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over a year ago
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Controversial opinion alert.
Imo society makes being sexy a lot easier for you gals. Dudes are expected to hit the gym and have toned x y z to look good. You girls just gotta flaunt ya natural curves haha.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're wrong.
You've assumed that all women find a gym fit male body sexy and no men find gym fit female body sexy"
I'd be interested to see how those two groups compare proportionally. |
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"You're wrong.
You've assumed that all women find a gym fit male body sexy and no men find gym fit female body sexy
I'd be interested to see how those two groups compare proportionally. "
I have no idea but my observations tell me that men and women find a variety of body shapes attractive. |
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"Controversial opinion alert.
Imo society makes being sexy a lot easier for you gals. Dudes are expected to hit the gym and have toned x y z to look good. You girls just gotta flaunt ya natural curves haha.
Tell me if I'm wrong "
Not all women have the supposedly "sexy curves" and is almost impossible to achieve those ideals without help of plastic surgery. But no, most of my friends don't care about body shapes. They just rather have someone who takes care of them and they get on with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're wrong.
You've assumed that all women find a gym fit male body sexy and no men find gym fit female body sexy
I'd be interested to see how those two groups compare proportionally.
I have no idea but my observations tell me that men and women find a variety of body shapes attractive. "
Interesting how that contrasts with the image of an attractive dude/woman in society as a whole. |
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over a year ago
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"Guys who are too ripped, not my thing.
Different people like different things. "
I reckon the scales are tipping away from the gym bod at this point then. |
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"You're wrong.
You've assumed that all women find a gym fit male body sexy and no men find gym fit female body sexy
I'd be interested to see how those two groups compare proportionally.
I have no idea but my observations tell me that men and women find a variety of body shapes attractive.
Interesting how that contrasts with the image of an attractive dude/woman in society as a whole. "
Do you mean the images in the media? Because a glance at the pictures on the profiles on fab will show a different story. M
Sexy is about so much more than body type |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys who are too ripped, not my thing.
Different people like different things.
I reckon the scales are tipping away from the gym bod at this point then. "
Good job with all the bloody gyms shut for god knows how long |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Controversial opinion alert.
Imo society makes being sexy a lot easier for you gals. Dudes are expected to hit the gym and have toned x y z to look good. You girls just gotta flaunt ya natural curves haha.
Tell me if I'm wrong
Not all women have the supposedly "sexy curves" and is almost impossible to achieve those ideals without help of plastic surgery. But no, most of my friends don't care about body shapes. They just rather have someone who takes care of them and they get on with. "
Interesting. From my perspective the world seems to be shifting towards showing a much wider variety of women's bodies in modelling etc. The spectrum of 'beautiful' is widening from ya typical skinny model type from years ago. I don't know if the same thing is happening with dudes tho. |
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"Guys who are too ripped, not my thing.
Different people like different things.
I reckon the scales are tipping away from the gym bod at this point then.
Good job with all the bloody gyms shut for god knows how long "
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We swim a lot and we're really missing it. If this goes on too long we might have to resort to the sea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Your basing your expectations of people based on marketing trends, Instagram is a sales machine.. in the real world no one expects anyone to look like that and in my experience woman are usually less hung up on looks then men! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guys who are too ripped, not my thing.
Different people like different things.
I reckon the scales are tipping away from the gym bod at this point then.
Good job with all the bloody gyms shut for god knows how long
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We swim a lot and we're really missing it. If this goes on too long we might have to resort to the sea "
Watch out the police will fly a drone over the beach and plaster you all over twitter as having taken 'unnecessary measures' to exercise haha |
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"Your basing your expectations of people based on marketing trends, Instagram is a sales machine.. in the real world no one expects anyone to look like that and in my experience woman are usually less hung up on looks then men! "
You're right. I'd go so far as to say women are a lot less hung up on men's looks than men think they are. In fact they're waaay more interested in how other women look |
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"Guys who are too ripped, not my thing.
Different people like different things.
I reckon the scales are tipping away from the gym bod at this point then.
Good job with all the bloody gyms shut for god knows how long
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We swim a lot and we're really missing it. If this goes on too long we might have to resort to the sea
Watch out the police will fly a drone over the beach and plaster you all over twitter as having taken 'unnecessary measures' to exercise haha "
. I'd better make sure I wear my most stylish costume then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your basing your expectations of people based on marketing trends, Instagram is a sales machine.. in the real world no one expects anyone to look like that and in my experience woman are usually less hung up on looks then men! "
That's precisely the point I'm going at really. Media representation especially. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your basing your expectations of people based on marketing trends, Instagram is a sales machine.. in the real world no one expects anyone to look like that and in my experience woman are usually less hung up on looks then men!
You're right. I'd go so far as to say women are a lot less hung up on men's looks than men think they are. In fact they're waaay more interested in how other women look"
That's genuinely fascinating haha. |
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"Your basing your expectations of people based on marketing trends, Instagram is a sales machine.. in the real world no one expects anyone to look like that and in my experience woman are usually less hung up on looks then men!
You're right. I'd go so far as to say women are a lot less hung up on men's looks than men think they are. In fact they're waaay more interested in how other women look"
I know I’m more interested in how women look  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your basing your expectations of people based on marketing trends, Instagram is a sales machine.. in the real world no one expects anyone to look like that and in my experience woman are usually less hung up on looks then men!
You're right. I'd go so far as to say women are a lot less hung up on men's looks than men think they are. In fact they're waaay more interested in how other women look
I know I’m more interested in how women look "
Should rename the thread to A2 essential education for dudes. Ocr spec |
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"Your basing your expectations of people based on marketing trends, Instagram is a sales machine.. in the real world no one expects anyone to look like that and in my experience woman are usually less hung up on looks then men!
You're right. I'd go so far as to say women are a lot less hung up on men's looks than men think they are. In fact they're waaay more interested in how other women look
That's genuinely fascinating haha. "
I'm basing my opinion on what I read on the fora. I know it's not exactly scientific lol.
I see lots of threads from men complaining that women only want gym fit guys with a six pack and huge cock. I see lots of threads from women who feel they aren't good enough to meet good looking guys because they've compared themselves unfavourably to the guys previous meets. None of it makes sense to me because I don't think that way but those are my observations |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your basing your expectations of people based on marketing trends, Instagram is a sales machine.. in the real world no one expects anyone to look like that and in my experience woman are usually less hung up on looks then men!
You're right. I'd go so far as to say women are a lot less hung up on men's looks than men think they are. In fact they're waaay more interested in how other women look
That's genuinely fascinating haha.
I'm basing my opinion on what I read on the fora. I know it's not exactly scientific lol.
I see lots of threads from men complaining that women only want gym fit guys with a six pack and huge cock. I see lots of threads from women who feel they aren't good enough to meet good looking guys because they've compared themselves unfavourably to the guys previous meets. None of it makes sense to me because I don't think that way but those are my observations"
I'll highlight that this wasn't intended to be one of those moaning threads. Just interested to see if I could spark some discussion. Ironically I think guys and girls just need to communicate a bit more on this particular topic and I imagine most would be pleasantly surprise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your basing your expectations of people based on marketing trends, Instagram is a sales machine.. in the real world no one expects anyone to look like that and in my experience woman are usually less hung up on looks then men! "
Nailed it there!  |
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"Your basing your expectations of people based on marketing trends, Instagram is a sales machine.. in the real world no one expects anyone to look like that and in my experience woman are usually less hung up on looks then men!
You're right. I'd go so far as to say women are a lot less hung up on men's looks than men think they are. In fact they're waaay more interested in how other women look
That's genuinely fascinating haha.
I'm basing my opinion on what I read on the fora. I know it's not exactly scientific lol.
I see lots of threads from men complaining that women only want gym fit guys with a six pack and huge cock. I see lots of threads from women who feel they aren't good enough to meet good looking guys because they've compared themselves unfavourably to the guys previous meets. None of it makes sense to me because I don't think that way but those are my observations
I'll highlight that this wasn't intended to be one of those moaning threads. Just interested to see if I could spark some discussion. Ironically I think guys and girls just need to communicate a bit more on this particular topic and I imagine most would be pleasantly surprise. "
I think better communication on this and just about any topic would be good  .
The problem is that issues of attractiveness and sexiness are tied up in self esteem and there is an awful lack of it nowadays |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your basing your expectations of people based on marketing trends, Instagram is a sales machine.. in the real world no one expects anyone to look like that and in my experience woman are usually less hung up on looks then men!
You're right. I'd go so far as to say women are a lot less hung up on men's looks than men think they are. In fact they're waaay more interested in how other women look
That's genuinely fascinating haha.
I'm basing my opinion on what I read on the fora. I know it's not exactly scientific lol.
I see lots of threads from men complaining that women only want gym fit guys with a six pack and huge cock. I see lots of threads from women who feel they aren't good enough to meet good looking guys because they've compared themselves unfavourably to the guys previous meets. None of it makes sense to me because I don't think that way but those are my observations
I'll highlight that this wasn't intended to be one of those moaning threads. Just interested to see if I could spark some discussion. Ironically I think guys and girls just need to communicate a bit more on this particular topic and I imagine most would be pleasantly surprise.
I think better communication on this and just about any topic would be good .
The problem is that issues of attractiveness and sexiness are tied up in self esteem and there is an awful lack of it nowadays"
Agreed very muchly. Speaking from personal experience I'll have some days where I like how I look and others not so much and that does tend to vary with self esteem and mood. Easy to get into a spiral with these things. Luckily the good days out weigh the bad ones for me but I know a lot of people struggle a lot more. |
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Men are predominantly visual creatures and women being predominantly mental types.
Fact being that gay men are having issues with physical looks, expectations extremely high and it's forcing people into unhealthy diets and extreme amounts of exercise and failing to fit a body type is causing mental health issues.
Having less than ideal expectations of body images is causing issues with mental health and physical health. Plenty of literature to read on it.
Stop worrying about how you or anyone else looks because in time it will change what's important is who you are as a person. As long as you are happy and comfortable with how you look no one else's opinions matter.
Accepting people for who they are and not what they look like the world will be a better place. |
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"Your basing your expectations of people based on marketing trends, Instagram is a sales machine.. in the real world no one expects anyone to look like that and in my experience woman are usually less hung up on looks then men!
You're right. I'd go so far as to say women are a lot less hung up on men's looks than men think they are. In fact they're waaay more interested in how other women look
That's genuinely fascinating haha.
I'm basing my opinion on what I read on the fora. I know it's not exactly scientific lol.
I see lots of threads from men complaining that women only want gym fit guys with a six pack and huge cock. I see lots of threads from women who feel they aren't good enough to meet good looking guys because they've compared themselves unfavourably to the guys previous meets. None of it makes sense to me because I don't think that way but those are my observations
I'll highlight that this wasn't intended to be one of those moaning threads. Just interested to see if I could spark some discussion. Ironically I think guys and girls just need to communicate a bit more on this particular topic and I imagine most would be pleasantly surprise.
I think better communication on this and just about any topic would be good .
The problem is that issues of attractiveness and sexiness are tied up in self esteem and there is an awful lack of it nowadays
Agreed very muchly. Speaking from personal experience I'll have some days where I like how I look and others not so much and that does tend to vary with self esteem and mood. Easy to get into a spiral with these things. Luckily the good days out weigh the bad ones for me but I know a lot of people struggle a lot more. "
Yeah a lot of people do.
I'm so old and so stroppy that I don't care |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Men are predominantly visual creatures and women being predominantly mental types.
Fact being that gay men are having issues with physical looks, expectations extremely high and it's forcing people into unhealthy diets and extreme amounts of exercise and failing to fit a body type is causing mental health issues.
Having less than ideal expectations of body images is causing issues with mental health and physical health. Plenty of literature to read on it.
Stop worrying about how you or anyone else looks because in time it will change what's important is who you are as a person. As long as you are happy and comfortable with how you look no one else's opinions matter.
Accepting people for who they are and not what they look like the world will be a better place."
Preach! I will admit this thread was somewhat click bait but the discussion and message has been top notch |
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"Men are predominantly visual creatures and women being predominantly mental types.
Fact being that gay men are having issues with physical looks, expectations extremely high and it's forcing people into unhealthy diets and extreme amounts of exercise and failing to fit a body type is causing mental health issues.
Having less than ideal expectations of body images is causing issues with mental health and physical health. Plenty of literature to read on it.
Stop worrying about how you or anyone else looks because in time it will change what's important is who you are as a person. As long as you are happy and comfortable with how you look no one else's opinions matter.
Accepting people for who they are and not what they look like the world will be a better place."
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There was an interesting programme on Radio 4 last week. A blind woman was trying to find out about beauty. She just couldn't understand the concept of people being valued more highly because of how they looked |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Men are predominantly visual creatures and women being predominantly mental types.
Fact being that gay men are having issues with physical looks, expectations extremely high and it's forcing people into unhealthy diets and extreme amounts of exercise and failing to fit a body type is causing mental health issues.
Having less than ideal expectations of body images is causing issues with mental health and physical health. Plenty of literature to read on it.
Stop worrying about how you or anyone else looks because in time it will change what's important is who you are as a person. As long as you are happy and comfortable with how you look no one else's opinions matter.
Accepting people for who they are and not what they look like the world will be a better place.I
There was an interesting programme on Radio 4 last week. A blind woman was trying to find out about beauty. She just couldn't understand the concept of people being valued more highly because of how they looked"
That sounds bloody fascinating. I reckon I should have done philosophy at uni tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Controversial opinion alert.
Imo society makes being sexy a lot easier for you gals. Dudes are expected to hit the gym and have toned x y z to look good. You girls just gotta flaunt ya natural curves haha.
Tell me if I'm wrong "
I don't know, all I do is flaunt my natural curves too... |
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"Men are predominantly visual creatures and women being predominantly mental types.
Fact being that gay men are having issues with physical looks, expectations extremely high and it's forcing people into unhealthy diets and extreme amounts of exercise and failing to fit a body type is causing mental health issues.
Having less than ideal expectations of body images is causing issues with mental health and physical health. Plenty of literature to read on it.
Stop worrying about how you or anyone else looks because in time it will change what's important is who you are as a person. As long as you are happy and comfortable with how you look no one else's opinions matter.
Accepting people for who they are and not what they look like the world will be a better place.I
There was an interesting programme on Radio 4 last week. A blind woman was trying to find out about beauty. She just couldn't understand the concept of people being valued more highly because of how they looked
That sounds bloody fascinating. I reckon I should have done philosophy at uni tbh"
Have a look for it on the BBC sounds app. I can't remember what it was called though  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Men are predominantly visual creatures and women being predominantly mental types.
Fact being that gay men are having issues with physical looks, expectations extremely high and it's forcing people into unhealthy diets and extreme amounts of exercise and failing to fit a body type is causing mental health issues.
Having less than ideal expectations of body images is causing issues with mental health and physical health. Plenty of literature to read on it.
Stop worrying about how you or anyone else looks because in time it will change what's important is who you are as a person. As long as you are happy and comfortable with how you look no one else's opinions matter.
Accepting people for who they are and not what they look like the world will be a better place.I
There was an interesting programme on Radio 4 last week. A blind woman was trying to find out about beauty. She just couldn't understand the concept of people being valued more highly because of how they looked
That sounds bloody fascinating. I reckon I should have done philosophy at uni tbh
Have a look for it on the BBC sounds app. I can't remember what it was called though "
I genuinely will haha. Thanks |
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"What's Yakno?
I think it's a typo for " ya no"
Oops Thankyou x
Actually it's 'you know' - ya know - yakno"
Is it!? Well I've learned something new today. I will be trying that out on my kids to show how cool I am  |
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"What's Yakno?
I think it's a typo for " ya no"
Oops Thankyou x
Actually it's 'you know' - ya know - yakno
Is it!? Well I've learned something new today. I will be trying that out on my kids to show how cool I am "
There ya go. We can all come away from this thread having learnt something now haha |
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"What's Yakno?
I think it's a typo for " ya no"
Oops Thankyou x
Actually it's 'you know' - ya know - yakno
Is it!? Well I've learned something new today. I will be trying that out on my kids to show how cool I am
There ya go. We can all come away from this thread having learnt something now haha "
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Being a girl ain't easy shaving makeup hair etc.
I'd say makeup ain't necessary. Shaving does seem to be a pain in the ass tho. I don't envy haha "
My legs I shave and it gets annoying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Your wrong op.
Regardless of shape or size.. if the person cant string a decent conversation together or comes across as abusive rude ignorant or disrespectful.. dont care if they got ripped body or not.. they are deleted or blocked |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your wrong op.
Regardless of shape or size.. if the person cant string a decent conversation together or comes across as abusive rude ignorant or disrespectful.. dont care if they got ripped body or not.. they are deleted or blocked"
I think you just proved me wrong in a different debate altogether. |
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"And you’re fucked one week in four excuse the pun
Honestly that one's lost on me
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Still lost x)
I do! XD
Do you need help?! "
Think about what might happen to women for one week (ish) per month? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And you’re fucked one week in four excuse the pun
Honestly that one's lost on me
Blob
Still lost x)
I do! XD
Do you need help?!
Think about what might happen to women for one week (ish) per month? "
Oi! No public shaming. It might have come to be far too late I admit it but given the new context everything is well within my realm of understanding hahahaha |
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