i love being tied up...the process itself is very erotic, and i sometimes feel a little like a doll Sir is playing with as he binds me...its such a situation of trust and utter powerlessness...
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"i love being tied up...the process itself is very erotic, and i sometimes feel a little like a doll Sir is playing with as he binds me...its such a situation of trust and utter powerlessness...
ohh i have to go perve some of our pics now "
...so my subs tell me.
One is building a "dungeon" in my bedroom. He can hardly think of anything else. The thought of being suspended from the ceiling and tortured and designing and building him makes him twitch.
The trick is designing it to blend in.  |
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"i love being tied up...the process itself is very erotic, and i sometimes feel a little like a doll Sir is playing with as he binds me...its such a situation of trust and utter powerlessness...
ohh i have to go perve some of our pics now
...so my subs tell me.
One is building a "dungeon" in my bedroom. He can hardly think of anything else. The thought of being suspended from the ceiling and tortured and designing and building him makes him twitch.
The trick is designing it to blend in. "
A quick question though...i sense the Domly ones also enjoy the time it takes...prolonging the experience?
Hmmmm suspension hooks and blending in...hang a pot plant from it?  |
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"Tbh I prefer to be the dominant one in the bed room but it sounds good I might have to give it a go "
It is a good idea to try it yourself so that you know what a sub feels like |
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"Tbh I prefer to be the dominant one in the bed room but it sounds good I might have to give it a go
It is a good idea to try it yourself so that you know what a sub feels like "
i never get that, you wont know what a sub feels like, you will know what you feel like...the emotions would be totally different. |
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I don't get tied up... Just not something that happens as yet.
I certainly wouldn't let a meet do it... As its something that takes trust.
I don't agree that a dominant needs to experience being tied up either... As jem said, they wouldn't experience the same as a sub and It's a mind set.
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Having recently been introduced to ropes, cuffs and restraints,I can say hand on heart (or any other warm place) that it's amazing being on the receiving end! Can't vouch for the Dom half of the experience but I think she enjoyed it!  |
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"Gosh...couldn't bear being tied up! Like to have all my senses available and would make me feel very vulnerable!
And like a man to be masterful (not dominant!) so not gonna tie him up either!"
the vulnerability is part of the excitement...but obviously needs to be with someone you trust so that you can relax and enjoy yourself! Having your senses taken away, or not being physically able to stop something or move away from it can be such a turn on...but you need to know that if you were genuinely uncomfortable they would stop and release you x |
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I'm not really into being tied, if I am subbing, being tied makes me feel less so... with the right Dom, I can be compliant without being tied, the times I've gotten the most out of it have been with men who's word felt like enough.
I understand many people have a real fetish for the act itself (being bound) but not me  |
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" it looks so erotic"
I agree with this, browsing some profiles on other sites, it really is an art and some are incredibly beautiful to see, especially the 'serene' look on the face of the suspended or whatever. Unfortunately for me the act itself does nothing at all for me  |
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over a year ago
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"I'm not really into being tied, if I am subbing, being tied makes me feel less so... with the right Dom, I can be compliant without being tied, the times I've gotten the most out of it have been with men who's word felt like enough.
I understand many people have a real fetish for the act itself (being bound) but not me "
I think that's the thing that can build up in long term trust too, the lack of need to be tied... works quite well that way here too.
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"I'm not really into being tied, if I am subbing, being tied makes me feel less so... with the right Dom, I can be compliant without being tied, the times I've gotten the most out of it have been with men who's word felt like enough.
I understand many people have a real fetish for the act itself (being bound) but not me "
Must admit, I do enjoy being dominated without restraint too...variety is always good! |
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"I'm not really into being tied, if I am subbing, being tied makes me feel less so... with the right Dom, I can be compliant without being tied, the times I've gotten the most out of it have been with men who's word felt like enough.
I understand many people have a real fetish for the act itself (being bound) but not me
I think that's the thing that can build up in long term trust too, the lack of need to be tied... works quite well that way here too.
Wolf
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For me the tying is rarely about being constrained in a you cant move sense...and more about the relationship expressed in Sir tying me, i remain in any position Sir puts me with or without ropes...bring tied is about something different...i suppose part of it, for me, is that i enjoy objectification. |
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By *evilwolfCouple
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"I'm not really into being tied, if I am subbing, being tied makes me feel less so... with the right Dom, I can be compliant without being tied, the times I've gotten the most out of it have been with men who's word felt like enough.
I understand many people have a real fetish for the act itself (being bound) but not me
I think that's the thing that can build up in long term trust too, the lack of need to be tied... works quite well that way here too.
Wolf
For me the tying is rarely about being constrained in a you cant move sense...and more about the relationship expressed in Sir tying me, i remain in any position Sir puts me with or without ropes...bring tied is about something different...i suppose part of it, for me, is that i enjoy objectification."
I love tying bodies up in a form of harness to make positioning during the act easier and also to allow some energetic release without fear of movements that might end up in a sudden snap - shibari appeals to me, but I've never quite enough rope - need a visit to the chandlers lol.
I also enjoy being able to splay and tie someone out to the four corners of the bed. I guess it's more a matter of sexual convenience for me on the whole, but quite effective nonetheless
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i love it. love being tied up and blindfolded then all your senses are going wild mmmmm
love to tie someone up also and tease them til they are on the edge  |
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