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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So you've chatted to someone on here. You've mailed them, sent them your number, arranged a chat on the phone. They sound ok so you meet for coffee. Texted to sort the meet out, had the coffee and decided to sort out a meet for fun.
Texting after that to keep in touch while the meet is arranged.
But what about calls? Is it for them to call you out of the blue at different times in the day? Personally I think it's rude. I'd never start calling someone I'd only met once. They are a meet, not a friend....
  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not keen on anyone ringing me so I always say so as have had someone ring me in the day whilst I was at work, very difficult to chat in an open plan office  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is rude phone calls should always be by arrangement. I had the same, phone call to arrange a met etc next morning I woke up at 7am to 12 missed calls and they kept ringing.....and ringing.... So I don't give my number out now lol |
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if the meet is set up and text more than a confirmation we cancel.
ppl who are in constant contact tend not to turn up in our opinion, we are here to fuck not chat or hold hands while someone builds confidence.
If someone phoned out of the blue,unless for some kind of emergency, they would get told that it was totally inappropriate and that the meet was off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if the meet is set up and text more than a confirmation we cancel.
ppl who are in constant contact tend not to turn up in our opinion, we are here to fuck not chat or hold hands while someone builds confidence.
If someone phoned out of the blue,unless for some kind of emergency, they would get told that it was totally inappropriate and that the meet was off"
we have a cheep pay as you go phone and only give that number out and normaly its switched off and theres is no answer service on it and we only have the phone on to arange meets and swtich it off after the meet till the next one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I have a 2nd phone just for meets too. Just in case someone turns out to be a bit nutty. Had a text at 12.45am the other night but luckily that phone was off.
Also had a text yesterday from a bloke I met a year ago and haven't heard from since. Weird. |
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"I have a 2nd phone just for meets too. Just in case someone turns out to be a bit nutty. Had a text at 12.45am the other night but luckily that phone was off.
Also had a text yesterday from a bloke I met a year ago and haven't heard from since. Weird. "
that happens to us, to b honest we dont mind that, life happens, we have had a few meets with ppl we just lost touch with then they sent a random hi hows it going text. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's why people who 'play' should have a play phone. You control when it's on etc, tell people you have a play phone and it's not always on, but feel free to leave texts etc... |
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