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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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sorry, i know this has been done many times but i have to vent. Ive been let down AGAIN. im showered, dressed in my nicest undies and the dickhead who was supposed to be meeting is now in chat an hour after our meet time. now he tells me im too far away. why the hell do you guys do this? i give opportunitys to back out, to say your not coming. what do you get out of this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sorry, i know this has been done many times but i have to vent. Ive been let down AGAIN. im showered, dressed in my nicest undies and the dickhead who was supposed to be meeting is now in chat an hour after our meet time. now he tells me im too far away. why the hell do you guys do this? i give opportunitys to back out, to say your not coming. what do you get out of this?"
there is no excuse for this....its his loss I wud say looking at your profile. Many men like the fantasy of swinging but shit but shit themselves at the reality.  how old was he ? |
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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago
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"sorry, i know this has been done many times but i have to vent. Ive been let down AGAIN. im showered, dressed in my nicest undies and the dickhead who was supposed to be meeting is now in chat an hour after our meet time. now he tells me im too far away. why the hell do you guys do this? i give opportunitys to back out, to say your not coming. what do you get out of this?
there is no excuse for this....its his loss I wud say looking at your profile. Many men like the fantasy of swinging but shit but shit themselves at the reality. how old was he ?"
I posted a thread on this topic recently called 'chicken out.' It would be interesting to know if he was very young because some of the posts I got, it does seem to be a trait of younger men. I think you are right. Some guys get scared at the actual reality of meeting. Or they're just wanking away whilst you're arranging it with no intention of going through with it. Or they are having revenge on us women because they don't denerally get much luck on here !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sorry, i know this has been done many times but i have to vent. Ive been let down AGAIN. im showered, dressed in my nicest undies and the dickhead who was supposed to be meeting is now in chat an hour after our meet time. now he tells me im too far away. why the hell do you guys do this? i give opportunitys to back out, to say your not coming. what do you get out of this?
there is no excuse for this....its his loss I wud say looking at your profile. Many men like the fantasy of swinging but shit but shit themselves at the reality. how old was he ?
I posted a thread on this topic recently called 'chicken out.' It would be interesting to know if he was very young because some of the posts I got, it does seem to be a trait of younger men. I think you are right. Some guys get scared at the actual reality of meeting. Or they're just wanking away whilst you're arranging it with no intention of going through with it. Or they are having revenge on us women because they don't denerally get much luck on here !! "
 then they bitch on here they cant get a meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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yes, he knew full well where i lived, i even gave directions. as to was he young, yes. daft i know but i prefer the look of younger guys. i know people will say that i take my chance if they are my preference but it still annoys me. they and its not just younger guys are spoiling this site for us. and if people like me leave, and others who are getting messed about leave well whats left? a load of single guys, chatting to other single guys who are pretending to be girls. thats what they have to look forward to!!! |
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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago
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"sorry, i know this has been done many times but i have to vent. Ive been let down AGAIN. im showered, dressed in my nicest undies and the dickhead who was supposed to be meeting is now in chat an hour after our meet time. now he tells me im too far away. why the hell do you guys do this? i give opportunitys to back out, to say your not coming. what do you get out of this?
there is no excuse for this....its his loss I wud say looking at your profile. Many men like the fantasy of swinging but shit but shit themselves at the reality. how old was he ?
I posted a thread on this topic recently called 'chicken out.' It would be interesting to know if he was very young because some of the posts I got, it does seem to be a trait of younger men. I think you are right. Some guys get scared at the actual reality of meeting. Or they're just wanking away whilst you're arranging it with no intention of going through with it. Or they are having revenge on us women because they don't denerally get much luck on here !!
then they bitch on here they cant get a meet "
Yes. I had a friend once who actually admitted to me that he'd arrange to meet women he'd met on a dating site - not here - and then just not turned up. He said it was his way at getting back at women because he'd been hurt in the past by one. He's not a friend anymore. |
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" Ive been let down AGAIN. "
Not wishing to sound cold but how are you selecting playmates? Do you meet for a quick drink first?
I've yet to have a no show in five years. If they can't talk on the phone, keep changing meetings times, ask for MSN/Skype/BBM you can bet your bottom dollar they're not going to leave home to meet you.
Probably having a wank at the thought of you in your undies whilst checking out the next woman to give the runaround to.  |
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" Ive been let down AGAIN.
Not wishing to sound cold but how are you selecting playmates? Do you meet for a quick drink first?
I've yet to have a no show in five years. If they can't talk on the phone, keep changing meetings times, ask for MSN/Skype/BBM you can bet your bottom dollar they're not going to leave home to meet you.
Probably having a wank at the thought of you in your undies whilst checking out the next woman to give the runaround to. "
we dont do social meets, and the last guy we met was 24, but i agree totally with your assessment.
its normally clear to us from the first message who is going to turn up |
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"yes, he knew full well where i lived, i even gave directions. as to was he young, yes. daft i know but i prefer the look of younger guys. i know people will say that i take my chance if they are my preference but it still annoys me. they and its not just younger guys are spoiling this site for us. and if people like me leave, and others who are getting messed about leave well whats left? a load of single guys, chatting to other single guys who are pretending to be girls. thats what they have to look forward to!!!"
Doubt that will happen as people are meeting. No one is saying you should change your preferences, we're here to fulfil our fantasies, just look at how you select these men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say there is no excuse for letting people down. As a single male I find it bad enough trying to make the contacts with couples and single women. Most women and couples I speak to talk about there being a huge amount of time wasters and spammers on these types of sites, I guess the problem is never going to go away, which just makes it so much harder for us genuine people. We get as fed up with being turned down for these time wasters as you do with them not turning up..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and if people like me leave, and others who are getting messed about leave well whats left? a load of single guys, chatting to other single guys who are pretending to be girls. thats what they have to look forward to!!!"
Hope you're feeling a bit better now. It's clearly his loss. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did you check to see if he had been verified?? I know that some dont show what people say..which doesnt help as they could have just had people verifying them via webcam, which I think does not give accurate verication (sorry spelling rubbish!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Makes my blood boil hearing these stories, thankfully never happened to me yet (Thats probably to do with type of meets i do now, i find stalking is pretty reliable! lol). Seriously though, it's totally ignorant and disrespectful  x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well ive had my rant. i feel a bit better now. i will look at how i select my men, its difficult though as i usually can only do short notice. im hiding my profile now. maybe i will come back on when my faith gets restored. bye for now and thanks for the advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a single guy a while back who we'd spoken to on the phone who kept saying how lovely to speak to a genuine couple. On the day of the agreed meet he had a "meet today" sign on his profile, so Andy rang to check he hadn't put it there by mistake and he replied he was still at work (4pm Sat aft) and would be knackered but if we wanted a quickie then we could still come round!!! Desperate we are not and another one added to our block list.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a similiar experience. We arranged a meet, they had put a meet up on the meets/events, for the day we were supposed to be meeting them. Only to have a no show. The timewasters on here, really do ruin it and we have on a few occasions, thought about leaving etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After chatting to someone all Saturday afternoon and arranging to meet on the Sunday, I now work on the basis that if I text them to let them know that I am on my way and they don't text back, I know they are not going to be there so I get out of the car and go back into my house. That way I have only wasted some of my time not all of it and not wasted petrol either |
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