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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Performing monkeys?? Lol someone cock blocked him?! I’m sure many women will agree with me on here but some girls just love black guys defiantly don’t treat how he portrayed ???? I mean black guys know how to fuck big time so QoS’s can’t keep away lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean I'm sure theres a small amount of couples who see it this way but to make a broad statement is a bit much, some women just really like black dudes and we are a lot different from the person they are with in most cases so it's the contrast more than anything else |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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In a odd way I agree, people looked upon as a commodity and not individual humans.
Still if it is a marketing tool and being used, it’s working for some.
Personally, I think there is a lot of DFS sales. |
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So many discussions on here about this subject. Can I see that it is troublesome to fetishise black guys? Of course - but just as many black guys are 1. Prepared to be, indeed encourage & 2. Look at white couples the same way, at least in our niche. I've come to see the whole thing as a kink rather than anything sinister... consenting adults and all that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many discussions on here about this subject. Can I see that it is troublesome to fetishise black guys? Of course - but just as many black guys are 1. Prepared to be, indeed encourage & 2. Look at white couples the same way, at least in our niche. I've come to see the whole thing as a kink rather than anything sinister... consenting adults and all that. "
Absolutely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when will my fellow black brothers find some respect for themselves.couples treating you like performing monkeys .be proud and strong minded"
Nothing to do with colour or race, better luck next time ...Lol  |
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I can see your point some of the images used in swinging are crude, base and sometimes racist (ace of spades tattoo et.al) but I think most black guys in the swinging lifestyle have taken ownership of theses images and are using it for their own use. Just as rap artists have done with the N word?
The swinging world has brought us in to contact with many other race’s and nationalities that has been a great thing for us.
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"I can see your point some of the images used in swinging are crude, base and sometimes racist (ace of spades tattoo et.al) but I think most black guys in the swinging lifestyle have taken ownership of theses images and are using it for their own use. Just as rap artists have done with the N word?
The swinging world has brought us in to contact with many other race’s and nationalities that has been a great thing for us.
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I partly agree, but in some instances that contact has been created by a sexualised, stereotypical attitude towards black men.
I remember (and always misquote) an erudite black guy who posted here years ago that having been a prolific player his view changed when the male of a couple he regularly played with and considered friends revealed that although his wife loved fucking black men, she'd never run off with one! **Groan** |
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You lost me.I don't know what you talking about.if a couple is looking for BIG BLACK COCK what is wrong with that.You consider that as an insult.Get real.Don't be over sensitive. I presume that's what you are referring to indirectly.
I am a mature black male.I don't debased my personality because I want to shag someone on fab.I treat people with respect.l expect the same as well.Simple. |
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Lets be fair , most black guys are gifted in the coxk department, and alot of women want a big cock be it white or black or yellow with green dots . Also alot of guys like to see there wife fucked by a guy with a bigger cock then there own , and alot want to see the wife take a big black cock, as said before women also like the contrast , now for us and I can only speak for us , wife has to like the guy and find something more atractive in him aprt from his appendage before she would play with him.even if I would like to see her with a black guy it's irrelevant to her as there has to be a sexual connection and she always gets final say on any play . We always treat others as we wished to be treated, dont confuse respect with roleplaying two different things and we dont treat any guy as an extra cock we want play to be natural not bullitt points and want all to get the most out of the play
Just a little bit from us |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"when will my fellow black brothers find some respect for themselves.couples treating you like performing monkeys .be proud and strong minded"
I wonder how it would be received if black guys started using the term LWC (loose white cunt) as their preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when will my fellow black brothers find some respect for themselves.couples treating you like performing monkeys .be proud and strong minded
I wonder how it would be received if black guys started using the term LWC (loose white cunt) as their preference. "
Probably not well, but Tight White Cunt would be received very well I think  |
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"when will my fellow black brothers find some respect for themselves.couples treating you like performing monkeys .be proud and strong minded
I wonder how it would be received if black guys started using the term LWC (loose white cunt) as their preference. "
Never seen the term PAWG? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You lost me.I don't know what you talking about.if a couple is looking for BIG BLACK COCK what is wrong with that.You consider that as an insult.Get real.Don't be over sensitive. I presume that's what you are referring to indirectly.
I am a mature black male.I don't debased my personality because I want to shag someone on fab.I treat people with respect.l expect the same as well.Simple."
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"when will my fellow black brothers find some respect for themselves.couples treating you like performing monkeys .be proud and strong minded
I wonder how it would be received if black guys started using the term LWC (loose white cunt) as their preference.
Probably not well, but Tight White Cunt would be received very well I think "
Of course some would be happy to be regarded as such, but many more would be offended by it, I think |
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"when will my fellow black brothers find some respect for themselves.couples treating you like performing monkeys .be proud and strong minded
I wonder how it would be received if black guys started using the term LWC (loose white cunt) as their preference. "
Nail on head!
Would be even worse if there was a cultural and historical context to white women being viewed in a stereotypical way. |
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"if a couple is looking for BIG BLACK COCK what is wrong with that.You consider that as an insult.Get real."
Because there are imbeciles who are unable to distinguish human beings from stereotypes that have been created by pornography and an unhealthy historical fascination in black males by some of the indigenous population.
Referring to black men as 'black cocks' reduces them to the lowest sexual form without personality and the nuances which the indigenous culture recognise so easily in their own.
To paraphrase you, if people want to meet well endowed black MEN what's wrong with referring to them as such instead of by their genitals? It's hardly difficult. |
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"Absolutely love black guys with big cocks, they fuck at a different level x"
Omg I have to agree but unfortunately people label for efficency to find an particular person. Not as derogatory term. As black men with big cocks are on another level in the bedroom... I'm craving carribean men atm  |
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By *ohnhapiMan
over a year ago
Formerly Cirencester (Johannesburg, South Africa now) |
I love sleeping with mature married white women and I'm honest about it. It's what I'm here for. I just don't see a problem with being very dire about kinks. |
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"if a couple is looking for BIG BLACK COCK what is wrong with that.You consider that as an insult.Get real.
Because there are imbeciles who are unable to distinguish human beings from stereotypes that have been created by pornography and an unhealthy historical fascination in black males by some of the indigenous population.
Referring to black men as 'black cocks' reduces them to the lowest sexual form without personality and the nuances which the indigenous culture recognise so easily in their own.
To paraphrase you, if people want to meet well endowed black MEN what's wrong with referring to them as such instead of by their genitals? It's hardly difficult."
This! Thank you!!
The fact that people still don’t (or pretend not to) see this clear distinction makes me wander if it’s a blind spot or just plain prejudice!!
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Surely it’s up to the individual to decide how they are to be treated.
Some don’t like the term BBC, some do, it’s easy to avoid those who use it if you don’t like it or avoid those who you feel don’t appreciate you.
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"Surely it’s up to the individual to decide how they are to be treated.
Some don’t like the term BBC, some do, it’s easy to avoid those who use it if you don’t like it or avoid those who you feel don’t appreciate you.
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In principle I agree, but the problem is over sexualised references rely on stereotypes of black males, perceived cultural differences and latterly pornography, which uses these stereotypes for commercial gain.
Subconsciously they promote stereotypical views in wider society, the reductionism of the black male to simply a heaving 'black cock', no nuance, intelligence or other personal qualities.
Frankly I can't see the problem in asking for what you're looking for "seeking well endowed black males", it may well open up more exciting opportunities with the exceptional black men who value themselves and wouldn't consider meeting people who refer to them as BBCs.
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