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Men over 45. What's wrong

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By *elsh_El OP Man over a year ago

Llangollen

I've noticed on her that men over the age of 45 seem to have been tossed aside. Its as if you all think were past it.

What's wrong with a man over 45?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I rarely find them attractive... Bugger all I, or they, can do about that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 49 and I'm doing ok on fab, met my amazing partner Stephi on here

Mark

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They're so serious and seem to have forgotten how to have a laugh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe just looking at the wrong people, I basically talk to ladies over 40 who are looking for around my age (47) had no problems

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its probably got more to do with your profile rather than your age.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In the words of the late great Aaliyah , age ain’t nothing but a number

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By *awpleasureMan over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

"Its probably got more to do with your profile rather than your age."

Yes I agree. Your profile does not come over as warm or friendly. Starts out with negativity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In the words of the late great Aaliyah , age ain’t nothing but a number "

That is actually bollocks for most faces (the bit that attracts me) ... But there are always exceptions to every rule!

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By *uliaChrisCouple over a year ago

westerham

"Its probably got more to do with your profile rather than your age."

Blimey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I rarely find them attractive... Bugger all I, or they, can do about that "

The irony

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

Nothing at all is wrong with them, it's just a number. We have to look at everything else in the package to decide if it's something that's gonna work for us or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tbh OP... Even if you were what I was looking for, your profile would mean I never speak to you

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By *acavityMan over a year ago

Redditch

"I've noticed on her that men over the age of 45 seem to have been tossed aside. Its as if you all think were past it.

What's wrong with a man over 45?"

Don't worry, I've seen a fair few profiles looking for men with a minimum age of 50.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Tbh OP... Even if you were what I was looking for, your profile would mean I never speak to you"

Afraid so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its probably got more to do with your profile rather than your age.

Yes I agree. Your profile does not come over as warm or friendly. Starts out with negativity.

Agreed. Not very appealing. I ask myself “would I like to spend my time with this person”. “Will we have fun”. Xx

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By *moothdickMan over a year ago

stoke

Wait til u get to 55, I feel like a spent match chucked in the gutter .. the only toss I get now is to be tossed aside

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By *moothdickMan over a year ago

stoke

Are profiles a true reflection to what the person is? It’s only txt and not a personality

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Single men in general here can feel unwanted and can often think it's this, that or the other attribute that's the reason instead of just the abundance of them. Such abundance means that others will refine their preferences and not need to try something that they don't really want.

There are obviously some older men here who are very well put together and present themselves to the max. In the absence of clubs atm, those who have used them and got to know many other people will benefit from this. Anyone who is restricted by fewer connections from the past, will be up against those who have more as well as younger guys who have had fewer years to amass more weight and wrinkles etc.

Focus on others who want people like you and totally ignore anyone and anything else that pulls you away from the investment of effort that it takes for single men here. Soldier on.

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By *oppet22TV/TS over a year ago

huddersfield

Just cos we are getting on don't mean we don't know how to have a laugh and fun life's too short not to iv met some great people on here and hope to meet more socially and fun

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I rarely find them attractive... Bugger all I, or they, can do about that "

Damn. And I thought we was getting on well.

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By *ranny hunterMan over a year ago

Durham

I’m 64 attractive good body and have very little luck on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I rarely find them attractive... Bugger all I, or they, can do about that

The irony

This.

It's funny cos if Fab, Tinder, POF etc didn't exist there would be a lot of women in their "more mature years" who would be forced to date/shag a guy their own age god forbid!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I can tell you guys, I prefer guys over 45.

But I know I’m not what you’re all looking for xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we're old and delapidated lets face it our days of thunder are over

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I rarely find them attractive... Bugger all I, or they, can do about that

Damn. And I thought we was getting on well.

Haha cheeky!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I can tell you guys, I prefer guys over 45.

But I know I’m not what you’re all looking for xxx"

I think you'll be fine with all your veris!

Now where's that violin emoji...?;-)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was tossed aside on my old account and I was only 40.

45 must be the new 40 I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I rarely find them attractive... Bugger all I, or they, can do about that

The irony

This.

It's funny cos if Fab, Tinder, POF etc didn't exist there would be a lot of women in their "more mature years" who would be forced to date/shag a guy their own age god forbid!

I wouldn't bank on it... I have only been with younger men for quite some time... I know I am not attractive to many people but I don't feel the need to get pissy about it or hate them and their choices because of it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I rarely find them attractive... Bugger all I, or they, can do about that

The irony

This.

It's funny cos if Fab, Tinder, POF etc didn't exist there would be a lot of women in their "more mature years" who would be forced to date/shag a guy their own age god forbid!

"
exactly you can't appeal to everyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unfortunately Fab isn't a "man's world". I'd love to know what the ratio of men to women is but it's got to be 30:1 at least surely?

Therefore women can "punch above their weight" as guys are queueing up to get them into bed. Kinda distorts reality a little bit. No offence intended to anyone on here btw it's just kinda how it is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unfortunately Fab isn't a "man's world". I'd love to know what the ratio of men to women is but it's got to be 30:1 at least surely?

Therefore women can "punch above their weight" as guys are queueing up to get them into bed. Kinda distorts reality a little bit. No offence intended to anyone on here btw it's just kinda how it is.

"
its 5.3/1

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think a lot of men hot 35-40 and stop making an effort to be sexy and stop seeing life as an adventure.

If they just sit their watching footie with beer bellies and take away stains on their vest they why should anyone want to fuck then ?

Luckily many women do like older men that still have their mojo !! So all is good here on fab

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By *odgerMooreMan over a year ago

Up Your Frock!

"They're so serious and seem to have forgotten how to have a laugh"

We havent chatted obviously /-) xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unfortunately Fab isn't a "man's world". I'd love to know what the ratio of men to women is but it's got to be 30:1 at least surely?

Therefore women can "punch above their weight" as guys are queueing up to get them into bed. Kinda distorts reality a little bit. No offence intended to anyone on here btw it's just kinda how it is.

its 5.3/1

Lol that's bollocks!

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

One of my favourite people on here is over 45,i just prefer to find that age group myself. Plenty of people meet those over 45.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unfortunately Fab isn't a "man's world". I'd love to know what the ratio of men to women is but it's got to be 30:1 at least surely?

Therefore women can "punch above their weight" as guys are queueing up to get them into bed. Kinda distorts reality a little bit. No offence intended to anyone on here btw it's just kinda how it is.

its 5.3/1

Lol that's bollocks!

"
its spot on lad

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By *odgerMooreMan over a year ago

Up Your Frock!

"One of my favourite people on here is over 45,i just prefer to find that age group myself. Plenty of people meet those over 45. "

You never said!! - awwww i feel all warm and fuzzy now xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unfortunately Fab isn't a "man's world". I'd love to know what the ratio of men to women is but it's got to be 30:1 at least surely?

Therefore women can "punch above their weight" as guys are queueing up to get them into bed. Kinda distorts reality a little bit. No offence intended to anyone on here btw it's just kinda how it is.

its 5.3/1

Lol that's bollocks!

So is the, punching above your weight, comment... Different people fancy different people... Just because I or you don't fancy someone doesn't mean they are ugly, just not attractive to us... But they will be to someone else, regardless of how attractive to us that person is

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"I rarely find them attractive... Bugger all I, or they, can do about that "

This is unfortunately the case for us too, we find guys a little younger or nearer our age to be attractive, generally. There's always exceptions.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unfortunately Fab isn't a "man's world". I'd love to know what the ratio of men to women is but it's got to be 30:1 at least surely?

Therefore women can "punch above their weight" as guys are queueing up to get them into bed. Kinda distorts reality a little bit. No offence intended to anyone on here btw it's just kinda how it is.

its 5.3/1

Lol that's bollocks!

its spot on lad

Based on? Come on... evidence please.

Let's say it was physically 5:1, there are still so many unverified female profiles that are blatantly fake (catfish/scammers) that number would be way out.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan over a year ago

chester

Nowt wrong with us , we are just not wanted

Couples up to the age of 70 are fine

Single females up to 100 are fine

But single men over 45 are blocked by almost every profile of the above

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well its supply and demand, many want ripped,hung and fit lads I don't blame them if I was a little younger that's what I would do ..but its not all about that its about connection and what rocks your boat, I tend to meet in clubs, always better to meet in the flesh real people and banter, stay calm and carry on!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nowt wrong with us , we are just not wanted

Couples up to the age of 70 are fine

Single females up to 100 are fine

But single men over 45 are blocked by almost every profile of the above

There are plenty where they aren't though

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm pretty open as to age. There are those of us out there. You need to consider how you're advertising yourself and if that'll attract those you're looking for. You can't change your age. You can change other things.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Nowt wrong with us , we are just not wanted

Couples up to the age of 70 are fine

Single females up to 100 are fine

But single men over 45 are blocked by almost every profile of the above

Actually, they are hardly blocked by anyone on this thread. There are more women here including them than not.

I like over 45s, but i don't like the woe is me attitude that some people display.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Nowt wrong with us , we are just not wanted

Couples up to the age of 70 are fine

Single females up to 100 are fine

But single men over 45 are blocked by almost every profile of the above

Actually, they are hardly blocked by anyone on this thread. There are more women here including them than not.

I like over 45s, but i don't like the woe is me attitude that some people display. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unfortunately Fab isn't a "man's world". I'd love to know what the ratio of men to women is but it's got to be 30:1 at least surely?

Therefore women can "punch above their weight" as guys are queueing up to get them into bed. Kinda distorts reality a little bit. No offence intended to anyone on here btw it's just kinda how it is.

its 5.3/1

Lol that's bollocks!

Guys get pilloried on here for telling the truth because it's seen as bitching. I'm not bitter at all, I'm just not bothered about people perceiving that way in order to make a point.

I've lost count of the number of extremely large ladies insisting their meets must be "gym fit" and "younger" when I've rarely seen guys do the same. Just one example of where certain double standards exist on this site

I know guys are too scared to say this cos they think it'll ruin any meet chances and I'll get shouted down but I can live with that

PS. For any ladies out there desperate enough to want to shag me age or size doesn't matter, it's the beauty within that counts.

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By *odgerMooreMan over a year ago

Up Your Frock!

"Nowt wrong with us , we are just not wanted

Couples up to the age of 70 are fine

Single females up to 100 are fine

But single men over 45 are blocked by almost every profile of the above

Some block all guys because they cant cope with the tsunami of crap the single guys send attached to a dick Pic which we all know is exactly what turns a woman on!

They block all blokes then find the guys when they want one rather than get 1000 fancy a fuck messages - I totally get it. I like it in the forums - way more relaxing and good banter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a lot of men hot 35-40 and stop making an effort to be sexy and stop seeing life as an adventure.

If they just sit their watching footie with beer bellies and take away stains on their vest they why should anyone want to fuck then ?

Luckily many women do like older men that still have their mojo !! So all is good here on fab "

Spot on , you are trying to sell yourself , so you have to make the best that you can of yourself ,

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I spent years not having any luck romantically and sexually. It was demoralising and at times humiliating.

I took the advice to work on myself and look elsewhere. I made myself a better person, ultimately for me not to impress anyone. I'm happier in myself. And I'm more attractive to others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve met men in there 70’s. Lovely experienced men.

Age/looks/abilities etc isn’t the issue for me. What you put in your profile can be important. How you portray yourself, can be important.

When reading a profile, if it seems they are demanding, bashing a particular group or just having a moan, then no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unfortunately Fab isn't a "man's world". I'd love to know what the ratio of men to women is but it's got to be 30:1 at least surely?

Therefore women can "punch above their weight" as guys are queueing up to get them into bed. Kinda distorts reality a little bit. No offence intended to anyone on here btw it's just kinda how it is.

its 5.3/1

Lol that's bollocks!

Guys get pilloried on here for telling the truth because it's seen as bitching. I'm not bitter at all, I'm just not bothered about people perceiving that way in order to make a point.

I know guys are too scared to say this cos they think it'll ruin any meet chances and I'll get shouted down but I can live with that

PS. For any ladies out there desperate enough to want to shag me age or size doesn't matter, it's the beauty within that counts.

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What is the double standard?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Unfortunately Fab isn't a "man's world". I'd love to know what the ratio of men to women is but it's got to be 30:1 at least surely?

Therefore women can "punch above their weight" as guys are queueing up to get them into bed. Kinda distorts reality a little bit. No offence intended to anyone on here btw it's just kinda how it is.

its 5.3/1

Lol that's bollocks!

Guys get pilloried on here for telling the truth because it's seen as bitching. I'm not bitter at all, I'm just not bothered about people perceiving that way in order to make a point.

I know guys are too scared to say this cos they think it'll ruin any meet chances and I'll get shouted down but I can live with that

PS. For any ladies out there desperate enough to want to shag me age or size doesn't matter, it's the beauty within that counts.

(*Sits back and awaits inbox crash...)

What is the double standard? "

Apparently women who aren't rake thin aren't allowed to fancy fit younger guys with six packs etc?

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Unfortunately Fab isn't a "man's world". I'd love to know what the ratio of men to women is but it's got to be 30:1 at least surely?

Therefore women can "punch above their weight" as guys are queueing up to get them into bed. Kinda distorts reality a little bit. No offence intended to anyone on here btw it's just kinda how it is.

its 5.3/1

Lol that's bollocks!

Guys get pilloried on here for telling the truth because it's seen as bitching. I'm not bitter at all, I'm just not bothered about people perceiving that way in order to make a point.

I know guys are too scared to say this cos they think it'll ruin any meet chances and I'll get shouted down but I can live with that

PS. For any ladies out there desperate enough to want to shag me age or size doesn't matter, it's the beauty within that counts.

(*Sits back and awaits inbox crash...)

What is the double standard? "

People meet people they want to meet. Men think this is fair.

At casa de Fab, the menu is like it or lump it.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

*unfair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never really had a problem despite my advanced age

An upbeat/optimistic profile text I'm told is very helpful

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Also, no one's entitled to sex. It's not, I'm a 9, you 5 woman must serve me. It's do two or more people like each other enough. If not, tough shit.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

Male and over 45?

Put a dress and some make up on and all is right in the world again lol.

It seems to work for me anyhow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Male and over 45?

Put a dress and some make up on and all is right in the world again lol.

It seems to work for me anyhow

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just can't see it working for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've noticed on her that men over the age of 45 seem to have been tossed aside. Its as if you all think were past it.

What's wrong with a man over 45?"

Absolutely nothing, nicest guy I've met on here is in his early 50s. It all depends on the individual.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unfortunately Fab isn't a "man's world". I'd love to know what the ratio of men to women is but it's got to be 30:1 at least surely?

Therefore women can "punch above their weight" as guys are queueing up to get them into bed. Kinda distorts reality a little bit. No offence intended to anyone on here btw it's just kinda how it is.

its 5.3/1

Lol that's bollocks!

Guys get pilloried on here for telling the truth because it's seen as bitching. I'm not bitter at all, I'm just not bothered about people perceiving that way in order to make a point.

I know guys are too scared to say this cos they think it'll ruin any meet chances and I'll get shouted down but I can live with that

PS. For any ladies out there desperate enough to want to shag me age or size doesn't matter, it's the beauty within that counts.

(*Sits back and awaits inbox crash...)

What is the double standard?

Apparently women who aren't rake thin aren't allowed to fancy fit younger guys with six packs etc? "

It's the demanding that makes it rather double standards. Especially when they don't appear to make much effort themselves.

They know that down to ratios they can be picky. I'm sorry if that offends people or gets their back up.

If anyone can show me any profiles of young, body fit (let's say under 30) women asking to meet slightly overweight/portly older fellas I'd be more than intrigued.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"Male and over 45?

Put a dress and some make up on and all is right in the world again lol.

It seems to work for me anyhow

just can't see it working for me

Practice....oh and a damn good razor could go a long way hahaa.

You know you'd love a makeover

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Male and over 45?

Put a dress and some make up on and all is right in the world again lol.

It seems to work for me anyhow

just can't see it working for me

Practice....oh and a damn good razor could go a long way hahaa.

You know you'd love a makeover

"
oh no i wouldn't

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Unfortunately Fab isn't a "man's world". I'd love to know what the ratio of men to women is but it's got to be 30:1 at least surely?

Therefore women can "punch above their weight" as guys are queueing up to get them into bed. Kinda distorts reality a little bit. No offence intended to anyone on here btw it's just kinda how it is.

its 5.3/1

Lol that's bollocks!

Guys get pilloried on here for telling the truth because it's seen as bitching. I'm not bitter at all, I'm just not bothered about people perceiving that way in order to make a point.

I know guys are too scared to say this cos they think it'll ruin any meet chances and I'll get shouted down but I can live with that

PS. For any ladies out there desperate enough to want to shag me age or size doesn't matter, it's the beauty within that counts.

(*Sits back and awaits inbox crash...)

If the gym fit guys want to meet the extremely large ladies, then nobodies punching, surely? Both parties are getting what they want.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Unfortunately Fab isn't a "man's world". I'd love to know what the ratio of men to women is but it's got to be 30:1 at least surely?

Therefore women can "punch above their weight" as guys are queueing up to get them into bed. Kinda distorts reality a little bit. No offence intended to anyone on here btw it's just kinda how it is.

its 5.3/1

Lol that's bollocks!

Guys get pilloried on here for telling the truth because it's seen as bitching. I'm not bitter at all, I'm just not bothered about people perceiving that way in order to make a point.

I know guys are too scared to say this cos they think it'll ruin any meet chances and I'll get shouted down but I can live with that

PS. For any ladies out there desperate enough to want to shag me age or size doesn't matter, it's the beauty within that counts.

(*Sits back and awaits inbox crash...)

What is the double standard?

Apparently women who aren't rake thin aren't allowed to fancy fit younger guys with six packs etc?

It's the demanding that makes it rather double standards. Especially when they don't appear to make much effort themselves.

They know that down to ratios they can be picky. I'm sorry if that offends people or gets their back up.

If anyone can show me any profiles of young, body fit (let's say under 30) women asking to meet slightly overweight/portly older fellas I'd be more than intrigued."

Why do overweight/portly older guys get to meet young, body fit women if slightly overweight women aren't allowed to meet ripped younger guys?!

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Unfortunately Fab isn't a "man's world". I'd love to know what the ratio of men to women is but it's got to be 30:1 at least surely?

Therefore women can "punch above their weight" as guys are queueing up to get them into bed. Kinda distorts reality a little bit. No offence intended to anyone on here btw it's just kinda how it is.

its 5.3/1

Lol that's bollocks!

Guys get pilloried on here for telling the truth because it's seen as bitching. I'm not bitter at all, I'm just not bothered about people perceiving that way in order to make a point.

I know guys are too scared to say this cos they think it'll ruin any meet chances and I'll get shouted down but I can live with that

PS. For any ladies out there desperate enough to want to shag me age or size doesn't matter, it's the beauty within that counts.

(*Sits back and awaits inbox crash...)

What is the double standard?

Apparently women who aren't rake thin aren't allowed to fancy fit younger guys with six packs etc?

It's the demanding that makes it rather double standards. Especially when they don't appear to make much effort themselves.

They know that down to ratios they can be picky. I'm sorry if that offends people or gets their back up.

If anyone can show me any profiles of young, body fit (let's say under 30) women asking to meet slightly overweight/portly older fellas I'd be more than intrigued."

Trust me, the demanding goes both ways. Many men are vaguely savvy enough to demand in private rather than on profiles.

Women can and do request a standard.

Men can and do expect us to be sex dolls instantly available to service them.

Some people are arseholes. Block them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I can tell you guys, I prefer guys over 45.

But I know I’m not what you’re all looking for xxx

I think you'll be fine with all your veris!

Now where's that violin emoji...?;-)"

Ha very true xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll sit back from this thread I think for fear of "virtual self-isolation".

I'll lurk though for entertainment.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve just hit 50 and I get more interest in me now than I ever did when I was younger ,

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By *o_eye_deerMan over a year ago

The South Near That London

Having more fun now than I did in my 20/30s - just a simple case of finding people of a similar mindset

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By *edHeadedFunWoman over a year ago

Didsbury

Age has nothing to do with it, it's all down to personal preference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 50 next birthday and i do ok lol but don't follow my lead

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"Unfortunately Fab isn't a "man's world". I'd love to know what the ratio of men to women is but it's got to be 30:1 at least surely?

Therefore women can "punch above their weight" as guys are queueing up to get them into bed. Kinda distorts reality a little bit. No offence intended to anyone on here btw it's just kinda how it is.

its 5.3/1

Lol that's bollocks!

Guys get pilloried on here for telling the truth because it's seen as bitching. I'm not bitter at all, I'm just not bothered about people perceiving that way in order to make a point.

I know guys are too scared to say this cos they think it'll ruin any meet chances and I'll get shouted down but I can live with that

PS. For any ladies out there desperate enough to want to shag me age or size doesn't matter, it's the beauty within that counts.

(*Sits back and awaits inbox crash...)

What is the double standard?

Apparently women who aren't rake thin aren't allowed to fancy fit younger guys with six packs etc?

It's the demanding that makes it rather double standards. Especially when they don't appear to make much effort themselves.

They know that down to ratios they can be picky. I'm sorry if that offends people or gets their back up.

If anyone can show me any profiles of young, body fit (let's say under 30) women asking to meet slightly overweight/portly older fellas I'd be more than intrigued."

I hope she doesn't mind me mentioning her name on here but there is one that instantly springs to mind and makes no bones about liking a larger guy

LoudLoutishLover....she is stunning and loves a larger guy and if you read the forums about gym fit guys vs dadbods you will see ahead is far from alone in this.

It's not down to ratios on here although the ratio is very apparent, it's about how many of the guys on here behave.

If you think I'm wrong then have a look at many guys behavior and before I get my head bitten off, I'm in a more unique place to see both sides of this from my point of view on here.

I'm still a guy under the make up yet often get the same treatment as the women do.