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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im bi btw, Just seems to be alot more bi guys than before dont you agree ? Why do you think this is ? A few weeks i found out my 1 of my best mates is bi after he surprisingly asked me if id give him head after a night out, so i did, abit strange at first but it was a really horny momment
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah I just think these day’s they are just more open and honest with it xx yeah i think its mostley that but i think maybe porn is turning men bi "
I agree. When watching porn it's not just the female we see but the guys and thier dicks too and some dicks I've seen are amazing |
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"Nah I just think these day’s they are just more open and honest with it xx yeah i think its mostley that but i think maybe porn is turning men bi "
I don't think anything can change your sexualality , must have been there to begin with and now feeling more confident to own it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nah I just think these day’s they are just more open and honest with it xx yeah i think its mostley that but i think maybe porn is turning men bi I don't think anything can change your sexualality , must have been there to begin with and now feeling more confident to own it "
i dunno maybe maybe not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are coming out openly .
Look at me (hubby) still think I am straight but on Priyas request sucked few cocks and enjoyed it .
Only thing I don't like is men to men kissing or toys in bum or any form of body playing with another men.
Simple oral fun . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They are coming out openly .
Look at me (hubby) still think I am straight but on Priyas request sucked few cocks and enjoyed it .
Only thing I don't like is men to men kissing or toys in bum or any form of body playing with another men.
Simple oral fun ."
Same here, sucking a big dick is the onley thing that turns me on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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".Same here, sucking a big dick is the onley thing that turns me on "
Great.
Some ppl assume that we are a cuck but we aren't . We just enjoy the play ,we don't hunt for bisexual guys exclusively. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im bi btw, Just seems to be alot more bi guys than before dont you agree ?
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People are just more open about it now. Less stigma to be gay\bi these days i guess. All good if you ask me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a lot of men have always had a bit of curiosity. I'm nearly 60 now and even going back to when I was in my early teens there were places where men went and did what they had to do with other men. At the time it was a couple of public toilets which they tended to use beside where I lived, but of course it was more hush, hush whereas nowadays you can be open about it and no-body bats an eye. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are coming out openly .
Look at me (hubby) still think I am straight but on Priyas request sucked few cocks and enjoyed it .
Only thing I don't like is men to men kissing or toys in bum or any form of body playing with another men.
Simple oral fun ."
Same here - the sight of men kissing each other or doing anything with their backsides turns me sick. I enjoy sucking, wanking and watching guys cum, but that's as far as it goes. If anyone touched my backside I rip their dick off  |
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By *h86Man
over a year ago
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I guess we are coming round to the idea that its ok to be who you want nowadays, many other 'niche' things are becoming mainstream and less taboo, so why shouldn't bi men too?
Freedom of sexual expression should be for everyone, and more power to any guy who can openly say they are at least Bi. For those who don't like it, well, don't sleep with them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve always classed myself as straight but recently I have found myself fantasising about meeting a couple and sucking the guys cock with the woman "
You need to put it on your post virus to-do list pretty quickly. You will never go back once you have tried that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Until recently I was very straight,but now find my self getting turned on at the sight of a nice hard cock,especially bbc. Think watching too much porn has turned me bi curious. |
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Straight guy’s opinion:
We’ve always been told that the number of genuinely bisexual men was vanishingly rare, and that ‘male bisexuality’ was a more socially acceptable stepping stone to gayness.
Since fab, my opinion has changed. Either bisexuality is underrepresented in the wider world or massively over represented on this website.
Partially to blame is the obvious duplicity of the majority of men who either claim bisexuality, or claim straightness, but meet other men for sex.
I’m amazed at the numbers of ‘MF couples’ profiles that include a bisexual man, or ‘female’ profiles claiming to prefer them.
I feel this likely proves at best a misrepresentation, and at worst blatant lying about the sexuality, or indeed gender of the profile holders.
I therefore think it’s nigh on impossible to state whether male bisexuality is on the increase, is more tolerated therefore more easily admitted, or is a clumsy ruse in order to use this, rather than potentially more suitable websites for their purposes.
Sadly, bisexual (admitted on profile or otherwise) I imagine are the cohort which draw most attention to themselves by causing the greatest numbers of grievances for other site users. I cannot of course say whether they act the same way offline. Hopefully not. I imagine they’re generally thoroughly lively chaps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess people are realising that it's okay to be who you are as these days there is less stigma against being gay or bi. Therefore people can be more open and honest about who they really are. |
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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago
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"Going by the messages we get there are A LOT more bi guys on here than declare it on their profiles."
Yep, the amount of "straight" guys who forgot to update their profiles!
In serious answer to the question, its becoming much more acceptable. So thats why it seems like we are coming out of the woodwork. |
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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago
Douglas Isle of man....... |
"Im bi btw, Just seems to be alot more bi guys than before dont you agree ? Why do you think this is ? A few weeks i found out my 1 of my best mates is bi after he surprisingly asked me if id give him head after a night out, so i did, abit strange at first but it was a really horny momment that hot sukking your mate cock least he was 2 the point bet your at all the time now specially if your good at given head ...think men realizing there options as theres not enough Lady's go round amount men on the market realize they can have both sexes ...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im bi btw, Just seems to be alot more bi guys than before dont you agree ? Why do you think this is ? A few weeks i found out my 1 of my best mates is bi after he surprisingly asked me if id give him head after a night out, so i did, abit strange at first but it was a really horny momment
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Another fab straight guy  |
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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago
Douglas Isle of man....... |
Stimulate male brain activity talk dirty maybe couple of drinks mind you lol difference between straightman & gayman 6pints ..I do like licking stamps and good sukking on a lollipop some guy even fancy a dam good rimming like they would if there tongue nice tasty woman .... |
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"Until recently I was very straight,but now find my self getting turned on at the sight of a nice hard cock,especially bbc. Think watching too much porn has turned me bi curious."
Wait till you get a big hard cock in your mouth then. I love it. I go right down to the hilt if I can. I love the taste of pre cum thats my warning the noises start and I am getting a mouthfull |
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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago
Douglas Isle of man....... |
Delicious protein best way having a body boost of protein so exspensive to purchase have a good man who can multiple ejaculations for free ...men realize what you have in your testicles.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Straight guy’s opinion:
We’ve always been told that the number of genuinely bisexual men was vanishingly rare, and that ‘male bisexuality’ was a more socially acceptable stepping stone to gayness.
Since fab, my opinion has changed. Either bisexuality is underrepresented in the wider world or massively over represented on this website.
Partially to blame is the obvious duplicity of the majority of men who either claim bisexuality, or claim straightness, but meet other men for sex.
I’m amazed at the numbers of ‘MF couples’ profiles that include a bisexual man, or ‘female’ profiles claiming to prefer them.
I feel this likely proves at best a misrepresentation, and at worst blatant lying about the sexuality, or indeed gender of the profile holders.
I therefore think it’s nigh on impossible to state whether male bisexuality is on the increase, is more tolerated therefore more easily admitted, or is a clumsy ruse in order to use this, rather than potentially more suitable websites for their purposes.
Sadly, bisexual (admitted on profile or otherwise) I imagine are the cohort which draw most attention to themselves by causing the greatest numbers of grievances for other site users. I cannot of course say whether they act the same way offline. Hopefully not. I imagine they’re generally thoroughly lively chaps"
Say waaaaaat ? |
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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago
Douglas Isle of man....... |
"Straight guy’s opinion:
We’ve always been told that the number of genuinely bisexual men was vanishingly rare, and that ‘male bisexuality’ was a more socially acceptable stepping stone to gayness.
Since fab, my opinion has changed. Either bisexuality is underrepresented in the wider world or massively over represented on this website.
Partially to blame is the obvious duplicity of the majority of men who either claim bisexuality, or claim straightness, but meet other men for sex.
I’m amazed at the numbers of ‘MF couples’ profiles that include a bisexual man, or ‘female’ profiles claiming to prefer them.
I feel this likely proves at best a misrepresentation, and at worst blatant lying about the sexuality, or indeed gender of the profile holders.
I therefore think it’s nigh on impossible to state whether male bisexuality is on the increase, is more tolerated therefore more easily admitted, or is a clumsy ruse in order to use this, rather than potentially more suitable websites for their purposes.
Sadly, bisexual (admitted on profile or otherwise) I imagine are the cohort which draw most attention to themselves by causing the greatest numbers of grievances for other site users. I cannot of course say whether they act the same way offline. Hopefully not. I imagine they’re generally thoroughly lively chaps
Say waaaaaat ?"
well maybe but then I meet married men who have mentioned that no sex at home ..true fact some women go off sex men are sexually active...where should they put there cock 1 guy said I wish my wife sukk like me ...men are good at sukking cock its a fact... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Straight guy’s opinion:
We’ve always been told that the number of genuinely bisexual men was vanishingly rare, and that ‘male bisexuality’ was a more socially acceptable stepping stone to gayness.
Since fab, my opinion has changed. Either bisexuality is underrepresented in the wider world or massively over represented on this website.
Partially to blame is the obvious duplicity of the majority of men who either claim bisexuality, or claim straightness, but meet other men for sex.
I’m amazed at the numbers of ‘MF couples’ profiles that include a bisexual man, or ‘female’ profiles claiming to prefer them.
I feel this likely proves at best a misrepresentation, and at worst blatant lying about the sexuality, or indeed gender of the profile holders.
I therefore think it’s nigh on impossible to state whether male bisexuality is on the increase, is more tolerated therefore more easily admitted, or is a clumsy ruse in order to use this, rather than potentially more suitable websites for their purposes.
Sadly, bisexual (admitted on profile or otherwise) I imagine are the cohort which draw most attention to themselves by causing the greatest numbers of grievances for other site users. I cannot of course say whether they act the same way offline. Hopefully not. I imagine they’re generally thoroughly lively chaps
Say waaaaaat ?well maybe but then I meet married men who have mentioned that no sex at home ..true fact some women go off sex men are sexually active...where should they put there cock 1 guy said I wish my wife sukk like me ...men are good at sukking cock its a fact..."
I agree, the best BJ's that I've had have been from men.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good question. I've tried, years ago, and wasn't for me 1 on 1, but I've really got curious about trying it with my female partner involved. Been quite a revelation, but still not tried for real.
I've always described myself as straight male, and it's not something I want to try alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes guys are more interested in being bi because a lot of couples are wanting a bi guy to join them and for the single guys it's very hard to meet a lady so they are trying out the bi side."
I think you are 100% right with this comment |
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"Yes guys are more interested in being bi because a lot of couples are wanting a bi guy to join them and for the single guys it's very hard to meet a lady so they are trying out the bi side."
It’s not hard to meet ladies atall..
I’ve met lots..
Perhaps change your approach if it’s not working |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im bi btw, Just seems to be alot more bi guys than before dont you agree ? Why do you think this is ? A few weeks i found out my 1 of my best mates is bi after he surprisingly asked me if id give him head after a night out, so i did, abit strange at first but it was a really horny momment
There used to be a joke in the gay community, “What’s the difference between a gay guy and a straight guy?
-About 6 pints” queue canned laughter.
In reality I think many people fall somewhere on the bi spectrum with a few people totally straight and a few totally gay.
The fact that men are much more comfortable talking about stuff about feelings and touching each other in non sexual ways eg hugging, these were things that guys didn’t really do 20-30 years ago, at least not in public.
Being gay was a real taboo some yang that is hard to imagine now. So for guys who might be somewhere on that hi spectrum it was easier and more socially acceptable to repress that side of themselves.
Fast forward to today. We are all much more comfortable with sexuality and due to cinema television etc we are more open to different kinds of relationships.
I think porn does have a roll to play in all this because in a state of heightened sexual arousal guys are seeing other bloke’s genitals thereby making the mental jump to finding that a rousing and even sexually tempting is not such a huge leap.
I don’t think porn changes a person’s sexuality per say however I do think it can unlock a side of ourselves that we were not aware of.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree... The opportunity and the availabilty to watch porn I believe has an influencing factor... How many guys just watch lesbian content...? How can you not admire the cocks on display..?
Likewise women admire the feminine form..clothed or naked.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I consider myself straight.. Not attracted to men. I have been attracted to playing with men, but only certain things like oral.. Not tried much tbf, but it's always something to explore when I'm horny |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"I think people are more accepting of other people's sexuality these days. Therefore more people happy to come out, and admit they are bi.
Thank goodness."
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I think you're right there, folks on Fab are (generally) more accepting than society at large though
I also think that people have become more adventurous and willing to try out new things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never considered myself bi-curious at all but after playing with a married couple for several months the hubby asked if I minded him sucking me off a bit, in the heat of the moment I agreed but it didn’t do anything for me at all, after several more meets I got to enjoy both him and his wife playing with my cock, one thing I never did though was return the favour and now that’s all I fantasise about. I would love to give a guy a blow job but only in a MFM with a couple. I would never consider a MM, I don’t fancy guys, I don’t want to kiss them, strictly oral play with a lady. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
I have received messages from bi guys , tv / ts and couples to meet and had the opportunity to play with bi guys and couples at Rios spa all of these have been declined by myself as it’s not something that appeals to me nor I am comfortable with it. |
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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago
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I think its just more acceptable now, less stigma and of course its also legal, I have always been bi but it was
illegal when i was born, it was decriminalised but still a lot of queer bashing etc went on. we live in a more enlightened age in many respects, so people feel more able to experiment. |
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"I never considered myself bi-curious at all but after playing with a married couple for several months the hubby asked if I minded him sucking me off a bit, in the heat of the moment I agreed but it didn’t do anything for me at all, after several more meets I got to enjoy both him and his wife playing with my cock, one thing I never did though was return the favour and now that’s all I fantasise about. I would love to give a guy a blow job but only in a MFM with a couple. I would never consider a MM, I don’t fancy guys, I don’t want to kiss them, strictly oral play with a lady. "
I was like that but once I tried it I liked it. It still counts as fun. I kissed my first guy and really really liked it |
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"We have on fab I think the anonymity of fab has given a lot of men to do things with men that would not happen in a normal life situation like a night out "
The anonymity is what makes me comfortable admitting it on here. |
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As a mfm I'm fine even other 3 some combination which includes a female but wouldn't want a mm encounter. We all have different boundaries and likes, interests but there's not enough boxes to tick.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve always classed myself as straight but recently I have found myself fantasising about meeting a couple and sucking the guys cock with the woman
Bi Curious at this point then "
Guess so  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont think men are getting "more bi" i think its becoming abit more socially accepted to play, i think alot of straight men who say are in a couple and dont mind a bit of touching or soft play woth the other male, are scared of being named "gay" which really isnt the case. |
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I think many men have stopped listening to the women in their lives (mothers in particular) and are now choosing what they want, not being told what to do any more.
Once you have that mindset, sexuality stops becoming the giant issue it was for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Never considered myself bi at all. But years ago met a mf couple we had fun ( the guy just watching) and the next thing I know I was getting a bj from the guy. I can honestly say it was the best bj I've ever had. It may have been the horniness of the situation but it's something that always turns me on when I think of it but I'd be to scared to take further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People are more accepting now which is good.
So men are open to exploring new ventures. Nothing wrong with that.
Whatever sexual preferences make you happy.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never considered myself bi at all. But years ago met a mf couple we had fun ( the guy just watching) and the next thing I know I was getting a bj from the guy. I can honestly say it was the best bj I've ever had. It may have been the horniness of the situation but it's something that always turns me on when I think of it but I'd be to scared to take further. "
I guess you enjoyed the strength of his mouth  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah I just think these day’s they are just more open and honest with it xx yeah i think its mostley that but i think maybe porn is turning men bi I don't think anything can change your sexualality , must have been there to begin with and now feeling more confident to own it "
Totally agree.
Also I think we are becoming more comfortable with it as society, especially in the swinging world |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"I dont think men are getting "more bi" i think its becoming abit more socially accepted to play, i think alot of straight men who say are in a couple and dont mind a bit of touching or soft play woth the other male, are scared of being named "gay" which really isnt the case. "
. You use the words soft play.I think soft play can be open to interpretation as we all have different interpretations of what is considered soft play.I think it depends what is considered soft play.Would a massage be considered soft play if there was a happy ending like oral sex at the end of the massage does that not make it more than a soft play , would been part of a wank group be considered soft play if you just watch or is it more than a soft play if you take part.
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"I think many men have stopped listening to the women in their lives (mothers in particular) and are now choosing what they want, not being told what to do any more.
Once you have that mindset, sexuality stops becoming the giant issue it was for them."
Not new, men have never listened to women and blamed them alot. |
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It's since 5G. The illuminati want to control the size of the population so they invented 5G to turn men gay (5G = Five times as Gay).
So far, the number of 5G towers is only enough to make men bi-curious.
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"I dont think men are getting "more bi" i think its becoming abit more socially accepted to play, i think alot of straight men who say are in a couple and dont mind a bit of touching or soft play woth the other male, are scared of being named "gay" which really isnt the case. . You use the words soft play.I think soft play can be open to interpretation as we all have different interpretations of what is considered soft play.I think it depends what is considered soft play.Would a massage be considered soft play if there was a happy ending like oral sex at the end of the massage does that not make it more than a soft play , would been part of a wank group be considered soft play if you just watch or is it more than a soft play if you take part."
to us, soft play means anything goes but penetrative intercourse.
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By (user no longer on site)
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A lot of straight men , haven’t always been as straight , lots used to go to public toilets , cruise parks late at night etc , but times have changed more now, some think they can be truthful and say yeh I’m bi , there’s still lots out there who hide behind the straight label through fear , like the fab straights on here |
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"It's since 5G. The illuminati want to control the size of the population so they invented 5G to turn men gay (5G = Five times as Gay).
So far, the number of 5G towers is only enough to make men bi-curious.
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They must have positioned most of these towers around my house.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There sure is judging by all the guys who message us ... even though their profiles say ‘straight ‘ . I think more guys are just being honest with their sexuality now a days . |
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