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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello all, I’m probably going to sound like a complete Bastard, and no doubt a few of you will tell me this too!
However, I am a married man that uses this site without my wife’s knowledge and I intend to keep it that way!
I joined to find some Mature Ladies and or Couples that would be interested in meeting a younger Man for some uncomplicated, No Strings Attached fun!
I am just curious to find out if there are any Women or Couples that are no younger than their mid fifties, that are specifically looking for a Guy like me?
Obviously discretion is paramount, hence the reason I do not have any pictures on my profile, and also due to my personal circumstances, there is no way I can ever accommodate, which I know does not help my quest in any way whatsoever!
To summarise, and to stop boring you all to death, please let me know if there are any Ladies, or Couples out there that are happy to meet a Man, who is cheating on his wife!
Hope to hear from some of you soon!
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"Hello all, I’m probably going to sound like a complete Bastard, and no doubt a few of you will tell me this too!
However, I am a married man that uses this site without my wife’s knowledge and I intend to keep it that way!
I joined to find some Mature Ladies and or Couples that would be interested in meeting a younger Man for some uncomplicated, No Strings Attached fun!
I am just curious to find out if there are any Women or Couples that are no younger than their mid fifties, that are specifically looking for a Guy like me?
Obviously discretion is paramount, hence the reason I do not have any pictures on my profile, and also due to my personal circumstances, there is no way I can ever accommodate, which I know does not help my quest in any way whatsoever!
To summarise, and to stop boring you all to death, please let me know if there are any Ladies, or Couples out there that are happy to meet a Man, who is cheating on his wife!
Hope to hear from some of you soon!
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There are many women and couples in that situation that would meet you.
Use the search engines on here and also just message many that meet that profile.
But you need pics on your profile, even underwear without face is a start.
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"Hello all, I’m probably going to sound like a complete Bastard, and no doubt a few of you will tell me this too!
However, I am a married man that uses this site without my wife’s knowledge and I intend to keep it that way!
I joined to find some Mature Ladies and or Couples that would be interested in meeting a younger Man for some uncomplicated, No Strings Attached fun!
I am just curious to find out if there are any Women or Couples that are no younger than their mid fifties, that are specifically looking for a Guy like me?
Obviously discretion is paramount, hence the reason I do not have any pictures on my profile, and also due to my personal circumstances, there is no way I can ever accommodate, which I know does not help my quest in any way whatsoever!
To summarise, and to stop boring you all to death, please let me know if there are any Ladies, or Couples out there that are happy to meet a Man, who is cheating on his wife!
Hope to hear from some of you soon!
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There are many women and couples in that situation that would meet you.
Use the search engines on here and also just message many that meet that profile.
But you need pics on your profile, even underwear without face is a start.
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"Hello all, I’m probably going to sound like a complete Bastard, and no doubt a few of you will tell me this too!
However, I am a married man that uses this site without my wife’s knowledge and I intend to keep it that way!
I joined to find some Mature Ladies and or Couples that would be interested in meeting a younger Man for some uncomplicated, No Strings Attached fun!
I am just curious to find out if there are any Women or Couples that are no younger than their mid fifties, that are specifically looking for a Guy like me?
Obviously discretion is paramount, hence the reason I do not have any pictures on my profile, and also due to my personal circumstances, there is no way I can ever accommodate, which I know does not help my quest in any way whatsoever!
To summarise, and to stop boring you all to death, please let me know if there are any Ladies, or Couples out there that are happy to meet a Man, who is cheating on his wife!
Hope to hear from some of you soon!
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There are many women and couples in that situation that would meet you.
Use the search engines on here and also just message many that meet that profile.
But you need pics on your profile, even underwear without face is a start.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?"
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs! |
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs! "
Have you considered discussing with her this issue, and potentially addressing concerns about the marriage?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs!
Have you considered discussing with her this issue, and potentially addressing concerns about the marriage?
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Other than the lack of sex, our marriage is great! |
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs! "
Playing devils advocate here, are you sure she has totally gone off the physical side of things or could she be doing the same elsewhere as she has gone off it with you only.
Stranger things do happen which is why as another has posted, look at sorting yourselves out first and you might find that you could potentially be a swinging couple and imagine how much more fun that would be than being a blank profile on here alone.
Just a thought...... |
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By *mcouple2Couple
over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs!
Have you considered discussing with her this issue, and potentially addressing concerns about the marriage?
Other than the lack of sex, our marriage is great! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs! "
maybe thats because shes so busy on fab, she has no time for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are saying everything is great apart from the sex I’m afraid that you are playing a dangerous game my friend if she finds out you risk everything not to mention if kids are involved and the effect on mutual friends and family if you end up splitting up. Please take this the right way and with good grace...I am not preaching |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs! "
She's gone off you, maybe she's getting it elsewhere. What's good for the goose etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs!
She's gone off you, maybe she's getting it elsewhere. What's good for the goose etc. "
BTW cheating women are more successful than cheating men here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've met guys who are married and playing away and to be honest we prefer it because they tend to be less clingy. We like fuck and go and so do they so its a win win situation.
Having said that to get any interest you will need pics, a cock and body shot should be easy enough to do without being recognised.
There will be plenty of people willing to meet a married guy |
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs!
She's gone off you, maybe she's getting it elsewhere. What's good for the goose etc.
BTW cheating women are more successful than cheating men here. "
Really? How do you quantify ‘successful’, and what do you base your thoughts on? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all, I’m probably going to sound like a complete Bastard, and no doubt a few of you will tell me this too!
However, I am a married man that uses this site without my wife’s knowledge and I intend to keep it that way!
I joined to find some Mature Ladies and or Couples that would be interested in meeting a younger Man for some uncomplicated, No Strings Attached fun!
I am just curious to find out if there are any Women or Couples that are no younger than their mid fifties, that are specifically looking for a Guy like me?
Obviously discretion is paramount, hence the reason I do not have any pictures on my profile, and also due to my personal circumstances, there is no way I can ever accommodate, which I know does not help my quest in any way whatsoever!
To summarise, and to stop boring you all to death, please let me know if there are any Ladies, or Couples out there that are happy to meet a Man, who is cheating on his wife!
Hope to hear from some of you soon!
There are many women and couples in that situation that would meet you.
Use the search engines on here and also just message many that meet that profile.
But you need pics on your profile, even underwear without face is a start.
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thank you for sharing three times is three your lucky number? |
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This can only end one way. Your wife will find out and you will loose everything. I would suggest talking to her about your relationship. As perfect as you say it is there is something driving ye apart. Maybe even couples counselling. you would be surprised the concerns she has and the ones you have once you start talking. If that fails then revisit here but you need to talk to her. It is never as black and white |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This can only end one way. Your wife will find out and you will loose everything. I would suggest talking to her about your relationship. As perfect as you say it is there is something driving ye apart. Maybe even couples counselling. you would be surprised the concerns she has and the ones you have once you start talking. If that fails then revisit here but you need to talk to her. It is never as black and white"
yes but the Ops every which way but loose  |
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?"
Totally agree. And looking at the profile I would never consider a meet with the OP
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not just sex your after , you want to fulfill your fantasies eg looking for an older lady / couple , if you love your wife and everything is perfect except the sex , why haven’t you sat down and talked like adults, about why she has gone off sex , have you stoped being romantic, have you let your hygiene slip ? , you have been on here over one year , in that time you could of talked , maybe got help , and have a good sex life again , but I think you’ve just after fulfilling your sexual fantasies |
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs! "
I think you have pretty much answered your own question, you would go mad if she was here but its ok for you to be here?
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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If everything else is really great, it seems to me that you are risking a lot for the unfulfilled sexual desires you have. I think it would be a good idea to consider if it really is worth it and way up everything you would lose for the chance of of being able to get your end away once twice or a even couple of times.
Is there nothing you could do to discuss the situation with your wife and work on the problem, that seems to have no risk whatsoever as she already isn't interested in sleeping with you. |
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I think your wife would have a different perspective. To be honest you are not capable of fulfilling her sexual needs, which is. Why she has gone off sex. If you don’t address that, she will at some point get to a point where she has had enough, and leave. I suppose finding you on here would speed the process up, but would also cause huge hurt.
Instead of looking for a mature woman, look at pleasing your wife. I’m afraid that if you can’t keep her happy you would be unlikely to satisfy any of us!! |
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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago
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"If everything else is really great, it seems to me that you are risking a lot for the unfulfilled sexual desires you have. I think it would be a good idea to consider if it really is worth it and way up everything you would lose for the chance of of being able to get your end away once twice or a even couple of times.
Is there nothing you could do to discuss the situation with your wife and work on the problem, that seems to have no risk whatsoever as she already isn't interested in sleeping with you."
Bollocks to her if she aint putting out go get some |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any married guys are on Fab playing away from their unaware wives. This is not a morality website,it's sex site and have various types of people here.
Just be truthful to your reasons for swinging and have some pics on your profile first .
Nobody will offer you sympathy on lack of sex issue. I mean ,women on Fab won't melt for that reason. |
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought , 
Ha haa yep"
one rule for them and another rule for you , Don't you just love the self opinionated forum police, each to there own share the love ,  |
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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago
Mid-Cheshire |
"Any married guys are on Fab playing away from their unaware wives. This is not a morality website,it's sex site and have various types of people here.
Just be truthful to your reasons for swinging and have some pics on your profile first .
Nobody will offer you sympathy on lack of sex issue. I mean ,women on Fab won't melt for that reason. "
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I was once in your boat and in retrospect I wish I'd had the courage to be up front about my desires with my ex wife. She never caught me but I know it did damage and distanced us.
Other factors played their part too but that lack of open honest communication most certainly played its part.
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs! "
Maybe she has just gone off the physical side with you because she is getting her fill elsewhere my friend
Plenty of younger , hot little stud muffins out there happy to see a married woman  |
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"If everything else is really great, it seems to me that you are risking a lot for the unfulfilled sexual desires you have. I think it would be a good idea to consider if it really is worth it and way up everything you would lose for the chance of of being able to get your end away once twice or a even couple of times.
Is there nothing you could do to discuss the situation with your wife and work on the problem, that seems to have no risk whatsoever as she already isn't interested in sleeping with you.
Bollocks to her if she aint putting out go get some"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs!
She's gone off you, maybe she's getting it elsewhere. What's good for the goose etc.
BTW cheating women are more successful than cheating men here.
Really? How do you quantify ‘successful’, and what do you base your thoughts on? "
1. Women don't moan about it.
2. (Many) Men are glad for any hole so don't give ashit about the partner. In fact some boast about getting into a husband's wife's knickers.
3. Women are naturally (yes stereotypically) more empathic than men, and can put themselves in the cheated partner's position.
4. Lots of men say they don't want drama, women don't seek drama by going with a man in a relationship.
These are generalisations and there are exceptions to them.
But basically it boils down to men and women thinking differently. |
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She wants to fuck them not marry them so their status is of no consequence. Married guys have to be discreet and safe. If you start bringing feelings and consequences into your meeting then you have problems. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s not just sex your after , you want to fulfill your fantasies eg looking for an older lady / couple , if you love your wife and everything is perfect except the sex , why haven’t you sat down and talked like adults, about why she has gone off sex , have you stoped being romantic, have you let your hygiene slip ? , you have been on here over one year , in that time you could of talked , maybe got help , and have a good sex life again , but I think you’ve just after fulfilling your sexual fantasies "
Yes!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs!
maybe thats because shes so busy on fab, she has no time for you?"
And if it was his wife saying the same things he is would you be giving her the same level of shit?
Or saying things like "mAyBe He'S sO BuSy WiTh FaB hE hAs nO tImE fOr yOu?"
Or are you like so many on here who subscribe to the toxic mindset of "when a husband cheats its always his fault and when a wife cheats its always the husbands fault"? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs!
She's gone off you, maybe she's getting it elsewhere. What's good for the goose etc.
BTW cheating women are more successful than cheating men here.
Really? How do you quantify ‘successful’, and what do you base your thoughts on?
1. Women don't moan about it.
2. (Many) Men are glad for any hole so don't give ashit about the partner. In fact some boast about getting into a husband's wife's knickers.
3. Women are naturally (yes stereotypically) more empathic than men, and can put themselves in the cheated partner's position.
4. Lots of men say they don't want drama, women don't seek drama by going with a man in a relationship.
These are generalisations and there are exceptions to them.
But basically it boils down to men and women thinking differently. "
Well that and because of the high man/woman ratio on here woman get much greater allowance for shitty behaviours i.e lying and cheating.
I went to a club local to me and in the gents toilets there were signs up everywhere saying something to the effect of "cheaters are not welcome and won't be tolerated"...despite a lot of the female clientele, in their fab profiles openly and freely admitting to cheating on their partners, were more then welcome |
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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago
Mid-Cheshire |
Some married women just lust for sex
They do not want to risk their homes, family, friends etc.
Meeting married men are sometimes seen as low risk NSA so to speak
Why do people feel compelled to judge, and cast opinion on others, sweep your own step instead! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it’s a one off and you never see each other again then I don’t see a problem but if it going to be a on going thing that’s when it comes a problem. I might get a slap of the mrs for saying this lol |
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Cheating is wrong unless your a female on this site doing it  ...Seen numerous posts by women who are either cheating or are the mistress and they get loads of good advice and people are extremely sympathetic...Surely it’s wrong regardless what sex you are?.... |
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs!
She's gone off you, maybe she's getting it elsewhere. What's good for the goose etc.
BTW cheating women are more successful than cheating men here.
Really? How do you quantify ‘successful’, and what do you base your thoughts on?
1. Women don't moan about it.
2. (Many) Men are glad for any hole so don't give ashit about the partner. In fact some boast about getting into a husband's wife's knickers.
3. Women are naturally (yes stereotypically) more empathic than men, and can put themselves in the cheated partner's position.
4. Lots of men say they don't want drama, women don't seek drama by going with a man in a relationship.
These are generalisations and there are exceptions to them.
But basically it boils down to men and women thinking differently. "
1. I’ve never moaned about meeting women who play away?
2. Many men will be happy for any willing hole, it’s true, and I think that still classes them as ‘successful’?
3. Not relevant to your argument of women being more successful playing away.....
4. Not strictly relevant either, although there have been so few genuinely single ladies I’ve met through Fab, and even those have said they would rather meet an attached guy because they tend to be more genuine, reliable, and discreet than single guys
And your last point? Men and women may think differently in many ways, but attached men and attached women looking for discreet fun on the side usually sing from the same hymn sheet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheating is wrong unless your a female on this site doing it ...Seen numerous posts by women who are either cheating or are the mistress and they get loads of good advice and people are extremely sympathetic...Surely it’s wrong regardless what sex you are?...."
In my view it’s wrong regardless of gender.
However on here most men aren’t going to condemn a cheating women are they? It might fuck up their chances of success (in their head).
Whereas plenty women will condemn married men because it’s not going to affect their success on here and I feel women are less accepting of cheating. That’s the difference.
A cheating woman comes along and it’s seen as a turn on... by men.
A cheating man comes along and many women don’t see it as that. I don’t think I’ve ever seen the same person condemn a cheating man and then praise or accept a cheating woman.
It’s usually different people. |
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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago
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"If it’s a one off and you never see each other again then I don’t see a problem but if it going to be a on going thing that’s when it comes a problem. I might get a slap of the mrs for saying this lol "
She just whispered in my ear he’s right you know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all, I’m probably going to sound like a complete Bastard, and no doubt a few of you will tell me this too!
However, I am a married man that uses this site without my wife’s knowledge and I intend to keep it that way!
I joined to find some Mature Ladies and or Couples that would be interested in meeting a younger Man for some uncomplicated, No Strings Attached fun!
I am just curious to find out if there are any Women or Couples that are no younger than their mid fifties, that are specifically looking for a Guy like me?
Obviously discretion is paramount, hence the reason I do not have any pictures on my profile, and also due to my personal circumstances, there is no way I can ever accommodate, which I know does not help my quest in any way whatsoever!
To summarise, and to stop boring you all to death, please let me know if there are any Ladies, or Couples out there that are happy to meet a Man, who is cheating on his wife!
Hope to hear from some of you soon!
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where are you located?
just thinking, maybe I can meet up with your wife as you are out looking for others
maybe she needs a change and good company? |
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As expected you have took a battering for this haha. But if you really want some extra fun on the side and know the consequences then at least you are being up front about it. Afraid you will need body pics though otherwise you won't get anywhere. |
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"As expected you have took a battering for this haha. But if you really want some extra fun on the side and know the consequences then at least you are being up front about it. Afraid you will need body pics though otherwise you won't get anywhere. "
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over a year ago
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"Cheating is wrong unless your a female on this site doing it ...Seen numerous posts by women who are either cheating or are the mistress and they get loads of good advice and people are extremely sympathetic...Surely it’s wrong regardless what sex you are?....
In my view it’s wrong regardless of gender.
However on here most men aren’t going to condemn a cheating women are they? It might fuck up their chances of success (in their head).
Whereas plenty women will condemn married men because it’s not going to affect their success on here and I feel women are less accepting of cheating. That’s the difference.
A cheating woman comes along and it’s seen as a turn on... by men.
A cheating man comes along and many women don’t see it as that. I don’t think I’ve ever seen the same person condemn a cheating man and then praise or accept a cheating woman.
It’s usually different people. "
Your last point, exactly this, which is why it's not hypocrisy. |
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over a year ago
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"Cheating is wrong unless your a female on this site doing it ...Seen numerous posts by women who are either cheating or are the mistress and they get loads of good advice and people are extremely sympathetic...Surely it’s wrong regardless what sex you are?....
In my view it’s wrong regardless of gender.
However on here most men aren’t going to condemn a cheating women are they? It might fuck up their chances of success (in their head).
Whereas plenty women will condemn married men because it’s not going to affect their success on here and I feel women are less accepting of cheating. That’s the difference.
A cheating woman comes along and it’s seen as a turn on... by men.
A cheating man comes along and many women don’t see it as that. I don’t think I’ve ever seen the same person condemn a cheating man and then praise or accept a cheating woman.
It’s usually different people.
Your last point, exactly this, which is why it's not hypocrisy. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it’s a one off and you never see each other again then I don’t see a problem but if it going to be a on going thing that’s when it comes a problem. I might get a slap of the mrs for saying this lol
She just whispered in my ear he’s right you know"
who is she that’s whispering in your ear? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs!
Have you considered discussing with her this issue, and potentially addressing concerns about the marriage?
Other than the lack of sex, our marriage is great! "
So great that you are on a swingers site looking to cheat. If she knew that you where cheating, what would she do? Is that the lifestyle she would choose, and it is about choice. |
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"Hello all, I’m probably going to sound like a complete Bastard, and no doubt a few of you will tell me this too!
However, I am a married man that uses this site without my wife’s knowledge and I intend to keep it that way!
I joined to find some Mature Ladies and or Couples that would be interested in meeting a younger Man for some uncomplicated, No Strings Attached fun!
I am just curious to find out if there are any Women or Couples that are no younger than their mid fifties, that are specifically looking for a Guy like me?
Obviously discretion is paramount, hence the reason I do not have any pictures on my profile, and also due to my personal circumstances, there is no way I can ever accommodate, which I know does not help my quest in any way whatsoever!
To summarise, and to stop boring you all to death, please let me know if there are any Ladies, or Couples out there that are happy to meet a Man, who is cheating on his wife!
Hope to hear from some of you soon!
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Swinging is about honesty and fun, not deceitful sex risking take home unwanted things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all, I’m probably going to sound like a complete Bastard, and no doubt a few of you will tell me this too!
However, I am a married man that uses this site without my wife’s knowledge and I intend to keep it that way!
I joined to find some Mature Ladies and or Couples that would be interested in meeting a younger Man for some uncomplicated, No Strings Attached fun!
I am just curious to find out if there are any Women or Couples that are no younger than their mid fifties, that are specifically looking for a Guy like me?
Obviously discretion is paramount, hence the reason I do not have any pictures on my profile, and also due to my personal circumstances, there is no way I can ever accommodate, which I know does not help my quest in any way whatsoever!
To summarise, and to stop boring you all to death, please let me know if there are any Ladies, or Couples out there that are happy to meet a Man, who is cheating on his wife!
Hope to hear from some of you soon!
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Great to see how much respect and honesty you have for and toward your wife.
Cheating is not swinging, we are sure you are intelligent enough to know that.
Obviously we see you have chosen to have your cake and eat it, however why not let your wife have the same freedom of choice.
Tell her you are cheating and see if she wants to accept it or not.
What has she done that means she doesn't deserve the choice? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all, I’m probably going to sound like a complete Bastard, and no doubt a few of you will tell me this too!
However, I am a married man that uses this site without my wife’s knowledge and I intend to keep it that way!
I joined to find some Mature Ladies and or Couples that would be interested in meeting a younger Man for some uncomplicated, No Strings Attached fun!
I am just curious to find out if there are any Women or Couples that are no younger than their mid fifties, that are specifically looking for a Guy like me?
Obviously discretion is paramount, hence the reason I do not have any pictures on my profile, and also due to my personal circumstances, there is no way I can ever accommodate, which I know does not help my quest in any way whatsoever!
To summarise, and to stop boring you all to death, please let me know if there are any Ladies, or Couples out there that are happy to meet a Man, who is cheating on his wife!
Hope to hear from some of you soon!
Great to see how much respect and honesty you have for and toward your wife.
Cheating is not swinging, we are sure you are intelligent enough to know that.
Obviously we see you have chosen to have your cake and eat it, however why not let your wife have the same freedom of choice.
Tell her you are cheating and see if she wants to accept it or not.
What has she done that means she doesn't deserve the choice? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I don’t understand is why some cheaters feel the need to tell everyone (or in this case a forum) that they’re cheating and why...
Why not just do as you’re doing quietly? Surely you’re aware that not everyone agrees with it, so you must know that by posting this you weren’t going to have a 100% positive response. It doesn’t matter what anyone says as, people will do what they want anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What I don’t understand is why some cheaters feel the need to tell everyone (or in this case a forum) that they’re cheating and why...
Why not just do as you’re doing quietly? Surely you’re aware that not everyone agrees with it, so you must know that by posting this you weren’t going to have a 100% positive response. It doesn’t matter what anyone says as, people will do what they want anyway. "
We have noticed that guys do this a lot more than girls.
Maybe they like to brag about it. |
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?"
If you are cheating just dont say it openly in here. This is not just a swinging site (ignore the "holier then though" remarks)
There are many simply playing without their partners knowing, both female and male. In addition there are "couples" on profile terms only that are married to others.
It's best not to judge and for anyone to say this is a swingers site and not a cheaters site has a deep seated axe to grind... probably from past relationships etc etc rather than a reflection of this site . |
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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago
Mid-Cheshire |
"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
If you are cheating just dont say it openly in here. This is not just a swinging site (ignore the "holier then though" remarks)
There are many simply playing without their partners knowing, both female and male. In addition there are "couples" on profile terms only that are married to others.
It's best not to judge and for anyone to say this is a swingers site and not a cheaters site has a deep seated axe to grind... probably from past relationships etc etc rather than a reflection of this site ."
Sage words.
There should be an honest filter then those who are can just find each other, the perfect people can find each other too.
But it does rely on ladies being honest, but how can they when they are judge so much by their gender?
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over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
If you are cheating just dont say it openly in here. This is not just a swinging site (ignore the "holier then though" remarks)
There are many simply playing without their partners knowing, both female and male. In addition there are "couples" on profile terms only that are married to others.
It's best not to judge and for anyone to say this is a swingers site and not a cheaters site has a deep seated axe to grind... probably from past relationships etc etc rather than a reflection of this site ."
Wrong assumption. |
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
If you are cheating just dont say it openly in here. This is not just a swinging site (ignore the "holier then though" remarks)
There are many simply playing without their partners knowing, both female and male. In addition there are "couples" on profile terms only that are married to others.
It's best not to judge and for anyone to say this is a swingers site and not a cheaters site has a deep seated axe to grind... probably from past relationships etc etc rather than a reflection of this site .
Sage words.
There should be an honest filter then those who are can just find each other, the perfect people can find each other too.
But it does rely on ladies being honest, but how can they when they are judge so much by their gender?
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Exactly, honesty is best rather than the pretence. We all swing for different reasons and all from different backgrounds. Some are so up their own a£$@ they cannot appreciate things beyond their own little world ( sadly a lot of couples fall into that bracket ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A guy cheating on his wife tells me he's pretty crap in bed.
how do you know his wife's not crap in bed , its not always the mans fault, "
Is that enough of a reason to cheat and be dishonest?
Really?? |
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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago
Mid-Cheshire |
"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
If you are cheating just dont say it openly in here. This is not just a swinging site (ignore the "holier then though" remarks)
There are many simply playing without their partners knowing, both female and male. In addition there are "couples" on profile terms only that are married to others.
It's best not to judge and for anyone to say this is a swingers site and not a cheaters site has a deep seated axe to grind... probably from past relationships etc etc rather than a reflection of this site .
Sage words.
There should be an honest filter then those who are can just find each other, the perfect people can find each other too.
But it does rely on ladies being honest, but how can they when they are judge so much by their gender?
Exactly, honesty is best rather than the pretence. We all swing for different reasons and all from different backgrounds. Some are so up their own a£$@ they cannot appreciate things beyond their own little world ( sadly a lot of couples fall into that bracket )"
My guess is that in some couples who object to it so strongly, that there is an excheater in the twosome, and that the strongly worded forum posts are really another bollocking for them!
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"A guy cheating on his wife tells me he's pretty crap in bed.
how do you know his wife's not crap in bed , its not always the mans fault,
Is that enough of a reason to cheat and be dishonest?
Really??"
Cheat and dishonesty I think we are all guilty of to a certain extent ( m and f), it's best not to judge |
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
If you are cheating just dont say it openly in here. This is not just a swinging site (ignore the "holier then though" remarks)
There are many simply playing without their partners knowing, both female and male. In addition there are "couples" on profile terms only that are married to others.
It's best not to judge and for anyone to say this is a swingers site and not a cheaters site has a deep seated axe to grind... probably from past relationships etc etc rather than a reflection of this site .
Sage words.
There should be an honest filter then those who are can just find each other, the perfect people can find each other too.
But it does rely on ladies being honest, but how can they when they are judge so much by their gender?
Exactly, honesty is best rather than the pretence. We all swing for different reasons and all from different backgrounds. Some are so up their own a£$@ they cannot appreciate things beyond their own little world ( sadly a lot of couples fall into that bracket )
My guess is that in some couples who object to it so strongly, that there is an excheater in the twosome, and that the strongly worded forum posts are really another bollocking for them!
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Exactly |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
If you are cheating just dont say it openly in here. This is not just a swinging site (ignore the "holier then though" remarks)
There are many simply playing without their partners knowing, both female and male. In addition there are "couples" on profile terms only that are married to others.
It's best not to judge and for anyone to say this is a swingers site and not a cheaters site has a deep seated axe to grind... probably from past relationships etc etc rather than a reflection of this site ."
And for those of us that don't want to meet them? Being dragged into someone else's drama unknowingly is not my idea of fun. I've had experience of cheaters not only being dishonest with their partners but also with me as I've only found out at the last minute that they are in fact, attached. They are disrespectful as they have clearly ignored my preference on my profile not to meet them and have tried anyway. Cheating is not swinging. Two toralky different things. |
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
If you are cheating just dont say it openly in here. This is not just a swinging site (ignore the "holier then though" remarks)
There are many simply playing without their partners knowing, both female and male. In addition there are "couples" on profile terms only that are married to others.
It's best not to judge and for anyone to say this is a swingers site and not a cheaters site has a deep seated axe to grind... probably from past relationships etc etc rather than a reflection of this site .
Sage words.
There should be an honest filter then those who are can just find each other, the perfect people can find each other too.
But it does rely on ladies being honest, but how can they when they are judge so much by their gender?
Exactly, honesty is best rather than the pretence. We all swing for different reasons and all from different backgrounds. Some are so up their own a£$@ they cannot appreciate things beyond their own little world ( sadly a lot of couples fall into that bracket )
My guess is that in some couples who object to it so strongly, that there is an excheater in the twosome, and that the strongly worded forum posts are really another bollocking for them!
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Or someone who was cheated on, and they’re now in their next relationship. You can feel their anger and spite when they use the word ‘cheat’, rather than the term ‘playing away’....... |
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over a year ago
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"A guy cheating on his wife tells me he's pretty crap in bed.
how do you know his wife's not crap in bed , its not always the mans fault,
Is that enough of a reason to cheat and be dishonest?
Really??
Cheat and dishonesty I think we are all guilty of to a certain extent ( m and f), it's best not to judge "
Who's judging?
Who on here actually thinks being dishonest and cheating on an unsuspecting partner is ok?
We actually think that all these comments about judging are just a smoke screen.
By all means people can behave as dishonestly as much as they want, and cheat on their partner as much as they want. But let's not make out that it is ok. |
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
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"A guy cheating on his wife tells me he's pretty crap in bed.
When the cupboard is empty at home, a hungry man (or woman) will look for food elsewhere....."
Dont you just love the forum police, married couples cheat on there vows, married females cheat on there husband's, married men cheat on there wives, couples cheat on there partners , men cheat on there boyfriend , females cheat on there girlfriend , dont we just love it , |
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over a year ago
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"A guy cheating on his wife tells me he's pretty crap in bed.
When the cupboard is empty at home, a hungry man (or woman) will look for food elsewhere.....
Dont you just love the forum police, married couples cheat on there vows, married females cheat on there husband's, married men cheat on there wives, couples cheat on there partners , men cheat on there boyfriend , females cheat on there girlfriend , dont we just love it , "
Such a shame.... |
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"A guy cheating on his wife tells me he's pretty crap in bed.
When the cupboard is empty at home, a hungry man (or woman) will look for food elsewhere.....
Dont you just love the forum police, married couples cheat on there vows, married females cheat on there husband's, married men cheat on there wives, couples cheat on there partners , men cheat on there boyfriend , females cheat on there girlfriend , dont we just love it , "
Au contraire; I love a good ‘filter thread’ |
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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago
Mid-Cheshire |
"I wonder how many who are fine with cheating would like to be on the receiving end of it.
Just a thought.
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Good question,
For those who swing, (the acceptable face of cheating) are actually in the eyes of the church or law committing the same act.
Just less emotion I guess.
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over a year ago
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"I wonder how many who are fine with cheating would like to be on the receiving end of it.
Just a thought.
Good question,
For those who swing, (the acceptable face of cheating) are actually in the eyes of the church or law committing the same act.
Just less emotion I guess.
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Less deception you mean.
There’s a big difference between participating in adultery when your partner is aware & a part of it, than when they are not. |
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"I wonder how many who are fine with cheating would like to be on the receiving end of it.
Just a thought.
Good question,
For those who swing, (the acceptable face of cheating) are actually in the eyes of the church or law committing the same act.
Just less emotion I guess.
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Let's face it, how many give a flying fuck what someone's imaginary friend thinks?
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I'm married but my wife does know I'm on here, she has my login details and can see what I say and do. I'd like nothing better than to share the swinging life but she's not interested in threesomes, group or kink. She is satisfied I'm not here for a relationship, and we have rules which I follow. It's working so far. I'm a very lucky person! |
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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago
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Im afraid far too many people are judgemental about others. What may suit one peson will not suit everyone. Some relationships fizzle for lots of reasons, health changes in moods and desires but look at your relationships and ask what percentage of that greatness you have together is sex ???? I bet 90+ % is the other things you share in life. Yes some prople are afraid to be open and risk losing that 90% some people know their partners are going behind their back
...but equally if they dont condone it......its like its not happening. My late wife got Ill for a long time and passed away ....i was still young with needs and desires driven by my working life often driving testosterone levels high but it paid the bills etc...... please lets not always be so quick to judge ..... until you have walked a mile in another mans shoes!!!! |
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over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs! "
discuss the situation with your wife. Cheating on her is the easy and cowards way out. Find out what the issues are and try and address them together. I speak from experience am now single and would give anything to turn the clocks back. You never miss what you have until its no longer there!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im afraid far too many people are judgemental about others. What may suit one peson will not suit everyone. Some relationships fizzle for lots of reasons, health changes in moods and desires but look at your relationships and ask what percentage of that greatness you have together is sex ???? I bet 90+ % is the other things you share in life. Yes some prople are afraid to be open and risk losing that 90% some people know their partners are going behind their back
...but equally if they dont condone it......its like its not happening. My late wife got Ill for a long time and passed away ....i was still young with needs and desires driven by my working life often driving testosterone levels high but it paid the bills etc...... please lets not always be so quick to judge ..... until you have walked a mile in another mans shoes!!!! "
Everyone judges. Consciously and unconsciously it is natural.
If people are going to tell the world about what they do, they should expect some will judge them and that some won’t agree and they’ll say so.
The best way to not get judged is to not say anything, or only mention it to those you’re meeting in private message. It’s not really anyone else’s business as much as I don’t agree with it. |
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over a year ago
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"Don’t judge people lest you be judged ,live at let live people should stop thinking they have the moral high ground.good luck "
Would the unsuspecting wives be saying the same thing??
It isn't about judging.
Honesty is a code that everyone should live by.
Or do you not agree?? |
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"What I don’t understand is why some cheaters feel the need to tell everyone (or in this case a forum) that they’re cheating and why...
Why not just do as you’re doing quietly? Surely you’re aware that not everyone agrees with it, so you must know that by posting this you weren’t going to have a 100% positive response. It doesn’t matter what anyone says as, people will do what they want anyway. "
I would hazard a guess, here, to get the desired attention and may drop lucky, regardless of the negative responses |
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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs!
Have you considered discussing with her this issue, and potentially addressing concerns about the marriage?
Other than the lack of sex, our marriage is great! "
Maybe she's off sex because she's on Fab having plenty
How would you feel if that was the case? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What I don’t understand is why some cheaters feel the need to tell everyone (or in this case a forum) that they’re cheating and why...
Why not just do as you’re doing quietly? Surely you’re aware that not everyone agrees with it, so you must know that by posting this you weren’t going to have a 100% positive response. It doesn’t matter what anyone says as, people will do what they want anyway. "
They know they are doing something shitty and want to justify what they do to themselves by seeking approval from others...you think this site is weird for this
Check out r/adultery on reddit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A guy cheating on his wife tells me he's pretty crap in bed.
Exactly! She's gone off sex with you OP, you're not exactly selling
yourself!
Mrs "
By that logic every couple (yourselves included) is advertising that they are shit in bed because they are looking to play with others and have others join in to make it more fun...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What I don’t understand is why some cheaters feel the need to tell everyone (or in this case a forum) that they’re cheating and why...
Why not just do as you’re doing quietly? Surely you’re aware that not everyone agrees with it, so you must know that by posting this you weren’t going to have a 100% positive response. It doesn’t matter what anyone says as, people will do what they want anyway.
They know they are doing something shitty and want to justify what they do to themselves by seeking approval from others...you think this site is weird for this
Check out r/adultery on reddit"
I’ve never seen anything like it to be honest, it’s new to me!
I’ll take a look at that. I like reading. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What I don’t understand is why some cheaters feel the need to tell everyone (or in this case a forum) that they’re cheating and why...
Why not just do as you’re doing quietly? Surely you’re aware that not everyone agrees with it, so you must know that by posting this you weren’t going to have a 100% positive response. It doesn’t matter what anyone says as, people will do what they want anyway.
They know they are doing something shitty and want to justify what they do to themselves by seeking approval from others...you think this site is weird for this
Check out r/adultery on reddit
I’ve never seen anything like it to be honest, it’s new to me!
I’ll take a look at that. I like reading. "
Its weird...its a bunch of people asking for advice on cheating and justifying to themselves what they are doing in an echo chamber |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought , "
Says the cheating married man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man."
Doesnt stop him being right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right"
That will be the men who fuck anything some people are actually decent on here. |
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over a year ago
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right
That will be the men who fuck anything some people are actually decent on here."
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over a year ago
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right
That will be the men who fuck anything some people are actually decent on here.
Yeah and there are some woman who will fuck anything and some who are decent..whats your point?"
You just stick up for the cheaters on here bye bye |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right
That will be the men who fuck anything some people are actually decent on here.
Yeah and there are some woman who will fuck anything and some who are decent..whats your point?
You just stick up for the cheaters on here bye bye"
I don't stick up for anyone
All I've said is
1. There is a weird double standard on here that if your a guy and you cheat you're worse them hitler but if you're a woman then the attitude is "you go girl"
2. That if you're going to criticise cheaters, be consistant
Did you even read what ive said
And did you really just say "bye bye" to try amd fool people into thinking you won an argument?
Are you 5?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right
That will be the men who fuck anything some people are actually decent on here.
Yeah and there are some woman who will fuck anything and some who are decent..whats your point?
You just stick up for the cheaters on here bye bye
I don't stick up for anyone
All I've said is
1. There is a weird double standard on here that if your a guy and you cheat you're worse them hitler but if you're a woman then the attitude is "you go girl"
2. That if you're going to criticise cheaters, be consistant
Did you even read what ive said
And did you really just say "bye bye" to try amd fool people into thinking you won an argument?
Are you 5?
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We don't care what gender they are.
Dishonest cheaters going public on here get the same treatment on here from us. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs! "
In my experience women rarely go off sex, they just don’t want it with those partner. The opposite is often true , Fab has many more couples where the females sex drive is more than the males. |
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over a year ago
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Quite surprised how judgmental so many people are on here. Everyone has a reason for being on Fab or other such websites. Must be amazing to be so perfect and live such a wholesome life. |
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right"
well said , forum police always like to preach to others and cheat on there vows , they have there reasons for being here ,and so do others each to there own |
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right
That will be the men who fuck anything some people are actually decent on here.
Yeah and there are some woman who will fuck anything and some who are decent..whats your point?"
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"A guy cheating on his wife tells me he's pretty crap in bed.
Exactly! She's gone off sex with you OP, you're not exactly selling
yourself!
Mrs
By that logic every couple (yourselves included) is advertising that they are shit in bed because they are looking to play with others and have others join in to make it more fun...
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No. We look for others because we share total trust and we sometimes enhance our great sexlife with an extra cock or two, not because anyone has gone off us. The OP wants to play with others because his wife doesn't want sex with him. If he was amazing at it, surely she'd love it. So logically speaking, you're wrong.
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By *untop7Man
over a year ago
Eaton |
"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs! "
So tell me one thing. Would you be fully bi if a cpl meet took place or just there to fuck the lady? |
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right"
As a single guy, living with your parents I really would reassess defending liars and cheats as being a good way to enhance your chances on here! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs!
So tell me one thing. Would you be fully bi if a cpl meet took place or just there to fuck the lady?"
Unlikely to be fully bi if there's a woman to fuck. Most suddenly turn straight in my experience. |
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right
That will be the men who fuck anything some people are actually decent on here.
Yeah and there are some woman who will fuck anything and some who are decent..whats your point?
You just stick up for the cheaters on here bye bye
I don't stick up for anyone
All I've said is
1. There is a weird double standard on here that if your a guy and you cheat you're worse them hitler but if you're a woman then the attitude is "you go girl"
2. That if you're going to criticise cheaters, be consistant
Did you even read what ive said
And did you really just say "bye bye" to try amd fool people into thinking you won an argument?
Are you 5?
We don't care what gender they are.
Dishonest cheaters going public on here get the same treatment on here from us. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right
That will be the men who fuck anything some people are actually decent on here.
Yeah and there are some woman who will fuck anything and some who are decent..whats your point?
You just stick up for the cheaters on here bye bye
I don't stick up for anyone
All I've said is
1. There is a weird double standard on here that if your a guy and you cheat you're worse them hitler but if you're a woman then the attitude is "you go girl"
2. That if you're going to criticise cheaters, be consistant
Did you even read what ive said
And did you really just say "bye bye" to try amd fool people into thinking you won an argument?
Are you 5?
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Think i'm 5 i can have an opinion and you saying i think i have won the argument is stupid. Cheaters are the scum of the earth on here male and female. |
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
Unfortunately you will never win the argument with a self opinionated 5 year old person there always right, thats why there the forum police criticise everyone for doing what there doing them selves, having a good time if there fortunate to meet someone, good luck to them , makes you think why are they single did there husband run off with someone else , makes you think , |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Unfortunately you will never win the argument with a self opinionated 5 year old person there always right, thats why there the forum police criticise everyone for doing what there doing them selves, having a good time if there fortunate to meet someone, good luck to them , makes you think why are they single did there husband run off with someone else , makes you think , "
"why are they single did there husband run off with someone else , makes you think ," seriously? Grow up. You have no idea of some people's circumstances.  |
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
I beg to differ i do , so we should all keep our options to our selves live and let live mind our own business and kep out of other people's affairs , o and by the way i am mature , lol just saying in case you cast further opinions, |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I beg to differ i do , so we should all keep our options to our selves live and let live mind our own business and kep out of other people's affairs , o and by the way i am mature , lol just saying in case you cast further opinions, "
Not always because the husband runs off with someone else. Loads of other reasons for being single. That was a ridiculous and childish statement to make. |
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"I beg to differ i do , so we should all keep our options to our selves live and let live mind our own business and kep out of other people's affairs , o and by the way i am mature , lol just saying in case you cast further opinions,
Not always because the husband runs off with someone else. Loads of other reasons for being single. That was a ridiculous and childish statement to make. "
well just maybe you should read all the comments |
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By *ich HardMan
over a year ago
Saffron Walden |
"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
If you are cheating just dont say it openly in here. This is not just a swinging site (ignore the "holier then though" remarks)
There are many simply playing without their partners knowing, both female and male. In addition there are "couples" on profile terms only that are married to others.
It's best not to judge and for anyone to say this is a swingers site and not a cheaters site has a deep seated axe to grind... probably from past relationships etc etc rather than a reflection of this site ."
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By *ich HardMan
over a year ago
Saffron Walden |
"Quite surprised how judgmental so many people are on here. Everyone has a reason for being on Fab or other such websites. Must be amazing to be so perfect and live such a wholesome life."
Completely agree x |
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over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
That’s a very good point you make!
If I saw my wife on here, I would go ballistic!
But I can pretty much guarantee that would never happen as she has gone completely off the physical side of our marriage, hence the reason I’m looking to fulfil my needs!
Have you considered discussing with her this issue, and potentially addressing concerns about the marriage?
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Yes why not have a discussion with your wife, ask her what she thinks of your lack of sex life. She may be more open to both of you being on here as a couple? |
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over a year ago
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"I beg to differ i do , so we should all keep our options to our selves live and let live mind our own business and kep out of other people's affairs , o and by the way i am mature , lol just saying in case you cast further opinions, "
You’re not keeping your opinion to yourself though... |
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over a year ago
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"its a swinging site, not a cheating site, the two are very different, however im sure i saw your wife on here, how would you feel ?
If you are cheating just dont say it openly in here. This is not just a swinging site (ignore the "holier then though" remarks)
There are many simply playing without their partners knowing, both female and male. In addition there are "couples" on profile terms only that are married to others.
It's best not to judge and for anyone to say this is a swingers site and not a cheaters site has a deep seated axe to grind... probably from past relationships etc etc rather than a reflection of this site .
Sage words.
There should be an honest filter then those who are can just find each other, the perfect people can find each other too.
But it does rely on ladies being honest, but how can they when they are judge so much by their gender?
Exactly, honesty is best rather than the pretence. We all swing for different reasons and all from different backgrounds. Some are so up their own a£$@ they cannot appreciate things beyond their own little world ( sadly a lot of couples fall into that bracket )
My guess is that in some couples who object to it so strongly, that there is an excheater in the twosome, and that the strongly worded forum posts are really another bollocking for them!
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"I beg to differ i do , so we should all keep our options to our selves live and let live mind our own business and kep out of other people's affairs , o and by the way i am mature , lol just saying in case you cast further opinions,
You’re not keeping your opinion to yourself though... "
it may not seam that way , but my opinion is in reply to an opinion , |
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Why dont you be honest with her? My wife has gone off sex and in a moment of frustration i suggested that she find me a fuck buddy and to my suprise she said she didn't have a problem providing I kept it separate from our marriage and she didn't regard it as cheating because I wasnt doing anything behind her back. Although I haven't actually met up with anyone yet I nearly met up with a couple from Brighton. I told my wife about it and her response was great, her and I could have a day by the sea, I could pop off for a meet with this couple whilst she went shopping and then her and I could go for a meal before going home. Discuss it, you might be suprised with the response you get! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I beg to differ i do , so we should all keep our options to our selves live and let live mind our own business and kep out of other people's affairs , o and by the way i am mature , lol just saying in case you cast further opinions,
Not always because the husband runs off with someone else. Loads of other reasons for being single. That was a ridiculous and childish statement to make.
well just maybe you should read all the comments "
I did thanks.  |
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over a year ago
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"Why dont you be honest with her? My wife has gone off sex and in a moment of frustration i suggested that she find me a fuck buddy and to my suprise she said she didn't have a problem providing I kept it separate from our marriage and she didn't regard it as cheating because I wasnt doing anything behind her back. Although I haven't actually met up with anyone yet I nearly met up with a couple from Brighton. I told my wife about it and her response was great, her and I could have a day by the sea, I could pop off for a meet with this couple whilst she went shopping and then her and I could go for a meal before going home. Discuss it, you might be suprised with the response you get! "
Sounds like a perfectly reasonable solution, hope.you find a female or couple. x |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Think my underlying concern is, if you cannot be truthful to your wife, how does a total stranger know you are being truthful to them?
you pay your money and take your chance, "
Bit like the wife you mean?
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Think my underlying concern is, if you cannot be truthful to your wife, how does a total stranger know you are being truthful to them?
you pay your money and take your chance,
Bit like the wife you mean?
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well they all play the game , exciting isn't it , |
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over a year ago
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"Think my underlying concern is, if you cannot be truthful to your wife, how does a total stranger know you are being truthful to them?
you pay your money and take your chance, "
Why take a chance??
Just find a real honest single guy, not a dishonest cheat.
There are decent single guys on here if that is what you are looking for. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Think my underlying concern is, if you cannot be truthful to your wife, how does a total stranger know you are being truthful to them?
you pay your money and take your chance,
Bit like the wife you mean?
well they all play the game , exciting isn't it , "
Depends if it is a win/win or a win/loose.
Plus who’s the all?
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Think my underlying concern is, if you cannot be truthful to your wife, how does a total stranger know you are being truthful to them?
you pay your money and take your chance,
Bit like the wife you mean?
all those playing away game , for what ever reason , thats there choice, until you have walked in there shoes dont judge them ,
well they all play the game , exciting isn't it ,
Depends if it is a win/win or a win/loose.
Plus who’s the all?
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Think my underlying concern is, if you cannot be truthful to your wife, how does a total stranger know you are being truthful to them?
you pay your money and take your chance,
Bit like the wife you mean?
all those playing away game , for what ever reason , thats there choice, until you have walked in there shoes dont judge them ,
well they all play the game , exciting isn't it ,
Depends if it is a win/win or a win/loose.
Plus who’s the all?
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Korzbyski coined the phrase, “ the meaning of the communication is the response you get”.
If someone is communicating “I would love sex” and there is no response, what could the possible responses be?
Answers in a fifty pound note or fab forum. |
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"A guy cheating on his wife tells me he's pretty crap in bed.
When the cupboard is empty at home, a hungry man (or woman) will look for food elsewhere.....
Dont you just love the forum police, married couples cheat on there vows, married females cheat on there husband's, married men cheat on there wives, couples cheat on there partners , men cheat on there boyfriend , females cheat on there girlfriend , dont we just love it , "
How do you get couples cheat on their vows? |
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over a year ago
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"A guy cheating on his wife tells me he's pretty crap in bed.
When the cupboard is empty at home, a hungry man (or woman) will look for food elsewhere....."
Or maybe just talk to your partner, then go out and buy some food together?? |
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"Why dont you be honest with her? My wife has gone off sex and in a moment of frustration i suggested that she find me a fuck buddy and to my suprise she said she didn't have a problem providing I kept it separate from our marriage and she didn't regard it as cheating because I wasnt doing anything behind her back. Although I haven't actually met up with anyone yet I nearly met up with a couple from Brighton. I told my wife about it and her response was great, her and I could have a day by the sea, I could pop off for a meet with this couple whilst she went shopping and then her and I could go for a meal before going home. Discuss it, you might be suprised with the response you get! "
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Good lord. Is he asking for marital advice in his original post? I don’t see that he is. This place never ceases to amazes me!! "
“Hope to hear from some soon”,
I suspect he has, don’t find it amazing, well unless I’m missing something like memetics at a level I don’t understand. |
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over a year ago
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"A guy cheating on his wife tells me he's pretty crap in bed.
Exactly! She's gone off sex with you OP, you're not exactly selling
yourself!
Mrs
By that logic every couple (yourselves included) is advertising that they are shit in bed because they are looking to play with others and have others join in to make it more fun...
No. We look for others because we share total trust and we sometimes enhance our great sexlife with an extra cock or two, not because anyone has gone off us. The OP wants to play with others because his wife doesn't want sex with him. If he was amazing at it, surely she'd love it. So logically speaking, you're wrong.
Mrs"
Yes and by that same logic, why would you need to invite other into it of you guys were enough for each other
Im using your own logic to point out your logic is flawed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right
As a single guy, living with your parents I really would reassess defending liars and cheats as being a good way to enhance your chances on here! "
Im not defending anyone but he is objectively right regardless of the fact that he is cheating on his wife
Being a good person and being right are mutually exclusive and believing in moral absolutism is dumb
MLK cheated on his wife and he was a great man who did a lot of good in the world.
Oh so I should just agree so a woman might sleep with me?
Its that mind set that proves the guy who i said is rights point! |
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over a year ago
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right
That will be the men who fuck anything some people are actually decent on here.
Yeah and there are some woman who will fuck anything and some who are decent..whats your point?
You just stick up for the cheaters on here bye bye
I don't stick up for anyone
All I've said is
1. There is a weird double standard on here that if your a guy and you cheat you're worse them hitler but if you're a woman then the attitude is "you go girl"
2. That if you're going to criticise cheaters, be consistant
Did you even read what ive said
And did you really just say "bye bye" to try amd fool people into thinking you won an argument?
Are you 5?
Think i'm 5 i can have an opinion and you saying i think i have won the argument is stupid. Cheaters are the scum of the earth on here male and female."
And im not defending him or cheaters in general
I'm pointing out something people don't like to acknowledge on here
That if your a guy and you cheat youre the scum of the earth amd if your a woman cheating youre empowered
but on here most of the men who agree with the woman who vilify them would happy shag a cheating woman
And like the lovely couple beautifully demonstrated by telling me that because of my situation if i want to do well on here i should just agree, thats what these guys do |
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right
That will be the men who fuck anything some people are actually decent on here.
Yeah and there are some woman who will fuck anything and some who are decent..whats your point?
You just stick up for the cheaters on here bye bye
I don't stick up for anyone
All I've said is
1. There is a weird double standard on here that if your a guy and you cheat you're worse them hitler but if you're a woman then the attitude is "you go girl"
2. That if you're going to criticise cheaters, be consistant
Did you even read what ive said
And did you really just say "bye bye" to try amd fool people into thinking you won an argument?
Are you 5?
Think i'm 5 i can have an opinion and you saying i think i have won the argument is stupid. Cheaters are the scum of the earth on here male and female.
And im not defending him or cheaters in general
I'm pointing out something people don't like to acknowledge on here
That if your a guy and you cheat youre the scum of the earth amd if your a woman cheating youre empowered
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Incorrect.
Most people who don’t agree with cheating agree that regardless of gender cheating is bad.
A few horny men who get off on married women are likely not the same ones condemning men for cheating.
People say this all the time not realising that it’s always different people. I’ve never ever seen the same person on here berate a man for cheating whilst praising a woman.
But you will get more positive comments on a cheating woman’s thread because most men couldn’t care less for a woman’s marital status, whereas many women as proven here do care about a man’s. |
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We feel for you. We've just had a ten minute convo about this and for us as couple we'd prefer a married man if we were to meet just because it keeps it on the down low as there could be alot at steak we know so we are torn as cheating is never really an option talking is the preference air what is going on and why and see if there is a resolution  |
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over a year ago
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right
That will be the men who fuck anything some people are actually decent on here.
Yeah and there are some woman who will fuck anything and some who are decent..whats your point?
You just stick up for the cheaters on here bye bye
I don't stick up for anyone
All I've said is
1. There is a weird double standard on here that if your a guy and you cheat you're worse them hitler but if you're a woman then the attitude is "you go girl"
2. That if you're going to criticise cheaters, be consistant
Did you even read what ive said
And did you really just say "bye bye" to try amd fool people into thinking you won an argument?
Are you 5?
Think i'm 5 i can have an opinion and you saying i think i have won the argument is stupid. Cheaters are the scum of the earth on here male and female.
And im not defending him or cheaters in general
I'm pointing out something people don't like to acknowledge on here
That if your a guy and you cheat youre the scum of the earth amd if your a woman cheating youre empowered
Incorrect.
Most people who don’t agree with cheating agree that regardless of gender cheating is bad.
A few horny men who get off on married women are likely not the same ones condemning men for cheating.
People say this all the time not realising that it’s always different people. I’ve never ever seen the same person on here berate a man for cheating whilst praising a woman.
But you will get more positive comments on a cheating woman’s thread because most men couldn’t care less for a woman’s marital status, whereas many women as proven here do care about a man’s. "
Agree totally.
We haven't seen any threads where women are praised for cheating
Could we please ask the people that keep referring to these posts to maybe put a link up so that we can all go and see?
We haven't seen any at all....
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right
That will be the men who fuck anything some people are actually decent on here.
Yeah and there are some woman who will fuck anything and some who are decent..whats your point?
You just stick up for the cheaters on here bye bye
I don't stick up for anyone
All I've said is
1. There is a weird double standard on here that if your a guy and you cheat you're worse them hitler but if you're a woman then the attitude is "you go girl"
2. That if you're going to criticise cheaters, be consistant
Did you even read what ive said
And did you really just say "bye bye" to try amd fool people into thinking you won an argument?
Are you 5?
Think i'm 5 i can have an opinion and you saying i think i have won the argument is stupid. Cheaters are the scum of the earth on here male and female.
And im not defending him or cheaters in general
I'm pointing out something people don't like to acknowledge on here
That if your a guy and you cheat youre the scum of the earth amd if your a woman cheating youre empowered
Incorrect.
Most people who don’t agree with cheating agree that regardless of gender cheating is bad.
A few horny men who get off on married women are likely not the same ones condemning men for cheating.
People say this all the time not realising that it’s always different people. I’ve never ever seen the same person on here berate a man for cheating whilst praising a woman.
But you will get more positive comments on a cheating woman’s thread because most men couldn’t care less for a woman’s marital status, whereas many women as proven here do care about a man’s. "
You missed off the point I made about mindset
That couple who told me that because of my situation I should shut up and toe the line and people might wanna meet me.
More of the the male denouncers then you think wouldnt think twice about fucking a woman on here cheating if offered but on the forums grief cheating men to apes some woman in the hopes that it will lead to sex
Which was the point that guy made |
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right
That will be the men who fuck anything some people are actually decent on here.
Yeah and there are some woman who will fuck anything and some who are decent..whats your point?
You just stick up for the cheaters on here bye bye
I don't stick up for anyone
All I've said is
1. There is a weird double standard on here that if your a guy and you cheat you're worse them hitler but if you're a woman then the attitude is "you go girl"
2. That if you're going to criticise cheaters, be consistant
Did you even read what ive said
And did you really just say "bye bye" to try amd fool people into thinking you won an argument?
Are you 5?
Think i'm 5 i can have an opinion and you saying i think i have won the argument is stupid. Cheaters are the scum of the earth on here male and female.
And im not defending him or cheaters in general
I'm pointing out something people don't like to acknowledge on here
That if your a guy and you cheat youre the scum of the earth amd if your a woman cheating youre empowered
Incorrect.
Most people who don’t agree with cheating agree that regardless of gender cheating is bad.
A few horny men who get off on married women are likely not the same ones condemning men for cheating.
People say this all the time not realising that it’s always different people. I’ve never ever seen the same person on here berate a man for cheating whilst praising a woman.
But you will get more positive comments on a cheating woman’s thread because most men couldn’t care less for a woman’s marital status, whereas many women as proven here do care about a man’s.
You missed off the point I made about mindset
That couple who told me that because of my situation I should shut up and toe the line and people might wanna meet me.
More of the the male denouncers then you think wouldnt think twice about fucking a woman on here cheating if offered but on the forums grief cheating men to apes some woman in the hopes that it will lead to sex
Which was the point that guy made"
That’s some men for you.
Some on here will say what women want to hear even if it makes them look a hypocrite, all in hope of some action.
My point still stands that I’ve never ever seen the same person condemn a man for cheating and praise a woman for it... |
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"Dont you just love the forum police they criticise you for being here , but most of them would fxxk your wife and not give it a second thought ,
Says the cheating married man.
Doesnt stop him being right
That will be the men who fuck anything some people are actually decent on here.
Yeah and there are some woman who will fuck anything and some who are decent..whats your point?
You just stick up for the cheaters on here bye bye
I don't stick up for anyone
All I've said is
1. There is a weird double standard on here that if your a guy and you cheat you're worse them hitler but if you're a woman then the attitude is "you go girl"
2. That if you're going to criticise cheaters, be consistant
Did you even read what ive said
And did you really just say "bye bye" to try amd fool people into thinking you won an argument?
Are you 5?
Think i'm 5 i can have an opinion and you saying i think i have won the argument is stupid. Cheaters are the scum of the earth on here male and female.
And im not defending him or cheaters in general
I'm pointing out something people don't like to acknowledge on here
That if your a guy and you cheat youre the scum of the earth amd if your a woman cheating youre empowered
Incorrect.
Most people who don’t agree with cheating agree that regardless of gender cheating is bad.
A few horny men who get off on married women are likely not the same ones condemning men for cheating.
People say this all the time not realising that it’s always different people. I’ve never ever seen the same person on here berate a man for cheating whilst praising a woman.
But you will get more positive comments on a cheating woman’s thread because most men couldn’t care less for a woman’s marital status, whereas many women as proven here do care about a man’s.
You missed off the point I made about mindset
That couple who told me that because of my situation I should shut up and toe the line and people might wanna meet me.
More of the the male denouncers then you think wouldnt think twice about fucking a woman on here cheating if offered but on the forums grief cheating men to apes some woman in the hopes that it will lead to sex
Which was the point that guy made
That’s some men for you.
Some on here will say what women want to hear even if it makes them look a hypocrite, all in hope of some action.
My point still stands that I’ve never ever seen the same person condemn a man for cheating and praise a woman for it..."
Its a mind set I've come across from chatting to people less so on the forums
Did you look at the reddit thing I mentioned?
Give you an idea of what goes on in these peoples heads amd why they do what they do
Not saying I agree with cheating, i never have or would cheat on a partner but its interesting to hear why people do what they do |
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