust me I've had more than my fair share of cock... I've had less than 15 people bareback in that time. As apart from one exception it's been just 121 partners.
I have regular tests.. I keep up to date with latest updates from the screening service but choose not to use condoms for oral. There as I said is a risk but it's much much lower than bareback sex"
3 times I've caught sti from oral. Couldn't figure it out how I was getting it until I realised you can catch from the throat 
Must be unlucky ?? |
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"Does everyone stating 'safe' realise that STIs can be transmitted by oral, too? Are people using condoms or dental dams for oral? of course we realise.. but oral is a much lower risk of transmission. I've been swinging for 23 ( almost 24 years) I've done oral without that entire time and trust me I've had more than my fair share of cock... I've had less than 15 people bareback in that time. As apart from one exception it's been just 121 partners.
I have regular tests.. I keep up to date with latest updates from the screening service but choose not to use condoms for oral. There as I said is a risk but it's much much lower than bareback sex"
It’s still a risk though  |
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"I prefer it, not actually because it feels better, but because you don't need to interrupt the flow. It's nice to be able to tease a ready and desperate vulva with a hard cock and gradually start to penetrate without having to pause... 'hang on'...reach for the packet, sit up to roll one on... 'now, where were we?'...
Then there's the complete waste of cumming in a condom... I dont find it interrupts the flow... make it part of it. And the reason I take cum on my face is so not to waste it in a condom "
I agree, too. If it’s agreed beforehand to use condoms, then it doesn’t have to interrupt the ‘flow’. My vulva isn’t that desperate to be put at risk.
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"Does everyone stating 'safe' realise that STIs can be transmitted by oral, too? Are people using condoms or dental dams for oral? of course we realise.. but oral is a much lower risk of transmission. I've been swinging for 23 ( almost 24 years) I've done oral without that entire time and trust me I've had more than my fair share of cock... I've had less than 15 people bareback in that time. As apart from one exception it's been just 121 partners.
I have regular tests.. I keep up to date with latest updates from the screening service but choose not to use condoms for oral. There as I said is a risk but it's much much lower than bareback sex
It’s still a risk though "
so is having sex with multiple people.. it's about calculating what risks your prepared to take |
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"bareback or safe whats your preference "
My preference is bareback.
But I would *NEVER* do that with someone I was not in a committed relationship with, where we had both been checked (i.e. only with Alice).
It still astonishes me when we get requests for bareback meets!  |
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By *onny135Man
over a year ago
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"I dont find it interrupts the flow... make it part of it. And the reason I take cum on my face is so not to waste it in a condom "
I need to get myself to the Attic and introduce myself in person.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"bareback or safe whats your preference "
Seems this question is asked every week.
Everyone prefers bareback its a simple fact.
However many people also quite like being healthy therefore practice safe sex.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
We find Durex invisible extra sensitive the best but they are a bit small , I guess that’s part of the design to be super tight and a bit too short ?
Any one have other recommendations for something like these ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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“I’d never do bareback” one of the most frequent lies told.
Im not suggesting anyone posting here is a liar, so forgive me if you feel slighted. Ten years experience on fab tells me most people are a little dishonest when it comes to sex.
A different example would be ask cock size, or how many partners someone’s had, or if they are single. And it’s not just guys, plenty of females are selective with the truth also. Just an observation, obviously I’m ready to stand corrected.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We find Durex invisible extra sensitive the best but they are a bit small , I guess that’s part of the design to be super tight and a bit too short ?
Any one have other recommendations for something like these ? "
Durex extra thin or the ones you mention definitely best. Whack it on and get on with the job in hand, no bother no drama and less worry afterwards |
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"We find Durex invisible extra sensitive the best but they are a bit small , I guess that’s part of the design to be super tight and a bit too short ?
Any one have other recommendations for something like these ?
Durex extra thin or the ones you mention definitely best. Whack it on and get on with the job in hand, no bother no drama and less worry afterwards "
Pound World 12 for £1 nowt wrong with them at all.... |
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